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Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations   managing conflict
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Smoky Mountain Marriage Retreat: Rock solid foundations managing conflict

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  • 1. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
  • 2. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
    • 2. Don’t get historical
  • 3. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
    • 2. Don’t get historical
    • 3. Don’t exaggerate
  • 4. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
    • 2. Don’t get historical
    • 3. Don’t exaggerate
    • 4. Keep this between us
  • 5. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
    • 2. Don’t get historical
    • 3. Don’t exaggerate
    • 4. Keep this between us
    • 5. Don’t manipulate with sex
  • 6. Level One. A Difficult Day.
    • 1. Don’t pretend you can read minds
    • 2. Don’t get historical
    • 3. Don’t exaggerate
    • 4. Keep this between us
    • 5. Don’t manipulate with sex
    • 6. Apologize well
  • 7. Level Two: A Problem That Keeps Resurfacing
  • 8. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
  • 9. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
    • Let her be the one to initiate intimacy.
  • 10. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
    • Let her be the one to initiate intimacy.
    • Try to ease her workload.
  • 11. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
    • Let her be the one to initiate intimacy.
    • Try to ease her workload.
    • Do not minimize your faults in the temptation to blame all problems on P.M.S..
  • 12. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
    • Let her be the one to initiate intimacy.
    • Try to ease her workload.
    • Do not minimize your faults in the temptation to blame all problems on P.M.S..
    • Give her time away from the children.
  • 13. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Husbands: During this time,
    • Avoid the desire to resolve issues.
    • Let her be the one to initiate intimacy.
    • Try to ease her workload.
    • Do not minimize your faults in the temptation to blame all problems on P.M.S..
    • Give her time away from the children.
    • Pray about this.
  • 14. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • 1. Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
  • 15. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
  • 16. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
  • 17. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
    • Seek a physician’s help.
  • 18. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
    • Seek a physician’s help.
    • Pray about this.
  • 19. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
    • Seek a physician’s help.
    • Pray about this.
    • Exercise all through the month, especially during these days.
  • 20. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
    • Seek a physician’s help.
    • Pray about this.
    • Exercise all through the month, especially during these days.
    • Stay in God’s book.
  • 21. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • Be aware that P.M.S. is not a license to sin.
    • Mark your calendar. Predict it.
    • Tell your husband that difficult moments are coming for you.
    • Seek a physician’s help.
    • Pray about this.
    • Exercise all through the month, especially during these days.
    • Stay in God’s book.
    • Be careful not to let P.M.S. make you abusive toward your children or husband.
  • 22. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • 9. Don’t Make important decisions.
  • 23. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • 9. Don’t Make important decisions.
    • Don’t over-schedule yourself.
  • 24. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • 9. Don’t Make important decisions.
    • Don’t over-schedule yourself.
    • Don’t consume excessive caffeine.
  • 25. The P.M.s.Rules
    • Wives: During this time,
    • 9. Don’t Make important decisions.
    • Don’t over-schedule yourself.
    • Don’t consume excessive caffeine.
    • Don’t express things you can’t stand about your husband. Wait five days. Don’t express those things to anyone at this time, except the Lord.
  • 26. Level Three: We Disagree About The Lord.
  • 27. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
  • 28. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • What to do:
    • 1. Turn to God in prayer and Bible study.
  • 29. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • What to do:
    • 1. Turn to God in prayer and Bible study.
    • 2. Decide if you want to rebuild or not (Adultery only).
  • 30. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • What to do:
    • 1. Turn to God in prayer and Bible study.
    • 2. Decide if you want to rebuild or not (Adultery only).
    • 3. Expect this to take time inside of you.
  • 31. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • What to do:
    • 1. Turn to God in prayer and Bible study.
    • 2. Decide if you want to rebuild or not (Adultery only).
    • 3. Expect this to take time inside of you.
    • 4. Set conditions for the offending mate.
  • 32. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • Set conditions for the offending mate:
    • Immediate severing of all unseemly relationships.
  • 33. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • Set conditions for the offending mate:
    • Immediate severing of all unseemly relationships.
    • Questions answered without frustration.
  • 34. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • Set conditions for the offending mate:
    • Immediate severing of all unseemly relationships.
    • Questions answered without frustration.
    • Christian counseling
  • 35. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • Set conditions for the offending mate:
    • Immediate severing of all unseemly relationships.
    • Questions answered without frustration.
    • Christian counseling
    • Outside accountability partner.
  • 36. Level Four: Trust Is Broken
    • Set conditions for the offending mate:
    • Immediate severing of all unseemly relationships.
    • Questions answered without frustration.
    • Christian counseling
    • Outside accountability partner.
    • Full access to passwords, e-mail, history, etc.

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