Chorus: A family is people and a family is love, That's a family. They come in all different sizes and different kinds, But mine is just right for me, Yeah, mine is right for me.
Kamusta tayo sa solo parenting? Paano ako makakasigurado na tama ang pagpapalaki ninyo sa akin?
Introduction “ Filipino Consciousness” “ … He came that we might have life and have it more abundantly .” John 10:10 “ Healthy families will result to a healthy individuals, healthy communities, and a nation… kahit sole parenting”
I. Stages of Family Life “Baitang ng buhay pagpapamilya”
Developmental Stage with specific patterns of behavior
Developmental tasks to be negotiated for smooth transition.
ERIK ERIKSON Crisis/ Stages
Developmental Stages of a Child Social Crisis Circle of Influence Needs Infancy (0-2 yrs) Trust vs Mistrust Mother/ Caregiver Touch Early Childhood (2-3 yrs) Autonomy vs Shame Parents/ Family Establish Control Play Age (3-5 yrs) Initiative vs Guilt Playmates/Ext. Family Security & Affection School Age (6-12 yrs) Industry vs Inferiority School Community Develop self-confidence
Developmental Stages of a Child Social Crisis Circle of Influence Needs Adolescence 12-19 Identity vs Role Confusion Friends Allowed to develop own identity
Personally Considered Wrong (in %) (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Use forbidden drugs Cheat on boyfriend/girlfriend Sell or buy illegal drugs Take something w/o paying Sell oneself for sex Stay away from school/work Drunk driving Avoid paying taxes Marital infidelity Divorce/separation Look at porn material Hazing Cheat in school Use violence
Personally Considered Wrong (in %) cont’d (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Smoke cigarettes Use sexually explicit language Sell porn material Pre-marital sex Gambling Phone/internet sex Getting drunk Race a car or motorbike Abortion Homosexual relationship Use a prostitute