Social Media Club Presents:<br />Relationships and Social Media<br />February 15, 2011<br />Tweet with us! <br />Use the h...
Speakers<br />Paul Ardoin, Independent Marketing Consultant<br />LanetteCapellas, Staffing Director, The Agate Group<br />...
There’s an App for That!<br />Mobile apps take romance on the move<br />By Suzanne Phan, News 10, Sacramento<br />http://w...
FacebookPrivacy 101<br />Paul Ardoin<br />Marketing Consultant<br />paulardoin@mac.com<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
What kind of Facebook user are you?<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
What do you use Facebook for?<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
Stopping ID Theft<br /><ul><li>Full birthdate and birthplace
Vacation plans
Home address
Confessionals
Security questions</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
Sharing Your Info<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Sharing<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
Who can connect with you?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Connecting on Facebook<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
What can others see?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Info accessible through your friends<br />socia...
How can I set up lists?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Info accessible through your friends<br />so...
Searchable Facebook Info<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Public Search<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
Articles and Resources<br /><ul><li>Mashable’sFacebook Privacy Guide:http://mashable.com/2011/02/07/facebook-privacy-guide/
The 6 Things You Should Never Reveal on Facebook:http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/110674/6-things-you-should-n...
Seven Things To Stop Doing Now on Facebook: http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/109538/7-things-to-stop-doing-now...
The 3 Facebook Settings Every User Should Check:http://www.nytimes.com/external/readwriteweb/2010/01/20/20readwriteweb-the...
How to Go Completely Invisible on Facebook:http://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-privacy-settings-2011-1?slop=1 </li></u...
Sharing on Social Media: An HR Perspective<br />LanetteCapellas<br />Staffing Director, The Agate Group<br />socialmediacl...
From an HR Perspective<br />Some things don’t change!<br /><ul><li>A threat is still a threat whether 	it’s written or spoken
Sexual Harassment is still 	considered such, even in print
Discrimination doesn’t hide just 	because it’s on your wall</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
From an HR Perspective<br />Let’s review a few cases:<br /><ul><li> 11/08 - Patriots Cheerleader Fired 	After Facebook Swa...
 8/10 - Teacher Fired Over </li></ul>	Facebook Comments<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
From an HR Perspective<br />Review con’t:<br /><ul><li> 8/09 – Facebook Friend Your 	Boss? Think Again…
 10/10 – Employees Fired For 	Facebook Comments</li></ul>(Car dealership)<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
From an HR Perspective<br />Most recent ruling:<br /><ul><li> 2/11 – Ruling by NLRB on 		AMR Employee</li></ul>socialmedia...
From an HR Perspective<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
From an HR Perspective<br />Helpful Pre-Posting Tips:<br />Think before you post<br />Be picky about who you friend<br />D...
Friendship and Social Media<br />Laura Good<br />Social Media Junkie<br />@goodlaura<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
Friendship and Social Media<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
Strangers are friends waiting to happen<br />“How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have dis...
Facebook –  Your Friendship Rolodex<br />Who is in your rolodex?  <br />Current friends, classmates, relatives, childhood ...
Facebook –  Your Friendship Rolodex<br />People are increasingly connecting on Facebook with people they’d like to get to ...
Facebook –  Your Friendship Rolodex<br />Friending Tip:  When sending a friend request to someone you don’t know well (or ...
Other Sites to Connect with Friends<br />MeetUp.com – Helps groups of people with shared interests plan meetings and form ...
Twitter --Saving the best for last!<br /><ul><li>The Cocktail Party without the calories or uncomfortable shoes!
Sacramento is the #4 Twitter town in U.S.A. – great way to connect with our community
New to town?  Twitter opens a lot of doors both professionally and personally.</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
Starting Friendships on Twitter<br /><ul><li>Engage….start and join conversations on Twitter.
Follow local people who tweet about topics that interest you – hobbies, sports, TV shows, parenting
Follow Hashtags for local events</li></ul>#gokings #sactomofo#sacbeerweek<br /><ul><li>Participate in Organized Chats#SacT...
Where’s the party?<br /><ul><li>Many fabulous Sacramento events are organized and promoted on social media.
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  • February is International Friendship MonthBy friendship, Do not mean # of followers on Twitter or “Friends” on Facebook. Define a friend. More than an acquaintance.
  • Most of us “friend” people we already know. Facebook commonly used for Reunions – Family or SchoolDave and Jill Story. Reunion – Shared FB connections – Married!
  • Don’t feel guilty about using the “not now” button. (Now more politically correct than “ignore!”)Shared comments on mutual friend’s pages are a frequent way I connect with someone new.
  • Example Deirdre Reid – made friends on Twitter with folks in Raleigh NC before she moved there from Sacramento.
  • Challenge: meet one new person tonight and start engaging on Twitter &amp;/or Facebook with them. Follow up w/a coffee or lunch in a couple of weeks and see what happens!
  • Facebook + Twitter great way to promote an event. Coming to an event single does not mean it’s a “singles” event!
  • Typically free to attend but may require advance registration. Primarily organized and promoted on Twitter but may also be supported through Facebook Page or Event or through email marketing to past attendees.Social with a little biz thrown in. Sometimes, more comfortable to meet people in “safe” biz networking environment first.
  • Usually participate for a fee, paid in advance. May be organized on a website but promoted via Facebook, Twitter, etc.
  • Tweet me your success stories!
  • Relationships and Social Media

    1. 1. Social Media Club Presents:<br />Relationships and Social Media<br />February 15, 2011<br />Tweet with us! <br />Use the hashtag #SMCSac<br />
    2. 2. Speakers<br />Paul Ardoin, Independent Marketing Consultant<br />LanetteCapellas, Staffing Director, The Agate Group<br />AmarDhariwal, CEO and Founder, Metrospark.net<br />Laura Good, Director of Programs &Operations, SARTA<br />.<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    3. 3. There’s an App for That!<br />Mobile apps take romance on the move<br />By Suzanne Phan, News 10, Sacramento<br />http://www.news10.net/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=121978<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    4. 4. FacebookPrivacy 101<br />Paul Ardoin<br />Marketing Consultant<br />paulardoin@mac.com<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    5. 5. What kind of Facebook user are you?<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    6. 6. What do you use Facebook for?<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    7. 7. Stopping ID Theft<br /><ul><li>Full birthdate and birthplace
    8. 8. Vacation plans
    9. 9. Home address
    10. 10. Confessionals
    11. 11. Security questions</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    12. 12. Sharing Your Info<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Sharing<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    13. 13. Who can connect with you?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Connecting on Facebook<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    14. 14. What can others see?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Info accessible through your friends<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    15. 15. How can I set up lists?<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Info accessible through your friends<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    16. 16. Searchable Facebook Info<br />Account > Privacy Settings > Apps and Websites > Public Search<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    17. 17. Articles and Resources<br /><ul><li>Mashable’sFacebook Privacy Guide:http://mashable.com/2011/02/07/facebook-privacy-guide/
    18. 18. The 6 Things You Should Never Reveal on Facebook:http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/110674/6-things-you-should-never-reveal-on-facebook
    19. 19. Seven Things To Stop Doing Now on Facebook: http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/109538/7-things-to-stop-doing-now-on-facebook
    20. 20. The 3 Facebook Settings Every User Should Check:http://www.nytimes.com/external/readwriteweb/2010/01/20/20readwriteweb-the-3-facebook-settings-every-user-should-c-29287.html?em
    21. 21. How to Go Completely Invisible on Facebook:http://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-privacy-settings-2011-1?slop=1 </li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    22. 22. Sharing on Social Media: An HR Perspective<br />LanetteCapellas<br />Staffing Director, The Agate Group<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    23. 23. From an HR Perspective<br />Some things don’t change!<br /><ul><li>A threat is still a threat whether it’s written or spoken
    24. 24. Sexual Harassment is still considered such, even in print
    25. 25. Discrimination doesn’t hide just because it’s on your wall</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    26. 26. From an HR Perspective<br />Let’s review a few cases:<br /><ul><li> 11/08 - Patriots Cheerleader Fired After Facebook Swastika Photo
    27. 27. 8/10 - Teacher Fired Over </li></ul> Facebook Comments<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    28. 28. From an HR Perspective<br />Review con’t:<br /><ul><li> 8/09 – Facebook Friend Your Boss? Think Again…
    29. 29. 10/10 – Employees Fired For Facebook Comments</li></ul>(Car dealership)<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    30. 30. From an HR Perspective<br />Most recent ruling:<br /><ul><li> 2/11 – Ruling by NLRB on AMR Employee</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    31. 31. From an HR Perspective<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    32. 32. From an HR Perspective<br />Helpful Pre-Posting Tips:<br />Think before you post<br />Be picky about who you friend<br />Do it on your own time and computer<br />Watch what you post at home<br />Keep the dialogue positive<br />Figure out privacy settings<br />Learn your employee rights<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    33. 33. Friendship and Social Media<br />Laura Good<br />Social Media Junkie<br />@goodlaura<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    34. 34. Friendship and Social Media<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    35. 35. Strangers are friends waiting to happen<br />“How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have discovered a friend.”<br />~William Rotsler<br />“Social Media doesn’t create friends; it’s a tool you can use to cultivate and nurture friendships.”<br />~ @goodlaura<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    36. 36. Facebook – Your Friendship Rolodex<br />Who is in your rolodex? <br />Current friends, classmates, relatives, childhood friends, co-workers ???<br />Connecting with friends and coworkers from your past can blossom into new or renewed friendships.<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    37. 37. Facebook – Your Friendship Rolodex<br />People are increasingly connecting on Facebook with people they’d like to get to know.<br />Mutual friends<br />“Like” same Page <br />Attending Same Event<br />Follow Each other on Twitter<br />Read each other’s Blogs<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    38. 38. Facebook – Your Friendship Rolodex<br />Friending Tip: When sending a friend request to someone you don’t know well (or not at all) always include a personal message explaining how you know them or why you’d like to connect. <br />Example: Hey, we follow each other on Twitter. I’m @goodlaura! Would you like to connect on Facebook? <br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    39. 39. Other Sites to Connect with Friends<br />MeetUp.com – Helps groups of people with shared interests plan meetings and form offline clubs in local communities around the world. Usually free to participate but organizers pay dues, starting at $12/month.<br />CouchSurfing.org-- A volunteer-based worldwide network connecting travelers with members of local communities, who offer free accommodation and/or advice.<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    40. 40. Twitter --Saving the best for last!<br /><ul><li>The Cocktail Party without the calories or uncomfortable shoes!
    41. 41. Sacramento is the #4 Twitter town in U.S.A. – great way to connect with our community
    42. 42. New to town? Twitter opens a lot of doors both professionally and personally.</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    43. 43. Starting Friendships on Twitter<br /><ul><li>Engage….start and join conversations on Twitter.
    44. 44. Follow local people who tweet about topics that interest you – hobbies, sports, TV shows, parenting
    45. 45. Follow Hashtags for local events</li></ul>#gokings #sactomofo#sacbeerweek<br /><ul><li>Participate in Organized Chats#SacTweetChat #GardenChat</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    46. 46. Where’s the party?<br /><ul><li>Many fabulous Sacramento events are organized and promoted on social media.
    47. 47. Great for singles because you don’t feel weird coming alone and you can connect with new friends before the event begins via Twitter & Facebook.</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    48. 48. Where ever two or more are gathered…it’s a #tweetup!<br />Definition: An event organized via Twitter<br />Recurring Sacramento TweetUps: <br /> #SacTweetUp #FolsomTweetUp #PlacerBizTweetUp<br />Others: <br />WineTweetUp, ZooTweetUp, HikeTweetUp, TRONTweetUp, GeezerTweetUpand more!<br />Want to go to the Ballet but don’t have a date? Organize a #BalletTweetUp!<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    49. 49. Crawls – a mobile party!<br /><ul><li>Old Sacramento Pub Crawl (Sacramento Beer Week 2/25-3/6)
    50. 50. St Patrick’s Day Ultra Pub Crawl (March 12) organized by www.CalpubCrawl.com
    51. 51. Grubcrawlusa.com
    52. 52. Stilleto Crawl
    53. 53. SacTownsPhinest Club Crawl
    54. 54. Geezer Crawl – bring your walker!</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    55. 55. Take the Friendship Challenge!<br />Meet at least one new friend tonight and start engaging with them on Twitter and/or Facebook.<br />Follow up with a “face-to-face”--coffee or lunch--in a couple of weeks and see what happens!<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    56. 56. Dating and <br />Social Media<br />AmarDhariwal<br />CEO and Founder, Metrospark.net<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    57. 57. Dating and Social Media <br /><ul><li> Traditional Dating Sites
    58. 58. Non Traditional Sites used for Dating
    59. 59. Applications
    60. 60. Best Practices </li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    61. 61. Traditional Websites<br /><ul><li> match.com
    62. 62. eharmony
    63. 63. Plenty of Fish
    64. 64. metrospark.net </li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    65. 65. Match.com<br />Match.com <br />Services – search, message, matching, advice, mobile access<br />Cost – $34.99 for one month with no commitment <br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    66. 66. eHarmony <br />eHarmony<br />Services – matching, messaging<br />Cost – $59.95 for one month with no commitment <br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    67. 67. Plenty of Fish<br />Plenty of Fish<br />Services – search, messaging<br />Cost – FREE<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    68. 68. Metrospark.net<br />Metrospark.net<br />Services – search, messaging, events, classes, blogs <br />Cost – $19.99 per month with no commitment<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    69. 69. Non-Traditional Websites<br /><ul><li>facebook
    70. 70. myspace
    71. 71. AOL Instant Messenger
    72. 72. Skype</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    73. 73. Applications <br /><ul><li>Skout
    74. 74. Grindr
    75. 75. Scruff</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    76. 76. SKOUT<br />SKOUT<br />Services – GEO Locator, messaging <br />Cost – FREE<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    77. 77. Best Practices<br /><ul><li> Choose a reputable site
    78. 78. Honesty
    79. 79. Details
    80. 80. Judgment
    81. 81. Pace
    82. 82. Google
    83. 83. Public Setting
    84. 84. Alcohol
    85. 85. Cell Phone</li></ul>socialmediaclub.org<br />
    86. 86. Thank you<br />We are grateful for the support of our sponsors.<br />The Urban Hive<br />Chick-Fil-A Arden Fair<br />The Sacramento Press<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />
    87. 87. Thank you<br />Raffle Prizes Donated by:<br />B Street Theatre<br />California Lecture Series<br />de Vere’s Irish Pub<br />Downtown Partnership Sacramento<br />Esquire IMAX<br />Sacramento Arts & Business Council <br />Sacramento Kings<br />The Sacramento Zoo<br />Cakegrrl’sCakery<br />socialmediaclub.org<br />

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