Men are like waffles Compartmentalize the information in their head. Value power, competency, efficiency and achievement above all else. Fulfillment through success and accomplishment Interested in objects and things Autonomy is a symbol of efficiency, power and competency Cope with stress by retreating and solving a less difficult problem
Women are like spaghetti Everything they think is somehow connected Value Love, communication, beauty and relationship Self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships Experience fulfillment through sharing and relating Women are more intuitive because of cultivating an anticipation for the needs of others. Cope with stress by vocalizing the problem.
Men and relationships Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed Relationships start with a challenge (flirtation) Failure is the biggest attack a man can receive
Women and relationships Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. Women are happy when they believe their needs will be met. Disconnection is the biggest blow a women can receive.