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Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
Love in the Age of Facebook
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  • 1. Love in theAge ofFacebookBy Eveline ToddPhoto by mkh marketing
  • 2. Before Facebook and other social media,dating meant asking for someone’sphone numberand getting toknow eachotherin personPhoto by JD Hancock
  • 3. Generally,only close friendsand familyknew about acouple’srelationshipPhoto by TheAlieness
  • 4. Cutting off communication with anex-partner and his or her friends in real lifewas enough to move on from an endedrelationship Photo by you are your atman
  • 5. If the ended relationship was a marriage,divorce lawyers often had todo a large amount of sleuthingand spying to uncoverevidenceofmisbehaviourPhoto by pasukaru76
  • 6. However, now there isFacebook.Because Facebook hasreached the point of being“pretty much real life,”it has affected almost everystage of romantic relationshipsPhoto by Alessio85
  • 7. Research has found that Facebookcan have bothpositiveandnegativeeffectsoncouplesPhoto by Nanagyei
  • 8. For example, exploring a potentialpartner’s Facebookprofile can revealmutual likes andinterests, as well aspotential points ofdisagreement,and can helpremovesomeof theuncertaintyin datingPhoto by Red Flags
  • 9. On the flip side, finding out everything abouta partner before actually getting to know themIn person takes away much of the intrigue andmystery that contribute to the excitement ofa new relationship.Photo by K. Sawyer Photography
  • 10. Facebook offersa new challenge: to becomeor not to become Facebook OfficialPhoto by sebastien.barre
  • 11. Where once there was the exchange ofclass rings, now there is the relationshipmilestone of changing one’sFacebook relationshipstatusto“in a relationship.”Photo by limetom
  • 12. “Deciding to go FBO means laying youremotional cards on the table, face up.”– Tom Jacobs Photo by Ludie Cochrane
  • 13. When both partners in a couple list themselvesas “in a relationship,” they are more likelyto still be together six months later, and mayexperience greaterrelationshipintimacyandsatisfactionoverall.Photo by catlovers
  • 14. However, Facebook canalso be detrimentalto relationships.There is a great dealof potentiallyambiguous informationavailable that canlead to relationshipjealousy.Photo by Kikishua
  • 15. The information available onFacebook can also make breaking upvery difficult. Facebook makes monitoring anex-partner’s activities temptingand easy, which research suggestsmay slow emotionalrecovery after a break up.Photo by woodleywonderoworks
  • 16. Even when one does not wish totrack their ex, it can be hardto escape information aboutthem on social media.“People have somany online stringsthat bind them thatcutting one does notsever the relationship.There are always more.”– Liz PerlePhoto by mikemol
  • 17. As well as affecting theemotional side of abreakup, Facebookand other socialmedia may affectthe legal sideas well.Photo by steakpinball
  • 18. A survey released by the American Academy ofMatrimonial Lawyers in 2010 showed 81% of its1,600 members has usedsomething from socialmedia to support adivorce case in thepast five years.Photo by nikc.org
  • 19. “Facebook has become an open book ofpeople’s lives ……..you can’t get better evidence than whatcomes from their own mouths or their owncomputers.” – Linda Lea M. VikenPhoto by Andalib
  • 20. Viken’s comment on Facebook becoming anopen book of people’s lives rings true –real life dating, relationships, and breakupsare initiated through, maintained via,and affected by Facebook and other social media.Photo by Reeding Lessons
  • 21. It remains to be seen whether Facebook’s impacton relationships will increase or decrease in thefuture. Whatever the future link between Facebookuse and relationships, Allison McCann hassome words of advice:“Don’t treat it anydifferently than youdo datingOUT THERE.Be normal, be cool,be nice.” Photo by Neal
  • 22. Alessio85. “facebook.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 13 Oct 2008. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/spiritolibero85/2939544686/Andalib. “facebook.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 7 April 2012. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/saadandalib/7061740219/catlovers. “Love.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 1 Sept. 2007. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/90389546@N00/3472625857/ -JD Hancock. “Relationship.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 11 Sept. 2011. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/jdhancock/6139348556/K. Sawyer Photography (Kayla Sawyer). “Boredom.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 24 May 2008. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/ksawyer/2542730956/Kikishua (Crishna Simmons). “Jealousy.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 11 Feb 2008. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/kikishua/2262591869/ -limetom (Tom Dougherty). “Ring.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 9 Feb. 2009. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/limetom/3266488026/Ludie Cochrane. “Cards.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 25 May 2009. Web. 17 May 2013. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/ludiecochrane/3563862505/mikemol (Michael Mol). “Yarn and a Ball.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 27 Dec. 2009. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/28208534@N07/4280417237/mkhmarketing. “Facebook Flower.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 8 March 2013. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/mkhmarketing/8541370656/Nanagyei (Nana B Agyei).“Love is Everywhere.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 14 Feb. 2010. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/nanagyei/4356259926/Neal (Neal Fowler). “Hearts all a Flickr.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 8 May 2009. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/31878512@N06/3512647107/nikc.org (Niklas Lindgren). “Broken Up.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 21 Sept. 2007. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/nikcorg/1418225835/Photo Sources
  • 23. pasukaru76 (Pascal). “*128/365+ Study in Pink.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 16 Jan. 2011. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/pasukaru76/5330972736/ - January 16, 2011Reeding Lessons. “Open Book.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 8 Feb 2008. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/reedinglessons/2251782928/rvw (Rutger van Waveren). “Red flags.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 21 Jan. 2004. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/rvw/116017204/ -sebastien.barre (Sebastien Barre). “Colleen – Facebook Request – 08, April.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 15 April 2008. Web.17 May 2013. http://www.flickr.com/photos/altuwa/2415777902/Seth MacEntee. “facebook like button.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 3 May 2011. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/smemon/5684115572/steakpinball (Brian Turner). “My Trusty Gavel.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 17 Feb. 2009. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/60588258@N00/3293465641/TheAlieness GiselaGiardino (Gisela Giardino). “ Why yes I love him, but keep it secret! ” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 10 Aug.2007. Web. 17 May 2013. http://www.flickr.com/photos/gi/1080774285/ -woodleywonderworks. “goodbye.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 16 June 2011. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/wwworks/5841979717/you are your atman (Vanessa Arn). “Untitled.” Photograph. Flickr. Yahoo! Canada Co, 22 April 2007. Web. 17 May 2013.http://www.flickr.com/photos/midlander/470423044/Photo Sourcescontinued
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