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    • 1. Escape Intro 2. Stories3. 5 minute break 4. Workshop
    • Life after law
    • Amber’s story
    • It’s not about figuring out “what’s out there” – it’s about re-writing internal scripts.
    • We all havebehavioral scripts.
    • Maladaptive schemas
    • http://www.schematherapy.c om/id73.htm
    • APPROVAL-SEEKING / RECOGNITION-SEEKING (AS) Excessive emphasis on gaining approval,recognition, or attention from other people, or fitting in, at the expense of developing a secure and true sense of self. Ones sense of esteem is dependent primarily on the reactions of others rather than on ones own natural inclinations. Sometimes includes an overemphasis on status, appearance, social acceptance, money, or achievement -- as means of gaining approval, admiration, or attention (not primarily for power or control). Frequently results in major life decisions that are inauthentic or unsatisfying; or in hypersensitivity to rejection.
    • “Should” statements
    • Black/white thinking
    • http://www.legalnomads.com/
    • Brene Brown, “The power of vulnerability”, TED talk
    • http://www.thecompletelawyer.com/self-assess-before-deciding-to-
    • Stories
    • 1. Mark 2. Alison 3. Nick 4. Eva5. Deanne
    • 5 minute break
    • Workshop
    • Which stories resonated?
    • How long does it take todecide what you want to do outside of law?
    • How do you find out what options are available?
    • How do youbreak through paralysis?
    • How do you marketyour legal skills on your CV?
    • How do we dealwith the money question?