Assign1. Anoangpangunahinglayuninngisangpamilya?Marriage is an extension of God’s own nature as expressed in Genesis 1:27. The fullness of God’s happiness, peace, abundance and greatness was bestowed upon the human race through the first couple that He created. Had they kept the principles that God established, they would nto have needed to go through so many difficulties such as pain, sickness, misery, sadness, suffering, etc. Even though God had carefully prepared the place where this couple would inhabit (with their descendants), and even though God had thought of every last detail necessary for their eternal happiness, there was one area where God chose not to intervene the human will which He had placed in each person.
This would be the inheritance that He had entrusted to them, to administer as they saw fit, but the happiness of the couple depended on their obedience to the Word of God. Even if the couple was not educated in other subjects, that would affect their marriage, such as, finance, educating their children, etc., with just their simple obedience to God, He would guide them into having their best home possible. The reason is because “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.”
It is important to understand that God’s intention to redeem marriages and families is to restore them to His original plan. A part of that plan is that our understanding needs to adjust to the divine purpose of living effectively within the relationships that God has ordained for our homes.
Assign3. PaanoitinatagngDiyosangunang mag-asawaayonsa Genesis 2:18?Marriage was not man’s idea; it was a divine idea. God created man with the capacity to feel attraction for the opposite sex; man towards woman and woman towards man. God gave Adam a perfect helpmate, someone that would partner with him; a woman who would be his helper and support. Together they would make a team. In His infinite wisdom, God chose two completely different people and brought them together in a covenant of faithful and permanent love. When this happens, a miracle takes place. These two individuals join together in a mysterious way to become one. The purpose of this union is to bring forth a new generation for God.
Marriage was not man’s idea; it was a divine idea. God created man with the capacity to feel attraction for the opposite sex; man towards woman and woman towards man. God gave Adam a perfect helpmate, someone that would partner with him; a woman who would be his helper and support. Together they would make a team. In His infinite wisdom, God chose two completely different people and brought them together in a covenant of faithful and permanent love. When this happens, a miracle takes place. These two individuals join together in a mysterious way to become one. The purpose of this union is to bring forth a new generation for God.
The fullness of the blessing comes, not when people are single, but when they are married. God blesses the couple and both were given the same degree of responsibility. If the couple abides in full harmony, these three blessings abide with them:
Assign 4a. Nang itinatagngDiyosangpundasyonngkasal, anoangtatlonghakbangnaibinigayNiyanadapatnatingisagawa?The fruit determines the type. The first couple’s life was innocent and pure therefore the fruit should have been the fruit of sanctification.
Assign 4b. Nang itinatagngDiyosangpundasyonngkasal, anoangtatlonghakbangnaibinigayNiyanadapatnatingisagawa?What is seen in the natural realm is true also in the spiritual. Children in a marriage are the result of teamwork. In the same way, abundant fruit is seen in ministry when both work together as a team. The end result is multiplication.
Assign 4c. Nang itinatagngDiyosangpundasyonngkasal, anoangtatlonghakbangnaibinigayNiyanadapatnatingisagawa?A life of holiness should lead to multiplication when this happens authority comes. A couple united in harmony, being led by the Word of God, is as powerful well-organized army. The secret is to always work as a team. When Eve wanted to be independent she opened the door to the tempter. But had she first consulted her husband, things would have been different.
Assign6. Bakitmahalaganamagingmatatagangsamahanngisang mag-asawa?Allow me to paraphrase this text: Anyone then, wanting to build this great tower called marriage, must first see if they are able to go to the very end. May it not be that the person (be it the husband or wife) gets married full of enthusiasm but after a few years abandons the spouse, ending is separation. This person may become a laughing stock befuddled by such mockery as, “Yeah, he started out so excited. But now look, he’s left his wife and his children.”With divine guidelines, marriage is one of the greatest blessings, especially when you understand that the blessing of God is enriching and does not bring sadness to our lives. In other words, God will keep you from ending up in separation.
Assign 7. Ipaliwanagangibigsabihinngsalitang “anak” at bakitmahalagaitosaisangpamilya?What good is it to build a home and have no family to live in it after you are gone? Napoleon, despite all his efforts, was not able to create a dynasty. Thousands of wealthy people would give half of everything they own, just to hear the cry of a newborn babe in their family.Children are the inheritance that God will give us. When a man dies without children, his home is still not built.
A warrior is happy to see his arrow fly where he himself is not able to go. Good children are like arrows headed for the targets that their parents point them toward. What marvels can a man accomplish, if he has affectionate children who fulfills the wishes of their father and pay heed to their counsel!
Assign 8. AnoangpagpapalangDiyossaisangpamilya?Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine within your house and your children like olive plants around your table, The vine is a type of happiness and fruitfulness. These are two abilities the Lord has given wives. Children are like olive plants. The olive tree represents the anointing of God, which is what strengthens the families to conquer all. The meaning behind the anointing with oil is that God will fight for us.
Assign9. AnoangsinasabisaEfeso 5:18 ukolsapag-ibigsakontekstongpag-aasawa?The standard that God set for each man is very high: love your wife with the same love that Christ loved the church and gave Himself as a sacrifice for. This was all for the redemption of the church. Marital love must be fed daily with words, attitudes, and nice details. You must fight to protect the members of your family from any emotional wounds. There must be a firm commitment by both spouses to never allow the flame of romantic love to die down or burn out.
Assign 10. Ipaliwanagang Tito 2:4 natumutukoysakababaihan.Paul emphasized working with homogenous groups. In the scripture he encourages women to develop in ministry and to be trained so that they can teach other women. The best way to do this is in groups made strictly for women where the issues discussed can be specifically designed for that group. The two foundational issues for omen’s groups are love toward your spouse and love toward children.
Assign 11a. Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:There are 3 steps in the use of proper discipline in the family.
In the same way we establish limits for the proper growth of a tree so that it does not grow twisted, so must a father do with his children. He recognizes that his children must be corrected form an early age and to set limits, in order to help in their growth. This is true in any type of discipline.
Discipline should be focused on encouraging the children to become better day by day. A negative attitude or the use of negative speech can bring emotional destruction and kill their drive to overcome. It is important for parents to encourage and bless their children daily. Each word spoken over them can be as powerful as a prophecy.
Children need to know that they are not alone in their struggles but they can count on the help and support of their parents, to whom they can run to in any situation and find refuge. Our children’s worth is not determined by what they do but by who they are.
Assign 11b. Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:In general, children have the tendency to believe that they know best. But it is the parent’s duty to guide them down the path of truth, with love and by their example. The world may offer many alternatives but there is only one way to the Father; Jesus. If we can help them enter into an intimate relationship with God, as parents , we have fulfilled a large part of our responsibility. We should also seek to invest time in their lives as they grow up. Parents should look for bridges of communication to cultivate their relationship with their children.
Assign 11c. Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:A human’s life develops in cycles. During the first cycle, the parents are the ones working and providing for all the needs in the home. In the second cycle, the children are the ones with the strength of providing for their families. This is the time within the cycle when they should honor their parents with the necessary provision, to avoid being classified by God as “worse than an unbeliever”Whoever carries the responsibility of providing for their home should do so with an attitude of faith and a generous heart. In doing so, the inherent blessing in their relationship will not be lost through ay negative comments.
Assign 11d Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:We should have balance when we discipline our children. It should not be too drastric, but the other extreme of excessive permissiveness should also be avoided. Both extremes are dangerous because it could damage or spoil the children as was the case with the sons of Eli. He never disciplined them and this brought about early death.
We should have balance when we discipline our children. It should not be too drastric, but the other extreme of excessive permissiveness should also be avoided. Both extremes are dangerous because it could damage or spoil the children as was the case with the sons of Eli. He never disciplined them and this brought about early death.
Assign 11e Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:The virtuous woman builds her house. She is the center of the home. She is able to discover the talents and gifting of her children, discerns good business decisions for her husband, knows where to raise her children and has the ability to bring prosperity to her home.
Assign 11f Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:We can say that the divorce rate within Christianity is minimal, thanks to those covenant vows that the an and woman spoke as they joined their lives in marriage before God. Since the Lord is a covenant God, He is keenly aware of those lives coming together under His blessing. He watches over those who are truly trying to fulfill His commandments.There are many reasons for divorcing: infidelity, lack of love or communication, false expectations, etc. But those who have the blessing of God will have the strength to overcome any obstacles.
Assign 11g Angmgaresponsibilidadsaisangbuhay mag-asawa ay angsumusunod:In general, humans have many spiritual voids that stem mainly from childhood and were caused from a variety of reasons or circumstances. For some, parental neglect, due to abandonment, is a factor. For others, indifferences and stress in parenting became the reason. Even though the pR
A. GOD ‘S PLAN FOR THE FAMILY Nilalang nga ng Diyos ang tao ayon sa kanyang larawan. Silay kanyang nilalang na isang lalaki at isang babae Genesis 1:27
The happiness of the couple depend on their obedience to the Word of God The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
God’s intention to redeem marriages and families is torestore them to His original plan.
God created marriage Matapos gawin ang lahat ng ito, sinabi ng PanginoongYahweh, "Hindi mabuti na mag-isa ang tao; bibigyan ko siya ng isang angkop na makakasama at makakatulong."
God created marriage Hindi bat pinag-isa kayo ng Diyos sa katawan at sa espiritu? Ang layunin Niya ay upang maging tunay na mga anak ng Diyos ang inyong mga supling. Kayat huwag ninyong pagtaksilan ang babaing pinakasalan ninyo nang kayoy kabataan pa. Malakias 2:15
God united them in marriage at silay pinagpala Niya. Sinabi niya, "Magpakarami kayo at punuin ninyo ng inyong mga anak ang buong daigdig, at kayo ang mamahala nito. Binibigyan Ko kayo ng kapangyarihan sa mga isda sa tubig, sa mgaibon sa himpapawid, at sa lahat ng mga hayop na nasa ibabaw ng lupa. Genesis 1:28
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25Inilagay ng Panginoong Yahweh ang tao sa halamanan ng Eden upang itoy pagyamanin at pangalagaan. Genesis 2:15Man should provide for his home and protect his family
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25 16 Sinabi niya sa tao, "Makakain mo ang alinmangbungangkahoy sa halamanan, 17 maliban sa bunga ng punongkahoy na nagbibigay ng kaalaman tungkol sa mabuti at masama. Huwag na huwag mong kakaininang bungang iyon, sapagkat sa araw na kainin mo iyon ay mamamatay ka." Genesis 2:16-17 Man should be obedient
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25 Matapos gawin ang lahat ng ito, sinabi ngPanginoong Yahweh, "Hindi mabuti na mag-isa ang tao; bibigyan ko siya ng isang angkop na makakasama at makakatulong." Genesis 2:18 Fellowship
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25 Kaya, mula sa lupa ay lumikha ang Panginoong Yahweh ng mga hayop sa parang at mga ibon sa himpapawid, dinala niya ang mga ito sa tao upangipaubaya rito ang pagbibigay ng pangalan sa mga iyon. Kung ano ang kanyang itinawag, iyon ang naging pangalan ng mga ito." Genesis 2:19 Man determines his family’s destiny
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25 21 Kayat pinatulog ng Panginoong Yahweh ang tao.Samantalang nahihimbing, kinuha niya ang isang tadyang nito at pinaghilom ang laman sa tapat niyon. 22 Ang tadyang na iyoy ginawa niyang isang babae, at dinala niya ito sa lalaki. 23 Sinabi ng lalaki, “Sa wakas, narito ang isang tulad ko, laman ng aking laman, buto ng aking buto;babae ang itatawag sa kanya, sapagkat sa lalaki siyay kinuha." Genesis 2:21-23 From the two He made one
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25 Ito ang dahilan kaya iniiwan ng lalaki angkanyang amat ina, nagsasama sila ng kanyang asawa, at silay nagiging isa. Genesis 2:24 Protection of intimacy
GOD SET GUIDELINES Genesis 2:15-25Kapwa hubad noon ang lalaki at ang babae, ngunit hindi sila nahihiya. Genesis 2:24 Transparency
B. THE IMPORTANCE OF A FAMILY Marital Stability27 Ang ayaw magpasan ng sarili niyang krus at sumunod sa akin ay hindi maaaring maging alagad ko.”28 "Kung ang isa sa inyoy nagbabalak na magtayo ng tore, hindi ba siya uupo muna upang magplano at kuwentahin kung magkano ang magagastos niya upang matiyak kung may sapat siyang pera para maipatapos ang kanyang ipapatayo? 29 Baka matapos mailagay ang mga pundasyon ay hindi naman mayari ang tore. Siyay kukutyain lamang ng lahat ng makakakitaniyon. 30 Sasabihin nila, Ang taong itoy nagsimulang magtayo ngunit hindi naman naipatapos. Lucas 14:27-30
OFFSPRING 3 Kaloob nga ni Yahweh itong ating mga anak, ang ganitong mga supling, pagpapalang mayrong galak. 4 Ang lalaking mga anak sa panahong kabataan, ang katulad ay palaso sa kamay ng isang kawal.5 Mapalad ang isang taong mapalasong tulad niyan, hindi siya malulupig, at malayo sa kahihiyan,kung sila man ng kalaban ay magtagpo sa hukuman. Awit 127:3-5
A blessed family Sa tahanan, ang asaway parang ubas na mabunga,at bagong tanim na olibo sa may hapag ang anak niya. Awit 128:3
Conjugal loveGayundin naman, dapat mahalin ngmga lalaki ang kanilang asawa tuladng sarili nilang katawan. Ang lalaking nagmamahal sa kanyang asawa ay nagmamahal sa kanyang sarili. Efeso 5:28
The woman’s leadership 3 Sabihin mo sa matatandang babae na silay mamuhay na may kabanalan, huwag maninirang-puri, huwag maglalasing kundi magturo sila ng mabuti, 4upang maakay nila ang mga kabataang babae na mahalin ang kanilang mga asawa at mga anak. Tito 2:3-4
C. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY 1. The use of proper discipline 24 Mapagmahal na magulang, anak ay dinidisiplina,anak na di napapalo, hindi mahal ng magulang. 15 Likas sa mga bata ang pagiging pilyo, ngunit sa pamamagitan ng palo, silay matututo. KAWIKAAN 13:24, 22:15
3. Providing for your familyAng sinumang hindi kumakalinga sakanyang mga kamag-anak, lalo na samga kabilang sa kanyang pamilya, aytumatalikod sa pananampalataya, at mas masama pa kaysa sa isang di mananampalataya. 1 Timoteo 5:8
4. Moral valuesMga magulang, huwag ninyong pagagalitan nang labis ang inyong mga anak at baka masiraan sila ng loob. Colosas 3:21Mga magulang, huwag kayong gumawa ng mga bagay na ikagagalit ng inyong mga anak. Sa halip, palakihin ninyo sila ayon sa disiplina at katuruan ng Panginoon. Efeso 6:4
Moral values11 Sinabi ni Yahweh, "Hindi magtatagal at may gagawin akong kakila-kilabot na bagay sa Israel. Lahat ngmakakabalita nitoy mabibigla. 12 Pagdating ng araw na iyon, gagawin ko ang lahat ng sinabi ko laban sa sambahayan ni Eli, mula sa umpisa hanggang sakatapusan. 13 Sabihin mo sa kanya na habang panahon kong paparusahan ang kanyang sambahayan sapagkat hinayaan niyang lapastanganin ako ng kanyang mga anak. Ni hindi man lamang niya pinahinto ang mgaito. 14 Dahil dito, isinusumpa kong hindi mapapawi ng anumang handog ang kalapastanganang ginawa ng sambahayan ni Eli.“ 1 Samuel 3:11-14
5. The virtuous woman Mahirap makakita ng mabuting asawa, higit sa mamahaling alahas ang kanyang halaga. Kawikaan 31:10
6. The ideal marriage 6 Subalit simula pa nang likhain ng Diyos ang sanlibutan, nilalang na niya ang tao na lalaki at babae. 7 Dahil ditoy iiwan ng lalaki ang kanyang ama at ina, magsasama sila ng kanyang asawa a 8at ang dalaway magiging isa. Hindi na sila dalawa kundi isa. 9 Ang pinagsama ng Diyos ay huwag paghiwalayin ng sinuman.“ Marcos 10:6-9
7. GOD’S UNCONDITIONAL LOVE Itakwil man ako ng aking ama at ina,si Yahweh ang sa akin ay mag-aaruga. Awit 27:10
CONCLUSIONThe origin of the family goes back to the origin ofmankind and is part of God’s plan for all humanity.That is why God’s plan is to restore the family with thepurpose to rebuild that which the enemy tried todestroy.
Ayon sa aralin, ipaliwanag angkahalagahan ng isang pamilya sa isang indibidwal.