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我希望我知道 I wish I knew
我希望我知道 I wish I knew
活出一个没有遗憾的人生,
活出一个有目的的人生
Living a life without REGRETS,
living a life with PURPOSE
Forbes Magazine (18 Aug, 2012)
“ 25 个人生最大的遗憾。而你的是什么呢?”
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 学习另一个语言
Learning another language
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 学习另一个语言
Learning another language
• 没有约那个男孩 / 女孩出去
Not asking that girl/b...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 学习另一个语言
Learning another language
• 没有约那个男孩 / 女孩出去
Not asking that girl/b...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what
others thought about me so much
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what
others thought about me so much
• 自信心不足
Not...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what
others thought about me so much
• 自信心不足
Not...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游
Gone on more trips with the family/friends
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游
Gone on more trips with the family/friends
• 让我的婚姻破裂
Letting...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游
Gone on more trips with the family/friends
• 让我的婚姻破裂
Letting...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet
with a family member or old friend
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet
with a family member or old friend
• 年轻时误...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet
with a family member or old friend
• 年轻时误...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 花更多时间与孩子相处
Spending more time with the kids
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 花更多时间与孩子相处
Spending more time with the kids
• 当我还有机会时,没有好好照顾自己的健
康 Not ta...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 花更多时间与孩子相处
Spending more time with the kids
• 当我还有机会时,没有好好照顾自己的健
康 Not ta...
25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子
Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
• 成为一位更好的爸爸或妈妈
Being a better father or mother
3 个主要人生遗憾的领域
(从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终)
3 main realms of life regrets
(from 20, 30, 40… death bed)
3 个主要人生遗憾的领域
(从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终)
3 main realms of life regrets
(from 20, 30, 40… death bed)
• 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance
3 个主要人生遗憾的领域
(从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终)
3 main realms of life regrets
(from 20, 30, 40… death bed)
• 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance
...
3 个主要人生遗憾的领域
(从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终)
3 main realms of life regrets
(from 20, 30, 40… death bed)
• 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance
...
在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应
对 When it comes to life, we tend to
approach it in few ways:
在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应
对 When it comes to life, we tend to
approach it in few ways:
• 反应 Reaction
在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应
对 When it comes to life, we tend to
approach it in few ways:
• 反应 Reaction
• 附和 Conformity
在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应
对 When it comes to life, we tend to
approach it in few ways:
• 反应 Reaction
• 附和 Conformity
• 独立 Independe...
在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活
In this series, we want to approach life with
INTENTIONALITY:
在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活
In this series, we want to approach life with
INTENTIONALITY:
• 在自我帮助书籍 = 以终为始
In self help books = Begi...
在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活
In this series, we want to approach life with
INTENTIONALITY:
• 在自我帮助书籍 = 以终为始
In self help books = Begi...
• 传道书 7:8 = 事情的结局胜于开端
In Ecclesiastes 7:8 = “The end of a matter is
better than its beginning”
在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活
In this s...
• 传道书 7:8 = 事情的结局胜于开端
In Ecclesiastes 7:8 = “The end of a matter is
better than its beginning”
在生活中,如何开始是其次但如何完成是关键
Truly ...
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
• 看见自己想要的未来然后决定我们现在应
该如何生活
Painting a picture of a preferred FUTURE and
determining how we shou...
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
• 看见自己想要的未来然后决定我们现在应
该如何生活
Painting a picture of a preferred FUTURE and
determining how we shou...
• 为现在做出更好的决定,以免以后有更多
的遗憾
Making better decisions NOW and having fewer
regrets LATER.
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
• 为现在做出更好的决定,以免以后有更多
的遗憾
Making better decisions NOW and having fewer
regrets LATER.
• 忍受现在的不舒适和痛苦的改变,以便以
后可享受自由和奖励
Enduri...
• 哈巴谷书 2:2
“ 耶和华回答我说:“把异象写下,清楚地
记在泥板上,使读的人容易明白。” 
Habakkuk 2:2 (NKJV)
“Write the vision, And make it plain on tablets, Tha...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
有目的地的生活 Intentional
Living
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
•如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
•如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何做出更好的决定
How to make better decisions
•如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活
How to build a healthy dating life / parenting
有目...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活
How to build a healthy dating life / parenting
•如...
接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》
Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”:
•如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活
How to build a healthy dating life / parenting
•如...
第一部:如何做出更好的决定
Part 1: How to make better decisions
决定我们终点的,
是我们的决定,而不是我们的欲
望
Our Decisions, not our Desires
determine our Destinations.
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大...
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大...
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大...
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that
applies in almost every decision...
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that
applies in almost every decision...
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that
applies in almost every decision...
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that
applies in almost every decision...
1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事?
Principles - What is the right thing to do?
•适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that
applies in almost every decision...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
• 明智的忠告 Wise counsel
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Bette...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
• 明智的忠告 Wise counsel
• 爱你的人 / 为你获得最佳利益的人
People who love y...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
• 明智的忠告 Wise counsel
• 爱你的人 / 为你获得最佳利益的人
People who love y...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•罗波安 (列王记上 12 ) - 拒绝了明智的忠
告,听取了错误的忠告
Rehoboam (1 King 12) ...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has
overwhelming many verses on se...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has
overwhelming many verses on se...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has
overwhelming many verses on se...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has
overwhelming many verses on se...
2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告?
People - Who can I go to for wise counsel?
•箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has
overwhelming many verses on se...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•在人生中的重大决定
For major decision in life:
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules o...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•在人生中的重大决定
For major decision in life:
– 别在没有寻求神的情况下做决定
Never decide ...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•在人生中的重大决定
For major decision in life:
– 别在没有寻求神的情况下做决定
Never decide ...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•神知道最好的,神最爱我们
God knows best, God loves us most.
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guidi...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•神知道最好的,神最爱我们
God knows best, God loves us most.
•罗得与亚伯兰(创世纪 13 ) - 罗...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•箴言 16:3 當把你所作的交託耶和華,你的
計劃就必成功
Pro 16:3 - Commit to the Lord whatever...
3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说?
Prayers - What is God saying in this?
•箴言 16:9 人心計劃自己的道路,他的腳步
卻由耶和華指引。
Proverbs 16:9 - In their hearts huma...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
4 个做出更好决定的指引
4 Guiding Rules of Better Decisi...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
•我该如何反应? 在下一步,我是否可相信上
帝 ? How can I respond t...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
•旧约: 大卫在每一场战争中都寻问耶和华
OT - David inquire of th...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
•新约:保罗在圣灵的带领下改变已经决定好
的旅途
NT - Paul changes hi...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
•箴言 19:21 人心裡的謀算很多,唯有耶和華的計
劃能實現。
Pro 19:21 - ...
4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作
Providence - the divine intervention / engineering
of God
•罗马书 8:28 我們知道,為了愛神的人,就是按他
旨意蒙召的人的益處,萬事都一同效力。...
决定我们终点的,
是我们的决定,而不是我们的欲
望
Our Decisions, not our Desires
determine our Destinations.
反思 Take away reflections:
反思 Take away reflections:
• 在过去,你是如何做决定的?
How did you make decisions in the past?
反思 Take away reflections:
• 在过去,你是如何做决定的?
How did you make decisions in the past?
• 继续前行时,你会如何做出决定?
How are you going to m...
第一部:如何做出更好的决定
Part 1: How to make better decisions
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  1. 1. 您的探索现在开始。
  2. 2. 我希望我知道 I wish I knew
  3. 3. 我希望我知道 I wish I knew 活出一个没有遗憾的人生, 活出一个有目的的人生 Living a life without REGRETS, living a life with PURPOSE
  4. 4. Forbes Magazine (18 Aug, 2012) “ 25 个人生最大的遗憾。而你的是什么呢?”
  5. 5. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets:
  6. 6. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 学习另一个语言 Learning another language
  7. 7. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 学习另一个语言 Learning another language • 没有约那个男孩 / 女孩出去 Not asking that girl/boy out
  8. 8. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 学习另一个语言 Learning another language • 没有约那个男孩 / 女孩出去 Not asking that girl/boy out • 过于埋头于工作而牺牲了家庭和友谊 Working so much at the expense of family and friendships
  9. 9. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what others thought about me so much
  10. 10. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what others thought about me so much • 自信心不足 Not having enough confidence in myself
  11. 11. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 担心别人如何看自己 Worrying about what others thought about me so much • 自信心不足 Not having enough confidence in myself • 依据父母的想法过生活而不是过自己想要 的生活 Living the life that my parents wanted me to live instead of the one I wanted to
  12. 12. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游 Gone on more trips with the family/friends
  13. 13. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游 Gone on more trips with the family/friends • 让我的婚姻破裂 Letting my marriage break down
  14. 14. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 更多地和家人或朋友去旅游 Gone on more trips with the family/friends • 让我的婚姻破裂 Letting my marriage break down • 让我的孩子做更多的事情 Taught my kids to do stuff more
  15. 15. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet with a family member or old friend
  16. 16. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet with a family member or old friend • 年轻时误交损友 Getting involved with the wrong group of friends when I was younger
  17. 17. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 没有和家人或朋友释前嫌 Burying the hatchet with a family member or old friend • 年轻时误交损友 Getting involved with the wrong group of friends when I was younger • 弃了自己想要的工作而选择了务实的工作 Choosing the practical job over the one I really wanted
  18. 18. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 花更多时间与孩子相处 Spending more time with the kids
  19. 19. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 花更多时间与孩子相处 Spending more time with the kids • 当我还有机会时,没有好好照顾自己的健 康 Not taking care of my health when I had the chance
  20. 20. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 花更多时间与孩子相处 Spending more time with the kids • 当我还有机会时,没有好好照顾自己的健 康 Not taking care of my health when I had the chance • 没有探望一位垂死的朋友 Not visiting a dying friend before he died
  21. 21. 25 个最大遗憾中的一些例子 Some of the 25 biggest regrets: • 成为一位更好的爸爸或妈妈 Being a better father or mother
  22. 22. 3 个主要人生遗憾的领域 (从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终) 3 main realms of life regrets (from 20, 30, 40… death bed)
  23. 23. 3 个主要人生遗憾的领域 (从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终) 3 main realms of life regrets (from 20, 30, 40… death bed) • 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance
  24. 24. 3 个主要人生遗憾的领域 (从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终) 3 main realms of life regrets (from 20, 30, 40… death bed) • 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance • 关系的领域 The realm of Relationships
  25. 25. 3 个主要人生遗憾的领域 (从 20 , 30 , 40 到临终) 3 main realms of life regrets (from 20, 30, 40… death bed) • 金钱的领域 The realm of Finance • 关系的领域 The realm of Relationships • 品格的领域 The realm of Character
  26. 26. 在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应 对 When it comes to life, we tend to approach it in few ways:
  27. 27. 在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应 对 When it comes to life, we tend to approach it in few ways: • 反应 Reaction
  28. 28. 在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应 对 When it comes to life, we tend to approach it in few ways: • 反应 Reaction • 附和 Conformity
  29. 29. 在人生里,我们总是用以下方法来应 对 When it comes to life, we tend to approach it in few ways: • 反应 Reaction • 附和 Conformity • 独立 Independence
  30. 30. 在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活 In this series, we want to approach life with INTENTIONALITY:
  31. 31. 在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活 In this series, we want to approach life with INTENTIONALITY: • 在自我帮助书籍 = 以终为始 In self help books = Begin with the end in mind
  32. 32. 在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活 In this series, we want to approach life with INTENTIONALITY: • 在自我帮助书籍 = 以终为始 In self help books = Begin with the end in mind • 在工程学里 = 逆向工程 In engineering = Reverse engineering
  33. 33. • 传道书 7:8 = 事情的结局胜于开端 In Ecclesiastes 7:8 = “The end of a matter is better than its beginning” 在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活 In this series, we want to approach life with INTENTIONALITY:
  34. 34. • 传道书 7:8 = 事情的结局胜于开端 In Ecclesiastes 7:8 = “The end of a matter is better than its beginning” 在生活中,如何开始是其次但如何完成是关键 Truly in life, it’s not how you start but how you finish. 在这一个系列,我们要有目的地的生活 In this series, we want to approach life with INTENTIONALITY:
  35. 35. 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  36. 36. 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living • 看见自己想要的未来然后决定我们现在应 该如何生活 Painting a picture of a preferred FUTURE and determining how we should live NOW.
  37. 37. 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living • 看见自己想要的未来然后决定我们现在应 该如何生活 Painting a picture of a preferred FUTURE and determining how we should live NOW. • 向前预期生命和回头活出生命 Anticipating life FORWARD and living it BACKWARD
  38. 38. • 为现在做出更好的决定,以免以后有更多 的遗憾 Making better decisions NOW and having fewer regrets LATER. 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  39. 39. • 为现在做出更好的决定,以免以后有更多 的遗憾 Making better decisions NOW and having fewer regrets LATER. • 忍受现在的不舒适和痛苦的改变,以便以 后可享受自由和奖励 Enduring uncomfortable or even painful changes NOW and enjoying the freedom and the reward LATER. 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  40. 40. • 哈巴谷书 2:2 “ 耶和华回答我说:“把异象写下,清楚地 记在泥板上,使读的人容易明白。”  Habakkuk 2:2 (NKJV) “Write the vision, And make it plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it.” 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  41. 41. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  42. 42. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何做出更好的决定 How to make better decisions 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  43. 43. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何做出更好的决定 How to make better decisions •如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  44. 44. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何做出更好的决定 How to make better decisions •如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts •如何获得财务利差 How to gain financial margin 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  45. 45. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何做出更好的决定 How to make better decisions •如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts •如何获得财务利差 How to gain financial margin •如何拥有稳固的婚姻 How to have a strong marriage life 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  46. 46. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活 How to build a healthy dating life / parenting 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  47. 47. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活 How to build a healthy dating life / parenting •如何避免愤怒 How to keep anger at bay 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  48. 48. 接下来的几个星期,《我希望我知道》 Next few weeks, “I Wish I Knew”: •如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活 How to build a healthy dating life / parenting •如何避免愤怒 How to keep anger at bay •如何避免无法饶恕的陷阱 How to avoid unforgiveness trap 有目的地的生活 Intentional Living
  49. 49. 第一部:如何做出更好的决定 Part 1: How to make better decisions
  50. 50. 决定我们终点的, 是我们的决定,而不是我们的欲 望 Our Decisions, not our Desires determine our Destinations.
  51. 51. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  52. 52. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making: 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do?
  53. 53. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making: 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions:
  54. 54. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making: 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我对生活是否有明确的优先事物? Do I have a clear priority in life?
  55. 55. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making: 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我对生活是否有明确的优先事物? Do I have a clear priority in life? – 我是否已搜寻了所有的事实 / 研究报告? Do I gather all the facts / research thoroughly?
  56. 56. 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我是否已听取各方? Do I listen to all parties? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  57. 57. 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我是否已听取各方? Do I listen to all parties? – 我是否做了个冲动 / 情绪化的决定? Do I make an impulsive / emotional decision? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  58. 58. 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我是否评估了所有长期与短期的可能性? Do I weigh all possible outcome, both short and long term? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  59. 59. 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我是否评估了所有长期与短期的可能性? Do I weigh all possible outcome, both short and long term? – 我是否违反了任何道德 / 神的道德原则? Do I violate any clear moral / ethical principle of God? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  60. 60. 1. 原则 - 什么是正确的事? Principles - What is the right thing to do? •适用于大多数决定的原则 Principles that applies in almost every decisions: – 我是否做了个共同决定(夫妻)? Do I make a together decision (for couples) 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  61. 61. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  62. 62. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? • 明智的忠告 Wise counsel 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  63. 63. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? • 明智的忠告 Wise counsel • 爱你的人 / 为你获得最佳利益的人 People who love you / have best interest for you 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  64. 64. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? • 明智的忠告 Wise counsel • 爱你的人 / 为你获得最佳利益的人 People who love you / have best interest for you • 牵涉在问题或是参与在解决方案里的人 People who are part of the problem or part of the solution 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  65. 65. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •罗波安 (列王记上 12 ) - 拒绝了明智的忠 告,听取了错误的忠告 Rehoboam (1 King 12) – rejected wise counsel, listened wrong counsel 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  66. 66. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has overwhelming many verses on seeking wise counsel: 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  67. 67. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has overwhelming many verses on seeking wise counsel: – 箴言 12:15 愚妄人所行的,在自己眼中看為 正直,只有智慧人肯聽勸告。 Pro 12:15 - The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  68. 68. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has overwhelming many verses on seeking wise counsel: – 箴言 15:22 不經商議,計劃必定失敗;謀士眾 多,計劃就可成功 Pro 15:22 - Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  69. 69. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has overwhelming many verses on seeking wise counsel: – 箴言 11:14 沒有智謀,國家敗落;謀士眾多, 就能得勝。 Pro 11:14 - Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  70. 70. 2. 人 - 我可以向谁问取明智的忠告? People - Who can I go to for wise counsel? •箴言里有许多寻求忠告的经文 Proverbs has overwhelming many verses on seeking wise counsel: – 这些大多数是由所罗门王写的:最有智慧的人 寻求明智的忠告 King Solomon wrote most of it – the wisest man seeks wise counsel! 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  71. 71. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  72. 72. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •在人生中的重大决定 For major decision in life: 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  73. 73. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •在人生中的重大决定 For major decision in life: – 别在没有寻求神的情况下做决定 Never decide without seeking God 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  74. 74. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •在人生中的重大决定 For major decision in life: – 别在没有寻求神的情况下做决定 Never decide without seeking God – 别在不交托给神的情况下做决定 Never decide without submitting it to God 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  75. 75. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •神知道最好的,神最爱我们 God knows best, God loves us most. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  76. 76. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •神知道最好的,神最爱我们 God knows best, God loves us most. •罗得与亚伯兰(创世纪 13 ) - 罗得的决定 基于自然,亚伯兰的决定基于神。 Lot and Abram (Gen 13) – Lot decided based on the natural, Abram decided based on the divine. 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  77. 77. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •箴言 16:3 當把你所作的交託耶和華,你的 計劃就必成功 Pro 16:3 - Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  78. 78. 3. 祷告 - 上帝怎么说? Prayers - What is God saying in this? •箴言 16:9 人心計劃自己的道路,他的腳步 卻由耶和華指引。 Proverbs 16:9 - In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  79. 79. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  80. 80. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God •我该如何反应? 在下一步,我是否可相信上 帝 ? How can I respond to this? Can I trust God in the next step? 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  81. 81. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God •旧约: 大卫在每一场战争中都寻问耶和华 OT - David inquire of the Lord at every battle 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  82. 82. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God •新约:保罗在圣灵的带领下改变已经决定好 的旅途 NT - Paul changes his planned journey as HS leads 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  83. 83. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God •箴言 19:21 人心裡的謀算很多,唯有耶和華的計 劃能實現。 Pro 19:21 - Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  84. 84. 4. 天意:神的介入 / 上帝的工作 Providence - the divine intervention / engineering of God •罗马书 8:28 我們知道,為了愛神的人,就是按他 旨意蒙召的人的益處,萬事都一同效力。 Rom 8:28 - 28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose 4 个做出更好决定的指引 4 Guiding Rules of Better Decision Making:
  85. 85. 决定我们终点的, 是我们的决定,而不是我们的欲 望 Our Decisions, not our Desires determine our Destinations.
  86. 86. 反思 Take away reflections:
  87. 87. 反思 Take away reflections: • 在过去,你是如何做决定的? How did you make decisions in the past?
  88. 88. 反思 Take away reflections: • 在过去,你是如何做决定的? How did you make decisions in the past? • 继续前行时,你会如何做出决定? How are you going to make decisions moving forward?
  89. 89. 第一部:如何做出更好的决定 Part 1: How to make better decisions
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