Verbal crutches - the Hmm’s, Uh’s or Ah’s we use in between words of our speech - used when we are trying to catch up with our thoughts and turn them into words.
It can also be any other word that we use repeatedly while talking. Examples : Like, basically, actually, etc.
Using verbal crutches is not a good sign when talking to others.
It might show - lack of confidence - discontinuity in thinking - lack of knowledge about the topic - we might also use verbal crutches when are lying
So what word/expression do you use as a verbal crutch?
How can we get rid of them?
Step 1 Speak at a slower rate. * speak slower to match your thinking rate and you will cure your speech crutches.
Save your face. Just stop talking!
Step 2
Close your mouth when you have nothing to say.
Learn to pause when you have a blank thought.
Form the next few words in your mind and then only vocalize them.
Speak only when necessary.
Step 3 Punctuate with pauses. * Learn to phrase your speech by grouping words forming an idea and pausing after each idea.
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