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Susan	
  Taylor*	
  has	
  a	
  recurring	
  nightmare	
  about	
  her	
  daughter	
  beginning	
  high	
  school.	
  She	
  is	
  
attempting	
  to	
  drop	
  off	
  her	
  fourteen	
  year-­‐old,	
  but	
  the	
  child	
  is	
  afraid	
  to	
  go	
  inside	
  her	
  new	
  school.	
  
She	
  is	
  also	
  too	
  embarrassed	
  to	
  have	
  her	
  mother	
  go	
  inside	
  with	
  her.	
  Arguing	
  and	
  crying	
  ensues,	
  
with	
  no	
  solution	
  in	
  sight.	
  Susan	
  usually	
  awakens	
  as	
  she	
  is	
  physically	
  trying	
  to	
  push	
  her	
  daughter	
  
out	
  of	
  the	
  car.	
  	
  
Does	
  this	
  sound	
  familiar	
  to	
  you?	
  Of	
  course,	
  your	
  child	
  may	
  be	
  excited	
  to	
  begin	
  high	
  school	
  and	
  
you,	
  the	
  parent,	
  may	
  not	
  be	
  so	
  thrilled	
  about	
  it.	
  Your	
  child	
  may	
  also	
  have	
  reservations,	
  
especially	
  if	
  they	
  are	
  attending	
  a	
  different	
  high	
  school	
  from	
  many	
  of	
  their	
  friends.	
  Steps	
  can	
  be	
  
taken	
  to	
  ease	
  this	
  transition	
  for	
  students	
  and	
  parents.	
  High	
  school	
  can	
  be	
  a	
  time	
  of	
  wonderful	
  
memories	
  and	
  preparation	
  for	
  the	
  future,	
  so	
  get	
  ready	
  to	
  help	
  your	
  child	
  achieve	
  their	
  goals.	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Freshman	
  Orientation	
  
One	
  of	
  the	
  most	
  important	
  first	
  steps	
  in	
  preparing	
  for	
  high	
  school	
  is	
  for	
  both	
  parent	
  and	
  child	
  to	
  
attend	
  freshman	
  orientation.	
  Students	
  will	
  have	
  orientation	
  at	
  the	
  end	
  of	
  eighth	
  grade	
  or	
  
sometimes	
  before	
  school	
  starts	
  in	
  the	
  fall.	
  Older	
  students	
  will	
  usually	
  show	
  them	
  where	
  their	
  
classes	
  will	
  be	
  located	
  and	
  answer	
  their	
  questions.	
  	
  
Parents	
  usually	
  attend	
  their	
  own	
  orientation	
  or	
  meeting	
  before	
  school	
  starts.	
  At	
  least	
  one	
  
parent	
  should	
  attend	
  and	
  be	
  prepared	
  to	
  take	
  notes.	
  A	
  parent	
  manual	
  is	
  usually	
  provided	
  that	
  
gives	
  a	
  great	
  deal	
  of	
  information.	
  Be	
  sure	
  to	
  take	
  time	
  and	
  read	
  this	
  information	
  fully.	
  
4
Among	
  the	
  information	
  you	
  should	
  find	
  in	
  the	
  parent	
  manual	
  will	
  be	
  how	
  grades	
  are	
  calculated,	
  
school	
  club	
  information,	
  and	
  requirements	
  for	
  playing	
  sports.	
  You	
  should	
  also	
  see	
  tips	
  for	
  
keeping	
  up	
  with	
  work	
  and	
  staying	
  organized	
  with	
  a	
  daily	
  planner.	
  Information	
  about	
  AP	
  and	
  
Honors	
  classes	
  should	
  be	
  included	
  also.	
  
Other	
  information	
  you	
  should	
  look	
  for	
  include	
  graduation	
  requirements	
  (so	
  your	
  student	
  will	
  
know	
  what	
  classes	
  are	
  needed),	
  state	
  university	
  requirements,	
  and	
  scholarship	
  and	
  SAT	
  facts.	
  
Freshman	
  year	
  is	
  not	
  too	
  early	
  to	
  start	
  thinking	
  about	
  these	
  issues;	
  this	
  year	
  counts	
  as	
  part	
  of	
  a	
  
student	
  transcript	
  to	
  get	
  into	
  college.	
  
Before	
  School	
  Starts	
  
Other	
  parents	
  are	
  a	
  valid	
  source	
  of	
  high	
  school	
  information.	
  School	
  policies	
  do	
  change,	
  but	
  
parents	
  of	
  students	
  a	
  year	
  or	
  two	
  ahead	
  of	
  your	
  child	
  can	
  give	
  you	
  some	
  general	
  information.	
  
Many	
  times	
  they	
  can	
  tell	
  you	
  what	
  not	
  to	
  do,	
  as	
  they	
  have	
  made	
  mistakes	
  in	
  the	
  past.	
  Older	
  
friends	
  can	
  also	
  help	
  your	
  son	
  or	
  daughter	
  feel	
  more	
  confident	
  about	
  what	
  to	
  expect	
  in	
  high	
  
school.	
  
If	
  you	
  have	
  a	
  daughter,	
  encourage	
  her	
  to	
  work	
  out	
  their	
  first-­‐day	
  clothes	
  with	
  a	
  friend.	
  Small	
  
steps	
  can	
  ease	
  anxiety	
  greatly.	
  Suggest	
  your	
  student	
  find	
  a	
  friend	
  from	
  middle	
  school	
  or	
  try	
  to	
  
meet	
  someone	
  in	
  their	
  new	
  class	
  right	
  away	
  so	
  they	
  will	
  have	
  someone	
  to	
  eat	
  lunch	
  with	
  at	
  the	
  
beginning	
  of	
  school.	
  
Once	
  the	
  Bell	
  Rings	
  
After	
  school	
  starts,	
  parents	
  may	
  have	
  the	
  opportunity	
  to	
  attend	
  an	
  Open	
  House;	
  be	
  sure	
  not	
  to	
  
miss	
  this	
  chance	
  to	
  meet	
  the	
  school	
  staff.	
  When	
  you	
  enter	
  the	
  child's	
  classroom,	
  take	
  time	
  to	
  
introduce	
  yourself	
  to	
  the	
  teacher.	
  Taking	
  the	
  initiative	
  to	
  greet	
  the	
  teacher	
  shows	
  your	
  interest	
  
and	
  enthusiasm!	
  Try	
  to	
  meet	
  the	
  school	
  counselor	
  and	
  the	
  principal,	
  if	
  at	
  all	
  possible.	
  Faculty	
  
members	
  will	
  notice	
  parents	
  who	
  seek	
  them	
  out,	
  because	
  many	
  parents	
  do	
  not	
  do	
  so	
  at	
  the	
  
high	
  school	
  level.	
  
If	
  your	
  child's	
  teacher	
  asks	
  to	
  schedule	
  a	
  conference,	
  be	
  sure	
  to	
  follow	
  through.	
  Many	
  times	
  
teachers	
  will	
  do	
  this	
  early	
  in	
  the	
  year	
  to	
  get	
  a	
  feel	
  for	
  where	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  headed;	
  it	
  does	
  not	
  
mean	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  failing	
  or	
  misbehaving.	
  	
  
Technology	
  today	
  actually	
  makes	
  communicating	
  with	
  teachers	
  and	
  principals	
  easier.	
  Parents	
  
can	
  email	
  or	
  leave	
  voice	
  mail	
  messages	
  for	
  teachers	
  and	
  not	
  feel	
  as	
  though	
  they	
  are	
  disturbing	
  
them	
  during	
  the	
  school	
  day.	
  You	
  can	
  often	
  email	
  through	
  the	
  school	
  website,	
  which	
  is	
  another	
  
valuable	
  source	
  of	
  information.	
  Parents	
  often	
  let	
  contact	
  with	
  teachers	
  dwindle	
  during	
  high	
  
school,	
  but	
  high	
  school	
  teachers	
  welcome	
  your	
  questions.	
  Their	
  job	
  is	
  to	
  help	
  prepare	
  your	
  child	
  
for	
  the	
  adult	
  world,	
  and	
  they	
  want	
  to	
  work	
  with	
  parents	
  to	
  accomplish	
  this	
  goal.	
  
5
 
	
  
Ways	
  to	
  Get	
  Involved	
  
As	
  a	
  parent,	
  you	
  may	
  feel	
  your	
  days	
  of	
  volunteering	
  at	
  the	
  school	
  are	
  over	
  once	
  your	
  child	
  starts	
  
high	
  school.	
  This	
  is	
  absolutely	
  not	
  true,	
  and	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  staff	
  will	
  welcome	
  your	
  support	
  and	
  
help.	
  Booster	
  clubs	
  are	
  a	
  great	
  way	
  to	
  help	
  at	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  level.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  in	
  the	
  band,	
  
you	
  may	
  want	
  to	
  join	
  the	
  band	
  boosters.	
  Athletic	
  booster	
  clubs	
  are	
  popular	
  and	
  you	
  can	
  join	
  
even	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  does	
  not	
  play	
  on	
  a	
  sports	
  team.	
  	
  
	
  
An	
  Alabama	
  high	
  school	
  has	
  a	
  group	
  of	
  moms	
  called	
  the	
  "Gridiron	
  Gals"	
  who	
  raise	
  funds	
  for	
  the	
  
school	
  football	
  team.	
  Some	
  of	
  the	
  mothers	
  do	
  not	
  have	
  sons	
  that	
  play	
  football;	
  they	
  just	
  enjoy	
  
being	
  involved	
  with	
  the	
  school	
  and	
  sporting	
  events.	
  Fund-­‐raising	
  is	
  a	
  constant	
  factor	
  today	
  in	
  
public	
  and	
  private	
  schools;	
  parents	
  can	
  find	
  many	
  opportunities	
  to	
  get	
  involved	
  at	
  schools	
  in	
  
this	
  way.	
  
What	
  if	
  you	
  are	
  placed	
  in	
  charge	
  of	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  bake	
  sale	
  as	
  a	
  freshman	
  parent?	
  The	
  best	
  
strategy	
  is	
  to	
  find	
  out	
  who	
  was	
  in	
  charge	
  last	
  year	
  and	
  call	
  them	
  for	
  tips.	
  That	
  person	
  can	
  also	
  
give	
  you	
  names	
  of	
  people	
  who	
  will	
  help	
  you	
  with	
  the	
  project.	
  
You	
  and	
  Your	
  High	
  School	
  Student	
  
As	
  your	
  child	
  enters	
  high	
  school,	
  you	
  may	
  find	
  your	
  relationship	
  as	
  a	
  parent	
  changing	
  with	
  your	
  
son	
  or	
  daughter.	
  Try	
  to	
  find	
  an	
  activity	
  you	
  both	
  enjoy	
  to	
  do	
  together.	
  This	
  can	
  encourage	
  your	
  
child	
  to	
  talk	
  to	
  you	
  about	
  what	
  is	
  going	
  on	
  in	
  their	
  lives	
  -­‐	
  teenagers	
  often	
  find	
  it	
  hard	
  to	
  talk	
  
one-­‐on-­‐one,	
  making	
  eye	
  contact.	
  	
  
	
  
6
 
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Encourage	
  your	
  student	
  to	
  enroll	
  in	
  at	
  least	
  one	
  extracurricular	
  activity	
  for	
  social	
  interaction,	
  
but	
  not	
  too	
  many	
  or	
  he	
  can	
  get	
  overloaded.	
  Establish	
  limits	
  and	
  routines	
  with	
  your	
  teen.	
  
Homework	
  should	
  be	
  completed	
  each	
  day	
  before	
  "fun	
  time",	
  and	
  chores	
  must	
  be	
  done.	
  Your	
  
teen	
  should	
  also	
  have	
  a	
  curfew.	
  A	
  few	
  well-­‐chosen	
  rules	
  let	
  your	
  teen	
  know	
  that	
  you	
  care	
  about	
  
them,	
  even	
  though	
  she	
  may	
  complain!	
  
Talk	
  to	
  your	
  child	
  about	
  their	
  long-­‐range	
  goals	
  in	
  life.	
  High	
  school	
  is	
  one	
  step	
  on	
  their	
  road	
  to	
  
adulthood	
  and	
  it	
  is	
  an	
  important	
  one.	
  If	
  they	
  are	
  interested	
  in	
  a	
  particular	
  career,	
  introduce	
  
them	
  to	
  an	
  adult	
  in	
  that	
  field	
  who	
  can	
  mentor	
  them.	
  Freshman	
  year	
  is	
  the	
  beginning	
  of	
  a	
  
planning	
  process	
  for	
  college	
  and	
  beyond.	
  High	
  school	
  teachers	
  and	
  counselors	
  are	
  ready	
  and	
  
willing	
  to	
  help	
  you	
  and	
  your	
  child	
  with	
  this	
  process.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
7
 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
#	
  1:	
  	
  Find	
  the	
  Right	
  Balance	
  
Your	
  daughter	
  wants	
  to	
  be	
  a	
  cheerleader,	
  join	
  the	
  band,	
  play	
  volleyball,	
  and	
  join	
  several	
  clubs	
  in	
  
high	
  school.	
  Your	
  son	
  just	
  wants	
  to	
  come	
  home	
  and	
  play	
  video	
  games	
  with	
  his	
  friends	
  after	
  
school.	
  What	
  is	
  too	
  much	
  extracurricular	
  activity	
  and	
  what	
  is	
  not	
  enough?	
  
Research	
  in	
  2009	
  at	
  the	
  University	
  of	
  Illinois	
  provides	
  some	
  interesting	
  food	
  for	
  thought	
  on	
  this	
  
subject.	
  Students	
  who	
  participate	
  in	
  extracurricular	
  activities	
  seem	
  to	
  prosper	
  more	
  ten	
  years	
  
after	
  high	
  school	
  than	
  those	
  who	
  do	
  not.	
  Good	
  grades	
  do	
  matter	
  and	
  SAT	
  scores	
  are	
  important.	
  
Extracurricular	
  activities	
  provide	
  an	
  opportunity	
  to	
  learn	
  social	
  skills	
  such	
  as	
  getting	
  along	
  with	
  
peers.	
  	
  
Strong	
  academic	
  skills	
  plus	
  social	
  skills	
  and	
  work	
  ethic	
  seem	
  to	
  be	
  a	
  strong	
  predictor	
  for	
  future	
  
job	
  success.	
  It	
  actually	
  makes	
  sense	
  because	
  many	
  jobs	
  today	
  are	
  information-­‐oriented	
  and	
  
involve	
  dealing	
  with	
  people.	
  Getting	
  along	
  with	
  others	
  is	
  an	
  important	
  skill	
  that	
  employers	
  are	
  
looking	
  for.	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
Clubs	
  
Most	
  high	
  schools	
  have	
  clubs	
  and	
  organizations	
  for	
  many	
  types	
  of	
  interests.	
  Student	
  
government,	
  Spanish	
  club,	
  and	
  Key	
  Club	
  are	
  just	
  a	
  few.	
  Key	
  Club	
  is	
  a	
  student-­‐led	
  service	
  club	
  
that	
  is	
  affiliated	
  with	
  Kiwanis	
  Clubs.	
  Key	
  Club	
  members	
  work	
  on	
  school	
  and	
  community	
  service	
  
projects.	
  One	
  of	
  their	
  main	
  goals	
  is	
  tutoring	
  and	
  mentoring	
  younger	
  kids.	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
8
 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
If	
  your	
  teen	
  is	
  interested	
  in	
  an	
  area	
  that	
  does	
  not	
  have	
  a	
  club,	
  he	
  can	
  talk	
  to	
  teachers	
  and	
  
perhaps	
  start	
  such	
  a	
  club.	
  Some	
  clubs	
  meet	
  before	
  or	
  after	
  school	
  hours.	
  Your	
  high	
  school	
  may	
  
have	
  an	
  "activity	
  period"	
  occasionally	
  during	
  the	
  day	
  to	
  allow	
  clubs	
  to	
  meet.	
  
	
  
Sports	
  
Different	
  high	
  schools	
  have	
  different	
  sports	
  programs.	
  Major	
  sports	
  include	
  football,	
  baseball,	
  
basketball,	
  softball,	
  and	
  soccer.	
  Other	
  sports	
  that	
  may	
  be	
  offered	
  are	
  tennis,	
  golf,	
  volleyball,	
  
and	
  track	
  and	
  field.	
  High	
  school	
  sports	
  are	
  a	
  great	
  way	
  to	
  improve	
  athletic	
  performance	
  and	
  
learn	
  how	
  to	
  work	
  as	
  part	
  of	
  a	
  team.	
  Sports	
  teams	
  often	
  travel	
  to	
  games	
  in	
  other	
  towns,	
  which	
  
can	
  be	
  an	
  enjoyable	
  aspect	
  for	
  teens.	
  Your	
  child	
  may	
  be	
  interested	
  in	
  community	
  recreation	
  
league	
  sports	
  as	
  an	
  alternative	
  to	
  school	
  sports.	
  
Find	
  out	
  the	
  practice	
  and	
  game	
  schedule	
  before	
  your	
  teen	
  commits.	
  Unless	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  
extraordinarily	
  gifted	
  and	
  has	
  the	
  coach's	
  permission,	
  it	
  is	
  probably	
  best	
  to	
  play	
  one	
  sport	
  at	
  a	
  
time.	
  Some	
  sport	
  seasons	
  do	
  overlap,	
  and	
  most	
  students	
  reach	
  a	
  point	
  where	
  they	
  must	
  decide	
  
on	
  which	
  sport	
  to	
  focus	
  their	
  energy.	
  
Gifted	
  athletes	
  can	
  be	
  eligible	
  for	
  partial	
  or	
  full	
  scholarships	
  to	
  college.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  excels	
  and	
  
truly	
  enjoys	
  a	
  given	
  sport,	
  this	
  can	
  be	
  a	
  worthwhile	
  pursuit.	
  Not	
  only	
  do	
  they	
  get	
  to	
  participate	
  
in	
  something	
  they	
  enjoy,	
  but	
  it	
  can	
  help	
  pay	
  for	
  college.	
  
	
  
Other	
  Activities	
  
Other	
  extracurricular	
  activities	
  include	
  band,	
  choir,	
  and	
  drama	
  club.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  enjoys	
  music	
  
or	
  acting,	
  these	
  groups	
  can	
  open	
  up	
  opportunities	
  for	
  her.	
  Some	
  sources	
  refer	
  to	
  band	
  and	
  
choir	
  as	
  co-­‐curricular	
  because	
  they	
  usually	
  meet	
  during	
  a	
  class	
  period.	
  Band	
  and	
  sometimes	
  
choir	
  require	
  practice	
  before	
  and	
  after	
  school	
  and	
  members	
  participate	
  in	
  events	
  in	
  the	
  evening	
  
and	
  on	
  weekends.	
  These	
  groups	
  require	
  a	
  large	
  time	
  commitment,	
  but	
  kids	
  who	
  love	
  music	
  or	
  
9
drama	
  will	
  find	
  it	
  time	
  well-­‐spent.	
  Long-­‐term	
  friendships	
  can	
  develop	
  from	
  activities	
  where	
  
students	
  spend	
  a	
  great	
  of	
  time,	
  also.	
  
Part-­‐time	
  Work	
  
Your	
  teen	
  may	
  choose	
  to	
  obtain	
  a	
  part-­‐time	
  job	
  after	
  school,	
  or	
  seek	
  volunteer	
  work.	
  Teens	
  
enjoy	
  making	
  money	
  and	
  this	
  can	
  help	
  to	
  establish	
  a	
  work	
  ethic	
  that	
  can	
  last	
  a	
  lifetime.	
  Colleges	
  
see	
  the	
  responsibility	
  a	
  job	
  requires	
  when	
  they	
  review	
  applications	
  for	
  admission.	
  For	
  example,	
  
if	
  your	
  daughter	
  is	
  interested	
  in	
  a	
  medical	
  career,	
  many	
  hospitals	
  offer	
  volunteer	
  programs	
  for	
  
fourteen	
  to	
  seventeen	
  year	
  olds.	
  This	
  is	
  a	
  great	
  way	
  for	
  the	
  teen	
  to	
  determine	
  interest	
  and	
  the	
  
experience	
  looks	
  good	
  to	
  universities	
  and	
  employers.	
  
Benefits	
  of	
  Extracurricular	
  Activities	
  
Studies	
  have	
  shown	
  that	
  not	
  only	
  do	
  extracurricular	
  activities	
  increase	
  the	
  odds	
  for	
  career	
  
success	
  later,	
  they	
  raise	
  student	
  self-­‐esteem.	
  Students	
  who	
  play	
  sports	
  and/or	
  are	
  involved	
  in	
  
clubs	
  are	
  less	
  likely	
  to	
  abuse	
  alcohol	
  and	
  drugs	
  and	
  are	
  less	
  likely	
  to	
  be	
  victims	
  of	
  physical	
  or	
  
sexual	
  abuse.	
  These	
  students	
  are	
  more	
  likely	
  to	
  complete	
  their	
  school	
  work	
  and	
  homework	
  and	
  
are	
  less	
  likely	
  to	
  suffer	
  from	
  emotional	
  distress.	
  
Planning	
  for	
  Extracurricular	
  Activities	
  
Each	
  semester	
  you	
  and	
  your	
  teen	
  can	
  write	
  a	
  schedule	
  of	
  all	
  activities.	
  The	
  schedule	
  can	
  include	
  
classes,	
  homework	
  time,	
  and	
  extracurricular	
  activity	
  time.	
  Be	
  realistic	
  in	
  determining	
  how	
  much	
  
time	
  needs	
  to	
  be	
  devoted	
  to	
  each	
  activity.	
  Contact	
  school	
  personnel	
  or	
  other	
  parents	
  if	
  you	
  
have	
  questions	
  about	
  what	
  is	
  involved	
  in	
  a	
  particular	
  sport	
  or	
  club.	
  Parents	
  also	
  will	
  want	
  to	
  
consider	
  costs	
  involved	
  and	
  if	
  the	
  child	
  is	
  required	
  to	
  take	
  a	
  physical	
  exam.	
  
Parental	
  Concerns	
  
If	
  your	
  teen	
  is	
  going	
  to	
  play	
  a	
  sport,	
  you	
  should	
  have	
  them	
  examined	
  by	
  a	
  doctor,	
  even	
  if	
  it	
  is	
  
not	
  required.	
  The	
  physician	
  can	
  point	
  out	
  any	
  potential	
  problems	
  and	
  present	
  ways	
  your	
  child	
  
can	
  exercise	
  safely	
  and	
  prevent	
  injuries.	
  Encourage	
  your	
  teen	
  to	
  exercise	
  before	
  practice	
  begins	
  
and	
  make	
  sure	
  he	
  has	
  the	
  proper	
  safety	
  equipment.	
  	
  
If	
  you	
  notice	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  having	
  trouble	
  maintaining	
  their	
  grades	
  and	
  seems	
  tired	
  all	
  the	
  time,	
  
you	
  may	
  need	
  to	
  evaluate	
  if	
  they	
  are	
  participating	
  in	
  too	
  many	
  activities.	
  Some	
  parents	
  have	
  a	
  
one	
  sport,	
  one	
  club	
  rule	
  at	
  any	
  given	
  time.	
  Others	
  insist	
  their	
  kids	
  keep	
  a	
  certain	
  grade	
  level	
  
before	
  they	
  participate	
  in	
  outside	
  activities.	
  You	
  can	
  determine	
  with	
  your	
  teen	
  what	
  is	
  best	
  for	
  
her;	
  talk	
  to	
  the	
  school	
  counselor	
  if	
  you	
  have	
  concerns	
  and	
  feel	
  you	
  need	
  help.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
10
My	
  Child	
  Doesn't	
  Want	
  to	
  Participate	
  	
  
Suppose	
  your	
  child	
  does	
  not	
  want	
  to	
  participate	
  in	
  any	
  extracurricular	
  activities	
  and	
  seems	
  sad	
  
quite	
  often.	
  You	
  may	
  want	
  to	
  seek	
  the	
  help	
  of	
  a	
  counselor.	
  Sometimes	
  teens	
  feel	
  isolated	
  and	
  
depressed	
  and	
  need	
  professional	
  help.	
  Other	
  kids	
  may	
  display	
  aggressive	
  behavior	
  and	
  
withdraw	
  from	
  others;	
  this	
  too	
  may	
  mean	
  a	
  counselor	
  is	
  needed.	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Your	
  teen	
  may	
  have	
  good	
  grades	
  and	
  be	
  well-­‐adjusted.	
  Perhaps	
  they	
  just	
  don't	
  know	
  where	
  
their	
  interests	
  lie.	
  Many	
  parents	
  require	
  that	
  their	
  child	
  choose	
  one	
  club	
  or	
  activity	
  to	
  try.	
  If	
  
they	
  don't	
  like	
  it,	
  they	
  can	
  try	
  something	
  else	
  the	
  next	
  term.	
  Trying	
  new	
  things	
  allows	
  your	
  child	
  
to	
  meet	
  new	
  people	
  and	
  explore	
  options	
  they	
  otherwise	
  would	
  not	
  have.	
  
	
  
11
 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
#	
  2:	
  Recognize	
  the	
  Importance	
  of	
  Good	
  Grades	
  
Erica	
  brings	
  home	
  her	
  report	
  card	
  and	
  hands	
  it	
  to	
  her	
  mother.	
  Her	
  mom	
  looks	
  at	
  the	
  grades	
  and	
  
tries	
  not	
  to	
  frown.	
  The	
  grade	
  point	
  average	
  is	
  shown	
  for	
  each	
  class	
  and	
  for	
  the	
  entire	
  semester.	
  
Most	
  of	
  the	
  grades	
  are	
  either	
  3.8	
  or	
  4.0.	
  Her	
  AP	
  class	
  has	
  a	
  4.5	
  beside	
  it.	
  What	
  do	
  all	
  of	
  these	
  
numbers	
  mean?	
  
What	
  Is	
  a	
  GPA?	
  
GPA	
  stands	
  for	
  grade	
  point	
  average.	
  It	
  is	
  a	
  numerical	
  way	
  of	
  applying	
  grades	
  for	
  evaluation	
  
purposes.	
  Different	
  countries	
  and	
  schools	
  calculate	
  it	
  in	
  different	
  ways.	
  All	
  of	
  these	
  different	
  
methods	
  can	
  make	
  it	
  difficult	
  to	
  understand,	
  so	
  parents	
  may	
  have	
  to	
  question	
  school	
  officials	
  to	
  
get	
  a	
  clear	
  view.	
  
In	
  the	
  United	
  States,	
  you	
  usually	
  see	
  GPA	
  as	
  referring	
  to	
  a	
  semester	
  grade	
  and	
  cumulative	
  GPA	
  
as	
  referring	
  to	
  a	
  student's	
  overall	
  score	
  at	
  any	
  particular	
  point	
  in	
  time.	
  The	
  cumulative	
  GPA	
  for	
  
high	
  school	
  would	
  be	
  assessed	
  at	
  the	
  end	
  of	
  senior	
  year.	
  Letter	
  grades	
  are	
  given	
  points	
  in	
  the	
  
12
traditional	
  system	
  as	
  follows:	
  	
  A	
  is	
  4	
  points,	
  B	
  is	
  3	
  points,	
  C	
  is	
  2	
  points,	
  D	
  is	
  1	
  point,	
  and	
  F	
  is	
  0	
  
points.	
  	
  
Some	
  schools	
  may	
  count	
  a	
  B+	
  as	
  slightly	
  higher	
  than	
  a	
  3.0;	
  some	
  schools	
  do	
  not.	
  AP	
  classes	
  are	
  
often	
  rated	
  higher	
  than	
  regular	
  classes	
  and	
  add	
  an	
  extra	
  wrinkle	
  in	
  GPA	
  scoring.	
  Now	
  students	
  
can	
  score	
  above	
  a	
  4.0	
  and	
  even	
  have	
  a	
  4.0	
  without	
  having	
  straight	
  A's	
  if	
  they	
  are	
  taking	
  AP	
  
classes.	
  
How	
  important	
  is	
  a	
  GPA?	
  It	
  depends	
  upon	
  your	
  child's	
  plans	
  after	
  high	
  school.	
  If	
  your	
  student	
  
wants	
  to	
  attend	
  a	
  highly	
  selective	
  and	
  prestigious	
  university,	
  then	
  their	
  GPA	
  is	
  very	
  important.	
  
Selective	
  schools	
  look	
  for	
  students	
  with	
  the	
  highest	
  GPA’s.	
  Sometimes	
  employers	
  look	
  at	
  GPA;	
  
others	
  do	
  not.	
  It	
  is	
  always	
  important	
  for	
  students	
  to	
  do	
  their	
  best	
  and	
  not	
  just	
  "get	
  by"	
  in	
  any	
  of	
  
their	
  classes.	
  
Managing	
  Homework	
  and	
  Assignments	
  
An	
  important	
  tool	
  for	
  keeping	
  up	
  with	
  high	
  school	
  work	
  is	
  a	
  day	
  planner.	
  Your	
  student	
  can	
  block	
  
out	
  their	
  time	
  for	
  getting	
  homework	
  done,	
  extracurricular	
  sports	
  and	
  clubs,	
  chores,	
  and	
  leisure	
  
activities.	
  School	
  work	
  should	
  be	
  the	
  top	
  priority,	
  and	
  other	
  activities	
  can	
  be	
  ranked	
  after	
  that.	
  
This	
  process	
  can	
  help	
  your	
  teen	
  see	
  if	
  they	
  are	
  overloading	
  themselves	
  and	
  need	
  to	
  drop	
  
something.	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
Encourage	
  your	
  teen	
  to	
  choose	
  a	
  planner	
  they	
  like	
  and	
  to	
  take	
  on	
  this	
  responsibility	
  them	
  
selves.	
  	
  As	
  children	
  get	
  older,	
  they	
  need	
  to	
  learn	
  to	
  organize	
  their	
  time	
  and	
  complete	
  their	
  work	
  
on	
  their	
  own.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  goes	
  away	
  to	
  college,	
  no	
  will	
  be	
  there	
  to	
  "make"	
  he	
  or	
  she	
  complete	
  
their	
  homework.	
  If	
  you	
  have	
  concerns	
  about	
  your	
  high	
  school	
  student's	
  homework,	
  you	
  can	
  
remind	
  them	
  to	
  get	
  started	
  and	
  later	
  check	
  over	
  their	
  completed	
  work.	
  Make	
  sure	
  they	
  get	
  in	
  
the	
  habit	
  of	
  doing	
  the	
  work	
  on	
  their	
  own	
  so	
  they	
  will	
  be	
  ready	
  for	
  collegiate	
  work.	
  
What	
  is	
  Important	
  for	
  College?	
  
The	
  most	
  important	
  factor	
  a	
  college	
  admissions	
  officer	
  looks	
  for	
  when	
  evaluating	
  a	
  student	
  is	
  
the	
  high	
  school	
  transcript.	
  This	
  includes	
  class	
  rank	
  and	
  GPA.	
  They	
  also	
  note	
  how	
  many	
  college	
  
preparatory	
  classes	
  were	
  completed.	
  The	
  grades	
  in	
  these	
  core	
  classes	
  are	
  more	
  important	
  than	
  
elective	
  grades,	
  but	
  colleges	
  want	
  to	
  see	
  a	
  good	
  effort	
  in	
  all	
  classes.	
  Volunteer	
  and	
  community	
  
activities	
  may	
  be	
  considered	
  as	
  well.	
  
After	
  the	
  transcript,	
  the	
  SAT	
  or	
  ACT	
  score	
  will	
  play	
  a	
  role	
  in	
  college	
  admissions.	
  Students	
  can	
  
seek	
  out	
  preparation	
  courses	
  for	
  the	
  tests	
  at	
  their	
  high	
  school	
  or	
  ask	
  the	
  counselor	
  for	
  a	
  nearby	
  
test	
  prep	
  location.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
13
Improving	
  Teacher	
  Relationships	
  
Improving	
  your	
  relationship	
  with	
  your	
  teachers	
  can	
  improve	
  your	
  GPA.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  having	
  
trouble	
  in	
  a	
  class,	
  encourage	
  him	
  to	
  try	
  his	
  best.	
  Students	
  should	
  be	
  attentive,	
  ask	
  questions,	
  
and	
  ask	
  classmates	
  for	
  help	
  with	
  notes	
  outside	
  of	
  class.	
  Sometimes	
  looking	
  at	
  someone	
  else's	
  
notes	
  and	
  going	
  over	
  them	
  can	
  clarify	
  the	
  subject	
  matter.	
  Your	
  teen	
  can	
  show	
  the	
  teacher	
  they	
  
care	
  about	
  making	
  good	
  grades	
  without	
  going	
  overboard.	
  Teachers	
  do	
  know	
  when	
  a	
  student	
  is	
  
being	
  insincere	
  simply	
  to	
  "get	
  ahead".	
  
Your	
  child	
  can	
  schedule	
  a	
  conference	
  with	
  a	
  teacher	
  during	
  their	
  planning	
  period	
  or	
  after	
  school	
  
if	
  they	
  are	
  having	
  trouble	
  in	
  class.	
  A	
  student	
  can	
  often	
  gain	
  insight	
  into	
  the	
  subject	
  matter	
  in	
  
this	
  way	
  while	
  letting	
  the	
  teacher	
  know	
  that	
  she	
  wants	
  to	
  improve	
  her	
  grade.	
  
High	
  school	
  teachers	
  can	
  write	
  recommendations	
  for	
  college	
  or	
  for	
  jobs,	
  so	
  students	
  should	
  put	
  
their	
  best	
  foot	
  forward.	
  Personalities	
  can	
  clash,	
  but	
  teens	
  should	
  always	
  act	
  respectful.	
  Parents	
  
should	
  stress	
  this	
  with	
  their	
  kids;	
  young	
  people	
  often	
  have	
  a	
  hard	
  time	
  seeing	
  future	
  
consequences	
  of	
  their	
  actions.	
  If	
  a	
  student	
  has	
  tried	
  their	
  best	
  to	
  work	
  out	
  problems	
  with	
  a	
  
teacher	
  with	
  no	
  result,	
  it	
  may	
  be	
  necessary	
  to	
  involve	
  the	
  guidance	
  counselor	
  or	
  the	
  parents.	
  
Most	
  teachers	
  are	
  very	
  willing	
  to	
  work	
  with	
  students	
  who	
  put	
  forth	
  an	
  effort	
  and	
  act	
  in	
  a	
  
respectful	
  manner.	
  
Matt	
  was	
  having	
  major	
  problems	
  with	
  his	
  chemistry	
  class.	
  The	
  problems	
  assigned	
  seemed	
  like	
  
Greek	
  to	
  him.	
  He	
  finally	
  met	
  with	
  the	
  teacher	
  after	
  receiving	
  an	
  F	
  on	
  his	
  midterm	
  grade.	
  The	
  
teacher	
  set	
  up	
  tutoring	
  sessions	
  with	
  Matt.	
  He	
  ended	
  up	
  with	
  a	
  C,	
  which	
  he	
  was	
  glad	
  to	
  receive!	
  
The	
  chemistry	
  teacher	
  was	
  able	
  to	
  explain	
  the	
  problems	
  more	
  clearly	
  to	
  Matt	
  one-­‐on-­‐one	
  and	
  
was	
  impressed	
  that	
  Matt	
  took	
  the	
  initiative	
  to	
  seek	
  him	
  out.	
  	
  
Help	
  Your	
  Child	
  to	
  be	
  Independent	
  
Encourage	
  your	
  teen	
  to	
  talk	
  to	
  the	
  teacher	
  before	
  he	
  receives	
  a	
  very	
  low	
  grade	
  on	
  his	
  report	
  
card.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  not	
  comfortable	
  talking	
  to	
  the	
  teacher,	
  perhaps	
  you	
  as	
  the	
  parent	
  can	
  email	
  
the	
  teacher	
  and	
  ask	
  for	
  a	
  list	
  of	
  tutors.	
  High	
  school	
  teachers	
  appreciate	
  students	
  who	
  seek	
  out	
  
extra	
  help	
  more	
  than	
  parents,	
  so	
  suggest	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  try	
  to	
  handle	
  it	
  first.	
  	
  
Teachers	
  are	
  looking	
  for	
  students	
  at	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  level	
  to	
  handle	
  their	
  own	
  problems	
  if	
  
possible.	
  Parents	
  should	
  encourage	
  this	
  independence,	
  rather	
  than	
  handling	
  everything	
  for	
  
their	
  teen.	
  Self-­‐reliance	
  in	
  high	
  school	
  will	
  pay	
  off	
  in	
  the	
  future.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
14
 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
#3:	
  	
  Know	
  High	
  School	
  Courses	
  and	
  Class	
  Schedule	
  
Jacqueline	
  and	
  Tom	
  Benezio	
  look	
  at	
  each	
  other	
  with	
  questioning	
  eyes.	
  Their	
  eighth	
  grade	
  son	
  
has	
  just	
  brought	
  home	
  his	
  tentative	
  schedule	
  for	
  next	
  year,	
  his	
  freshman	
  year	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  
The	
  Benezio's	
  are	
  supposed	
  to	
  read	
  over	
  it	
  and	
  sign	
  it	
  so	
  their	
  son	
  can	
  be	
  registered	
  for	
  his	
  
classes.	
  The	
  only	
  problem	
  is	
  that	
  this	
  schedule	
  does	
  not	
  look	
  like	
  the	
  schedules	
  when	
  they	
  were	
  
in	
  school.	
  	
  
All	
  the	
  abbreviations	
  on	
  the	
  computer-­‐generated	
  sheet	
  are	
  quite	
  confusing!	
  There	
  is	
  some	
  
mention	
  of	
  an	
  AP	
  class	
  -­‐	
  what	
  in	
  the	
  world	
  does	
  that	
  mean?	
  If	
  you	
  share	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  confusion,	
  
please	
  read	
  on	
  for	
  some	
  suggestions	
  in	
  decoding	
  your	
  child's	
  schedule.	
  You	
  will	
  also	
  gain	
  an	
  
understanding	
  of	
  what	
  classes	
  are	
  necessary	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  
What	
  Classes	
  Does	
  My	
  Child	
  Need	
  for	
  College?	
  
In	
  determining	
  classes,	
  think	
  about	
  what	
  your	
  child's	
  future	
  plans	
  include.	
  If	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  college	
  
seems	
  to	
  be	
  likely,	
  then	
  a	
  strong	
  academic	
  schedule	
  is	
  necessary	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  English	
  or	
  
language	
  arts	
  will	
  be	
  taken	
  every	
  year	
  of	
  high	
  school.	
  These	
  classes	
  will	
  develop	
  your	
  student's	
  
ability	
  to	
  write	
  and	
  give	
  a	
  speech,	
  as	
  well	
  as	
  expose	
  them	
  to	
  American	
  and	
  English	
  literature.	
  
Students	
  should	
  take	
  algebra	
  and	
  geometry	
  if	
  they	
  are	
  following	
  an	
  academic	
  track.	
  Calculus	
  or	
  
advanced	
  math	
  is	
  a	
  possibility	
  also;	
  make	
  sure	
  your	
  child	
  takes	
  algebra	
  and	
  geometry	
  early	
  in	
  
high	
  school	
  so	
  she	
  will	
  have	
  the	
  option	
  to	
  pursue	
  higher	
  math	
  classes	
  her	
  senior	
  year.	
  	
  
15
Most	
  high	
  schools	
  require	
  six	
  semesters	
  or	
  three	
  years	
  of	
  science.	
  Students	
  take	
  one	
  year	
  of	
  
biology,	
  one	
  year	
  of	
  chemistry	
  and/or	
  physics,	
  and	
  one	
  year	
  of	
  earth	
  science	
  or	
  advanced	
  
biology.	
  Once	
  again,	
  take	
  these	
  courses	
  earlier	
  rather	
  than	
  later	
  so	
  you	
  have	
  the	
  option	
  to	
  take	
  
an	
  advanced	
  course	
  if	
  you	
  would	
  like	
  to	
  do	
  so.	
  
Social	
  studies	
  classes	
  are	
  usually	
  broken	
  down	
  in	
  this	
  way:	
  	
  one	
  year	
  of	
  American	
  history,	
  one	
  
semester	
  of	
  American	
  government,	
  one	
  semester	
  of	
  economics,	
  one	
  semester	
  of	
  world	
  history	
  
or	
  geography,	
  and	
  one	
  semester	
  in	
  another	
  area	
  of	
  social	
  studies.	
  	
  
Many	
  majors	
  in	
  college	
  require	
  two	
  years	
  of	
  foreign	
  language	
  to	
  earn	
  a	
  degree.	
  If	
  you	
  have	
  
previously	
  taken	
  a	
  foreign	
  language	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  it	
  makes	
  the	
  college	
  courses	
  much	
  easier.	
  
College-­‐bound	
  students	
  should	
  seriously	
  consider	
  taking	
  foreign	
  language	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  
High	
  school	
  schedules	
  are	
  usually	
  rounded	
  out	
  with	
  courses	
  from	
  the	
  arts	
  and	
  perhaps	
  some	
  
computer	
  courses.	
  Colleges	
  look	
  for	
  students	
  who	
  are	
  well-­‐rounded,	
  so	
  classes	
  in	
  the	
  arts	
  are	
  
always	
  beneficial	
  on	
  a	
  transcript.	
  Computer	
  skills	
  are	
  also	
  necessary	
  for	
  survival	
  in	
  college	
  and	
  
the	
  business	
  world	
  today.	
  
AP	
  and	
  Honors	
  Classes	
  
What	
  is	
  an	
  AP	
  class?	
  AP	
  stands	
  for	
  Advanced	
  Placement.	
  AP	
  classes	
  offer	
  many	
  benefits	
  for	
  
students	
  who	
  are	
  strong	
  academically	
  and	
  plan	
  to	
  pursue	
  at	
  least	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  degree.	
  
Sometimes	
  these	
  classes	
  are	
  called	
  honors	
  classes;	
  check	
  with	
  your	
  school	
  to	
  determine	
  if	
  
honors	
  mean	
  the	
  same	
  thing	
  as	
  AP.	
  	
  
AP	
  classes	
  are	
  offered	
  in	
  a	
  wide	
  array	
  of	
  subjects.	
  Students	
  must	
  have	
  a	
  certain	
  grade-­‐point	
  
level	
  and	
  standardized	
  test	
  scores	
  to	
  enroll	
  in	
  AP	
  classes.	
  After	
  the	
  student	
  finishes	
  the	
  AP	
  class	
  
his	
  senior	
  year,	
  he	
  can	
  take	
  an	
  exam	
  to	
  receive	
  college	
  credit	
  for	
  the	
  freshmen	
  level	
  of	
  that	
  
course.	
  
Universities	
  look	
  at	
  AP	
  and	
  honors	
  coursework	
  when	
  awarding	
  scholarships.	
  By	
  passing	
  the	
  test,	
  
that	
  is	
  one	
  less	
  college	
  course	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  has	
  to	
  worry	
  about	
  taking.	
  AP	
  courses	
  save	
  money	
  
and	
  study	
  time.	
  Research	
  shows	
  that	
  even	
  one	
  additional	
  year	
  used	
  to	
  finish	
  college	
  can	
  cost	
  an	
  
extra	
  $19,000.	
  
Talk	
  to	
  the	
  School	
  Counselor	
  
You	
  and	
  your	
  child	
  can	
  write	
  a	
  rough	
  draft	
  of	
  the	
  classes	
  she	
  is	
  interested	
  in	
  taking.	
  Meet	
  with	
  
the	
  school	
  counselor	
  if	
  you	
  have	
  questions.	
  It	
  is	
  best	
  to	
  have	
  a	
  long-­‐range	
  plan	
  for	
  high	
  school	
  
classes,	
  so	
  you	
  are	
  not	
  left	
  with	
  regrets	
  at	
  graduation	
  time.	
  Ask	
  the	
  counselor	
  about	
  AP	
  classes,	
  
SAT	
  preparation	
  at	
  the	
  school,	
  and	
  information	
  on	
  nearby	
  college	
  requirements.	
  These	
  answers	
  
will	
  help	
  your	
  child	
  focus	
  on	
  what	
  they	
  need	
  to	
  do	
  now	
  to	
  be	
  ready	
  for	
  college	
  in	
  four	
  years.	
  
	
  
	
  
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Parental	
  Rights	
  
Parents	
  often	
  have	
  to	
  sign	
  the	
  schedule	
  for	
  high	
  school	
  students.	
  Parents	
  are	
  supposed	
  to	
  help	
  
the	
  child	
  choose	
  the	
  courses.	
  Contact	
  the	
  principal	
  or	
  counselor	
  if	
  you	
  have	
  a	
  concern.	
  Perhaps	
  
you	
  feel	
  the	
  courses	
  your	
  child	
  has	
  chosen	
  are	
  too	
  difficult	
  or	
  are	
  not	
  challenging	
  enough.	
  Many	
  
schools	
  now	
  have	
  guides	
  that	
  are	
  either	
  printed	
  or	
  available	
  online.	
  These	
  guides	
  spell	
  out	
  the	
  
recommended	
  coursework.	
  
Students	
  complete	
  a	
  tentative	
  class	
  schedule	
  at	
  school	
  based	
  on	
  what	
  teachers	
  and	
  the	
  
counselor	
  recommends.	
  They	
  bring	
  the	
  tentative	
  schedule	
  home,	
  discuss	
  it	
  with	
  their	
  parents,	
  
and	
  the	
  parents	
  sign	
  it.	
  After	
  the	
  academic	
  requirements	
  have	
  been	
  met,	
  elective	
  can	
  be	
  chosen	
  
based	
  on	
  student	
  interests	
  and	
  what	
  they	
  want	
  to	
  do	
  after	
  high	
  school.	
  
AP	
  Diploma	
  
Some	
  high	
  schools	
  offer	
  a	
  special	
  diploma	
  for	
  students	
  who	
  have	
  taken	
  a	
  specified	
  number	
  of	
  
AP	
  classes.	
  A	
  Florida	
  high	
  school	
  offers	
  an	
  AP	
  diploma	
  for	
  those	
  who	
  have	
  completed	
  at	
  six	
  or	
  
more	
  AP	
  classes	
  in	
  at	
  least	
  three	
  different	
  areas	
  of	
  study.	
  They	
  must	
  have	
  a	
  3.0	
  GPA	
  and	
  have	
  
given	
  seventy-­‐five	
  hours	
  of	
  community	
  service.	
  The	
  candidate	
  must	
  present	
  a	
  research	
  paper	
  to	
  
a	
  school	
  and	
  community	
  panel.	
  For	
  a	
  strong	
  student,	
  this	
  diploma	
  would	
  be	
  fantastic	
  on	
  a	
  
college	
  application.	
  
Vocational	
  and	
  Technical	
  Classes	
  
Some	
  high	
  schools	
  offer	
  vocational	
  and	
  technical	
  classes	
  in	
  conjunction	
  with	
  regular	
  academic	
  
classes.	
  This	
  can	
  be	
  an	
  exciting	
  option	
  for	
  those	
  students	
  not	
  pursuing	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  college	
  
degree.	
  Students	
  who	
  follow	
  this	
  track	
  can	
  get	
  a	
  job	
  right	
  out	
  of	
  high	
  school	
  or	
  proceed	
  to	
  a	
  
community	
  college	
  or	
  technical	
  school.	
  By	
  taking	
  these	
  classes	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  students	
  may	
  be	
  
eligible	
  for	
  advanced	
  placement	
  in	
  technical	
  school,	
  once	
  again	
  saving	
  time	
  and	
  money.	
  
Examples	
  of	
  these	
  types	
  of	
  classes	
  include	
  automotive,	
  culinary	
  arts,	
  building	
  construction,	
  
certified	
  nursing	
  assistance,	
  early	
  childhood	
  development,	
  multimedia	
  design,	
  and	
  computer	
  
technology.	
  Many	
  of	
  these	
  fields	
  are	
  in	
  high	
  demand	
  in	
  the	
  job	
  market	
  today.	
  	
  
Remedial	
  Classes	
  
If	
  a	
  remedial	
  class	
  appears	
  on	
  your	
  child’s	
  high	
  school	
  schedule,	
  call	
  the	
  counselor	
  or	
  principal.	
  
The	
  only	
  reason	
  this	
  would	
  happen	
  is	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  really	
  struggling	
  with	
  an	
  academic	
  area.	
  As	
  
a	
  parent,	
  you	
  would	
  hopefully	
  know	
  about	
  this	
  before	
  a	
  schedule	
  came	
  home.	
  Talk	
  with	
  school	
  
staff	
  and	
  determine	
  if	
  you	
  should	
  arrange	
  tutoring	
  after	
  school	
  to	
  help	
  your	
  child	
  over	
  the	
  
hurdle.	
  
Any	
  time	
  you	
  have	
  a	
  question	
  about	
  classes	
  and	
  scheduling,	
  contact	
  your	
  child’s	
  school.	
  The	
  
faculty	
  is	
  there	
  to	
  help	
  you	
  and	
  will	
  not	
  mind	
  answering	
  your	
  questions.	
  Use	
  email	
  if	
  you	
  do	
  not	
  
feel	
  comfortable	
  phoning.	
  Reach	
  out	
  to	
  find	
  the	
  answers	
  you	
  need.	
  
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#4:	
  	
  Review	
  Graduation	
  Requirements	
  	
  
Are	
  you	
  in	
  the	
  dark	
  about	
  what	
  is	
  required	
  for	
  your	
  child	
  to	
  graduate	
  high	
  school?	
  Parents	
  
should	
  start	
  to	
  investigate	
  this	
  information	
  before	
  their	
  children	
  begin	
  high	
  school.	
  Senior	
  year	
  
will	
  be	
  too	
  late	
  to	
  focus	
  on	
  graduation	
  requirements!	
  Parents	
  can	
  search	
  on	
  the	
  internet	
  for	
  
official	
  state	
  websites	
  that	
  list	
  what	
  is	
  required	
  to	
  graduate	
  in	
  any	
  particular	
  state.	
  
Most	
  states	
  provide	
  information	
  for	
  regular	
  diplomas	
  and	
  advanced	
  diplomas.	
  Many	
  states	
  also	
  
offer	
  adult	
  alternative	
  diplomas	
  and	
  special	
  education	
  diplomas.	
  Information	
  is	
  also	
  available	
  on	
  
these	
  sites	
  for	
  graduation	
  exams	
  given	
  in	
  each	
  state.	
  Your	
  individual	
  high	
  school	
  should	
  also	
  be	
  
able	
  to	
  provide	
  this	
  information.	
  
All	
  states	
  require	
  a	
  basic	
  number	
  of	
  core	
  courses,	
  including	
  math,	
  science,	
  language	
  arts	
  
(English),	
  and	
  history.	
  You	
  can	
  be	
  assured	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  will	
  have	
  to	
  take	
  four	
  years	
  of	
  English,	
  
three	
  years	
  of	
  math,	
  three	
  years	
  of	
  science,	
  and	
  several	
  history	
  classes	
  to	
  graduate.	
  	
  Many	
  
states	
  have	
  increased	
  math	
  and	
  science	
  requirements	
  in	
  recent	
  years	
  to	
  help	
  the	
  United	
  States	
  
compete	
  globally.	
  
What	
  about	
  My	
  Local	
  School?	
  
Some	
  states	
  require	
  a	
  large	
  number	
  of	
  credits	
  and	
  all	
  the	
  schools	
  in	
  the	
  state	
  abide	
  by	
  this	
  
standard.	
  Other	
  states	
  require	
  a	
  lesser	
  number,	
  but	
  individual	
  districts	
  add	
  their	
  own	
  credit	
  
requirements.	
  Usually	
  one	
  class	
  counts	
  as	
  one	
  credit.	
  Some	
  classes	
  that	
  only	
  last	
  one	
  semester	
  
count	
  as	
  a	
  half-­‐credit.	
  Students	
  often	
  take	
  American	
  government	
  and	
  then	
  another	
  social	
  
studies	
  course	
  for	
  one	
  semester	
  each;	
  the	
  two	
  half-­‐credits	
  equal	
  one	
  whole.	
  
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After	
  you	
  check	
  your	
  state	
  requirements,	
  be	
  sure	
  to	
  check	
  your	
  local	
  school’s	
  website	
  for	
  the	
  
most	
  in-­‐depth	
  credit	
  information.	
  If	
  you	
  cannot	
  find	
  the	
  information	
  there,	
  contact	
  the	
  school	
  
counselor	
  or	
  office	
  staff	
  for	
  a	
  copy	
  of	
  the	
  requirements.	
  This	
  can	
  easily	
  be	
  accomplished	
  by	
  
email.	
  Once	
  again,	
  you	
  do	
  not	
  want	
  to	
  wait	
  until	
  junior	
  or	
  senior	
  year	
  to	
  know	
  what	
  is	
  required	
  
to	
  graduate;	
  early	
  knowledge	
  is	
  essential.	
  
Current	
  Research	
  about	
  College	
  Preparation	
  and	
  Classes	
  
The	
  ACT	
  test	
  is	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  two	
  common	
  tests	
  that	
  students	
  take	
  for	
  college	
  entrance.	
  The	
  
company	
  that	
  produces	
  the	
  ACT	
  has	
  completed	
  studies	
  on	
  which	
  high	
  school	
  classes	
  benefit	
  
college-­‐bound	
  students.	
  These	
  courses	
  are	
  English	
  for	
  four	
  years,	
  algebra	
  I	
  and	
  II,	
  one	
  other	
  
high-­‐level	
  mathematics	
  course,	
  biology,	
  chemistry,	
  and	
  physics.	
  ACT	
  also	
  recommends	
  taking	
  a	
  
foreign	
  language	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  even	
  if	
  it	
  is	
  not	
  explicitly	
  required.	
  
Which	
  Classes	
  to	
  Take?	
  
Some	
  students	
  and	
  parents	
  focus	
  on	
  the	
  number	
  of	
  credits	
  required	
  to	
  graduate	
  and	
  the	
  bare	
  
minimum	
  of	
  required	
  classes.	
  If	
  your	
  teen	
  is	
  planning	
  on	
  attending	
  college,	
  encourage	
  him	
  to	
  
investigate	
  the	
  more	
  rigorous	
  high	
  school	
  classes.	
  Students	
  who	
  take	
  the	
  easiest	
  high	
  school	
  
courses	
  possible	
  are	
  often	
  not	
  prepared	
  if	
  they	
  attend	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  university.	
  Some	
  students	
  
have	
  to	
  utilize	
  extra	
  time	
  and	
  money	
  pursuing	
  remedial	
  classes	
  in	
  college	
  due	
  to	
  their	
  
insufficient	
  high	
  school	
  preparation.	
  
ACT	
  has	
  found	
  that	
  only	
  one	
  third	
  of	
  all	
  students	
  who	
  take	
  the	
  ACT	
  for	
  college	
  have	
  taken	
  all	
  
the	
  recommended	
  college	
  prep	
  courses.	
  Some	
  minority	
  ethnic	
  groups	
  have	
  even	
  lower	
  
numbers	
  of	
  students	
  who	
  are	
  well-­‐prepared	
  for	
  college.	
  
Some	
  school	
  districts	
  are	
  now	
  trying	
  to	
  align	
  their	
  graduation	
  requirements	
  with	
  college	
  
requirements.	
  Parents	
  can	
  check	
  with	
  their	
  own	
  particular	
  school	
  and	
  compare	
  these	
  
requirements	
  with	
  what	
  state	
  universities	
  require.	
  Schools	
  are	
  getting	
  creative	
  in	
  providing	
  
teachers	
  for	
  advanced	
  classes;	
  many	
  states	
  are	
  using	
  online	
  courses	
  and	
  video	
  conferences	
  to	
  
enrich	
  student	
  experiences.	
  	
  
What	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  interested	
  in	
  attending	
  career/technical	
  classes	
  in	
  high	
  school	
  instead	
  of	
  
preparing	
  for	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  college?	
  These	
  programs	
  exist	
  and	
  may	
  have	
  their	
  own	
  list	
  of	
  
graduation	
  requirements.	
  Many	
  states	
  are	
  combining	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  curricula	
  with	
  more	
  
academics.	
  For	
  example,	
  a	
  math	
  teacher	
  may	
  be	
  paired	
  with	
  an	
  auto	
  technology	
  teacher	
  to	
  
explain	
  math	
  concepts	
  in	
  the	
  industry.	
  This	
  actually	
  prepares	
  students	
  more	
  for	
  the	
  workplace	
  
than	
  previous	
  methods.	
  
Recent	
  research	
  indicates	
  that	
  "college	
  prep"	
  and	
  "work-­‐ready"	
  are	
  closely	
  related	
  today.	
  The	
  
workplace	
  today	
  is	
  more	
  technical	
  than	
  in	
  decades	
  past;	
  students	
  need	
  math,	
  science,	
  and	
  
writing	
  skills	
  to	
  succeed.	
  Even	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  not	
  planning	
  on	
  attending	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  university,	
  
encourage	
  her	
  to	
  take	
  challenging	
  academic	
  classes.	
  
19
What	
  if	
  My	
  Child	
  Fails	
  a	
  Class?	
  
Perhaps	
  your	
  teen	
  has	
  failed	
  a	
  necessary	
  class	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  Do	
  not	
  panic	
  and	
  do	
  let	
  a	
  failing	
  
grade	
  damage	
  your	
  relationship	
  with	
  your	
  child.	
  Summer	
  school	
  may	
  be	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  best	
  options	
  
for	
  retaking	
  a	
  failed	
  class.	
  Other	
  options	
  include	
  retaking	
  during	
  the	
  regular	
  school	
  year,	
  
repeating	
  an	
  entire	
  year,	
  or	
  possibly	
  an	
  online	
  class.	
  	
  
Summer	
  school	
  classes	
  are	
  often	
  small	
  and	
  more	
  informal.	
  Some	
  teens	
  can	
  actually	
  learn	
  better	
  
in	
  this	
  environment,	
  especially	
  difficult	
  subject	
  matter.	
  The	
  summer	
  school	
  grade	
  will	
  replace	
  
the	
  failing	
  grade	
  and	
  will	
  increase	
  your	
  child's	
  GPA.	
  By	
  focusing	
  on	
  the	
  class	
  in	
  summer	
  school,	
  
your	
  teen	
  will	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  perform	
  better	
  without	
  the	
  stress	
  of	
  an	
  extra	
  class	
  during	
  the	
  regular	
  
school	
  year.	
  
Talk	
  with	
  your	
  student	
  about	
  how	
  to	
  prevent	
  failing	
  a	
  class	
  in	
  the	
  future.	
  Be	
  sure	
  to	
  seek	
  help	
  
early	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  appears	
  to	
  be	
  struggling.	
  
	
  
Talk	
  to	
  the	
  School	
  Counselor	
  
If	
  you	
  feel	
  unsure	
  about	
  graduation	
  requirements	
  for	
  your	
  child’s	
  school,	
  talk	
  to	
  the	
  school	
  
counselor.	
  He	
  or	
  she	
  should	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  provide	
  you	
  with	
  a	
  list	
  of	
  required	
  courses.	
  The	
  
counselor	
  can	
  also	
  recommend	
  classes	
  based	
  on	
  your	
  child’s	
  record	
  and	
  future	
  plans.	
  
If	
  your	
  child	
  wants	
  to	
  attend	
  college,	
  be	
  sure	
  to	
  encourage	
  as	
  many	
  college	
  prep	
  courses	
  as	
  he	
  
can	
  handle.	
  A	
  few	
  difficult	
  high	
  school	
  classes	
  can	
  pay	
  off	
  when	
  your	
  student	
  reaches	
  college	
  
and	
  is	
  at	
  least	
  familiar	
  with	
  the	
  material.	
  	
  
Don’t	
  forget	
  to	
  remind	
  your	
  teen	
  about	
  balance;	
  colleges	
  look	
  at	
  more	
  than	
  just	
  good	
  grades.	
  A	
  
few	
  extracurricular	
  and	
  community	
  activities	
  plus	
  a	
  3.7	
  GPA	
  can	
  look	
  better	
  than	
  a	
  4.0	
  GPA	
  and	
  
no	
  extra	
  activities.	
  Talk	
  to	
  your	
  teen	
  and	
  try	
  to	
  assist	
  him	
  in	
  determining	
  his	
  long-­‐range	
  goals.	
  	
  
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#5:	
  	
  Think	
  About	
  College	
  Early	
  On	
  
As	
  a	
  parent	
  of	
  a	
  teenager,	
  you	
  may	
  wonder,	
  "Will	
  my	
  child	
  go	
  to	
  college?"	
  Perhaps	
  you	
  have	
  
always	
  planned	
  that	
  he	
  will	
  do	
  so;	
  you	
  have	
  saved	
  money	
  for	
  college	
  since	
  his	
  birth.	
  If	
  you	
  did	
  
not	
  attend	
  college,	
  you	
  may	
  not	
  have	
  really	
  considered	
  it	
  until	
  your	
  child	
  entered	
  high	
  school.	
  
Whatever	
  category	
  you	
  fall	
  into,	
  it	
  is	
  a	
  major	
  decision	
  that	
  you	
  and	
  your	
  teen	
  must	
  make	
  
together.	
  
Research	
  show	
  that	
  students	
  who	
  graduate	
  from	
  college	
  often	
  have	
  a	
  higher	
  income	
  than	
  those	
  
who	
  only	
  attain	
  a	
  high	
  school	
  diploma.	
  College	
  is	
  not	
  for	
  everyone,	
  but	
  most	
  parents	
  do	
  
encourage	
  their	
  children	
  to	
  seek	
  some	
  type	
  of	
  higher	
  education.	
  
Parents	
  can	
  speak	
  of	
  college	
  in	
  a	
  positive	
  manner	
  as	
  a	
  way	
  of	
  encouraging	
  their	
  children.	
  If	
  you	
  
attended	
  a	
  university	
  in	
  the	
  past,	
  take	
  your	
  kids	
  to	
  visit	
  the	
  campus	
  and	
  maybe	
  attend	
  a	
  
sporting	
  event.	
  Kids	
  who	
  grow	
  up	
  exposed	
  to	
  collegiate	
  events	
  will	
  probably	
  be	
  more	
  excited	
  
about	
  going	
  to	
  college.	
  
As	
  a	
  parent,	
  you	
  know	
  your	
  child	
  and	
  their	
  capabilities.	
  If	
  you	
  have	
  questions	
  about	
  your	
  
student's	
  academic	
  abilities,	
  set	
  up	
  a	
  meeting	
  with	
  the	
  school	
  counselor	
  or	
  a	
  teacher	
  who	
  
knows	
  your	
  child	
  well.	
  Educational	
  professionals	
  may	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  help	
  you	
  and	
  your	
  child	
  decide	
  
if	
  college	
  is	
  the	
  best	
  route	
  to	
  success.	
  Some	
  students	
  may	
  find	
  satisfying	
  careers	
  by	
  attending	
  
technical	
  schools	
  or	
  community	
  colleges.	
  
	
  
	
  
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Preparing	
  for	
  College	
  in	
  High	
  School	
  
If	
  your	
  teen	
  plans	
  on	
  attending	
  a	
  four-­‐year	
  university,	
  she	
  needs	
  to	
  be	
  sure	
  she	
  takes	
  all	
  the	
  
required	
  academic	
  courses.	
  A	
  strong	
  academic	
  schedule	
  in	
  high	
  school	
  is	
  important	
  preparation	
  
for	
  college.	
  	
  
Your	
  student	
  may	
  be	
  interested	
  in	
  a	
  specific	
  field	
  of	
  study	
  in	
  college.	
  Look	
  at	
  a	
  college	
  catalog	
  
that	
  lists	
  courses	
  for	
  various	
  majors.	
  You	
  can	
  usually	
  find	
  the	
  catalog	
  on	
  the	
  college	
  website.	
  
This	
  information	
  can	
  help	
  you	
  decide	
  where	
  your	
  child	
  should	
  focus	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  
For	
  example,	
  many	
  majors	
  in	
  colleges	
  of	
  arts	
  and	
  sciences	
  require	
  two	
  years	
  of	
  a	
  foreign	
  
language.	
  If	
  a	
  student	
  has	
  studied	
  foreign	
  language	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  it	
  will	
  be	
  much	
  easier	
  when	
  
they	
  take	
  it	
  in	
  college.	
  Studying	
  a	
  foreign	
  language	
  for	
  the	
  first	
  time	
  at	
  the	
  college	
  level	
  can	
  be	
  
difficult!	
  Most	
  states	
  do	
  not	
  require	
  foreign	
  languages	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  so	
  it	
  something	
  to	
  
consider	
  when	
  preparing	
  for	
  college.	
  
Your	
  teen	
  may	
  be	
  interested	
  in	
  a	
  specific	
  career,	
  such	
  as	
  medicine.	
  This	
  student	
  should	
  take	
  as	
  
many	
  advanced	
  science	
  and	
  math	
  courses	
  as	
  they	
  can	
  in	
  order	
  to	
  prepare	
  for	
  the	
  rigorous	
  
college	
  classes	
  down	
  the	
  road.	
  
Students	
  who	
  are	
  strong	
  in	
  academics	
  can	
  take	
  advanced	
  placement	
  courses.	
  Not	
  only	
  do	
  AP	
  
courses	
  help	
  prepare	
  you	
  for	
  college,	
  you	
  can	
  get	
  freshman	
  college	
  credit	
  and	
  save	
  money	
  and	
  
time.	
  Some	
  high	
  schools	
  offer	
  AP	
  technical	
  classes	
  that	
  allow	
  students	
  to	
  begin	
  a	
  technical	
  
program	
  at	
  a	
  community	
  college	
  at	
  an	
  advanced	
  level.	
  
SAT	
  
Every	
  student	
  who	
  plans	
  to	
  attend	
  college	
  will	
  take	
  the	
  SAT	
  or	
  ACT.	
  These	
  are	
  standardized	
  
placement	
  tests	
  that	
  determine	
  a	
  student's	
  general	
  and	
  subject	
  knowledge.	
  The	
  tests	
  also	
  serve	
  
as	
  a	
  predictor	
  of	
  how	
  well	
  a	
  student	
  will	
  perform	
  in	
  college.	
  Your	
  child	
  can	
  retake	
  the	
  SAT	
  
several	
  times	
  to	
  try	
  and	
  receive	
  the	
  best	
  score	
  possible.	
  	
  
Many	
  high	
  schools	
  offer	
  SAT	
  preparation	
  courses	
  after	
  school	
  or	
  on	
  Saturdays.	
  The	
  school	
  
counselor	
  can	
  direct	
  you	
  to	
  the	
  closest	
  SAT	
  preparation	
  course.	
  These	
  classes	
  can	
  be	
  
worthwhile,	
  especially	
  if	
  your	
  teen	
  has	
  difficulty	
  with	
  standardized	
  tests	
  or	
  test	
  anxiety.	
  
Students	
  can	
  take	
  the	
  test	
  for	
  the	
  first	
  time	
  their	
  junior	
  year,	
  so	
  they	
  have	
  plenty	
  of	
  time	
  to	
  
retake	
  it	
  if	
  they	
  choose	
  to	
  do	
  so.	
  Ask	
  your	
  school	
  staff	
  when	
  they	
  recommend	
  taking	
  college	
  
entrance	
  tests.	
  
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The	
  SAT	
  itself	
  is	
  given	
  at	
  various	
  sites;	
  your	
  school	
  counselor	
  can	
  tell	
  you	
  the	
  dates	
  and	
  
locations.	
  You	
  must	
  register	
  and	
  pay	
  a	
  fee	
  in	
  advance	
  to	
  take	
  the	
  test.	
  Be	
  sure	
  to	
  read	
  over	
  the	
  
test-­‐day	
  instructions	
  as	
  to	
  what	
  to	
  bring	
  and	
  the	
  starting	
  time.	
  Try	
  not	
  to	
  place	
  too	
  much	
  
pressure	
  on	
  your	
  teen	
  about	
  “the	
  test”.	
  Help	
  them	
  to	
  relax	
  –	
  they	
  can	
  always	
  retake	
  it.	
  
The	
  SAT	
  score,	
  along	
  with	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  transcript	
  of	
  grades,	
  will	
  be	
  used	
  to	
  apply	
  to	
  various	
  
colleges.	
  When	
  your	
  child	
  takes	
  the	
  SAT,	
  he	
  can	
  have	
  his	
  score	
  sent	
  to	
  several	
  colleges	
  
automatically.	
  You	
  can	
  apply	
  to	
  colleges	
  online	
  now,	
  which	
  makes	
  it	
  much	
  easier	
  and	
  faster	
  
than	
  in	
  the	
  old	
  days!	
  
	
  
Applying	
  for	
  College	
  
When	
  you	
  help	
  your	
  child	
  apply	
  for	
  college,	
  you	
  can	
  often	
  apply	
  for	
  any	
  applicable	
  scholarships	
  
at	
  that	
  time.	
  You	
  will	
  fill	
  out	
  a	
  federal	
  financial	
  aid	
  form	
  and	
  then	
  the	
  school's	
  individual	
  
scholarship	
  form.	
  The	
  college	
  will	
  inform	
  you	
  if	
  your	
  teen	
  is	
  eligible	
  for	
  any	
  scholarships	
  offered.	
  
A	
  high	
  SAT	
  or	
  ACT	
  score	
  can	
  qualify	
  students	
  for	
  academic	
  scholarships.	
  This	
  is	
  why	
  it	
  is	
  
important	
  for	
  your	
  child	
  to	
  acquire	
  the	
  best	
  score	
  possible.	
  Many	
  students	
  take	
  these	
  tests	
  at	
  
least	
  twice	
  for	
  this	
  reason.	
  
Online	
  services	
  also	
  offer	
  scholarship	
  monitoring	
  across	
  the	
  nation.	
  You	
  register	
  with	
  the	
  
service	
  and	
  fill	
  out	
  information	
  about	
  your	
  background	
  and	
  your	
  desired	
  field	
  of	
  study.	
  The	
  
scholarship	
  search	
  service	
  emails	
  you	
  when	
  scholarships	
  become	
  available	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  can	
  
apply	
  for.	
  Fastweb	
  is	
  one	
  such	
  service	
  you	
  may	
  want	
  to	
  try.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
23
Helping	
  your	
  child	
  prepare	
  for	
  college	
  is	
  an	
  important	
  part	
  of	
  parenting.	
  Be	
  positive	
  and	
  
encouraging	
  with	
  your	
  child.	
  Expose	
  them	
  to	
  different	
  career	
  choices	
  and	
  encourage	
  them	
  to	
  
follow	
  their	
  interests.	
  By	
  knowing	
  what	
  they	
  are	
  interested	
  in,	
  students	
  can	
  choose	
  the	
  right	
  
field	
  of	
  study	
  at	
  the	
  right	
  university	
  for	
  them.	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
	
  
Realize	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  is	
  rapidly	
  changing	
  as	
  they	
  grow	
  up,	
  and	
  that	
  their	
  interests	
  and	
  plans	
  
will	
  probably	
  change	
  along	
  the	
  way.	
  Are	
  you	
  working	
  in	
  the	
  field	
  that	
  you	
  dreamed	
  of	
  as	
  a	
  
child?	
  Probably	
  not,	
  although	
  some	
  career	
  experts	
  say	
  that	
  this	
  can	
  lead	
  you	
  to	
  your	
  dream	
  job	
  
–	
  returning	
  to	
  what	
  you	
  interested	
  you	
  as	
  a	
  child.	
  You	
  are	
  your	
  child’s	
  best	
  cheerleader	
  and	
  
coach!	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
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#6:	
  	
  Capitalize	
  on	
  Teen’s	
  Strengths	
  
Sandy	
  O'Brien's	
  teenage	
  daughter	
  likes	
  to	
  go	
  to	
  the	
  public	
  library	
  after	
  school	
  to	
  study.	
  Her	
  son	
  
prefers	
  to	
  lie	
  on	
  his	
  bed,	
  listening	
  to	
  music,	
  while	
  he	
  studies	
  for	
  a	
  test.	
  Sandy	
  remembers	
  that	
  
she	
  always	
  sat	
  at	
  a	
  desk	
  in	
  her	
  room	
  as	
  a	
  teen	
  and	
  copied	
  her	
  notes	
  over	
  and	
  over	
  until	
  she	
  
could	
  remember	
  them.	
  What	
  is	
  the	
  best	
  way	
  for	
  high	
  school	
  students	
  to	
  learn?	
  
Everyone	
  learns	
  in	
  different	
  ways.	
  The	
  three	
  basic	
  styles	
  of	
  learning	
  are	
  visual,	
  kinesthetic	
  
(touch),	
  and	
  auditory.	
  Many	
  students	
  combine	
  two	
  styles	
  when	
  they	
  learn,	
  although	
  one	
  style	
  
will	
  be	
  their	
  primary.	
  Parents	
  often	
  use	
  a	
  different	
  style	
  of	
  learning	
  from	
  their	
  children.	
  Parents	
  
can	
  help	
  their	
  teens	
  find	
  the	
  way	
  they	
  learn	
  best	
  and	
  understand	
  that	
  it	
  may	
  be	
  different	
  from	
  
the	
  way	
  they	
  learn.	
  
Visual	
  Learners	
  
Visual	
  learners	
  make	
  up	
  forty	
  percent	
  of	
  all	
  teens.	
  These	
  students	
  have	
  a	
  mental	
  picture	
  of	
  
items	
  or	
  concepts	
  they	
  are	
  trying	
  to	
  remember.	
  Visual	
  learners	
  either	
  see	
  a	
  picture,	
  the	
  actual	
  
item,	
  or	
  the	
  letters	
  that	
  spell	
  the	
  word	
  in	
  their	
  mind.	
  They	
  learn	
  by	
  seeing	
  and	
  watching.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
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Kinesthetic	
  Learners	
  
Nearly	
  fifty	
  percent	
  of	
  teens	
  are	
  kinesthetic	
  learners	
  who	
  learn	
  through	
  movement	
  and	
  touch.	
  
These	
  students	
  are	
  often	
  talented	
  in	
  the	
  arts	
  and	
  design.	
  Kinesthetic	
  students	
  like	
  to	
  learn	
  how	
  
things	
  work	
  on	
  the	
  inside.	
  The	
  traditional	
  classroom	
  can	
  be	
  hard	
  for	
  these	
  types	
  of	
  learners.	
  
Kinesthetic	
  learners	
  can	
  write	
  the	
  material	
  in	
  different	
  colors	
  and	
  forms,	
  make	
  up	
  stories	
  and	
  
poems,	
  and	
  devise	
  word	
  puzzles	
  to	
  help	
  them	
  learn.	
  
Auditory	
  Learning	
  
Students	
  who	
  are	
  auditory	
  learners	
  learn	
  by	
  listening.	
  Songs	
  and	
  poems	
  assist	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  
learner	
  dramatically.	
  Only	
  ten	
  percent	
  of	
  teens	
  use	
  auditory	
  learning	
  as	
  their	
  primary	
  method.	
  
The	
  traditional	
  classroom	
  relies	
  heavily	
  on	
  auditory	
  presentation,	
  but	
  this	
  does	
  seem	
  to	
  be	
  
changing.	
  Many	
  teachers	
  now	
  use	
  visual	
  presentation	
  devices	
  through	
  computers	
  to	
  show	
  
visually	
  what	
  they	
  are	
  talking	
  about.	
  
Your	
  teen	
  can	
  try	
  different	
  styles	
  of	
  studying	
  to	
  see	
  what	
  works	
  best	
  for	
  them.	
  Many	
  students	
  
figure	
  this	
  out,	
  but	
  some	
  need	
  help	
  in	
  this	
  area.	
  Experienced	
  tutors	
  often	
  can	
  help	
  students	
  
define	
  their	
  learning	
  style.	
  Online	
  learning	
  styles	
  inventories	
  are	
  available	
  also.	
  
More	
  Tips	
  for	
  Visual	
  Learners	
  
	
  
Visual	
  learners	
  need	
  to	
  take	
  notes	
  in	
  class	
  and	
  when	
  they	
  study.	
  Highlighting	
  important	
  
passages	
  can	
  be	
  helpful.	
  Visual	
  students	
  enjoy	
  creating	
  graphs	
  and	
  charts	
  to	
  organize	
  material.	
  
Acronyms	
  and	
  mnemonics	
  can	
  also	
  be	
  useful	
  memorization	
  tools.	
  Visual	
  learners	
  can	
  use	
  a	
  
computer	
  to	
  create	
  charts	
  and	
  visual	
  presentations	
  of	
  the	
  subject	
  matter.	
  The	
  teen	
  can	
  make	
  
flashcards;	
  this	
  provides	
  twice	
  the	
  learning	
  by	
  making	
  the	
  cards	
  and	
  then	
  later	
  reviewing	
  them.	
  
Kinesthetic	
  Learning	
  Tips	
  
Kinesthetic	
  learners	
  should	
  sit	
  near	
  the	
  front	
  and	
  write	
  down	
  their	
  notes	
  in	
  a	
  focused	
  manner.	
  
While	
  studying,	
  they	
  can	
  walk	
  around	
  as	
  they	
  read	
  from	
  their	
  notes	
  or	
  the	
  textbook.	
  Kinesthetic	
  
students	
  can	
  write	
  lists	
  over	
  and	
  over.	
  Using	
  the	
  computer	
  to	
  create	
  lists	
  and	
  recreate	
  
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information	
  can	
  be	
  useful.	
  Students	
  can	
  use	
  gestures	
  to	
  explain	
  facts	
  and	
  can	
  create	
  models	
  
when	
  appropriate.	
  Making	
  flashcards	
  and	
  putting	
  them	
  in	
  order	
  can	
  assist	
  in	
  learning	
  a	
  
sequence	
  of	
  events.	
  
Auditory	
  Style	
  Pointers	
  
Auditory	
  learners	
  can	
  explain	
  the	
  lesson	
  to	
  you,	
  the	
  parent.	
  These	
  teens	
  can	
  make	
  up	
  a	
  song	
  to	
  
try	
  to	
  remember	
  the	
  subject	
  matter.	
  Auditory	
  students	
  should	
  review	
  all	
  lessons	
  out	
  loud	
  and	
  
can	
  create	
  rhymes	
  to	
  remember	
  specifics.	
  Study	
  groups	
  or	
  partners	
  can	
  be	
  helpful.	
  
Parents	
  can	
  help	
  each	
  type	
  of	
  learner	
  identify	
  a	
  place	
  where	
  they	
  can	
  study.	
  Some	
  teens	
  prefer	
  
their	
  bedroom	
  or	
  they	
  may	
  find	
  a	
  quiet	
  corner	
  elsewhere	
  in	
  the	
  house.	
  A	
  specific	
  study	
  spot	
  can	
  
be	
  identified	
  and	
  this	
  can	
  help	
  teens	
  settle	
  down	
  when	
  it	
  is	
  time	
  to	
  study.	
  
Note-­‐Taking	
  
All	
  students	
  should	
  take	
  notes	
  in	
  class.	
  Notes	
  help	
  students	
  learn	
  about	
  organization,	
  listening,	
  
and	
  assessing	
  what	
  is	
  important.	
  Teens	
  can	
  take	
  some	
  steps	
  to	
  improve	
  their	
  note-­‐taking	
  and	
  
make	
  test	
  time	
  a	
  little	
  easier.	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Students	
  should	
  read	
  the	
  material	
  ahead	
  of	
  class	
  time	
  if	
  possible.	
  This	
  helps	
  in	
  comprehending	
  
what	
  the	
  lesson	
  is	
  about	
  while	
  the	
  teacher	
  is	
  lecturing.	
  Write	
  the	
  date	
  and	
  chapter	
  at	
  the	
  top	
  of	
  
your	
  notes.	
  Students	
  may	
  have	
  to	
  use	
  abbreviations	
  to	
  keep	
  up.	
  Watch	
  and	
  listen	
  for	
  clues	
  in	
  
the	
  teacher's	
  presentation	
  that	
  let	
  you	
  know	
  if	
  certain	
  information	
  is	
  more	
  important.	
  
Teens	
  that	
  rewrite	
  their	
  notes	
  after	
  school	
  on	
  a	
  regular	
  basis	
  will	
  be	
  much	
  better	
  prepared	
  
when	
  studying	
  for	
  a	
  test.	
  No	
  monster	
  cramming	
  session	
  required	
  because	
  your	
  teen	
  has	
  
reviewed	
  the	
  material	
  all	
  along!	
  Teen	
  should	
  take	
  study	
  breaks	
  after	
  thirty	
  minutes	
  or	
  so	
  
anyway	
  to	
  avoid	
  frustration.	
  
Time	
  Management	
  
All	
  types	
  of	
  learners	
  can	
  have	
  issues	
  with	
  time	
  management.	
  Some	
  teens	
  are	
  disorganized	
  
and/or	
  have	
  a	
  poor	
  sense	
  of	
  time	
  passing.	
  Others	
  may	
  be	
  more	
  perfectionistic	
  and	
  feel	
  if	
  they	
  
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cannot	
  do	
  things	
  perfectly,	
  then	
  they	
  should	
  not	
  do	
  them	
  at	
  all.	
  This	
  type	
  of	
  mentality	
  puts	
  
students	
  behind	
  due	
  to	
  procrastination.	
  
Encourage	
  your	
  teen	
  to	
  pick	
  out	
  an	
  organizer	
  so	
  they	
  will	
  be	
  more	
  likely	
  to	
  use	
  it.	
  Students	
  can	
  
make	
  lists	
  and	
  put	
  the	
  most	
  important	
  things	
  to	
  accomplish	
  at	
  the	
  top.	
  Perfectionists	
  have	
  to	
  
learn	
  to	
  complete	
  the	
  hard	
  things	
  first	
  so	
  they	
  can	
  move	
  on.	
  Teens	
  can	
  use	
  their	
  organizer	
  to	
  
form	
  small	
  increments	
  of	
  study	
  time	
  to	
  accomplish	
  their	
  goals.	
  
Test-­‐Taking	
  
Does	
  your	
  teen	
  experience	
  test	
  anxiety?	
  After	
  the	
  first	
  test,	
  students	
  should	
  have	
  a	
  feel	
  for	
  
what	
  type	
  of	
  test	
  the	
  instructor	
  will	
  give.	
  If	
  your	
  child	
  has	
  prepared	
  over	
  time	
  and	
  not	
  crammed	
  
at	
  the	
  last	
  minute,	
  he	
  is	
  more	
  likely	
  to	
  feel	
  relaxed	
  and	
  less	
  anxious.	
  Teens	
  should	
  eat	
  a	
  decent	
  
breakfast	
  on	
  test	
  day	
  and	
  avoid	
  talking	
  to	
  other	
  students	
  before	
  the	
  test	
  as	
  this	
  can	
  lead	
  to	
  
nervousness.	
  	
  
	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Explore	
  the	
  learning	
  style	
  of	
  your	
  teen	
  so	
  you	
  can	
  assist	
  them	
  with	
  various	
  study	
  methods.	
  
Provide	
  an	
  appropriate	
  place	
  to	
  study	
  and	
  learn.	
  Assist	
  your	
  teen	
  in	
  learning	
  time	
  management	
  
and	
  how	
  to	
  take	
  notes	
  in	
  class.	
  Your	
  high	
  school	
  student	
  will	
  thank	
  you	
  by	
  bringing	
  home	
  better	
  
grades.	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
	
  
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#7:	
  	
  Take	
  Advantage	
  of	
  Special	
  Programs	
  
Does	
  your	
  child's	
  high	
  school	
  offer	
  a	
  special	
  program	
  for	
  kids	
  interested	
  in	
  a	
  "total	
  immersion”	
  
foreign	
  language	
  experience?	
  What	
  about	
  options	
  for	
  students	
  who	
  love	
  the	
  fine	
  arts?	
  Check	
  
out	
  your	
  school's	
  website	
  or	
  contact	
  the	
  school	
  counselor	
  for	
  the	
  latest	
  information	
  on	
  special	
  
programs	
  at	
  your	
  local	
  high	
  school.	
  
Many	
  different	
  areas	
  fall	
  into	
  the	
  category	
  of	
  "special	
  programs".	
  A	
  high	
  school	
  may	
  offer	
  
special	
  services	
  for	
  adults	
  who	
  are	
  returning	
  to	
  get	
  their	
  diploma.	
  Classes	
  may	
  be	
  offered	
  at	
  
night	
  to	
  accommodate	
  non-­‐traditional	
  students.	
  High	
  schools	
  also	
  may	
  offer	
  other	
  classes	
  to	
  
the	
  community	
  after	
  hours	
  such	
  as	
  computer	
  technology	
  and	
  financial	
  planning.	
  
If	
  your	
  child	
  will	
  be	
  a	
  first-­‐generation	
  college	
  student,	
  check	
  and	
  see	
  if	
  your	
  school	
  offers	
  a	
  
college-­‐success	
  program.	
  This	
  is	
  a	
  special	
  program	
  that	
  assists	
  students	
  and	
  parents	
  who	
  are	
  
not	
  familiar	
  with	
  the	
  college	
  admissions	
  and	
  completion	
  process.	
  School	
  staff	
  and	
  college	
  
personnel	
  work	
  with	
  parents	
  and	
  students	
  to	
  make	
  sure	
  the	
  best	
  options	
  are	
  considered	
  for	
  a	
  
college	
  education.	
  
Advanced	
  Placement	
  and	
  Special	
  Interest	
  Classes	
  
Advanced	
  Placement	
  (AP)	
  courses	
  are	
  another	
  special	
  program	
  that	
  your	
  high	
  school	
  may	
  offer.	
  
AP	
  classes	
  are	
  usually	
  open	
  to	
  eleventh	
  and	
  twelfth	
  grade	
  students	
  who	
  have	
  a	
  certain	
  grade-­‐
point	
  level	
  and	
  meet	
  the	
  prerequisites.	
  	
  At	
  the	
  end	
  of	
  the	
  year,	
  students	
  can	
  take	
  an	
  exam	
  and	
  
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receive	
  college	
  credit	
  for	
  the	
  class	
  if	
  they	
  score	
  a	
  certain	
  level.	
  AP	
  classes	
  are	
  an	
  effective	
  way	
  to	
  
complete	
  college	
  courses	
  in	
  advance	
  for	
  academically	
  strong	
  students.	
  
Students	
  who	
  have	
  special	
  interests	
  such	
  as	
  computer	
  and	
  information	
  technology,	
  health	
  
science,	
  and	
  marketing	
  can	
  sometimes	
  find	
  special	
  programs	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  Other	
  examples	
  
include	
  family	
  and	
  consumer	
  science,	
  automotive	
  technology,	
  and	
  computer	
  graphic	
  design.	
  
These	
  courses	
  of	
  study	
  prepare	
  teens	
  for	
  more	
  technical	
  training	
  and	
  higher	
  education	
  after	
  
high	
  school.	
  The	
  classes	
  also	
  ready	
  students	
  for	
  today's	
  competitive	
  job	
  market.	
  
Some	
  high	
  schools	
  have	
  fine	
  arts	
  special	
  programs	
  in	
  theatre,	
  dance,	
  music,	
  art,	
  and	
  foreign	
  
language.	
  Large	
  cities	
  may	
  have	
  one	
  or	
  two	
  high	
  schools	
  that	
  specialize	
  in	
  these	
  types	
  of	
  
programs.	
  Your	
  child	
  may	
  have	
  to	
  audition	
  to	
  be	
  accepted	
  into	
  such	
  a	
  program.	
  Most	
  high	
  
schools	
  have	
  some	
  classes	
  in	
  art	
  and	
  music	
  for	
  students	
  who	
  enjoy	
  these	
  subjects	
  but	
  do	
  not	
  
want	
  a	
  career	
  in	
  the	
  fine	
  arts.	
  
Online	
  Classes	
  at	
  Your	
  High	
  School	
  
Maybe	
  your	
  highs	
  school	
  has	
  online	
  classes.	
  What	
  do	
  these	
  involve?	
  Students	
  often	
  believe	
  this	
  
will	
  be	
  an	
  easy	
  way	
  to	
  earn	
  credit,	
  but	
  they	
  should	
  be	
  cautious.	
  Online	
  classes	
  require	
  as	
  much	
  
or	
  more	
  work	
  than	
  regular	
  classes.	
  
A	
  student	
  may	
  want	
  to	
  take	
  an	
  online	
  class	
  due	
  to	
  failing	
  the	
  class	
  previously	
  or	
  missing	
  too	
  
much	
  due	
  to	
  illness.	
  A	
  class	
  that	
  your	
  child	
  wants	
  to	
  take	
  is	
  not	
  offered	
  at	
  the	
  high	
  school	
  he	
  
attends,	
  but	
  is	
  offered	
  online	
  through	
  another	
  high	
  school	
  in	
  the	
  same	
  school	
  system.	
  Many	
  
reasons	
  exist	
  for	
  taking	
  an	
  online	
  class.	
  Teens	
  need	
  to	
  be	
  aware	
  that	
  they	
  will	
  have	
  to	
  work	
  on	
  
the	
  class	
  material	
  online	
  on	
  a	
  regular	
  basis	
  and	
  not	
  wait	
  until	
  the	
  last	
  minute	
  to	
  finish	
  
assignments.	
  
Students	
  should	
  carefully	
  consider	
  taking	
  an	
  online	
  class	
  if	
  they	
  currently	
  have	
  a	
  full	
  schedule	
  of	
  
classes.	
  There	
  is	
  simply	
  not	
  enough	
  time	
  in	
  the	
  day	
  -­‐	
  an	
  online	
  course	
  usually	
  requires	
  four	
  and	
  
a	
  half	
  hours	
  of	
  work	
  per	
  week	
  for	
  the	
  average	
  student.	
  Online	
  students	
  should	
  set	
  up	
  a	
  routine	
  
for	
  their	
  online	
  work	
  and	
  stick	
  to	
  a	
  schedule.	
  	
  
Communicating	
  by	
  email	
  or	
  a	
  messenger	
  program	
  with	
  the	
  teacher	
  is	
  another	
  key	
  to	
  online	
  
course	
  success.	
  Teachers	
  appreciate	
  knowing	
  how	
  their	
  students	
  are	
  progressing.	
  Online	
  classes	
  
usually	
  require	
  a	
  few	
  face-­‐to-­‐face	
  meetings	
  and	
  may	
  require	
  tests	
  in	
  this	
  manner.	
  
Other	
  Online	
  Classes	
  
Online	
  courses	
  from	
  other	
  sources	
  also	
  exist	
  for	
  high	
  school	
  students.	
  These	
  courses	
  can	
  be	
  
found	
  online	
  and	
  can	
  be	
  free	
  or	
  require	
  a	
  fee.	
  The	
  classes	
  can	
  be	
  supplemental	
  material	
  not	
  
available	
  at	
  your	
  school,	
  or	
  may	
  be	
  a	
  class	
  you	
  need	
  to	
  retake.	
  Be	
  sure	
  to	
  check	
  with	
  your	
  
school	
  to	
  see	
  if	
  they	
  will	
  accept	
  credit	
  for	
  the	
  class	
  if	
  that	
  is	
  your	
  goal.	
  The	
  school	
  counselor	
  may	
  
be	
  able	
  to	
  provide	
  you	
  with	
  a	
  list	
  of	
  acceptable	
  online	
  classes.	
  
	
  
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Foreign	
  Language	
  Immersion	
  
Your	
  child	
  may	
  have	
  a	
  special	
  interest	
  in	
  foreign	
  language	
  and	
  culture.	
  An	
  exciting	
  program	
  to	
  
explore	
  is	
  to	
  become	
  a	
  high	
  school	
  exchange	
  student.	
  In	
  this	
  program,	
  students	
  travel	
  to	
  
another	
  country	
  and	
  live	
  with	
  a	
  host	
  family	
  for	
  a	
  semester	
  or	
  an	
  academic	
  year.	
  The	
  participant	
  
attends	
  school	
  there	
  and	
  learns	
  about	
  the	
  community	
  and	
  country.	
  	
  
Many	
  students	
  who	
  study	
  abroad	
  gain	
  a	
  fresh	
  perspective	
  on	
  their	
  own	
  country	
  while	
  learning	
  
about	
  another	
  culture	
  and	
  language.	
  Check	
  with	
  your	
  school	
  to	
  see	
  if	
  you	
  can	
  receive	
  credit	
  for	
  
attending	
  school	
  in	
  such	
  a	
  program.	
  Summer	
  programs	
  also	
  exist	
  where	
  students	
  don't	
  
necessarily	
  attend	
  high	
  school	
  in	
  the	
  foreign	
  country,	
  but	
  do	
  get	
  the	
  full	
  immersion	
  language	
  
and	
  culture	
  experience.	
  
Benefits	
  of	
  Special	
  Programs	
  
If	
  your	
  student	
  has	
  a	
  special	
  interest	
  such	
  as	
  music,	
  foreign	
  language,	
  or	
  information	
  
technology,	
  it	
  can	
  be	
  worthwhile	
  to	
  explore	
  special	
  high	
  school	
  programs	
  in	
  your	
  area.	
  These	
  
programs	
  can	
  help	
  make	
  high	
  school	
  more	
  enjoyable	
  and	
  help	
  prepare	
  your	
  student	
  for	
  the	
  
next	
  step	
  in	
  their	
  education.	
  	
  
For	
  example,	
  if	
  your	
  child	
  wants	
  to	
  pursue	
  a	
  career	
  in	
  nursing,	
  a	
  special	
  high	
  school	
  program	
  in	
  
health	
  and	
  medical	
  science	
  can	
  give	
  her	
  advanced	
  preparation	
  for	
  college.	
  Specialized	
  college	
  
programs	
  can	
  be	
  difficult,	
  so	
  any	
  high	
  school	
  classes	
  that	
  can	
  aid	
  students	
  in	
  their	
  chosen	
  field	
  
of	
  study	
  are	
  valuable.	
  
	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
A	
  student	
  who	
  dreams	
  of	
  becoming	
  an	
  aerospace	
  engineer	
  can	
  check	
  out	
  an	
  online	
  astronomy	
  
and	
  physics	
  class	
  offered	
  by	
  NASA.	
  This	
  type	
  of	
  opportunity	
  can	
  help	
  students	
  decide	
  if	
  this	
  is	
  
the	
  right	
  career	
  path	
  before	
  college.	
  
Today’s	
  special	
  high	
  school	
  programs	
  provide	
  endless	
  opportunities	
  for	
  teens.	
  Find	
  out	
  today	
  
what	
  is	
  available	
  at	
  your	
  school.	
  
	
  
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#8:	
  	
  Address	
  School	
  Work	
  Struggles	
  Immediately	
  
Is	
  your	
  child	
  struggling	
  with	
  schoolwork	
  in	
  high	
  school?	
  Mary	
  Taylor's	
  son	
  had	
  cruised	
  through	
  
elementary	
  and	
  middle	
  school	
  with	
  A's	
  and	
  B's	
  and	
  an	
  occasional	
  C.	
  Now	
  he	
  is	
  failing	
  algebra	
  in	
  
ninth	
  grade	
  and	
  Mary	
  does	
  not	
  know	
  what	
  to	
  do.	
  She	
  feels	
  frightened	
  and	
  embarrassed	
  for	
  her	
  
son.	
  What	
  would	
  you	
  do	
  in	
  this	
  situation?	
  
Mary	
  should	
  take	
  comfort	
  in	
  the	
  fact	
  that	
  she	
  and	
  her	
  son	
  are	
  not	
  alone.	
  Many	
  students	
  who	
  
have	
  never	
  had	
  problems	
  in	
  school	
  have	
  a	
  difficult	
  time	
  with	
  some	
  of	
  the	
  more	
  abstract	
  
subjects	
  in	
  high	
  school.	
  Algebra,	
  geometry,	
  and	
  chemistry	
  are	
  often	
  subjects	
  that	
  try	
  student's	
  
souls.	
  Any	
  subject	
  can	
  be	
  challenging	
  and	
  sometimes	
  a	
  teacher-­‐student	
  personality	
  conflict	
  
doesn't	
  help	
  the	
  situation.	
  	
  
You	
  must	
  honestly	
  evaluate	
  your	
  child	
  to	
  determine	
  what	
  steps	
  to	
  take.	
  Has	
  your	
  child	
  always	
  
encountered	
  difficulties	
  with	
  this	
  particular	
  subject?	
  Are	
  they	
  having	
  problems	
  in	
  all	
  areas	
  of	
  
school	
  or	
  just	
  one?	
  If	
  all	
  grades	
  are	
  slipping,	
  you	
  may	
  want	
  to	
  meet	
  with	
  several	
  teachers	
  to	
  try	
  
to	
  figure	
  out	
  the	
  problem.	
  Anxiety,	
  depression,	
  or	
  social	
  issues	
  could	
  be	
  the	
  cause.	
  You	
  may	
  
need	
  to	
  seek	
  professional	
  help;	
  these	
  issues	
  are	
  usually	
  temporary	
  and	
  are	
  not	
  uncommon.	
  Stay	
  
positive	
  and	
  encouraging	
  toward	
  your	
  child	
  during	
  this	
  process.	
  
Your	
  child	
  may	
  just	
  be	
  struggling	
  with	
  one	
  subject.	
  Contact	
  the	
  child's	
  teacher	
  after	
  you	
  
consistently	
  see	
  low	
  grades	
  for	
  several	
  weeks.	
  Your	
  student	
  may	
  also	
  be	
  complaining	
  about	
  the	
  
work	
  and	
  grades	
  because	
  they	
  are	
  not	
  accustomed	
  to	
  low	
  scores.	
  The	
  teacher	
  may	
  offer	
  to	
  give	
  
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extra	
  guidance	
  and	
  special	
  exercises.	
  Sometimes	
  meeting	
  with	
  the	
  teacher	
  individually	
  for	
  a	
  few	
  
sessions	
  can	
  make	
  a	
  world	
  of	
  difference.	
  Students	
  who	
  are	
  anxious	
  in	
  class	
  can	
  often	
  learn	
  
better	
  in	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  one-­‐on-­‐one	
  setting.	
  
School	
  Resources	
  
Your	
  high	
  school	
  may	
  offer	
  different	
  options	
  for	
  students	
  who	
  are	
  struggling.	
  Check	
  with	
  a	
  
teacher	
  or	
  the	
  guidance	
  counselor	
  to	
  see	
  what	
  is	
  available.	
  Perhaps	
  peer	
  tutoring	
  is	
  offered.	
  
The	
  student	
  is	
  matched	
  with	
  another	
  student	
  for	
  tutoring	
  sessions.	
  The	
  tutor	
  could	
  be	
  an	
  older	
  
student	
  who	
  will	
  be	
  a	
  role	
  model	
  for	
  the	
  struggling	
  student.	
  Many	
  students	
  enjoy	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  
tutoring	
  -­‐	
  make	
  sure	
  it	
  takes	
  place	
  in	
  a	
  supervised	
  setting,	
  preferably	
  at	
  school.	
  High	
  school	
  
students	
  can	
  get	
  easily	
  distracted!	
  If	
  the	
  peer	
  tutoring	
  is	
  set	
  up	
  through	
  the	
  school,	
  the	
  tutors	
  
are	
  rewarded	
  with	
  service	
  points.	
  
Your	
  child's	
  teacher	
  can	
  inform	
  you	
  if	
  he	
  or	
  she	
  believes	
  your	
  child	
  needs	
  in-­‐school	
  intervention	
  
in	
  a	
  particular	
  subject	
  or	
  area.	
  The	
  school	
  may	
  have	
  staff	
  who	
  can	
  work	
  with	
  students	
  in	
  specific	
  
weak	
  areas.	
  Some	
  schools	
  have	
  reading	
  specialists,	
  for	
  example.	
  This	
  option	
  will	
  probably	
  
depend	
  on	
  school	
  funding	
  and	
  teacher	
  availability.	
  
After	
  possible	
  intervention,	
  the	
  student	
  may	
  be	
  evaluated	
  for	
  special	
  education	
  if	
  there	
  is	
  little	
  
or	
  no	
  improvement.	
  This	
  only	
  occurs	
  in	
  a	
  few	
  cases;	
  most	
  students	
  who	
  need	
  special	
  services	
  
have	
  already	
  been	
  identified	
  earlier	
  in	
  their	
  school	
  careers.	
  Some	
  students	
  do	
  make	
  to	
  high	
  
school	
  before	
  a	
  learning	
  disability	
  is	
  discovered.	
  If	
  this	
  happens	
  to	
  your	
  teen,	
  it	
  is	
  not	
  a	
  cause	
  to	
  
panic.	
  He	
  can	
  receive	
  the	
  help	
  he	
  needs	
  and	
  go	
  on	
  to	
  higher	
  education	
  if	
  he	
  chooses	
  to	
  do	
  so.	
  
If	
  your	
  teen	
  is	
  experiencing	
  problems	
  in	
  a	
  particular	
  subject,	
  the	
  teacher	
  may	
  suggest	
  private	
  
tutoring.	
  Many	
  schools	
  do	
  not	
  have	
  the	
  resources	
  to	
  help	
  every	
  student	
  who	
  is	
  struggling	
  with	
  
algebra	
  or	
  chemistry.	
  What	
  type	
  of	
  tutoring	
  should	
  you	
  pursue	
  and	
  what	
  is	
  available?	
  
In-­‐home	
  Tutoring	
  
Private	
  in-­‐home	
  tutoring	
  may	
  be	
  best	
  for	
  shy	
  students,	
  although	
  it	
  can	
  be	
  expensive.	
  The	
  
teacher	
  can	
  suggest	
  someone;	
  you	
  can	
  also	
  ask	
  other	
  parents	
  and	
  friends	
  for	
  referrals.	
  Online	
  
community	
  boards	
  and	
  the	
  yellow	
  pages	
  list	
  local	
  tutors.	
  Try	
  to	
  match	
  the	
  tutor	
  to	
  your	
  
student's	
  style	
  of	
  learning	
  for	
  the	
  best	
  results.	
  
It	
  is	
  best	
  to	
  use	
  someone	
  a	
  friend	
  has	
  recommended.	
  Ask	
  how	
  long	
  they	
  have	
  been	
  tutoring,	
  
what	
  is	
  their	
  teaching	
  experience,	
  and	
  what	
  degrees	
  do	
  they	
  have.	
  Also	
  be	
  sure	
  to	
  ask	
  how	
  fees	
  
are	
  charged.	
  Ask	
  for	
  references	
  if	
  you	
  do	
  not	
  know	
  the	
  person	
  and	
  be	
  sure	
  to	
  call	
  the	
  
references.	
  
Tutoring	
  sessions	
  are	
  usually	
  for	
  one	
  hour	
  and	
  need	
  to	
  be	
  held	
  at	
  least	
  three	
  times	
  a	
  week	
  to	
  be	
  
successful.	
  Meeting	
  one	
  time	
  a	
  week	
  does	
  not	
  result	
  in	
  much	
  retention	
  for	
  the	
  student.	
  
Sometimes	
  other	
  teachers	
  who	
  teach	
  the	
  same	
  or	
  similar	
  subject	
  at	
  your	
  school	
  are	
  willing	
  to	
  
tutor.	
  Many	
  teachers	
  are	
  willing	
  to	
  help	
  and	
  are	
  looking	
  for	
  ways	
  to	
  supplement	
  their	
  income.	
  	
  
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Some	
  public	
  libraries	
  offer	
  "drop-­‐in"	
  tutoring	
  after	
  school.	
  This	
  can	
  be	
  sponsored	
  by	
  the	
  
government	
  or	
  a	
  non-­‐profit	
  organization.	
  Students	
  who	
  prefer	
  a	
  quiet	
  place	
  to	
  work	
  often	
  find	
  
this	
  type	
  of	
  tutoring	
  appealing.	
  
Tutoring	
  Centers	
  
National	
  companies	
  such	
  as	
  Sylvan	
  Learning	
  offer	
  tutoring	
  services	
  across	
  the	
  country.	
  Your	
  
child	
  will	
  be	
  evaluated	
  through	
  testing	
  first	
  and	
  either	
  assigned	
  to	
  a	
  tutor	
  or	
  placed	
  in	
  a	
  group	
  
for	
  extra	
  help.	
  Parents	
  often	
  like	
  this	
  type	
  of	
  tutoring	
  because	
  constant	
  feedback	
  is	
  given.	
  Some	
  
local	
  companies	
  may	
  also	
  provide	
  similar	
  services	
  in	
  your	
  area.	
  Services	
  can	
  be	
  provided	
  for	
  
whatever	
  length	
  of	
  time	
  is	
  necessary.	
  	
  	
  
	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  
Online	
  Tutoring	
  
High	
  school	
  students	
  may	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  benefit	
  from	
  online	
  tutoring	
  services.	
  These	
  are	
  not	
  the	
  
same	
  as	
  face-­‐to-­‐face	
  contact,	
  but	
  they	
  can	
  provide	
  a	
  solution	
  for	
  busy	
  teens	
  and	
  parents.	
  Your	
  
teen	
  may	
  only	
  have	
  study	
  time	
  at	
  night	
  due	
  to	
  other	
  activities	
  and	
  you	
  may	
  not	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  drive	
  
them	
  at	
  those	
  times.	
  Some	
  online	
  services	
  offer	
  unlimited	
  assistance	
  for	
  a	
  month	
  for	
  a	
  specific	
  
fee.	
  Other	
  services	
  charge	
  by	
  the	
  minute.	
  You	
  can	
  assess	
  what	
  type	
  of	
  help	
  your	
  child	
  needs,	
  
short-­‐term	
  or	
  long-­‐term,	
  to	
  see	
  what	
  will	
  work	
  best.	
  
Online	
  courses,	
  cd's,	
  and	
  even	
  books	
  can	
  be	
  helpful	
  for	
  shy	
  students	
  who	
  prefer	
  to	
  work	
  alone.	
  
Some	
  students	
  who	
  rarely	
  have	
  problems	
  with	
  schoolwork	
  utilize	
  these	
  resources	
  to	
  improve	
  
their	
  skills	
  in	
  a	
  given	
  area.	
  
When	
  your	
  child	
  appears	
  to	
  be	
  struggling	
  in	
  high	
  school,	
  the	
  first	
  step	
  is	
  to	
  contact	
  the	
  teacher.	
  
Through	
  communication	
  with	
  your	
  student	
  and	
  the	
  teacher,	
  you	
  can	
  determine	
  what	
  the	
  next	
  
step	
  is	
  in	
  the	
  goal	
  toward	
  academic	
  success.	
  
	
  
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#9:	
  	
  Encourage	
  Use	
  of	
  Technology	
  	
  
You	
  may	
  wonder	
  how	
  much	
  technology	
  is	
  too	
  much	
  in	
  your	
  teen's	
  life.	
  Teens	
  today	
  have	
  grown	
  
up	
  with	
  technology	
  and	
  are	
  very	
  comfortable	
  with	
  it.	
  It	
  is	
  a	
  part	
  of	
  our	
  world	
  today	
  and	
  parents	
  
have	
  to	
  accept	
  this.	
  Young	
  people	
  often	
  have	
  to	
  teach	
  their	
  parents	
  how	
  to	
  use	
  various	
  devices	
  
and	
  are	
  often	
  more	
  tech-­‐savvy!	
  
What	
  is	
  Social	
  Media?	
  
Social	
  media	
  are	
  networks	
  such	
  as	
  Facebook,	
  Twitter,	
  or	
  MySpace.	
  Teenagers	
  often	
  use	
  these	
  
networks	
  to	
  connect	
  with	
  friends	
  and	
  share	
  photos.	
  
Social	
  media	
  is	
  not	
  just	
  for	
  college	
  kids	
  anymore.	
  It	
  is	
  rapidly	
  spreading	
  throughout	
  the	
  business	
  
world	
  as	
  a	
  means	
  of	
  networking	
  and	
  increasing	
  sales.	
  Teens	
  should	
  be	
  knowledgeable	
  about	
  the	
  
fact	
  that	
  items	
  they	
  publish	
  on	
  Facebook	
  will	
  be	
  around	
  for	
  a	
  long	
  time.	
  Colleges	
  and	
  employers	
  
look	
  at	
  social	
  networking	
  sites	
  and	
  make	
  important	
  decisions	
  based	
  on	
  what	
  they	
  find.	
  Young	
  
people	
  should	
  always	
  put	
  their	
  best	
  foot	
  forward	
  and	
  not	
  publish	
  anything	
  they	
  would	
  not	
  want	
  
their	
  grandmother	
  to	
  see.	
  
As	
  long	
  as	
  social	
  networks	
  are	
  used	
  in	
  a	
  positive	
  manner,	
  they	
  can	
  be	
  fun	
  for	
  teens.	
  Parents	
  
should	
  be	
  one	
  of	
  their	
  child's	
  "friends"	
  online	
  so	
  they	
  can	
  monitor	
  what	
  is	
  posted.	
  You	
  can	
  
establish	
  this	
  when	
  you	
  set	
  up	
  the	
  account	
  with	
  your	
  teen.	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
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Preparing for Freshman Year

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  • 4. Susan  Taylor*  has  a  recurring  nightmare  about  her  daughter  beginning  high  school.  She  is   attempting  to  drop  off  her  fourteen  year-­‐old,  but  the  child  is  afraid  to  go  inside  her  new  school.   She  is  also  too  embarrassed  to  have  her  mother  go  inside  with  her.  Arguing  and  crying  ensues,   with  no  solution  in  sight.  Susan  usually  awakens  as  she  is  physically  trying  to  push  her  daughter   out  of  the  car.     Does  this  sound  familiar  to  you?  Of  course,  your  child  may  be  excited  to  begin  high  school  and   you,  the  parent,  may  not  be  so  thrilled  about  it.  Your  child  may  also  have  reservations,   especially  if  they  are  attending  a  different  high  school  from  many  of  their  friends.  Steps  can  be   taken  to  ease  this  transition  for  students  and  parents.  High  school  can  be  a  time  of  wonderful   memories  and  preparation  for  the  future,  so  get  ready  to  help  your  child  achieve  their  goals.                                                                       Freshman  Orientation   One  of  the  most  important  first  steps  in  preparing  for  high  school  is  for  both  parent  and  child  to   attend  freshman  orientation.  Students  will  have  orientation  at  the  end  of  eighth  grade  or   sometimes  before  school  starts  in  the  fall.  Older  students  will  usually  show  them  where  their   classes  will  be  located  and  answer  their  questions.     Parents  usually  attend  their  own  orientation  or  meeting  before  school  starts.  At  least  one   parent  should  attend  and  be  prepared  to  take  notes.  A  parent  manual  is  usually  provided  that   gives  a  great  deal  of  information.  Be  sure  to  take  time  and  read  this  information  fully.   4
  • 5. Among  the  information  you  should  find  in  the  parent  manual  will  be  how  grades  are  calculated,   school  club  information,  and  requirements  for  playing  sports.  You  should  also  see  tips  for   keeping  up  with  work  and  staying  organized  with  a  daily  planner.  Information  about  AP  and   Honors  classes  should  be  included  also.   Other  information  you  should  look  for  include  graduation  requirements  (so  your  student  will   know  what  classes  are  needed),  state  university  requirements,  and  scholarship  and  SAT  facts.   Freshman  year  is  not  too  early  to  start  thinking  about  these  issues;  this  year  counts  as  part  of  a   student  transcript  to  get  into  college.   Before  School  Starts   Other  parents  are  a  valid  source  of  high  school  information.  School  policies  do  change,  but   parents  of  students  a  year  or  two  ahead  of  your  child  can  give  you  some  general  information.   Many  times  they  can  tell  you  what  not  to  do,  as  they  have  made  mistakes  in  the  past.  Older   friends  can  also  help  your  son  or  daughter  feel  more  confident  about  what  to  expect  in  high   school.   If  you  have  a  daughter,  encourage  her  to  work  out  their  first-­‐day  clothes  with  a  friend.  Small   steps  can  ease  anxiety  greatly.  Suggest  your  student  find  a  friend  from  middle  school  or  try  to   meet  someone  in  their  new  class  right  away  so  they  will  have  someone  to  eat  lunch  with  at  the   beginning  of  school.   Once  the  Bell  Rings   After  school  starts,  parents  may  have  the  opportunity  to  attend  an  Open  House;  be  sure  not  to   miss  this  chance  to  meet  the  school  staff.  When  you  enter  the  child's  classroom,  take  time  to   introduce  yourself  to  the  teacher.  Taking  the  initiative  to  greet  the  teacher  shows  your  interest   and  enthusiasm!  Try  to  meet  the  school  counselor  and  the  principal,  if  at  all  possible.  Faculty   members  will  notice  parents  who  seek  them  out,  because  many  parents  do  not  do  so  at  the   high  school  level.   If  your  child's  teacher  asks  to  schedule  a  conference,  be  sure  to  follow  through.  Many  times   teachers  will  do  this  early  in  the  year  to  get  a  feel  for  where  your  child  is  headed;  it  does  not   mean  your  child  is  failing  or  misbehaving.     Technology  today  actually  makes  communicating  with  teachers  and  principals  easier.  Parents   can  email  or  leave  voice  mail  messages  for  teachers  and  not  feel  as  though  they  are  disturbing   them  during  the  school  day.  You  can  often  email  through  the  school  website,  which  is  another   valuable  source  of  information.  Parents  often  let  contact  with  teachers  dwindle  during  high   school,  but  high  school  teachers  welcome  your  questions.  Their  job  is  to  help  prepare  your  child   for  the  adult  world,  and  they  want  to  work  with  parents  to  accomplish  this  goal.   5
  • 6.     Ways  to  Get  Involved   As  a  parent,  you  may  feel  your  days  of  volunteering  at  the  school  are  over  once  your  child  starts   high  school.  This  is  absolutely  not  true,  and  the  high  school  staff  will  welcome  your  support  and   help.  Booster  clubs  are  a  great  way  to  help  at  the  high  school  level.  If  your  child  is  in  the  band,   you  may  want  to  join  the  band  boosters.  Athletic  booster  clubs  are  popular  and  you  can  join   even  if  your  child  does  not  play  on  a  sports  team.       An  Alabama  high  school  has  a  group  of  moms  called  the  "Gridiron  Gals"  who  raise  funds  for  the   school  football  team.  Some  of  the  mothers  do  not  have  sons  that  play  football;  they  just  enjoy   being  involved  with  the  school  and  sporting  events.  Fund-­‐raising  is  a  constant  factor  today  in   public  and  private  schools;  parents  can  find  many  opportunities  to  get  involved  at  schools  in   this  way.   What  if  you  are  placed  in  charge  of  the  high  school  bake  sale  as  a  freshman  parent?  The  best   strategy  is  to  find  out  who  was  in  charge  last  year  and  call  them  for  tips.  That  person  can  also   give  you  names  of  people  who  will  help  you  with  the  project.   You  and  Your  High  School  Student   As  your  child  enters  high  school,  you  may  find  your  relationship  as  a  parent  changing  with  your   son  or  daughter.  Try  to  find  an  activity  you  both  enjoy  to  do  together.  This  can  encourage  your   child  to  talk  to  you  about  what  is  going  on  in  their  lives  -­‐  teenagers  often  find  it  hard  to  talk   one-­‐on-­‐one,  making  eye  contact.       6
  • 7.                                               Encourage  your  student  to  enroll  in  at  least  one  extracurricular  activity  for  social  interaction,   but  not  too  many  or  he  can  get  overloaded.  Establish  limits  and  routines  with  your  teen.   Homework  should  be  completed  each  day  before  "fun  time",  and  chores  must  be  done.  Your   teen  should  also  have  a  curfew.  A  few  well-­‐chosen  rules  let  your  teen  know  that  you  care  about   them,  even  though  she  may  complain!   Talk  to  your  child  about  their  long-­‐range  goals  in  life.  High  school  is  one  step  on  their  road  to   adulthood  and  it  is  an  important  one.  If  they  are  interested  in  a  particular  career,  introduce   them  to  an  adult  in  that  field  who  can  mentor  them.  Freshman  year  is  the  beginning  of  a   planning  process  for  college  and  beyond.  High  school  teachers  and  counselors  are  ready  and   willing  to  help  you  and  your  child  with  this  process.                       7
  • 8.                                   #  1:    Find  the  Right  Balance   Your  daughter  wants  to  be  a  cheerleader,  join  the  band,  play  volleyball,  and  join  several  clubs  in   high  school.  Your  son  just  wants  to  come  home  and  play  video  games  with  his  friends  after   school.  What  is  too  much  extracurricular  activity  and  what  is  not  enough?   Research  in  2009  at  the  University  of  Illinois  provides  some  interesting  food  for  thought  on  this   subject.  Students  who  participate  in  extracurricular  activities  seem  to  prosper  more  ten  years   after  high  school  than  those  who  do  not.  Good  grades  do  matter  and  SAT  scores  are  important.   Extracurricular  activities  provide  an  opportunity  to  learn  social  skills  such  as  getting  along  with   peers.     Strong  academic  skills  plus  social  skills  and  work  ethic  seem  to  be  a  strong  predictor  for  future   job  success.  It  actually  makes  sense  because  many  jobs  today  are  information-­‐oriented  and   involve  dealing  with  people.  Getting  along  with  others  is  an  important  skill  that  employers  are   looking  for.                           Clubs   Most  high  schools  have  clubs  and  organizations  for  many  types  of  interests.  Student   government,  Spanish  club,  and  Key  Club  are  just  a  few.  Key  Club  is  a  student-­‐led  service  club   that  is  affiliated  with  Kiwanis  Clubs.  Key  Club  members  work  on  school  and  community  service   projects.  One  of  their  main  goals  is  tutoring  and  mentoring  younger  kids.                                 8
  • 9.                                                                   If  your  teen  is  interested  in  an  area  that  does  not  have  a  club,  he  can  talk  to  teachers  and   perhaps  start  such  a  club.  Some  clubs  meet  before  or  after  school  hours.  Your  high  school  may   have  an  "activity  period"  occasionally  during  the  day  to  allow  clubs  to  meet.     Sports   Different  high  schools  have  different  sports  programs.  Major  sports  include  football,  baseball,   basketball,  softball,  and  soccer.  Other  sports  that  may  be  offered  are  tennis,  golf,  volleyball,   and  track  and  field.  High  school  sports  are  a  great  way  to  improve  athletic  performance  and   learn  how  to  work  as  part  of  a  team.  Sports  teams  often  travel  to  games  in  other  towns,  which   can  be  an  enjoyable  aspect  for  teens.  Your  child  may  be  interested  in  community  recreation   league  sports  as  an  alternative  to  school  sports.   Find  out  the  practice  and  game  schedule  before  your  teen  commits.  Unless  your  child  is   extraordinarily  gifted  and  has  the  coach's  permission,  it  is  probably  best  to  play  one  sport  at  a   time.  Some  sport  seasons  do  overlap,  and  most  students  reach  a  point  where  they  must  decide   on  which  sport  to  focus  their  energy.   Gifted  athletes  can  be  eligible  for  partial  or  full  scholarships  to  college.  If  your  child  excels  and   truly  enjoys  a  given  sport,  this  can  be  a  worthwhile  pursuit.  Not  only  do  they  get  to  participate   in  something  they  enjoy,  but  it  can  help  pay  for  college.     Other  Activities   Other  extracurricular  activities  include  band,  choir,  and  drama  club.  If  your  child  enjoys  music   or  acting,  these  groups  can  open  up  opportunities  for  her.  Some  sources  refer  to  band  and   choir  as  co-­‐curricular  because  they  usually  meet  during  a  class  period.  Band  and  sometimes   choir  require  practice  before  and  after  school  and  members  participate  in  events  in  the  evening   and  on  weekends.  These  groups  require  a  large  time  commitment,  but  kids  who  love  music  or   9
  • 10. drama  will  find  it  time  well-­‐spent.  Long-­‐term  friendships  can  develop  from  activities  where   students  spend  a  great  of  time,  also.   Part-­‐time  Work   Your  teen  may  choose  to  obtain  a  part-­‐time  job  after  school,  or  seek  volunteer  work.  Teens   enjoy  making  money  and  this  can  help  to  establish  a  work  ethic  that  can  last  a  lifetime.  Colleges   see  the  responsibility  a  job  requires  when  they  review  applications  for  admission.  For  example,   if  your  daughter  is  interested  in  a  medical  career,  many  hospitals  offer  volunteer  programs  for   fourteen  to  seventeen  year  olds.  This  is  a  great  way  for  the  teen  to  determine  interest  and  the   experience  looks  good  to  universities  and  employers.   Benefits  of  Extracurricular  Activities   Studies  have  shown  that  not  only  do  extracurricular  activities  increase  the  odds  for  career   success  later,  they  raise  student  self-­‐esteem.  Students  who  play  sports  and/or  are  involved  in   clubs  are  less  likely  to  abuse  alcohol  and  drugs  and  are  less  likely  to  be  victims  of  physical  or   sexual  abuse.  These  students  are  more  likely  to  complete  their  school  work  and  homework  and   are  less  likely  to  suffer  from  emotional  distress.   Planning  for  Extracurricular  Activities   Each  semester  you  and  your  teen  can  write  a  schedule  of  all  activities.  The  schedule  can  include   classes,  homework  time,  and  extracurricular  activity  time.  Be  realistic  in  determining  how  much   time  needs  to  be  devoted  to  each  activity.  Contact  school  personnel  or  other  parents  if  you   have  questions  about  what  is  involved  in  a  particular  sport  or  club.  Parents  also  will  want  to   consider  costs  involved  and  if  the  child  is  required  to  take  a  physical  exam.   Parental  Concerns   If  your  teen  is  going  to  play  a  sport,  you  should  have  them  examined  by  a  doctor,  even  if  it  is   not  required.  The  physician  can  point  out  any  potential  problems  and  present  ways  your  child   can  exercise  safely  and  prevent  injuries.  Encourage  your  teen  to  exercise  before  practice  begins   and  make  sure  he  has  the  proper  safety  equipment.     If  you  notice  your  child  is  having  trouble  maintaining  their  grades  and  seems  tired  all  the  time,   you  may  need  to  evaluate  if  they  are  participating  in  too  many  activities.  Some  parents  have  a   one  sport,  one  club  rule  at  any  given  time.  Others  insist  their  kids  keep  a  certain  grade  level   before  they  participate  in  outside  activities.  You  can  determine  with  your  teen  what  is  best  for   her;  talk  to  the  school  counselor  if  you  have  concerns  and  feel  you  need  help.             10
  • 11. My  Child  Doesn't  Want  to  Participate     Suppose  your  child  does  not  want  to  participate  in  any  extracurricular  activities  and  seems  sad   quite  often.  You  may  want  to  seek  the  help  of  a  counselor.  Sometimes  teens  feel  isolated  and   depressed  and  need  professional  help.  Other  kids  may  display  aggressive  behavior  and   withdraw  from  others;  this  too  may  mean  a  counselor  is  needed.                                                                       Your  teen  may  have  good  grades  and  be  well-­‐adjusted.  Perhaps  they  just  don't  know  where   their  interests  lie.  Many  parents  require  that  their  child  choose  one  club  or  activity  to  try.  If   they  don't  like  it,  they  can  try  something  else  the  next  term.  Trying  new  things  allows  your  child   to  meet  new  people  and  explore  options  they  otherwise  would  not  have.     11
  • 12.                                                 #  2:  Recognize  the  Importance  of  Good  Grades   Erica  brings  home  her  report  card  and  hands  it  to  her  mother.  Her  mom  looks  at  the  grades  and   tries  not  to  frown.  The  grade  point  average  is  shown  for  each  class  and  for  the  entire  semester.   Most  of  the  grades  are  either  3.8  or  4.0.  Her  AP  class  has  a  4.5  beside  it.  What  do  all  of  these   numbers  mean?   What  Is  a  GPA?   GPA  stands  for  grade  point  average.  It  is  a  numerical  way  of  applying  grades  for  evaluation   purposes.  Different  countries  and  schools  calculate  it  in  different  ways.  All  of  these  different   methods  can  make  it  difficult  to  understand,  so  parents  may  have  to  question  school  officials  to   get  a  clear  view.   In  the  United  States,  you  usually  see  GPA  as  referring  to  a  semester  grade  and  cumulative  GPA   as  referring  to  a  student's  overall  score  at  any  particular  point  in  time.  The  cumulative  GPA  for   high  school  would  be  assessed  at  the  end  of  senior  year.  Letter  grades  are  given  points  in  the   12
  • 13. traditional  system  as  follows:    A  is  4  points,  B  is  3  points,  C  is  2  points,  D  is  1  point,  and  F  is  0   points.     Some  schools  may  count  a  B+  as  slightly  higher  than  a  3.0;  some  schools  do  not.  AP  classes  are   often  rated  higher  than  regular  classes  and  add  an  extra  wrinkle  in  GPA  scoring.  Now  students   can  score  above  a  4.0  and  even  have  a  4.0  without  having  straight  A's  if  they  are  taking  AP   classes.   How  important  is  a  GPA?  It  depends  upon  your  child's  plans  after  high  school.  If  your  student   wants  to  attend  a  highly  selective  and  prestigious  university,  then  their  GPA  is  very  important.   Selective  schools  look  for  students  with  the  highest  GPA’s.  Sometimes  employers  look  at  GPA;   others  do  not.  It  is  always  important  for  students  to  do  their  best  and  not  just  "get  by"  in  any  of   their  classes.   Managing  Homework  and  Assignments   An  important  tool  for  keeping  up  with  high  school  work  is  a  day  planner.  Your  student  can  block   out  their  time  for  getting  homework  done,  extracurricular  sports  and  clubs,  chores,  and  leisure   activities.  School  work  should  be  the  top  priority,  and  other  activities  can  be  ranked  after  that.   This  process  can  help  your  teen  see  if  they  are  overloading  themselves  and  need  to  drop   something.                                                       Encourage  your  teen  to  choose  a  planner  they  like  and  to  take  on  this  responsibility  them   selves.    As  children  get  older,  they  need  to  learn  to  organize  their  time  and  complete  their  work   on  their  own.  If  your  child  goes  away  to  college,  no  will  be  there  to  "make"  he  or  she  complete   their  homework.  If  you  have  concerns  about  your  high  school  student's  homework,  you  can   remind  them  to  get  started  and  later  check  over  their  completed  work.  Make  sure  they  get  in   the  habit  of  doing  the  work  on  their  own  so  they  will  be  ready  for  collegiate  work.   What  is  Important  for  College?   The  most  important  factor  a  college  admissions  officer  looks  for  when  evaluating  a  student  is   the  high  school  transcript.  This  includes  class  rank  and  GPA.  They  also  note  how  many  college   preparatory  classes  were  completed.  The  grades  in  these  core  classes  are  more  important  than   elective  grades,  but  colleges  want  to  see  a  good  effort  in  all  classes.  Volunteer  and  community   activities  may  be  considered  as  well.   After  the  transcript,  the  SAT  or  ACT  score  will  play  a  role  in  college  admissions.  Students  can   seek  out  preparation  courses  for  the  tests  at  their  high  school  or  ask  the  counselor  for  a  nearby   test  prep  location.           13
  • 14. Improving  Teacher  Relationships   Improving  your  relationship  with  your  teachers  can  improve  your  GPA.  If  your  child  is  having   trouble  in  a  class,  encourage  him  to  try  his  best.  Students  should  be  attentive,  ask  questions,   and  ask  classmates  for  help  with  notes  outside  of  class.  Sometimes  looking  at  someone  else's   notes  and  going  over  them  can  clarify  the  subject  matter.  Your  teen  can  show  the  teacher  they   care  about  making  good  grades  without  going  overboard.  Teachers  do  know  when  a  student  is   being  insincere  simply  to  "get  ahead".   Your  child  can  schedule  a  conference  with  a  teacher  during  their  planning  period  or  after  school   if  they  are  having  trouble  in  class.  A  student  can  often  gain  insight  into  the  subject  matter  in   this  way  while  letting  the  teacher  know  that  she  wants  to  improve  her  grade.   High  school  teachers  can  write  recommendations  for  college  or  for  jobs,  so  students  should  put   their  best  foot  forward.  Personalities  can  clash,  but  teens  should  always  act  respectful.  Parents   should  stress  this  with  their  kids;  young  people  often  have  a  hard  time  seeing  future   consequences  of  their  actions.  If  a  student  has  tried  their  best  to  work  out  problems  with  a   teacher  with  no  result,  it  may  be  necessary  to  involve  the  guidance  counselor  or  the  parents.   Most  teachers  are  very  willing  to  work  with  students  who  put  forth  an  effort  and  act  in  a   respectful  manner.   Matt  was  having  major  problems  with  his  chemistry  class.  The  problems  assigned  seemed  like   Greek  to  him.  He  finally  met  with  the  teacher  after  receiving  an  F  on  his  midterm  grade.  The   teacher  set  up  tutoring  sessions  with  Matt.  He  ended  up  with  a  C,  which  he  was  glad  to  receive!   The  chemistry  teacher  was  able  to  explain  the  problems  more  clearly  to  Matt  one-­‐on-­‐one  and   was  impressed  that  Matt  took  the  initiative  to  seek  him  out.     Help  Your  Child  to  be  Independent   Encourage  your  teen  to  talk  to  the  teacher  before  he  receives  a  very  low  grade  on  his  report   card.  If  your  child  is  not  comfortable  talking  to  the  teacher,  perhaps  you  as  the  parent  can  email   the  teacher  and  ask  for  a  list  of  tutors.  High  school  teachers  appreciate  students  who  seek  out   extra  help  more  than  parents,  so  suggest  that  your  child  try  to  handle  it  first.     Teachers  are  looking  for  students  at  the  high  school  level  to  handle  their  own  problems  if   possible.  Parents  should  encourage  this  independence,  rather  than  handling  everything  for   their  teen.  Self-­‐reliance  in  high  school  will  pay  off  in  the  future.           14
  • 15.                   #3:    Know  High  School  Courses  and  Class  Schedule   Jacqueline  and  Tom  Benezio  look  at  each  other  with  questioning  eyes.  Their  eighth  grade  son   has  just  brought  home  his  tentative  schedule  for  next  year,  his  freshman  year  in  high  school.   The  Benezio's  are  supposed  to  read  over  it  and  sign  it  so  their  son  can  be  registered  for  his   classes.  The  only  problem  is  that  this  schedule  does  not  look  like  the  schedules  when  they  were   in  school.     All  the  abbreviations  on  the  computer-­‐generated  sheet  are  quite  confusing!  There  is  some   mention  of  an  AP  class  -­‐  what  in  the  world  does  that  mean?  If  you  share  this  type  of  confusion,   please  read  on  for  some  suggestions  in  decoding  your  child's  schedule.  You  will  also  gain  an   understanding  of  what  classes  are  necessary  in  high  school.   What  Classes  Does  My  Child  Need  for  College?   In  determining  classes,  think  about  what  your  child's  future  plans  include.  If  a  four-­‐year  college   seems  to  be  likely,  then  a  strong  academic  schedule  is  necessary  in  high  school.  English  or   language  arts  will  be  taken  every  year  of  high  school.  These  classes  will  develop  your  student's   ability  to  write  and  give  a  speech,  as  well  as  expose  them  to  American  and  English  literature.   Students  should  take  algebra  and  geometry  if  they  are  following  an  academic  track.  Calculus  or   advanced  math  is  a  possibility  also;  make  sure  your  child  takes  algebra  and  geometry  early  in   high  school  so  she  will  have  the  option  to  pursue  higher  math  classes  her  senior  year.     15
  • 16. Most  high  schools  require  six  semesters  or  three  years  of  science.  Students  take  one  year  of   biology,  one  year  of  chemistry  and/or  physics,  and  one  year  of  earth  science  or  advanced   biology.  Once  again,  take  these  courses  earlier  rather  than  later  so  you  have  the  option  to  take   an  advanced  course  if  you  would  like  to  do  so.   Social  studies  classes  are  usually  broken  down  in  this  way:    one  year  of  American  history,  one   semester  of  American  government,  one  semester  of  economics,  one  semester  of  world  history   or  geography,  and  one  semester  in  another  area  of  social  studies.     Many  majors  in  college  require  two  years  of  foreign  language  to  earn  a  degree.  If  you  have   previously  taken  a  foreign  language  in  high  school,  it  makes  the  college  courses  much  easier.   College-­‐bound  students  should  seriously  consider  taking  foreign  language  in  high  school.   High  school  schedules  are  usually  rounded  out  with  courses  from  the  arts  and  perhaps  some   computer  courses.  Colleges  look  for  students  who  are  well-­‐rounded,  so  classes  in  the  arts  are   always  beneficial  on  a  transcript.  Computer  skills  are  also  necessary  for  survival  in  college  and   the  business  world  today.   AP  and  Honors  Classes   What  is  an  AP  class?  AP  stands  for  Advanced  Placement.  AP  classes  offer  many  benefits  for   students  who  are  strong  academically  and  plan  to  pursue  at  least  a  four-­‐year  degree.   Sometimes  these  classes  are  called  honors  classes;  check  with  your  school  to  determine  if   honors  mean  the  same  thing  as  AP.     AP  classes  are  offered  in  a  wide  array  of  subjects.  Students  must  have  a  certain  grade-­‐point   level  and  standardized  test  scores  to  enroll  in  AP  classes.  After  the  student  finishes  the  AP  class   his  senior  year,  he  can  take  an  exam  to  receive  college  credit  for  the  freshmen  level  of  that   course.   Universities  look  at  AP  and  honors  coursework  when  awarding  scholarships.  By  passing  the  test,   that  is  one  less  college  course  that  your  child  has  to  worry  about  taking.  AP  courses  save  money   and  study  time.  Research  shows  that  even  one  additional  year  used  to  finish  college  can  cost  an   extra  $19,000.   Talk  to  the  School  Counselor   You  and  your  child  can  write  a  rough  draft  of  the  classes  she  is  interested  in  taking.  Meet  with   the  school  counselor  if  you  have  questions.  It  is  best  to  have  a  long-­‐range  plan  for  high  school   classes,  so  you  are  not  left  with  regrets  at  graduation  time.  Ask  the  counselor  about  AP  classes,   SAT  preparation  at  the  school,  and  information  on  nearby  college  requirements.  These  answers   will  help  your  child  focus  on  what  they  need  to  do  now  to  be  ready  for  college  in  four  years.       16
  • 17. Parental  Rights   Parents  often  have  to  sign  the  schedule  for  high  school  students.  Parents  are  supposed  to  help   the  child  choose  the  courses.  Contact  the  principal  or  counselor  if  you  have  a  concern.  Perhaps   you  feel  the  courses  your  child  has  chosen  are  too  difficult  or  are  not  challenging  enough.  Many   schools  now  have  guides  that  are  either  printed  or  available  online.  These  guides  spell  out  the   recommended  coursework.   Students  complete  a  tentative  class  schedule  at  school  based  on  what  teachers  and  the   counselor  recommends.  They  bring  the  tentative  schedule  home,  discuss  it  with  their  parents,   and  the  parents  sign  it.  After  the  academic  requirements  have  been  met,  elective  can  be  chosen   based  on  student  interests  and  what  they  want  to  do  after  high  school.   AP  Diploma   Some  high  schools  offer  a  special  diploma  for  students  who  have  taken  a  specified  number  of   AP  classes.  A  Florida  high  school  offers  an  AP  diploma  for  those  who  have  completed  at  six  or   more  AP  classes  in  at  least  three  different  areas  of  study.  They  must  have  a  3.0  GPA  and  have   given  seventy-­‐five  hours  of  community  service.  The  candidate  must  present  a  research  paper  to   a  school  and  community  panel.  For  a  strong  student,  this  diploma  would  be  fantastic  on  a   college  application.   Vocational  and  Technical  Classes   Some  high  schools  offer  vocational  and  technical  classes  in  conjunction  with  regular  academic   classes.  This  can  be  an  exciting  option  for  those  students  not  pursuing  a  four-­‐year  college   degree.  Students  who  follow  this  track  can  get  a  job  right  out  of  high  school  or  proceed  to  a   community  college  or  technical  school.  By  taking  these  classes  in  high  school,  students  may  be   eligible  for  advanced  placement  in  technical  school,  once  again  saving  time  and  money.   Examples  of  these  types  of  classes  include  automotive,  culinary  arts,  building  construction,   certified  nursing  assistance,  early  childhood  development,  multimedia  design,  and  computer   technology.  Many  of  these  fields  are  in  high  demand  in  the  job  market  today.     Remedial  Classes   If  a  remedial  class  appears  on  your  child’s  high  school  schedule,  call  the  counselor  or  principal.   The  only  reason  this  would  happen  is  if  your  child  is  really  struggling  with  an  academic  area.  As   a  parent,  you  would  hopefully  know  about  this  before  a  schedule  came  home.  Talk  with  school   staff  and  determine  if  you  should  arrange  tutoring  after  school  to  help  your  child  over  the   hurdle.   Any  time  you  have  a  question  about  classes  and  scheduling,  contact  your  child’s  school.  The   faculty  is  there  to  help  you  and  will  not  mind  answering  your  questions.  Use  email  if  you  do  not   feel  comfortable  phoning.  Reach  out  to  find  the  answers  you  need.   17
  • 18.                   #4:    Review  Graduation  Requirements     Are  you  in  the  dark  about  what  is  required  for  your  child  to  graduate  high  school?  Parents   should  start  to  investigate  this  information  before  their  children  begin  high  school.  Senior  year   will  be  too  late  to  focus  on  graduation  requirements!  Parents  can  search  on  the  internet  for   official  state  websites  that  list  what  is  required  to  graduate  in  any  particular  state.   Most  states  provide  information  for  regular  diplomas  and  advanced  diplomas.  Many  states  also   offer  adult  alternative  diplomas  and  special  education  diplomas.  Information  is  also  available  on   these  sites  for  graduation  exams  given  in  each  state.  Your  individual  high  school  should  also  be   able  to  provide  this  information.   All  states  require  a  basic  number  of  core  courses,  including  math,  science,  language  arts   (English),  and  history.  You  can  be  assured  that  your  child  will  have  to  take  four  years  of  English,   three  years  of  math,  three  years  of  science,  and  several  history  classes  to  graduate.    Many   states  have  increased  math  and  science  requirements  in  recent  years  to  help  the  United  States   compete  globally.   What  about  My  Local  School?   Some  states  require  a  large  number  of  credits  and  all  the  schools  in  the  state  abide  by  this   standard.  Other  states  require  a  lesser  number,  but  individual  districts  add  their  own  credit   requirements.  Usually  one  class  counts  as  one  credit.  Some  classes  that  only  last  one  semester   count  as  a  half-­‐credit.  Students  often  take  American  government  and  then  another  social   studies  course  for  one  semester  each;  the  two  half-­‐credits  equal  one  whole.   18
  • 19. After  you  check  your  state  requirements,  be  sure  to  check  your  local  school’s  website  for  the   most  in-­‐depth  credit  information.  If  you  cannot  find  the  information  there,  contact  the  school   counselor  or  office  staff  for  a  copy  of  the  requirements.  This  can  easily  be  accomplished  by   email.  Once  again,  you  do  not  want  to  wait  until  junior  or  senior  year  to  know  what  is  required   to  graduate;  early  knowledge  is  essential.   Current  Research  about  College  Preparation  and  Classes   The  ACT  test  is  one  of  the  two  common  tests  that  students  take  for  college  entrance.  The   company  that  produces  the  ACT  has  completed  studies  on  which  high  school  classes  benefit   college-­‐bound  students.  These  courses  are  English  for  four  years,  algebra  I  and  II,  one  other   high-­‐level  mathematics  course,  biology,  chemistry,  and  physics.  ACT  also  recommends  taking  a   foreign  language  in  high  school,  even  if  it  is  not  explicitly  required.   Which  Classes  to  Take?   Some  students  and  parents  focus  on  the  number  of  credits  required  to  graduate  and  the  bare   minimum  of  required  classes.  If  your  teen  is  planning  on  attending  college,  encourage  him  to   investigate  the  more  rigorous  high  school  classes.  Students  who  take  the  easiest  high  school   courses  possible  are  often  not  prepared  if  they  attend  a  four-­‐year  university.  Some  students   have  to  utilize  extra  time  and  money  pursuing  remedial  classes  in  college  due  to  their   insufficient  high  school  preparation.   ACT  has  found  that  only  one  third  of  all  students  who  take  the  ACT  for  college  have  taken  all   the  recommended  college  prep  courses.  Some  minority  ethnic  groups  have  even  lower   numbers  of  students  who  are  well-­‐prepared  for  college.   Some  school  districts  are  now  trying  to  align  their  graduation  requirements  with  college   requirements.  Parents  can  check  with  their  own  particular  school  and  compare  these   requirements  with  what  state  universities  require.  Schools  are  getting  creative  in  providing   teachers  for  advanced  classes;  many  states  are  using  online  courses  and  video  conferences  to   enrich  student  experiences.     What  if  your  child  is  interested  in  attending  career/technical  classes  in  high  school  instead  of   preparing  for  a  four-­‐year  college?  These  programs  exist  and  may  have  their  own  list  of   graduation  requirements.  Many  states  are  combining  this  type  of  curricula  with  more   academics.  For  example,  a  math  teacher  may  be  paired  with  an  auto  technology  teacher  to   explain  math  concepts  in  the  industry.  This  actually  prepares  students  more  for  the  workplace   than  previous  methods.   Recent  research  indicates  that  "college  prep"  and  "work-­‐ready"  are  closely  related  today.  The   workplace  today  is  more  technical  than  in  decades  past;  students  need  math,  science,  and   writing  skills  to  succeed.  Even  if  your  child  is  not  planning  on  attending  a  four-­‐year  university,   encourage  her  to  take  challenging  academic  classes.   19
  • 20. What  if  My  Child  Fails  a  Class?   Perhaps  your  teen  has  failed  a  necessary  class  in  high  school.  Do  not  panic  and  do  let  a  failing   grade  damage  your  relationship  with  your  child.  Summer  school  may  be  one  of  the  best  options   for  retaking  a  failed  class.  Other  options  include  retaking  during  the  regular  school  year,   repeating  an  entire  year,  or  possibly  an  online  class.     Summer  school  classes  are  often  small  and  more  informal.  Some  teens  can  actually  learn  better   in  this  environment,  especially  difficult  subject  matter.  The  summer  school  grade  will  replace   the  failing  grade  and  will  increase  your  child's  GPA.  By  focusing  on  the  class  in  summer  school,   your  teen  will  be  able  to  perform  better  without  the  stress  of  an  extra  class  during  the  regular   school  year.   Talk  with  your  student  about  how  to  prevent  failing  a  class  in  the  future.  Be  sure  to  seek  help   early  if  your  child  appears  to  be  struggling.     Talk  to  the  School  Counselor   If  you  feel  unsure  about  graduation  requirements  for  your  child’s  school,  talk  to  the  school   counselor.  He  or  she  should  be  able  to  provide  you  with  a  list  of  required  courses.  The   counselor  can  also  recommend  classes  based  on  your  child’s  record  and  future  plans.   If  your  child  wants  to  attend  college,  be  sure  to  encourage  as  many  college  prep  courses  as  he   can  handle.  A  few  difficult  high  school  classes  can  pay  off  when  your  student  reaches  college   and  is  at  least  familiar  with  the  material.     Don’t  forget  to  remind  your  teen  about  balance;  colleges  look  at  more  than  just  good  grades.  A   few  extracurricular  and  community  activities  plus  a  3.7  GPA  can  look  better  than  a  4.0  GPA  and   no  extra  activities.  Talk  to  your  teen  and  try  to  assist  him  in  determining  his  long-­‐range  goals.     20
  • 21.   #5:    Think  About  College  Early  On   As  a  parent  of  a  teenager,  you  may  wonder,  "Will  my  child  go  to  college?"  Perhaps  you  have   always  planned  that  he  will  do  so;  you  have  saved  money  for  college  since  his  birth.  If  you  did   not  attend  college,  you  may  not  have  really  considered  it  until  your  child  entered  high  school.   Whatever  category  you  fall  into,  it  is  a  major  decision  that  you  and  your  teen  must  make   together.   Research  show  that  students  who  graduate  from  college  often  have  a  higher  income  than  those   who  only  attain  a  high  school  diploma.  College  is  not  for  everyone,  but  most  parents  do   encourage  their  children  to  seek  some  type  of  higher  education.   Parents  can  speak  of  college  in  a  positive  manner  as  a  way  of  encouraging  their  children.  If  you   attended  a  university  in  the  past,  take  your  kids  to  visit  the  campus  and  maybe  attend  a   sporting  event.  Kids  who  grow  up  exposed  to  collegiate  events  will  probably  be  more  excited   about  going  to  college.   As  a  parent,  you  know  your  child  and  their  capabilities.  If  you  have  questions  about  your   student's  academic  abilities,  set  up  a  meeting  with  the  school  counselor  or  a  teacher  who   knows  your  child  well.  Educational  professionals  may  be  able  to  help  you  and  your  child  decide   if  college  is  the  best  route  to  success.  Some  students  may  find  satisfying  careers  by  attending   technical  schools  or  community  colleges.       21
  • 22. Preparing  for  College  in  High  School   If  your  teen  plans  on  attending  a  four-­‐year  university,  she  needs  to  be  sure  she  takes  all  the   required  academic  courses.  A  strong  academic  schedule  in  high  school  is  important  preparation   for  college.     Your  student  may  be  interested  in  a  specific  field  of  study  in  college.  Look  at  a  college  catalog   that  lists  courses  for  various  majors.  You  can  usually  find  the  catalog  on  the  college  website.   This  information  can  help  you  decide  where  your  child  should  focus  in  high  school.   For  example,  many  majors  in  colleges  of  arts  and  sciences  require  two  years  of  a  foreign   language.  If  a  student  has  studied  foreign  language  in  high  school,  it  will  be  much  easier  when   they  take  it  in  college.  Studying  a  foreign  language  for  the  first  time  at  the  college  level  can  be   difficult!  Most  states  do  not  require  foreign  languages  in  high  school,  so  it  something  to   consider  when  preparing  for  college.   Your  teen  may  be  interested  in  a  specific  career,  such  as  medicine.  This  student  should  take  as   many  advanced  science  and  math  courses  as  they  can  in  order  to  prepare  for  the  rigorous   college  classes  down  the  road.   Students  who  are  strong  in  academics  can  take  advanced  placement  courses.  Not  only  do  AP   courses  help  prepare  you  for  college,  you  can  get  freshman  college  credit  and  save  money  and   time.  Some  high  schools  offer  AP  technical  classes  that  allow  students  to  begin  a  technical   program  at  a  community  college  at  an  advanced  level.   SAT   Every  student  who  plans  to  attend  college  will  take  the  SAT  or  ACT.  These  are  standardized   placement  tests  that  determine  a  student's  general  and  subject  knowledge.  The  tests  also  serve   as  a  predictor  of  how  well  a  student  will  perform  in  college.  Your  child  can  retake  the  SAT   several  times  to  try  and  receive  the  best  score  possible.     Many  high  schools  offer  SAT  preparation  courses  after  school  or  on  Saturdays.  The  school   counselor  can  direct  you  to  the  closest  SAT  preparation  course.  These  classes  can  be   worthwhile,  especially  if  your  teen  has  difficulty  with  standardized  tests  or  test  anxiety.   Students  can  take  the  test  for  the  first  time  their  junior  year,  so  they  have  plenty  of  time  to   retake  it  if  they  choose  to  do  so.  Ask  your  school  staff  when  they  recommend  taking  college   entrance  tests.   22
  • 23.                                                           The  SAT  itself  is  given  at  various  sites;  your  school  counselor  can  tell  you  the  dates  and   locations.  You  must  register  and  pay  a  fee  in  advance  to  take  the  test.  Be  sure  to  read  over  the   test-­‐day  instructions  as  to  what  to  bring  and  the  starting  time.  Try  not  to  place  too  much   pressure  on  your  teen  about  “the  test”.  Help  them  to  relax  –  they  can  always  retake  it.   The  SAT  score,  along  with  the  high  school  transcript  of  grades,  will  be  used  to  apply  to  various   colleges.  When  your  child  takes  the  SAT,  he  can  have  his  score  sent  to  several  colleges   automatically.  You  can  apply  to  colleges  online  now,  which  makes  it  much  easier  and  faster   than  in  the  old  days!     Applying  for  College   When  you  help  your  child  apply  for  college,  you  can  often  apply  for  any  applicable  scholarships   at  that  time.  You  will  fill  out  a  federal  financial  aid  form  and  then  the  school's  individual   scholarship  form.  The  college  will  inform  you  if  your  teen  is  eligible  for  any  scholarships  offered.   A  high  SAT  or  ACT  score  can  qualify  students  for  academic  scholarships.  This  is  why  it  is   important  for  your  child  to  acquire  the  best  score  possible.  Many  students  take  these  tests  at   least  twice  for  this  reason.   Online  services  also  offer  scholarship  monitoring  across  the  nation.  You  register  with  the   service  and  fill  out  information  about  your  background  and  your  desired  field  of  study.  The   scholarship  search  service  emails  you  when  scholarships  become  available  that  your  child  can   apply  for.  Fastweb  is  one  such  service  you  may  want  to  try.           23
  • 24. Helping  your  child  prepare  for  college  is  an  important  part  of  parenting.  Be  positive  and   encouraging  with  your  child.  Expose  them  to  different  career  choices  and  encourage  them  to   follow  their  interests.  By  knowing  what  they  are  interested  in,  students  can  choose  the  right   field  of  study  at  the  right  university  for  them.                                       Realize  that  your  child  is  rapidly  changing  as  they  grow  up,  and  that  their  interests  and  plans   will  probably  change  along  the  way.  Are  you  working  in  the  field  that  you  dreamed  of  as  a   child?  Probably  not,  although  some  career  experts  say  that  this  can  lead  you  to  your  dream  job   –  returning  to  what  you  interested  you  as  a  child.  You  are  your  child’s  best  cheerleader  and   coach!                 24
  • 25.     #6:    Capitalize  on  Teen’s  Strengths   Sandy  O'Brien's  teenage  daughter  likes  to  go  to  the  public  library  after  school  to  study.  Her  son   prefers  to  lie  on  his  bed,  listening  to  music,  while  he  studies  for  a  test.  Sandy  remembers  that   she  always  sat  at  a  desk  in  her  room  as  a  teen  and  copied  her  notes  over  and  over  until  she   could  remember  them.  What  is  the  best  way  for  high  school  students  to  learn?   Everyone  learns  in  different  ways.  The  three  basic  styles  of  learning  are  visual,  kinesthetic   (touch),  and  auditory.  Many  students  combine  two  styles  when  they  learn,  although  one  style   will  be  their  primary.  Parents  often  use  a  different  style  of  learning  from  their  children.  Parents   can  help  their  teens  find  the  way  they  learn  best  and  understand  that  it  may  be  different  from   the  way  they  learn.   Visual  Learners   Visual  learners  make  up  forty  percent  of  all  teens.  These  students  have  a  mental  picture  of   items  or  concepts  they  are  trying  to  remember.  Visual  learners  either  see  a  picture,  the  actual   item,  or  the  letters  that  spell  the  word  in  their  mind.  They  learn  by  seeing  and  watching.         25
  • 26. Kinesthetic  Learners   Nearly  fifty  percent  of  teens  are  kinesthetic  learners  who  learn  through  movement  and  touch.   These  students  are  often  talented  in  the  arts  and  design.  Kinesthetic  students  like  to  learn  how   things  work  on  the  inside.  The  traditional  classroom  can  be  hard  for  these  types  of  learners.   Kinesthetic  learners  can  write  the  material  in  different  colors  and  forms,  make  up  stories  and   poems,  and  devise  word  puzzles  to  help  them  learn.   Auditory  Learning   Students  who  are  auditory  learners  learn  by  listening.  Songs  and  poems  assist  this  type  of   learner  dramatically.  Only  ten  percent  of  teens  use  auditory  learning  as  their  primary  method.   The  traditional  classroom  relies  heavily  on  auditory  presentation,  but  this  does  seem  to  be   changing.  Many  teachers  now  use  visual  presentation  devices  through  computers  to  show   visually  what  they  are  talking  about.   Your  teen  can  try  different  styles  of  studying  to  see  what  works  best  for  them.  Many  students   figure  this  out,  but  some  need  help  in  this  area.  Experienced  tutors  often  can  help  students   define  their  learning  style.  Online  learning  styles  inventories  are  available  also.   More  Tips  for  Visual  Learners     Visual  learners  need  to  take  notes  in  class  and  when  they  study.  Highlighting  important   passages  can  be  helpful.  Visual  students  enjoy  creating  graphs  and  charts  to  organize  material.   Acronyms  and  mnemonics  can  also  be  useful  memorization  tools.  Visual  learners  can  use  a   computer  to  create  charts  and  visual  presentations  of  the  subject  matter.  The  teen  can  make   flashcards;  this  provides  twice  the  learning  by  making  the  cards  and  then  later  reviewing  them.   Kinesthetic  Learning  Tips   Kinesthetic  learners  should  sit  near  the  front  and  write  down  their  notes  in  a  focused  manner.   While  studying,  they  can  walk  around  as  they  read  from  their  notes  or  the  textbook.  Kinesthetic   students  can  write  lists  over  and  over.  Using  the  computer  to  create  lists  and  recreate   26
  • 27. information  can  be  useful.  Students  can  use  gestures  to  explain  facts  and  can  create  models   when  appropriate.  Making  flashcards  and  putting  them  in  order  can  assist  in  learning  a   sequence  of  events.   Auditory  Style  Pointers   Auditory  learners  can  explain  the  lesson  to  you,  the  parent.  These  teens  can  make  up  a  song  to   try  to  remember  the  subject  matter.  Auditory  students  should  review  all  lessons  out  loud  and   can  create  rhymes  to  remember  specifics.  Study  groups  or  partners  can  be  helpful.   Parents  can  help  each  type  of  learner  identify  a  place  where  they  can  study.  Some  teens  prefer   their  bedroom  or  they  may  find  a  quiet  corner  elsewhere  in  the  house.  A  specific  study  spot  can   be  identified  and  this  can  help  teens  settle  down  when  it  is  time  to  study.   Note-­‐Taking   All  students  should  take  notes  in  class.  Notes  help  students  learn  about  organization,  listening,   and  assessing  what  is  important.  Teens  can  take  some  steps  to  improve  their  note-­‐taking  and   make  test  time  a  little  easier.                                                                                         Students  should  read  the  material  ahead  of  class  time  if  possible.  This  helps  in  comprehending   what  the  lesson  is  about  while  the  teacher  is  lecturing.  Write  the  date  and  chapter  at  the  top  of   your  notes.  Students  may  have  to  use  abbreviations  to  keep  up.  Watch  and  listen  for  clues  in   the  teacher's  presentation  that  let  you  know  if  certain  information  is  more  important.   Teens  that  rewrite  their  notes  after  school  on  a  regular  basis  will  be  much  better  prepared   when  studying  for  a  test.  No  monster  cramming  session  required  because  your  teen  has   reviewed  the  material  all  along!  Teen  should  take  study  breaks  after  thirty  minutes  or  so   anyway  to  avoid  frustration.   Time  Management   All  types  of  learners  can  have  issues  with  time  management.  Some  teens  are  disorganized   and/or  have  a  poor  sense  of  time  passing.  Others  may  be  more  perfectionistic  and  feel  if  they   27
  • 28. cannot  do  things  perfectly,  then  they  should  not  do  them  at  all.  This  type  of  mentality  puts   students  behind  due  to  procrastination.   Encourage  your  teen  to  pick  out  an  organizer  so  they  will  be  more  likely  to  use  it.  Students  can   make  lists  and  put  the  most  important  things  to  accomplish  at  the  top.  Perfectionists  have  to   learn  to  complete  the  hard  things  first  so  they  can  move  on.  Teens  can  use  their  organizer  to   form  small  increments  of  study  time  to  accomplish  their  goals.   Test-­‐Taking   Does  your  teen  experience  test  anxiety?  After  the  first  test,  students  should  have  a  feel  for   what  type  of  test  the  instructor  will  give.  If  your  child  has  prepared  over  time  and  not  crammed   at  the  last  minute,  he  is  more  likely  to  feel  relaxed  and  less  anxious.  Teens  should  eat  a  decent   breakfast  on  test  day  and  avoid  talking  to  other  students  before  the  test  as  this  can  lead  to   nervousness.                                                                               Explore  the  learning  style  of  your  teen  so  you  can  assist  them  with  various  study  methods.   Provide  an  appropriate  place  to  study  and  learn.  Assist  your  teen  in  learning  time  management   and  how  to  take  notes  in  class.  Your  high  school  student  will  thank  you  by  bringing  home  better   grades.               28
  • 29.             #7:    Take  Advantage  of  Special  Programs   Does  your  child's  high  school  offer  a  special  program  for  kids  interested  in  a  "total  immersion”   foreign  language  experience?  What  about  options  for  students  who  love  the  fine  arts?  Check   out  your  school's  website  or  contact  the  school  counselor  for  the  latest  information  on  special   programs  at  your  local  high  school.   Many  different  areas  fall  into  the  category  of  "special  programs".  A  high  school  may  offer   special  services  for  adults  who  are  returning  to  get  their  diploma.  Classes  may  be  offered  at   night  to  accommodate  non-­‐traditional  students.  High  schools  also  may  offer  other  classes  to   the  community  after  hours  such  as  computer  technology  and  financial  planning.   If  your  child  will  be  a  first-­‐generation  college  student,  check  and  see  if  your  school  offers  a   college-­‐success  program.  This  is  a  special  program  that  assists  students  and  parents  who  are   not  familiar  with  the  college  admissions  and  completion  process.  School  staff  and  college   personnel  work  with  parents  and  students  to  make  sure  the  best  options  are  considered  for  a   college  education.   Advanced  Placement  and  Special  Interest  Classes   Advanced  Placement  (AP)  courses  are  another  special  program  that  your  high  school  may  offer.   AP  classes  are  usually  open  to  eleventh  and  twelfth  grade  students  who  have  a  certain  grade-­‐ point  level  and  meet  the  prerequisites.    At  the  end  of  the  year,  students  can  take  an  exam  and   29
  • 30. receive  college  credit  for  the  class  if  they  score  a  certain  level.  AP  classes  are  an  effective  way  to   complete  college  courses  in  advance  for  academically  strong  students.   Students  who  have  special  interests  such  as  computer  and  information  technology,  health   science,  and  marketing  can  sometimes  find  special  programs  in  high  school.  Other  examples   include  family  and  consumer  science,  automotive  technology,  and  computer  graphic  design.   These  courses  of  study  prepare  teens  for  more  technical  training  and  higher  education  after   high  school.  The  classes  also  ready  students  for  today's  competitive  job  market.   Some  high  schools  have  fine  arts  special  programs  in  theatre,  dance,  music,  art,  and  foreign   language.  Large  cities  may  have  one  or  two  high  schools  that  specialize  in  these  types  of   programs.  Your  child  may  have  to  audition  to  be  accepted  into  such  a  program.  Most  high   schools  have  some  classes  in  art  and  music  for  students  who  enjoy  these  subjects  but  do  not   want  a  career  in  the  fine  arts.   Online  Classes  at  Your  High  School   Maybe  your  highs  school  has  online  classes.  What  do  these  involve?  Students  often  believe  this   will  be  an  easy  way  to  earn  credit,  but  they  should  be  cautious.  Online  classes  require  as  much   or  more  work  than  regular  classes.   A  student  may  want  to  take  an  online  class  due  to  failing  the  class  previously  or  missing  too   much  due  to  illness.  A  class  that  your  child  wants  to  take  is  not  offered  at  the  high  school  he   attends,  but  is  offered  online  through  another  high  school  in  the  same  school  system.  Many   reasons  exist  for  taking  an  online  class.  Teens  need  to  be  aware  that  they  will  have  to  work  on   the  class  material  online  on  a  regular  basis  and  not  wait  until  the  last  minute  to  finish   assignments.   Students  should  carefully  consider  taking  an  online  class  if  they  currently  have  a  full  schedule  of   classes.  There  is  simply  not  enough  time  in  the  day  -­‐  an  online  course  usually  requires  four  and   a  half  hours  of  work  per  week  for  the  average  student.  Online  students  should  set  up  a  routine   for  their  online  work  and  stick  to  a  schedule.     Communicating  by  email  or  a  messenger  program  with  the  teacher  is  another  key  to  online   course  success.  Teachers  appreciate  knowing  how  their  students  are  progressing.  Online  classes   usually  require  a  few  face-­‐to-­‐face  meetings  and  may  require  tests  in  this  manner.   Other  Online  Classes   Online  courses  from  other  sources  also  exist  for  high  school  students.  These  courses  can  be   found  online  and  can  be  free  or  require  a  fee.  The  classes  can  be  supplemental  material  not   available  at  your  school,  or  may  be  a  class  you  need  to  retake.  Be  sure  to  check  with  your   school  to  see  if  they  will  accept  credit  for  the  class  if  that  is  your  goal.  The  school  counselor  may   be  able  to  provide  you  with  a  list  of  acceptable  online  classes.     30
  • 31. Foreign  Language  Immersion   Your  child  may  have  a  special  interest  in  foreign  language  and  culture.  An  exciting  program  to   explore  is  to  become  a  high  school  exchange  student.  In  this  program,  students  travel  to   another  country  and  live  with  a  host  family  for  a  semester  or  an  academic  year.  The  participant   attends  school  there  and  learns  about  the  community  and  country.     Many  students  who  study  abroad  gain  a  fresh  perspective  on  their  own  country  while  learning   about  another  culture  and  language.  Check  with  your  school  to  see  if  you  can  receive  credit  for   attending  school  in  such  a  program.  Summer  programs  also  exist  where  students  don't   necessarily  attend  high  school  in  the  foreign  country,  but  do  get  the  full  immersion  language   and  culture  experience.   Benefits  of  Special  Programs   If  your  student  has  a  special  interest  such  as  music,  foreign  language,  or  information   technology,  it  can  be  worthwhile  to  explore  special  high  school  programs  in  your  area.  These   programs  can  help  make  high  school  more  enjoyable  and  help  prepare  your  student  for  the   next  step  in  their  education.     For  example,  if  your  child  wants  to  pursue  a  career  in  nursing,  a  special  high  school  program  in   health  and  medical  science  can  give  her  advanced  preparation  for  college.  Specialized  college   programs  can  be  difficult,  so  any  high  school  classes  that  can  aid  students  in  their  chosen  field   of  study  are  valuable.                                                                               A  student  who  dreams  of  becoming  an  aerospace  engineer  can  check  out  an  online  astronomy   and  physics  class  offered  by  NASA.  This  type  of  opportunity  can  help  students  decide  if  this  is   the  right  career  path  before  college.   Today’s  special  high  school  programs  provide  endless  opportunities  for  teens.  Find  out  today   what  is  available  at  your  school.     31
  • 32.   #8:    Address  School  Work  Struggles  Immediately   Is  your  child  struggling  with  schoolwork  in  high  school?  Mary  Taylor's  son  had  cruised  through   elementary  and  middle  school  with  A's  and  B's  and  an  occasional  C.  Now  he  is  failing  algebra  in   ninth  grade  and  Mary  does  not  know  what  to  do.  She  feels  frightened  and  embarrassed  for  her   son.  What  would  you  do  in  this  situation?   Mary  should  take  comfort  in  the  fact  that  she  and  her  son  are  not  alone.  Many  students  who   have  never  had  problems  in  school  have  a  difficult  time  with  some  of  the  more  abstract   subjects  in  high  school.  Algebra,  geometry,  and  chemistry  are  often  subjects  that  try  student's   souls.  Any  subject  can  be  challenging  and  sometimes  a  teacher-­‐student  personality  conflict   doesn't  help  the  situation.     You  must  honestly  evaluate  your  child  to  determine  what  steps  to  take.  Has  your  child  always   encountered  difficulties  with  this  particular  subject?  Are  they  having  problems  in  all  areas  of   school  or  just  one?  If  all  grades  are  slipping,  you  may  want  to  meet  with  several  teachers  to  try   to  figure  out  the  problem.  Anxiety,  depression,  or  social  issues  could  be  the  cause.  You  may   need  to  seek  professional  help;  these  issues  are  usually  temporary  and  are  not  uncommon.  Stay   positive  and  encouraging  toward  your  child  during  this  process.   Your  child  may  just  be  struggling  with  one  subject.  Contact  the  child's  teacher  after  you   consistently  see  low  grades  for  several  weeks.  Your  student  may  also  be  complaining  about  the   work  and  grades  because  they  are  not  accustomed  to  low  scores.  The  teacher  may  offer  to  give   32
  • 33. extra  guidance  and  special  exercises.  Sometimes  meeting  with  the  teacher  individually  for  a  few   sessions  can  make  a  world  of  difference.  Students  who  are  anxious  in  class  can  often  learn   better  in  this  type  of  one-­‐on-­‐one  setting.   School  Resources   Your  high  school  may  offer  different  options  for  students  who  are  struggling.  Check  with  a   teacher  or  the  guidance  counselor  to  see  what  is  available.  Perhaps  peer  tutoring  is  offered.   The  student  is  matched  with  another  student  for  tutoring  sessions.  The  tutor  could  be  an  older   student  who  will  be  a  role  model  for  the  struggling  student.  Many  students  enjoy  this  type  of   tutoring  -­‐  make  sure  it  takes  place  in  a  supervised  setting,  preferably  at  school.  High  school   students  can  get  easily  distracted!  If  the  peer  tutoring  is  set  up  through  the  school,  the  tutors   are  rewarded  with  service  points.   Your  child's  teacher  can  inform  you  if  he  or  she  believes  your  child  needs  in-­‐school  intervention   in  a  particular  subject  or  area.  The  school  may  have  staff  who  can  work  with  students  in  specific   weak  areas.  Some  schools  have  reading  specialists,  for  example.  This  option  will  probably   depend  on  school  funding  and  teacher  availability.   After  possible  intervention,  the  student  may  be  evaluated  for  special  education  if  there  is  little   or  no  improvement.  This  only  occurs  in  a  few  cases;  most  students  who  need  special  services   have  already  been  identified  earlier  in  their  school  careers.  Some  students  do  make  to  high   school  before  a  learning  disability  is  discovered.  If  this  happens  to  your  teen,  it  is  not  a  cause  to   panic.  He  can  receive  the  help  he  needs  and  go  on  to  higher  education  if  he  chooses  to  do  so.   If  your  teen  is  experiencing  problems  in  a  particular  subject,  the  teacher  may  suggest  private   tutoring.  Many  schools  do  not  have  the  resources  to  help  every  student  who  is  struggling  with   algebra  or  chemistry.  What  type  of  tutoring  should  you  pursue  and  what  is  available?   In-­‐home  Tutoring   Private  in-­‐home  tutoring  may  be  best  for  shy  students,  although  it  can  be  expensive.  The   teacher  can  suggest  someone;  you  can  also  ask  other  parents  and  friends  for  referrals.  Online   community  boards  and  the  yellow  pages  list  local  tutors.  Try  to  match  the  tutor  to  your   student's  style  of  learning  for  the  best  results.   It  is  best  to  use  someone  a  friend  has  recommended.  Ask  how  long  they  have  been  tutoring,   what  is  their  teaching  experience,  and  what  degrees  do  they  have.  Also  be  sure  to  ask  how  fees   are  charged.  Ask  for  references  if  you  do  not  know  the  person  and  be  sure  to  call  the   references.   Tutoring  sessions  are  usually  for  one  hour  and  need  to  be  held  at  least  three  times  a  week  to  be   successful.  Meeting  one  time  a  week  does  not  result  in  much  retention  for  the  student.   Sometimes  other  teachers  who  teach  the  same  or  similar  subject  at  your  school  are  willing  to   tutor.  Many  teachers  are  willing  to  help  and  are  looking  for  ways  to  supplement  their  income.     33
  • 34. Some  public  libraries  offer  "drop-­‐in"  tutoring  after  school.  This  can  be  sponsored  by  the   government  or  a  non-­‐profit  organization.  Students  who  prefer  a  quiet  place  to  work  often  find   this  type  of  tutoring  appealing.   Tutoring  Centers   National  companies  such  as  Sylvan  Learning  offer  tutoring  services  across  the  country.  Your   child  will  be  evaluated  through  testing  first  and  either  assigned  to  a  tutor  or  placed  in  a  group   for  extra  help.  Parents  often  like  this  type  of  tutoring  because  constant  feedback  is  given.  Some   local  companies  may  also  provide  similar  services  in  your  area.  Services  can  be  provided  for   whatever  length  of  time  is  necessary.                                                                             Online  Tutoring   High  school  students  may  be  able  to  benefit  from  online  tutoring  services.  These  are  not  the   same  as  face-­‐to-­‐face  contact,  but  they  can  provide  a  solution  for  busy  teens  and  parents.  Your   teen  may  only  have  study  time  at  night  due  to  other  activities  and  you  may  not  be  able  to  drive   them  at  those  times.  Some  online  services  offer  unlimited  assistance  for  a  month  for  a  specific   fee.  Other  services  charge  by  the  minute.  You  can  assess  what  type  of  help  your  child  needs,   short-­‐term  or  long-­‐term,  to  see  what  will  work  best.   Online  courses,  cd's,  and  even  books  can  be  helpful  for  shy  students  who  prefer  to  work  alone.   Some  students  who  rarely  have  problems  with  schoolwork  utilize  these  resources  to  improve   their  skills  in  a  given  area.   When  your  child  appears  to  be  struggling  in  high  school,  the  first  step  is  to  contact  the  teacher.   Through  communication  with  your  student  and  the  teacher,  you  can  determine  what  the  next   step  is  in  the  goal  toward  academic  success.     34
  • 35.   #9:    Encourage  Use  of  Technology     You  may  wonder  how  much  technology  is  too  much  in  your  teen's  life.  Teens  today  have  grown   up  with  technology  and  are  very  comfortable  with  it.  It  is  a  part  of  our  world  today  and  parents   have  to  accept  this.  Young  people  often  have  to  teach  their  parents  how  to  use  various  devices   and  are  often  more  tech-­‐savvy!   What  is  Social  Media?   Social  media  are  networks  such  as  Facebook,  Twitter,  or  MySpace.  Teenagers  often  use  these   networks  to  connect  with  friends  and  share  photos.   Social  media  is  not  just  for  college  kids  anymore.  It  is  rapidly  spreading  throughout  the  business   world  as  a  means  of  networking  and  increasing  sales.  Teens  should  be  knowledgeable  about  the   fact  that  items  they  publish  on  Facebook  will  be  around  for  a  long  time.  Colleges  and  employers   look  at  social  networking  sites  and  make  important  decisions  based  on  what  they  find.  Young   people  should  always  put  their  best  foot  forward  and  not  publish  anything  they  would  not  want   their  grandmother  to  see.   As  long  as  social  networks  are  used  in  a  positive  manner,  they  can  be  fun  for  teens.  Parents   should  be  one  of  their  child's  "friends"  online  so  they  can  monitor  what  is  posted.  You  can   establish  this  when  you  set  up  the  account  with  your  teen.                                                                             35