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Talking The Winners Way

  1. 1. Leil Lowndes
  2. 2. Being the Super Somebody <ul><li>The Flooding Smile </li></ul><ul><li>Sticky Eyes </li></ul><ul><li>Epoxy Eyes </li></ul><ul><li>Hang by Your Teeth </li></ul><ul><li>The Big-Baby Pivot </li></ul><ul><li>Hello Old Friend </li></ul><ul><li>Han’s Horse Sense </li></ul>
  3. 3. The Flooding Smile <ul><li>Don't flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary. </li></ul><ul><li>Instead, look at the other person's face for a second. </li></ul><ul><li>Pause. Soak in their persona. </li></ul><ul><li>Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes. </li></ul><ul><li>It will engulf the recipient like a warm wave. </li></ul><ul><li>The split-second delay convinces people your flooding smile is genuine and only for them </li></ul>
  4. 4. Sticky Eyes <ul><li>Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partner's with sticky warm taffy. </li></ul><ul><li>Don't break eye contact even after he or she has finished speaking. </li></ul><ul><li>When you must look away, do it ever so slowly, reluctantly, stretching the gooey taffy until the tiny string finally breaks. </li></ul>
  5. 5. Epoxy Eyes <ul><li>Watch your target person even when someone else is talking. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>No matter who is speaking, keep looking at the man or woman you want to impact. </li></ul></ul><ul><li>When you use Epoxy Eyes, it sends out signals of interest blended with complete confidence in yourself. </li></ul><ul><li>Don't overdo it or you could come across as arrogant and brazen. </li></ul><ul><li>Sometimes using full Epoxy Eyes is too potent, so here is a gentler, yet effective, form. </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Watch the speaker but let your glance bounce to your target each time the speaker finishes a point. </li></ul></ul>
  6. 6. Hang by Your Teeth <ul><li>Visualize a circus iron-jaw bit hanging from the frame of every door you walk through. </li></ul><ul><li>A smile frames your lips and softens your eyes. This is the look winners have constantly. They stand with assurance. They move with confidence. They smile softly with pride. No doubt about it---good posture symbolizes that you are a man or woman who is used to being on top. </li></ul>
  7. 7. The Big-Baby Pivot <ul><li>The instant the two of you are introduced, reward your new acquaintance. Give the warm smile, the total-body turn, and the undivided attention you would give a tiny tyke who crawled up to your feet. </li></ul><ul><li>Pivoting 100 percent toward the new person shouts &quot;I think you are very, very special.“ </li></ul>
  8. 8. Hello Old Friend <ul><li>When meeting someone, imagine he or she is an old friend </li></ul><ul><li>How sad, the vicissitudes of life tore you two asunder. </li></ul><ul><li>But, holy mackerel, now the party has reunited you with your long-lost old friend! </li></ul><ul><li>The joyful experience starts a remarkable chain reaction in your body from the subconscious softening of your eyebrows to the positioning of your toes---and everything between. </li></ul><ul><li>Self-Fulfilling prophecy </li></ul>
  9. 9. Han's Horse Sense <ul><li>Make it a habit to get on a dual track while talking. </li></ul><ul><li>Express yourself, but keep a keen eye on how your listener is reacting to what you're saying. </li></ul><ul><li>Then plan your moves accordingly. </li></ul><ul><li>People will say you pick up on everything. You never miss a trick. </li></ul><ul><li>You've got horse sense. </li></ul>
  10. 10. Watch the Scene Before You Make the Scene. <ul><li>Rehearse being the Super Somebody you want to be ahead of time. </li></ul><ul><li>SEE yourself walking around with Hang by Your Teeth posture, shaking hands, smiling the Flooding Smile, and making Sticky Eyes. </li></ul><ul><li>HEAR yourself chatting comfortably with everyone. </li></ul><ul><li>FEEL the pleasure of knowing you are in peak form and everyone is gravitating toward you. </li></ul><ul><li>VISUALIZE yourself a Super Somebody/ Then it all happens automatically. </li></ul>
  11. 11. Next Meetings <ul><li>How to know what to say after you say &quot;Hi“ </li></ul><ul><li>How to talk like a VIP </li></ul><ul><li>How to be an insider in any crowd </li></ul><ul><li>How to differentiate the power of praise from the folly of flattery </li></ul><ul><li>How to direct dial their hearts </li></ul><ul><li>How to work a party like a politician works a room. </li></ul>
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