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REINVENTING LIFE WITH POSITIVE THINKING

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REINVENTING LIFE WITH POSITIVE THINKING

REINVENTING LIFE WITH POSITIVE THINKING

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  • 1.                                      We  have  problems  and  challenges,  at  the  same  time  in  the  modern  world  there   are  many  more  things  to  cherish  and  enjoy.  When  I  was  young  at  school  I  used  to   enjoy  looking  at  the  nature  everything  was  real  and  natural,  the  friendships  are   heart  worming  and  people  were  sharing  the  feelings  with  commitment  to   friendship.  With  modernity  our  relations  became  more  of  gestures  and  artificial   mannerisms,  as  everyone  is  busy  and  the  game  of  survival  and  competition   penetrated  every  walk  of  life.  We  will  deal  with  many  people  with  conflicts  of   interest  in  profession  and  many  times  we  make  mistakes  as  everyone  makes   mistakes  and  the  busier  you  are,  the  more  mistakes  you  will  make.  The  only   question  is  “Do  you  stay  positive  and  move  forward  from  life’s  inevitable  ups  and   downs?”  For  you  to  truly  understand  yourself  and  to  move  forward  from  the   troubling  things  that  may  have  happened  in  your  past,  you  must  be  able  to   disclose  yourself  to  at  least  one  person,  or  share  with  life  partner.  You  have  to  be   able  to  get  those  things  off  your  mind  sharing  makes  you  light  hearted  and   generates  unknown  peace,  as  there  is  someone  with  you  in  times  of  crisis.   However  do  not  forget,  one  must  rid  yourself  of  those  thoughts  and  feelings  by   revealing  them  to  someone  who  won’t  make  you  feel.  Many  times  I  thought  of   quitting  the  work  and  what  next  is  the  question  which  is  really  frightening  as  the   world  of  change  always  may  not  accommodate  us,  and  every  area  of  work  is   filled  in  complexities  When  things  go  wrong,  passively  accept  that  this  is  the  way   life  is  and  there  isn’t  anything  they  can  do  to  make  it  better.  The  Indian  system  of   workplace  and  work  culture  has  become  static  and  few  wish  to  change,  involving   many  struggles  and  if  I  wish  to  change,  many  times  disappointing,  however  I   decided  the  time  is  limited  for  everyone  and  I  should  not  give  up  my  struggle,   never  give  up  for  change  for  work  place  improvement,  On  the  other  hand,  people   who  practice  positive  thinking  see  the  world  around  them  is  filled  with   opportunities  and  possibilities.  A  great  experience  from  my  great  friend,  when   he  was  down  with  a  stroke  I  went  to  see  him  with  many  negative  possibilities,  he   told  me  previously  I  was  thinking  I  will  live  for  100  years  and  now  after  the   illness  I  am  trying  to  live  for  120  years  this  thinking  has  definitely  made  him  to   back  to  work  without  any  negative  consequences,  A  lesson  for  me  to  think  better   about  life  I  am  convinced  that  we  should  believe  that  everything  happens  as  part   of  a  process  designed  to  make  them  successful  and  happy,  and  practicing   approaching  the  life,  work,  and  the  relationships  with  optimism,  cheerfulness,   and  a  general  attitude  of  positive  thinking  and  expectations.  When  we  stay   positive,  expect  a  lot  and  we  are  seldom  disappointed.  When  you  develop   positive  thinking  and  the  skill  of  learning  from  our  mistakes,  we  become  the  kind   of  person  who  welcomes  obstacles  and  setbacks  as  opportunities  to  flex  our   mental  muscles  and  move  forward.  When  we  look  at  problems  as  rungs  on  the   ladder  of  success  that  you  grab  onto  as  you  pull  your  way  higher.  When  I  was   sitting  in  the  department  as  Professor  expecting  the  matters  to  work  as  per   hierarchy  thing  went  bad  when  I  decided  that  I  should  perform  and  show  skills   everything  went  well  it  means  that  we  should  have  confidence  that  I  am  not   dependent  for  everything  on  others,  then  the  people  realise  they  should  become  
  • 2. compete  with  many  around  this  is  how  a  work  culture  grows  in  the  Institutions.   The  most  common  ways  to  deal  with  mistakes  are  invariably  fatal  to  high   achievement,  still  we  should  try.  The  first  common  but  misguided  way  is  to   handle  a  mistake  is  the  failure  to  accept  it  when  it  occurs.  According  to  statistics,   70  %of  all  decisions  we  make  will  be  wrong.  That’s  an  average.  This  means  that   some  people  will  fail  more  than  70  %  of  the  time,  and  some  people  will  fail  less.   It  is  hard  to  believe  that  most  of  the  decisions  we  make  could  turn  out  to  be   wrong  in  some  way.  In  fact,  if  this  is  the  case,  how  can  our  society  continue  to   function  at  all?  That  is  how  many  great  fall  in  the  built  in  system  with  many   fallacies.  In  life  mistakes  are  common  and  faster  realization  is  the  great  strength   which  we  have  to  cultivate  with  many  failures  we  face  in  life  learning  from  your   mistakes  is  an  essential  skill  that  enables  you  to  move  forward,  stay  positive,  and   develop  the  resilience  to  be  a  master  of  change  rather  than  a  victim  of  change.   The  person  who  recognizes  that  he  has  made  a  mistake  and  changes  direction   the  fastest  is  the  one  who  will  win  in  an  age  of  increasing  information,   technology  and  competition.  My  experience  proves  faster  we  accept  the  mistakes   faster  we  grow  in  life  by  remaining  fast  on  your  feet,  you  will  be  able  to  out-­‐play   and  out-­‐position  your  competition.  You  will  become  a  creator  of  circumstances   rather  than  a  creature  of  circumstances,  If  we  analyse  any  problem,  we  too  are   part  of  the  problem,  as  I  believe  life  is  like  Newton’s  3rd  law  as  every  action  has  a   reaction,  to  change  to  good  or  work  place  improvement  too  is  difficult  and   hazardous  task  still  it  applies  however  to  all  of  us,  we  have  to  fight  for  change,   and  try  to  learn  with  many  challenges  and  failures  I  always  reacted  to  many   matters  which  will  harm  the  system  but  still  I  survived  in  the  system  as  unknown   force  built  in  us  when  we  work  with  positive  spirit.  Every  single  day  is  a  new   opportunity  for  us  to  better  ourselves.  I'd  like  to  wake  up  with  a  cheerful  smile   and  give  some  thankful  words  into  the  universe  too  much  thinking  and  analysing   just  makes  any  problem  worse.  Today  is  a  wonderful  day  –  live  it  in  the  present   love  the  life!  Life  is  wonderful  with  positive  thoughts  and  coordinated  action  try   to  act  with  promptness  when  the  things  go  wrong  that  is  world  of  change  and   aspirations  of  many  in  the  world.  Realize  what  we're  doing  to  ourselves,  get  up,   find  a  distraction,  and  do  something  interesting  positive  Thoughts  grow  with   attention.  When  you  notice  self-­‐limiting  and  self-­‐defeating  thoughts  playing  over   and  over  in  your  mind,  say,  "STOP!  I  will  not  give  you  any  more  power  over  me!  I   have  better  things  to  do!!"  If  you  focus  on  negative  thoughts,  they  will  grow  and   grow  and  become  even  larger.  If  you  focus  on  your  progress  and  the  new   thoughts  you  are  learning,  they  will  grow  stronger  and  take  "automatic"  control.   Life  changes  we  cannot  stop  however  fight  with  positivity  and  optimism.     Dr.T.V.Rao  MD  Professor  of  Microbiology,  Freelance  writer  

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