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Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
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  • 1. Foundations of Healthy Relationships
    Cooperation and Compromise
  • 2. Bell Ringer (5 min)
    Describe your relationship (s) with your siblings and/or closest friends. How do you get along? How do you work through disagreements?
    Keep journals out!
  • 3. Relationships
    • Relationship: a bond or connection you have with other people.
    • 4. Friendship: a significant relationship between two people that is based on trust, caring, and consideration.
    • 5. Citizenship: the way you conduct yourself as a member of the community.
  • Sandra Bullock Video Clips (10 minutes)
    • Sandra Bullock is just one person, but she has played many different roles. Is that true for all of us?
    • 6. Do we all play different roles in the relationships we have throughout our lives?
    • 7. Do the roles we play ever change?
  • The Roles we Play
    Role: a part you play in your relationships
    • Examples of the roles I play
  • Mrs. Day’s Roles
    Roles Mrs. Day Plays Now:
    Roles Mrs. Day has Played Before:
    Employee
    Girlfriend
    Fiancé
    Team captain
    Team member
    Class president
    Class member
    Volunteer
    Someone’s date
    Tutor
    Care-giver/ Pet-owner
  • 18. Skills for building relationships
    Communication: the exchange of thoughts, feelings, and beliefs between two or more people.
    Cooperation: working together for the good of all.
    Compromise: a problem-solving method in which each participant gives up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
  • 19. Two “C”s of Healthy Relationships
    Cooperation and Compromise
    Cheaper by the Dozen: Movie Clip (12 min)
  • 20. Relationship Bank Account (RBA)
    • We have a different bank account with every person we have a relationship with.
    • 21. The quality of our relationships depends on how many deposits and withdrawals we make in each account.
    • 22. When there are significant “funds” in our bank accounts, an occasional withdrawal will not damage the relationship.
    • 23. Minimize withdrawals and make generous deposits on a regular basis.
  • Relationship Bank Account (RBA)
    Examples of Withdrawals:
    • Not listening
    • 24. Being unsympathetic
    • 25. Not keeping a promise
    • 26. Forgetting a friend’s birthday
    • 27. A sarcastic comment
    Examples of Deposits:
    • Understanding what’s
    important to them
    • Remember the little things
    • 28. Tell the truth
    • 29. Sense the need and do it
    • 30. Open up
    • 31. Use the most important words
  • “I Do Care” Activity (page 93 in Page book
    • 10 min
    • 32. Take out a piece of paper
    1. Make a list of the most important people in your lives.
    2. Write down ways to show these people that you care about them.
    3. Write a list of things that you do that might make these people feel like you don’t care about them.
    Make a conscious effort to increase the ways you show these individuals in your life that you care!
  • 33. Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship
    Self Respect
    Respect for Others
  • 34. Respect for Others
    Listen to other people
    Be considerate of other’s feelings
    Develop mutual trust
    Be realistic in your expectations
  • 35. Traits of Healthy Relationships
    • Mutual Respect
    • 36. Treat others with respect and they respect you in return
    • 37. Accept each other’s opinions, tastes, and traditions
    • 38. Accept each other’s differences
    • 39. Don’t force your opinions on each other
    • 40. Caring
    • 41. Treat others with kindness and consideration
    • 42. Show empathy and support
    • 43. Willing to help others
    • 44. Honesty
    • 45. Honest and open with others
    • 46. Don’t conceal your thoughts, feelings, or actions
    • 47. Commitment
    • 48. Contribute to the relationship
    • 49. Work to keep the relationship strong
    • 50. Make sacrifices for the friendship
    • 51. Deal with and overcome problems in a positive way
  • Unhealthy Behaviors
    • Stereotyping: making an exaggerated or oversimplified judgments about people who belong to a certain group.
    • 52. Prejudice: an unfair opinion or judgment of a particular group of people.
    • 53. Bullying: deliberately harming or threatening other people who cannot easily defend themselves.
    • 54. Hazing: making others perform certain tasks in order to join the group.

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