Cyber-Savvy Therapy: Social Networking of Grieving Youth

Cyber-Savvy Therapy: Social Networking of Grieving Youth Cheryl Edwards, M.S., L.P.C., C.T. Daxon D. Edwards, M.B.A., eCommerce

How You Can Use Social Networks Daxon Edwards, MBA, eCommerce

Quick Review Hundreds of Social Networks

Social Media Revolution Video We included a video at this point. You can view the video on YouTube. http:// www.youtube.com/watch?v =sIFYPQjYhv8

The Largest Website in the World Over 400 Million People

103 Million (30%) &

Facebook Demographics (pt. 1)
56% are U.S. Females (of the 103 million)
13-17: 10%
18-24: 25%
25-34: 25%
35-54: 29%
55+: 10% (grew 922% since 2008)
*All stats are for the U.S.
Source: iStrategy Labs (Corbet, 2010)

Facebook Demographics (pt. 2)
Largest Cities:
New York (3%)
Los Angeles (2%)
Chicago (2%)
More affluent population vs. MySpace
*All stats are U.S.
(Corbett, 2010; Miller, 2007)

Facebook Behavior (pt 1)
Each Day:
50% log on
35 million have something new to say in their “status”
Each Week:
5 billion pieces of content shared / week (e.g. links, blog posts, photo albums, etc.)
Each Month:
3 billion photos uploaded
3.5 million events
Source: Facebook, 2010

Facebook Behavior (pt 2)
The average person:
130 friends
Invites 8 people to be their friend each month
Spends 55 minutes per day on Facebook
Invited to 3.5 events per month
Member of 13 “groups”
Source: Facebook, 2010

Why Social? (pt 1)
Staying in touch
Meeting new friends (with common interests)
Meeting old friends (from previous schools)
Facebook stalking 
Scoping out people before dates
(Larsen 2007)

Why Social? (pt 2)
Receiving comments and messages from friends
Encouraging one another
Showcasing what they are proud of
Promoting causes they support
Constructing their identities
(Larsen 2007)

Where is My Place?

Working Man
Working man
College graduate
Wife
Child
Rugby & football
Facebook user
Doesn’t know a counselor
Wife in a comma for two months…

Working Man
- Reach Him? -

Groups vs. Fan Pages VS.

Fan Pages, What?
Meant for individuals, businesses, products….i.e. things.
Accessible to those not on Facebook.
Features similar to personal profiles.
Content is typically provided by the entity the Page is for and people interact with it. The page is not maintained by a “group” but a set of people directly affliated with the entity.
A person becomes a “fan”, not a “member”.

Fan Pages: Advantages
Admin’s personal profile does not show in “fans” list

Fan Page Grief Example
Wall
Info (Your company Info)
Photos

Fan Page Grief Example
Wall
Info (Your company Info)
Photos/Images
Discussion/Forum
Applications
Articles/Blog
Videos
Fans
Fan Comments

Fan Pages: Advantages
Display content on any site

Fan Pages: Disadvantages
Searches: Keywords Only in Title

Groups
Usually around a cause, purpose, organization, or intangible concept
Everyone participates in a group to provide content around the cause
“Join” a group and become a “member”

Groups: Advantages
Personalized invitations
Keywords in descriptions are searched
Privacy settings (public vs. private)

Groups: Disadvantages
Your personal profile is listed as the “admin” for the group
Not as many features available as Pages
Can’t serve up the content via a widget on your own site

How’s The Competition?
Search Pages and Groups by keywords

What Do I Put On My Page?
Funny
Meaningful
Informative
Use examples of versions with high member counts and low
Quotes
One-sentence words of wisdom
Easily digestible content
Types: Comics (comics.com), videos (YouTube), articles/links
Do not include: boring, clinical, highly educated
Get permission where you can

Good to Great
Ask why you want a page
Choose a title and description that uses keywords
Clarify/establish voice/personality
Relational – the page isn’t for you
Use humor/light hearted
Provide Solutions
Update the page often (once per week)
Talking directly to them (i.e. “you”) and use “we”
Include contact information in the “information” area

Ways Youth Grieve using Social Networks

Grief Expressed On Facebook

Grief Expressed On Facebook
Messages to the deceased
Post photos
Share music and videos
Respond to each other
Talk about old times
Share links and events

Utilize the Use of Social Networks in Therapeutic Settings

Professional Opportunities
Psychiatrists are starting to tout the therapeutic power of blogging and many incorporate it into patient treatment (Bennett, 2008)
Mascari and Webber presented at the 2008 ACA annual conference stating counselors “ must keep pace with the world by embracing technology….”
“… professionals providing services to bereaved adolescents would be wise to recognize the roles that the internet and other forms of technology may have in their process of coping with loss ” (Sofka, C.J. 2009)

Let’s Investigate
Using social networks as an
Information and support resource
Intervention tool

Assisting Clients With Information
Discuss posting to the deceased person’s Social Network site
Recording memories of the person
Facebook memorializes profiles to serve as historical page
Connecting with others going through similar pain-normalize
Dialogue and joining with others to overcome their aloneness

Within 6 hours Over 1000 posts

Postings
“ I won’t stop thinking about you..ever!”
“ There are so many moments in my day that I want to share with you”
“ L.B. say Hi to my dad and tell him I love him so much”
“ There will be a prayer service tonight @ Christ the King Church at 6 for all of us friends..”
“ Your dad said thanks to me for coming tonight..I said thank you too—what was wrong with me??”

Social Networking Sites as an Intervention Tool
Using the client’s MySpace/Facebook in the session:
Explore the profile as a reflective exercise between their public profile and actual perception of self
Explore the posted notes
Discuss recent social interactions online and how these are affecting the client

Social Networking Sites as an Intervention Tool
Using the client’s MySpace/Facebook in the session:
Discuss the role of friendships online versus offline
Explore how their layout, quotes, and other aspects express the client’s personality and individuality
Discuss safety and potential high risk behaviors online
Reflect with the client about friends’ comments and messages – normalizing grief feelings

Professional Facebook

Counselors on Facebook
Last year 150 names listed
This year over 500 names listed
Personally: “Fan Page” –not “group”-- “word of mouth”—”Pass it on”—Ease to access
Continually monitoring it and expanding and experimenting
Contact with my board – have members as a “fan”

Where To Begin
Be aware of “your” licensed ethical guidelines
Gather information about your online choices for reaching new clients
Become knowledgeable of both your state and national regulations
Increase communication tools that are quickly changing the way we conduct counseling
K. Derrig-Palumbo and Z.Foojan (2005)

Professional Profiles
Research shows students like it if their counselors, teachers and professors have MySpace or Facebook profiles (Shipp, Adria (2009) BUT. . .
Do not come across as “too chummy” or try to be “cool” on your profiles
Do not include personal information, phone numbers, addresses or information about family members or counselor’s private life
Only include information that would be disclosed in a person-to-person session

Professional Content
-- Benign photos (nothing suggestive, but something more personal than a professional head shot)
Favorite quotes
Favorite books or movies
A description of counseling services provided
Be genuine, warm and friendly BUT with a feeling of boundaries and professionalism
BALANCE accessibility with proper information
Jane Webber (2008)

Examine ethical consideration of the online social networking world

Counselor Ethical Consideration
Exercise appropriate caution
Follow ethical steps when establishing competence
Social Networking is not used for counseling – only as an educational tool
Continue “due diligence” in monitoring your site
Make the client’s welfare a priority
Do not post to the client’s site—you are not a “friend”
Keep trust and good faith by honoring the fidelity of the counselor-client relationship
(Gamino,L.A. and Ritter, R. H. 2009)

Underage Parental Agreement
Discuss with the parent/guardian the purpose of using MySpace/Facebook as an intervention.

Professional Challenges
Never solicit a connection to client social network. A connection severely jeopardizes client confidentiality and should never be initiated by the therapist.
Discuss with the client his/her reasons for requesting a connection. Is the client using the counseling relationship as a friendship? Does he or she want to be a bigger part of your life? Addressing motivations could be good in the therapy process.
Address the risks and benefits. Clients may underestimate the potential for negative emotions they might feel being in your network. Also, address client expectations—what purpose does the client believe the online connection will serve?
Clean up your profile. Minimize the risk of blurring professional-personal boundaries by making your account less personal.
Centore, Anthony, J., (2008)

What We Hope You Have Experienced
An appreciation for the social networks of grieving youth
A expanded set of social network tools to use in therapeutic settings
Considerations for innovative professional ways to connect with grieving youth
Continued ethical consideration of the online social networking world

Contact Information for Presenters
Cheryl Edwards, M.S., L.P.C., C.T.
Preferred Counseling, P.A.
P.O.Box #3
Fort Smith, AR 72902
Ph: 479-709-9880
Fax: 479-709-9887
Email: [email_address]
Blog: preferredcounseling.net
Daxon D. Edwards, M.B.A., eCommerce
Email: [email_address]
Web: www.linkedin.com/in/daxonedwards
Company: www.metamarketer.com
Twitter: @ daxonedwards

Handout: Good to Great
Lock Down Your Voice : Write down the characteristics about the “personality” you will use when posting content. Consistency is vital toward helping people join and be attracted to your initiative.
Make It High : Your social network page cannot be a secondary site for you and return the results you are looking for. The page must be at equal, if not primary, online priority for you.
Make It Relative : It’s very rare to have people who are willing to become a fan or join a group around a business. Instead create one or more page or groups within a social network around specific topics. Then mention your practice in an information/about page.
Make It Relational : If your page is not specifically about your business, then remember that you are starting a COMMUNITY, not a business webpage. People will easily draw around a cause or enriching content before they will draw around a businesses. When you post, use terms like “you” and “we” and “us”. You are just like them—normal people finding good things to say.
Reach Out and Touch : If your page is about your business, remember that a social network page is the beginning of a relationship. Everything you post is like meeting someone at lunch or a social function. Speak to them. Don’t just be another library on the web. If they post something, interact with them with a simple thanks or add your own input. Just remember to talk like an educated equal instead of an authority. You can talk like an authority on your own site.

Handout: Content
Make It Light : Humor and entertainment are the most effective way to get people interested in your practice/message and take on the voluntary role as your online salesmen. Examples: videos with entertaining personalities, comic strips, funny and/or meaningful stories.
Lack-Luster : It’s often hard to find good content. As a fall-back, you can post boring content. But do that rarely—once every three or four posts. Too much will turn people away.
Quality with Ease : Get content from other counselors or professors (be sure to ask for permission), public domain content from Wikipedia, hire someone to add “fun” to your information when you need to. Fun content can be fond on YouTube, comics.com, or search the web with Google.
Consideration : Remember that even though your page is on Facebook, you should still at least let the owner of the content know you are using is and always provide a link back to their site as a sign of good faith.

Handout: Frequency
Quick Read : Ideally, update your social network page about once a week with quality content that is short and to the point. However, it’s usually okay to go as long as two weeks before updating. You want to sit at the sweet spot of not inundating them with messaging while still popping up every once-in-a-while.
It’s Not You : Remember information you provide through the page probably isn’t as important to them as it is to you.
Contacting : In most social networks, there is really only two ways your “fans” will hear from you: (1) when you add new content and (2) if you email all your fans. They will forget about you when you aren’t updating.
Relationship : At the least, like a friendship, realize that the less you interact the relationship will decline.

Handout: Technology & Communication
Be open to learning about technology from students or continuing education programs
Buy and use technology even if you’re uncomfortable and need to ask a child how to use it
Instant messaging and Internet video chats are something you need to be capable of doing
Develop a set of technology competencies that you can achieve with specific deadlines to avoid digital procrastination
Refer back to your Code of Ethics (Same rules both online and offline)
Open a business Facebook account and post information for counselees:
Never solicit a connection. A connection severely jeopardizes client confidentiality and should never be initiated by the therapist.
Keep the profile professional.
Minimize the risk of blurring professional-personal boundaries by keeping your account fun but professional.
Do not come across as “too chummy” or try to be “cool”
Only include information that would be disclosed in a person-to-person session—beware of the ethical slippery slope.
Recognize there will be new technological devices continually changing clients thinking and use of social networking
Be open and flexible to these changes
(Mascari, B. and Webber, J. 2008; Centore, A.J. 2008)

Handout: Social Networks in Therapy
Explore the profile as a reflective exercise into congruence between public profile and actual perception of self c
Explore blogs and/or posted notes c
Discuss recent social interactions online and how these are affecting the client c
Discuss the role of friendships online versus offline c
Explore how the layout, quotes, and other aspects express the client’s personality c
Discuss safety and high risk behaviors online c
Respond to friends’ comments and messages–working through online conflicts
(Webber, J. 2008)

Additional Facebook Links
Create a Fan Page: http:// www.facebook.com/pages/create.php
Create a Group: http:// www.facebook.com/groups/create.php
Facebook Fan Page Widgets: http:// www.facebook.com/facebook -widgets/

References
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American Counseling Association: Ethics code titled, The Appropriateness of On-Line Counseling.
Bennett, J. (2008). My shrink Says…Blog!, Newsweek 42 13.
Centore, Anthony, J., Ph.D (2008) October. Online Social Networking (i.e., “Facebooking”) with Therapy Clients. Retrieved April 1, 2010 from : http:// www.thriveboston.com /counseling/online-social-networking .
Derrig-Palumbo, K. and Foojan, Z. (2005). Online Therapy: A Therapist’s Guide to Expanding Your Practice. New York, NY: W.W. Norton and Co. Inc.
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References
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Mascari, B. and Webber J. (2008) Keeping up with the Facebook and Myspace Generation: What Counselors Can Do. Vistas 2008 Online. Retrieved March 29, 2010, from: http://counselingoutfitters.com/vistas/vistas08/Mascari.htm.
Miller, C. C. (2007). Class War: MySpace Vs. Facebook. Forbes Online. Retrieved April 6, 2010, from: http://www.forbes.com/2007/07/20/facebook-myspace-internet-tech-cz_ccm_0723class.html.
Press Room: Statistics. Retrieved April 6, 2010 from http:// www.facebook.com/press/info.php?statistics .
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Pictures of various Facebook profiles from www.facebook.com

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