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  1. 1. See this banged up vehicle? iStockPhoto: 21529128
  2. 2. This is not a metaphor for what your marriage looks like now...
  3. 3. It is actually the solution that saved Jon and Sue from getting a divorce...
  4. 4. It’s an ugly, banged up car that Jon & Sue will always smile thinking about... for the rest of their lives...
  5. 5. And whether you’ve realized it or not... this is what will save your marriage... as you’ll see in just a couple minutes...
  6. 6. Kinda like you, Jon and Sue had seen better days in their marriage...
  7. 7. For Jon... it snuck up on him slowly until he couldn’t fool himself anymore...
  8. 8. It started with a subtle creeping feeling that something wasn’t right... a dark uneasiness in his stomach...
  9. 9. Something was off, even if he couldn’t place it... And it had been going on for a while...
  10. 10. Sue hadn’t been herself lately... She was colder, more distant... missing that spark he always adored about her...
  11. 11. When they first settled in together as man and wife, she would smile radiantly whenever he walked into the room...
  12. 12. When he came home from work, she would just glow... she’d say “Hey Handsome,” and run up and kiss him on the lips...
  13. 13. Now when he came through the door after a hard day of work, all he would get is a half-smile, and a dry “Hey.” She wouldn’t even get up to give him a hug...
  14. 14. The blazing passion that used to define their relationship had been simmering down to barely a pulse...
  15. 15. Wilting away like a dying flower over the last two years...
  16. 16. It didn’t feel like she really respected him anymore... or cared about how he felt...
  17. 17. The little things she used to do for him to show she cared... all of those were quietly disappearing...
  18. 18. One thing that used to amaze him was how she could surprise him with with a spontaneous caring gesture when he least expected it...
  19. 19. She would do things like sneak a love note into his briefcase during a big meeting day...
  20. 20. He’d discover the note during the business meeting and blush beet red... she was so cutely mischievous...
  21. 21. She’d always look nice for him... and do things like put on his favorite sundress... even they were just staying in and it wasn’t “date night”...
  22. 22. These days, things were different... she didn’t seem to care at all whether she turned him on or looked attractive...
  23. 23. She started not bothering to do her hair how he liked it... and always dressing as if it was a “lazy sunday”...
  24. 24. As each day went by...she seemed colder, more distant...
  25. 25. It started to feel like they weren’t even “in love” anymore... just roommates raising kids together...
  26. 26. Jon had enough evidence at this point to know something was definitely wrong, even if he couldn’t place what...
  27. 27. So he decided something needs to change!
  28. 28. He went on Google to look for relationship advice... and discovered some interesting tips on improving his marriage...
  29. 29. “This is so easy!” he thought, “Why didn’t I think of it before?”
  30. 30. He learned about love languages, and started reading about how women and men are from different “planets” and just need to understand each other’s differences...
  31. 31. Revived and optimistic, he put these new tools to work... doing loving favors and showing how much he cared about her...
  32. 32. He sent unexpected flowers to her office... and helped her around the house without being asked...
  33. 33. He made sure to compliment her beauty when she even took the slightest gesture to look nice for him...
  34. 34. And it was working!
  35. 35. Things seemed to be picking up for the two of them... and she definitely noticed how caring he was being...
  36. 36. Jon wanted to continue improving their relationship so he took her to a very special restaurant, on a surprise date night...
  37. 37. This was a wonderful night-time venue they hadn’t been to in years...
  38. 38. They were going to go to “L’Astrance” the French restaurant he had proposed to her at...
  39. 39. He had been very creative in setting up this surprise-date so she wouldn’t expect it...
  40. 40. He told her they were just going somewhere casual in town...
  41. 41. He smiled to himself as they walked closer and closer to L’Astrance...
  42. 42. “She’s going to be so excited when she realizes where we’re going... and it’s not even our anniversary! She’ll be so happy to do this on a random date night!” He couldn’t wait to see her reaction...
  43. 43. He walked hand in hand with his lovely wife as they got closer to the restaurant... thinking “Man am I lucky...” Then something beyond his darkest imagination occurred...
  44. 44. Her eyes met the L’Astrance sign and she abruptly halted in her tracks... as if her feet had gotten stuck in the cement in the sidewalk...
  45. 45. “I can’t do this...” she said...
  46. 46. Jon was shocked... this didn’t make sense at all... She loved this restaurant! It had so many memories for them. What was wrong??
  47. 47. “I... I think we need to be apart...” she finally said... before breaking down into tears.
  48. 48. After a few moments of crushing silence, he awkwardly nodded and started walking back to the car with her... no longer holding hands...
  49. 49. Jon didn’t know what to think... What did she mean “We need to be apart”?... A separation... a divorce?!? This out-of-nowhere request hit him like a cold brick to the head...
  50. 50. He knew they had been through some hard times recently but he had no idea it had gotten this bad...
  51. 51. Jon had never dreamed Sue would want a life without him, period...
  52. 52. As they drove home in cold, deathly silence... Jon’s thoughts could not stop racing...
  53. 53. “This isn’t fair...” Jon had committed to spending the rest of his life with Sue and he had never once considered going back on his word... He loved her... He had sacrificed so much for her...
  54. 54. Then this happened:
  55. 55. And their marriage became more beautiful than ever...
  56. 56. However... Long before that crashed car saved their marriage... Sue had been going through a very different experience with Jon...
  57. 57. When Sue and Jon had first gotten married... it was all a wonderful dream that she hoped she would never wake up from...
  58. 58. She had met her fairy-tale Prince... the man that made her feel safe... sexy... and alive...
  59. 59. She could always trust Jon to be there for her no matter what... He was her wall that she could always lean on...
  60. 60. And he made her feel so good... He loved making her happy... loved taking care of her and showering her with affection...
  61. 61. Every day was a holiday... It felt like life had become an ongoing vacation...
  62. 62. As long as Jon was hand in hand with her, she couldn’t even imagine being bored... or lonely... or dissatisfied with anything in the world...
  63. 63. But over the last two years... their passion had cooled like an herbal tea left outside a bit too long...
  64. 64. A dull feeling remained that was still tolerable... but she couldn’t help but grieve that she no longer had that searing fire of love in her heart for him...
  65. 65. She found herself caring less for Jon... and caring for the relationship even less... She wasn’t sure how this could happen... She certainly didn’t want to lose what they had...
  66. 66. At times, she blamed herself... Though she also felt that Jon wasn’t pulling his weight either...
  67. 67. Jon did seem to be taking her for granted lately... Things she did to make him happy were no longer appreciated... Sometimes they weren’t even noticed...
  68. 68. She would spend hours of her day cooking Jon’s favorite dish... a delicious lamb roast...
  69. 69. And he would just sit down and eat... Without even a word about all the time and effort and attention she put into this meal...
  70. 70. She may as well have made him a microwave TV dinner for all he cared...
  71. 71. And this hurt her... a lot... As he uncaringly ate the lamb... she held back her tears and swallowed back her burning urge to scream at him for callously throwing her loving gift back in her face...
  72. 72. And that wasn’t the only time things like that happened...
  73. 73. Sometimes she would go to the salon to get an absolutely gorgeous haircut and facial... to look beautiful for him...
  74. 74. And not only did he not notice...
  75. 75. When she finally told him what she had done to look good for him, the first words out of his mouth were... “Well how much did that cost?”
  76. 76. She began sadly resigning herself to the fact that nothing she did would ever be good enough... “Why do I even bother...” she felt...
  77. 77. So from that day on, she stopped working overtime to please him...
  78. 78. And it didn’t seem to matter... because Jon had also gotten lazy with his appearance as well...
  79. 79. He used to shave daily because he knew she loved feeling his ultra-smooth, fresh-shaved skin when they kissed...
  80. 80. Now he didn’t care if he had a stubble, even though it would scratch her face when they were close...
  81. 81. In the early days, he used to shower and put on her favorite cologne before getting intimate with her... Now she was lucky if he even wore deodorant...
  82. 82. And her blood began to boil when she asked him to help clean up the kids for dinner and he said “No, I’m watching football...”
  83. 83. Did he not respect her anymore? Was he not attracted to her enough? She could feel her emotional investment to him shrinking as each day passed...
  84. 84. Now... her friends were completely on her side on this matter... “You’re great, Sue. I don’t know why you put up with him...”
  85. 85. And it didn’t take long for her to notice that when she dressed pretty and dolled up... Other men were turning their heads to check her out... even if Jon wasn’t...
  86. 86. “Maybe being single again wouldn’t be so bad...” she thought...
  87. 87. Then out of nowhere... Jon pulled a 180-degree turn and started changing his ways... totally without warning...
  88. 88. She didn’t know what happened... Suddenly he was extremely attentive, sweet... everything she thought she was missing...
  89. 89. But... it just didn’t feel right... Everything he did felt forced...
  90. 90. It didn’t feel natural and loving... It felt fake...
  91. 91. She couldn’t help but wonder... “Where is this coming from? Is he feeling guilty for something? Is he having an affair??”
  92. 92. The more he tried to be nice, the more distance she found herself needing...
  93. 93. Until that night he tried to take her on that ultra-romantic date to the L’Astrance...
  94. 94. She had already been holding back the need to escape for a while...
  95. 95. But when she saw the blue-lights of the L’Astrance sign, she couldn’t do this anymore...
  96. 96. She jolted to a stop on the sidewalk... as if everything inside her had slammed on the breaks to a screeching halt... She said “I think we need to be apart...”
  97. 97. That was before she talked to a lawyer, of course...
  98. 98. They drove home that night and agreed to sleep in separate rooms, until Jon could go to a friend’s house for a while...
  99. 99. And it didn’t take long before both of them started to realize the implications of splitting up...
  100. 100. Sue heard the bad news from the attorney first... “It’s going to cost you a lot,” said the lawyer...... “And it can take up to 2 years to finalize...”
  101. 101. Sue was in shock... “TWO YEARS?? That’s ridiculous!!”
  102. 102. Sue was expecting three (or maybe five) months at most!
  103. 103. She thought she’d be remarried in two years time... She had this beautiful plan of being happily single for a while... playing the field for a little bit... finding someone new... and falling in love all over again...
  104. 104. Her life wasn’t supposed to miss a beat...
  105. 105. But it savagely dawned on her that marriage is not so easy to split up...
  106. 106. The attorney told her: “Even when a couple tries to separate nicely... unexpected disputes come up and it can take a long time to settle in court... You two have some decent assets... and children...”
  107. 107. A divorce was going to cost her tens of thousands of dollars in court fees alone...
  108. 108. Sue had been assuming she’d either get the house after the divorce or move to a nice apartment in the city...
  109. 109. But now that she was going to be spending this much on lawyers, mediation, and court fees...
  110. 110. Not only would she not be able to afford to keep the house... she would be living in the smallest apartment she’d lived in since college!
  111. 111. The “new single life” didn’t sound so fun anymore... It was a rude awakening...
  112. 112. She couldn’t help but wonder if it might be easier to fix the marriage she had than to find a new one... After all, she was madly in love with Jon when she said her vows... Could she get that back?
  113. 113. Jon was having a similar experience...
  114. 114. He hadn’t wanted a divorce at all, but the idea sounded even worse now that his attorney Robert Rey was telling him the time and costs involved...
  115. 115. Mr. Rey told him “If most couples had any idea how much time, money, and stress it takes to get divorced... they would give their marriage a second shot...”
  116. 116. Jon sighed with dismay... if only there was a way to fix this... if only he knew what to do...
  117. 117. Then Mr. Rey said something totally unexpected...
  118. 118. “I’m not going to take you as a client.”
  119. 119. Jon was startled, “What? Why??”
  120. 120. Mr. Rey said, “Normally, I’d be happy to take your money. You have some good assets, and the way your case looks... this could take a long time, even years...”
  121. 121. “I’d love to have the income for the firm... but I’m tremendously booked up for the next 3 months...”
  122. 122. Mr. Rey continued, “I know you can’t wait around for 3 months while your wife is divorcing you, so this is my idea...”
  123. 123. “Look outside over there...”
  124. 124. Mr. Rey pointed out the window and in the parking lot was this smashed up car...
  125. 125. Mr. Rey frowned... “On my way over here, some bonehead thought he had the right of way and crashed into my car...”
  126. 126. “What the heck this have to do with my case?” thought Jon impatiently...
  127. 127. Mr. Rey continued... “I had to rush, so I took the guy’s business card so he can pay for the damage... I’ve got his info taken down now, so now I’m giving this bonehead’s card to you...”
  128. 128. The card read “Andrew Rusbatch – Save My Marriage Today”
  129. 129. Yes... that “bonehead” is me...
  130. 130. As Jon looked over the card curiously, Mr. Rey said “I want you to try this guy out for 3 months... I looked at his website and he has a track record for saving hundreds of marriages...”
  131. 131. Jon disagreed and quickly piped in, “I wish that were possible, but Sue doesn’t want to fix things. She doesn’t even want to go to counseling!”
  132. 132. Mr. Rey raised an eyebrow, “That’s what’s different about this guy... He doesn’t actually like counseling... and he says you don’t even need your spouse on board to make this work...”
  133. 133. “All you have to do is follow his little system, supposedly.”
  134. 134. Mr. Rey smiled, “Look, I’m skeptical too. He might be full of shit. But out of my own self- interest, I don’t want you to hire another lawyer until I can take your case...”
  135. 135. “Give him a few months... if it doesn’t work, I’ll get your money later. If he does save your marriage... then at least the other firms don’t get you as a client either...”
  136. 136. Jon’s first thought was, “No wonder people don’t like lawyers...”
  137. 137. But his next thought was that if there’s any hope... any hope at all that this Save My Marriage Today guy can stop this divorce and give him the happy love life he once had... than he’d be an idiot to not give it a shot...
  138. 138. He arranged an email consultation with the man on the business card... with me... and believe me it wasn’t cheap...
  139. 139. But three months later...
  140. 140. He never called the lawyer again...
  141. 141. And when Mr. Rey tried to follow up in a few months, Jon didn’t even bother listening to the voicemail...
  142. 142. In almost no time at all, Jon and Sue were in love again...
  143. 143. Things were getting better by the day... sometimes by the hour...
  144. 144. They still had arguments... but that was ok...
  145. 145. While before, each disagreement was bringing them down...
  146. 146. Now, they use every little quarrel as an opportunity to get closer... to be happier...
  147. 147. They’re in love again... they are friends again... and they spend each day happily living their life together...
  148. 148. Jon is back to being thoughtful and doing nice things for Sue... but it feels natural and loving...
  149. 149. Sue dolls herself up for Jon and he swoons in amazement for how beautiful she is... and how wonderful it is to have a loving wife who cares for him like this...
  150. 150. Divorce is completely off the table...
  151. 151. And not because of how expensive and time-consuming the divorce process would have been...
  152. 152. They now have solid... real loving reasons to stay together... and it doesn’t feel like work anymore... it feels like a renewed honeymoon...
  153. 153. Their marriage is beautiful because both spouses have their needs completely met...
  154. 154. Sue feels more beautiful than she did on her wedding day... and Jon once again feels truly respected as the man of the house...
  155. 155. And none of this required going to a marriage counselor...
  156. 156. Or reading a bunch of books...
  157. 157. Or learning a new “love language...”
  158. 158. It just took something very simple that I will give you today...
  159. 159. So you can have what Jon and Sue have...
  160. 160. Right now, Jon and Sue feel blessed that their marriage had this little fender-bender...
  161. 161. Because now they are closer than ever before...
  162. 162. I just got an email from Jon about how they’re right now on a nice tropical vacation, enjoying life more than ever...
  163. 163. Every day is a gift...
  164. 164. And I want the same thing for you...
  165. 165. But you won’t need to sign up for an expensive one-on-on consult with me...
  166. 166. Instead, I am going to give you all you need in the next few minutes so you can snap your marriage back to where it belongs...
  167. 167. And feel that romantic bliss again... have your partner on your side... no matter how rough things are right now...
  168. 168. I’m Andrew Rusbatch, and let’s be clear...
  169. 169. I’m not a fancy pants PhD in Marriage Therapy… if you want one of those, you can go grab the yellow pages and sort through the pile…
  170. 170. The reason why you’re here is I think that on some level you know those people can’t help you… And there’s a very specific reason for that… which reveal in one minute…
  171. 171. What I am is someone who has been helping marriages go from complete and utter failure to indescribable romantic bliss since I began coaching couples in 2005…
  172. 172. And it’s only now that I’m giving everything away to you without you having to book a private consulting package with me...
  173. 173. If you’re like a lot of the clients I talk to... then there’s a good chance things have gotten bad… really bad…
  174. 174. You might not be living with your spouse anymore…
  175. 175. You might not be talking with your spouse anymore…
  176. 176. There might even be divorce papers waiting on your doorstep…
  177. 177. Or you might just be in a place where you know divorce is a scary possibility… even if it hasn’t been said out loud yet...
  178. 178. So I am going to tell you 3 things that will not only help save your marriage from bitter, expensive divorce...
  179. 179. But give you a renewed loving passion with your spouse that you forgot was even possible...
  180. 180. Where you are grateful for each other every moment... and waking up together on a Saturday morning feels more magical than even your wedding day...
  181. 181. The first thing you need to know is…
  182. 182. You must avoid separation at all costs…
  183. 183. And if you’re already separated… you and I have to get to work… quick!
  184. 184. A lot of people like you have had their spouses either hint at separation or demand it…
  185. 185. And I don’t blame people for thinking that’s a good idea... The heart might be in the right place... “Some time apart will give us some perspective...”
  186. 186. However... this is what I’ve seen happen countless times with separated couples...
  187. 187. One or both of the spouses starts to get adjusted to the single life again…
  188. 188. They’re not really single... because they haven’t realized how much a divorce will dominate or even destroy their lives...
  189. 189. But it feels nice to have a little space...
  190. 190. A lot of people assume that their spouse will start missing them and want them back...
  191. 191. But the truth is that once a spouse gets re-acquainted with single life…
  192. 192. Other ideas pop in their head…
  193. 193. “Maybe it wouldn’t be so bad…”
  194. 194. “It’s a little lonely now but maybe once I started dating other people this would be fun…”
  195. 195. These are Marriage- Exterminating ideas… and even the best, most well-intentioned couples who separated in order to SAVE the marriage are in danger of this…
  196. 196. The 2nd tip I am going to give you may surprise you…
  197. 197. And it is the fact that whether you know it yet or not…
  198. 198. You... by yourself... have all the power to fix your marriage and prevent a nasty divorce... even if it looks hopeless and your partner has already sent the papers to your doorstep...
  199. 199. What I learned in my near decade-long marriage saving career is: All it takes is one spouse to save a marriage.
  200. 200. This can sound surprising or even impossible to some people... but it’s amazing what happens when one person does what is necessary... even in just taking that first step...
  201. 201. I’ve seen some messy situations, worse than you’d ever believe…
  202. 202. And it all came down to that one spouse willing to take action…
  203. 203. Even when it looked hopeless…
  204. 204. Even when the other spouse was already demanding a divorce…
  205. 205. Even when lawyers were already in the picture…
  206. 206. And through countless consultations over email… (which I’ll show you how to download in a moment as a special gift for watching this)
  207. 207. You’ll see how people were able to bring their marriages from the darkest pits of despair to beautiful heights of joy and light…
  208. 208. Time after time as this happened, it became predictable... It became almost easy to give someone exactly what they need to turn their marriage around...
  209. 209. It became a simple system that I didn’t need to think so hard about anymore...
  210. 210. And that’s what got me to a “problem”…
  211. 211. Which brings me to the 3rd Point... one I didn’t even want to admit existed...
  212. 212. There was something very dark about what I was doing when helping couples save their marriages...
  213. 213. I felt great helping people stop divorce and renew their love through phone and email consultations…
  214. 214. But there was one fact that I was a little uncomfortable with…
  215. 215. That they didn’t really need me to do it…
  216. 216. All they needed was this simple system I was using... It was basically the same conversation... email after email, couple after couple…
  217. 217. It didn’t matter who was using the Save My Marriage Today system... As long as they followed the instructions, it worked...
  218. 218. And that got me feeling insecure... What if this system got out in the open and people didn’t need me anymore?
  219. 219. What if everyone knew this so no needed to hire me?
  220. 220. It was that moment when I felt a nauseating turn in my stomach and realized I was incredibly and unforgivably selfish…
  221. 221. I am so ashamed of how much I had been holding back...
  222. 222. All around me, from coast to coast… around the world… marriages were dying…
  223. 223. Divorces are rampant… families are breaking apart…
  224. 224. Children will never know the security and pleasure of living with both parents for their entire young lives…
  225. 225. And I was letting this happen nationwide... worldwide... just to make a quick buck...
  226. 226. I was part of the problem…
  227. 227. And that ends today...
  228. 228. So I’m going to effectively slit the throat of my private marriage consulting business... even though it may cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars...
  229. 229. And I’m going to make everything available to you personally, today...
  230. 230. Everything I’ve ever taught to save marriages is now available to download for yourself…
  231. 231. And in less than 130 seconds, I’ll show you how to get all of this…
  232. 232. I’ve put together some easy-to- follow manuals that outlines the entire process I’ve used with hundreds of couples, step by step…
  233. 233. And with this... you can start healing your marriage at this moment… and be happier than ever…
  234. 234. This is Save My Marriage Today
  235. 235. My entire program for preventing divorce and turning your marriage into indescribable joy... even if divorce looks inescapable...
  236. 236. So in these marital bliss making manuals, I’ve put everything in here...
  237. 237. First, you have the original full guide for Save My Marriage Today...
  238. 238. Which packs everything in you need to make your marriage caring... cooperative... respectful... and loving...
  239. 239. You’ll experience the Love Mindset Shift... and go from “trying to solve problems”” to making each day a wonderful opportunity to re-connect with your spouse....
  240. 240. You’ll see why 83% of your marriage disagreements are not from a lack of love, but from problems with the Four Interpersonal Skills... which will all be solved for you...
  241. 241. And with the “Fight Dissolver” process, you’ll nip disagreements in the bud before they explode into nasty arguments...
  242. 242. The truth is that all the fights and arguments you hate come from layers and layers of minor, unspoken conflict...
  243. 243. And when you have Save My Marriage Today, you will have the awareness needed to stop this vicious cycle in its tracks...
  244. 244. And all of this works even if your spouse is not living with you anymore...
  245. 245. It’s true, that separation is very dangerous for marriages, (especially for one already on the rocks)...
  246. 246. And that’s why it’s all the more important you correct this now...
  247. 247. The process for getting a spouse to move back in with you is a careful process... and you must follow what Save My Marriage Today advises to the letter...
  248. 248. Trying to wing this on your own can be expensive and deadly for your relationship...
  249. 249. In Save My Marriage Today, you’ll gain full confidence in how to resolve any conflicts you have about children in the house...
  250. 250. Whether they are your own or from a previous relationship...
  251. 251. One of the scariest things about divorce is having a judge decide for both of you what happens to your children...
  252. 252. So you do not want to skip this section when you get Save My Marriage Today...
  253. 253. An extremely important thing you’ll find invaluable is the Relationship Stress Melter which makes all the stress you deal with day-to-day disappear...
  254. 254. Stress is a delicate subject you cannot ignore... because stress from your daily life feeds into your marriage...
  255. 255. And then when your relationship gets stressful... that feeds into the rest of your life.. and the vicious cycle continues... but NOT when you have the Relationship Stress Melter at your fingertips...
  256. 256. Imagine how great it will be to stop stress in its tracks... to be able to walk through life in absolute peace... knowing you have the loving support of your partner at every turn...
  257. 257. And imagine feeling ten times better at work and when you’re with friends... Imagine feeling refreshed and happy when you wake up...
  258. 258. Remember that the health of your relationship affects every area of your life... from your physical health, to your mental well-being and happiness...
  259. 259. And if you’ve ever wondered what’s normal in a marriage and what should or should not be happening... then I have something special for you...
  260. 260. There are 6 Stages of Marriage you need to understand... so you’ll recognize when a so-called “conflict” is ‘bad’ and when it means the relationship is actually getting deeper and even more loving...
  261. 261. There are times where things appear to be a little rocky but are actually the sign of amazing things to come...
  262. 262. The tough part you had until now was knowing when these changes are perfectly normal and when they are a problem...
  263. 263. With Save My Marriage Today, you’ll never again have to wonder because it’s all laid out for you...
  264. 264. And I know you’ve heard a million mixed opinions about what’s supposed to happen in your relationship...
  265. 265. Your parents say one thing... your friends say another... and of course your spouse has their own opinion...
  266. 266. When you have Save My Marriage Today as your guide, all that confusion evaporates...
  267. 267. Your friends & family are valuable in helping you get clarity about your marriage... but they can unintentionally (or intentionally) sabotage your relationship for life if you are not looking at this guide...
  268. 268. You may be wondering “What if my spouse is not on board with this Save My Marriage thing...”
  269. 269. I’m not going to lie... it will be much easier if your spouse is going through this guide the same time as you... and I understand that’s not always possible...
  270. 270. If the divorce papers are lying on your doorstep, chances are that Save My Marriage Today is not at the top of your spouse’s to-do list...
  271. 271. And that’s totally fine...
  272. 272. The magic of Save My Marriage Today is that it only takes one person’s commitment to save a marriage...
  273. 273. Even if your spouse doesn’t want to speak to you again... you can make it work using this guide...
  274. 274. And believe me, there are plenty marriages that these principles have saved... even when the marriage was at death’s door...
  275. 275. Now you may be concerned that you don’t have enough time for all of this because things have gotten so bad, so fast...
  276. 276. If you feel your marriage is on life-support and one of you is about to pull the plug... You need every fast-action resource right now without any time to spare! ...
  277. 277. So I’ve built an Emergency Operating Room for your marriage in this special manual...
  278. 278. And it’s called... Save My Marriage Today – Book 2: Emergency Guide
  279. 279. Sometimes you don’t have the time to go page by page... so with this guidebook I make absolutely sure you have the solution you need instantly...
  280. 280. Whatever your problem is, you can find it in your Emergency Guide so you can take the necessary steps before it’s too late...
  281. 281. This is especially helpful if an affair has happened... and one of you has packed a suitcase in rage...
  282. 282. And yes... if there is cheating involved... whether it’s a one- night-stand or an extended affair... you absolutely can and should resolve it...
  283. 283. I know that right now it can be hard to think clearly about your marriage... you may be in a state of anger... frustration... maybe depression.. and it will be harder to think straight and do the right thing...
  284. 284. That’s why you can lean on the Emergency Guide to do all the hard work for you...
  285. 285. You can relax... Save My Marriage Today is designed to take all those conflicting stressful emotions and melt them away... so you can be in a calm relaxed state as your marriage gets resolved...
  286. 286. Whether you’re grieving in disappointment or furious with betrayal...
  287. 287. Even if you’re wondering if you should even bother fixing your marriage...
  288. 288. This Emergency Guide will give you everything you need...
  289. 289. And because stopping a possible divorce is so important, I’m going to gift you a $167 bonus when you get Save My Marriage Today...
  290. 290. You get the 12 Part Video Series for Marriages in Extreme Crisis...
  291. 291. This takes your Save My Marriage Today – Emergency Guide to the next level...
  292. 292. As me and several other professionals guide you through the hard issues of repairing a marriage... such as when there’s cheating, addiction, money problems, or depression & anxiety...
  293. 293. The original plan was to make this a course you could buy separately, but I want to make sure you have absolutely everything you need to save yourself from divorce and everything that comes with it...
  294. 294. So this 12-Part Video series is yours FREE when you get Save My Marriage Today...
  295. 295. But that’s not all...
  296. 296. Remember that I said earlier that I’d let you peak through my email consultations with past couples who turned their marriages around?
  297. 297. Well I’m going to do more than that...
  298. 298. Over the last nine years, I’ve amassed a ton of success stories and email consultations that have dealt with very specific situations...
  299. 299. No matter what you’re going through right now, I am sure you’ll relate to many of the stories of challenge and success...
  300. 300. So I’m going to give you access to look over these case histories so you’ll know your marriage will be ok...
  301. 301. You get not just one volume... not two volumes... but three volumes of my best and most successful consultations over the past nine years...
  302. 302. I could sell each of these separately, but I like I said, I want to give you all the ammunition you need to obliterate all the problems threatening your marriage....
  303. 303. You get Save My Marriage Today Consults – Volumes 1, 2, & 3 at no charge at all...
  304. 304. That’s a value easily of $60 by itself...
  305. 305. By now, you’re probably wondering “Ok, well how much do I have to pay for all this?”
  306. 306. Before I answer that... I hope I don’t have to point out the real elephant in the room...
  307. 307. What will it cost you not to save your marriage...
  308. 308. Remember that divorce can cost you literally tens of thousands of dollars...
  309. 309. The lawyers & court fees can go on endlessly...
  310. 310. And just when you think things are settled... a new dispute comes up that drags on for another six months...
  311. 311. And all this time you’re missing work for court appointments...
  312. 312. You’re stressed out...
  313. 313. The time you take off work for divorce can cause you to get passed over for a promotion...
  314. 314. Or even fired!
  315. 315. And at this point, unfortunately it is completely legal for companies to fire employees for missing work from divorce court dates... even if you’re required by law to show up...
  316. 316. And if... God-forbid... you lose your job during a child custody battle... Well, you just know what the judge is going to decide...
  317. 317. And that’s before we even get to the mental... emotional... and health costs of going through a stressful divorce...
  318. 318. Believe me... anything I could charge you for just one more chance at a happy marriage would be a drop in the bucket compared to the alternative!
  319. 319. So to get Save My Marriage Today, all it takes is $97
  320. 320. And this not only includes your Save My Marriage Today guide... But also Save My Marriage: Book 2 – Emergency Manual to make sure you turn things around ASAP before it’s too late...
  321. 321. And for free, I’m throwing in the $167 12-Part video Course for Marriages in Extreme Crisis
  322. 322. PLUS the 3 Volumes of Consults valued at $60...
  323. 323. When you add these extra- special bonus materials to the main Save My Marriage Today guides... you end up with a total value of.... $97 + 167 + 60 = $324
  324. 324. Which is STILL a drop in the bucket compared to divorce proceedings... and less than the price of a couple counseling sessions...
  325. 325. And you get all of this for just $97...
  326. 326. Unless you buy right now, in which I will give ALL of this to you for just $47
  327. 327. Yes... if you buy right now from this presentation... if you click Add to Cart without hesitating a moment longer... you can have all of this for just $47... less than a dinner out for two...
  328. 328. That’s a steal if I ever heard one... Now when you click Add to Cart...
  329. 329. Imagine how refreshed you will be to know you’ve taken the first step in re-creating a loving, wholesome... relationship with your spouse...
  330. 330. Remember that even if they’ve already left you... it’s not too late...
  331. 331. The divorced papers aren’t signed and approved by a judge yet...
  332. 332. You still CAN turn this around...
  333. 333. All you have to do is click Add to Cart...
  334. 334. And you will be taken to a secure checkout page...
  335. 335. And be literally minutes away from melting away all the issues in your marriage and creating a rock-solid bond with your spouse that you never dreamed you could have with anyone...
  336. 336. And if you’re even a little bit unsure of whether this is the right decision to make...
  337. 337. Know that you’re fully protected by a 60-Day Money-Back Guarantee
  338. 338. Look, I know a lot of “professional marriage counselors” say that you need many months or years to ‘fix your issues’...
  339. 339. But this guide is called Save My Marriage TODAY for a reason...
  340. 340. I don’t think it should take you any time at all to realize that this guide is literally rescuing you and your spouse from divorce...
  341. 341. So if you use any of these principles at all and don’t think it’s doing the job... then of course contact us for a full refund...
  342. 342. This course is designed to save you from a loss of tens of thousands of dollars in attorney fees... and massive emotional pain...
  343. 343. So you don’t see immediate obvious results from Save My Marriage Today... then we don’t want your money!
  344. 344. And if you browse through it and decide “Hey I don’t think this will work,” then YES you can have a refund if you’d like... but I’d highly advise you use the system before making any judgments...
  345. 345. Remember this is your marriage... your family you’re talking about here... not a measly $47....
  346. 346. So now the question comes of if you’re ready to take that one step toward creating a whole new life for you and your spouse...
  347. 347. Mending that broken heart and healing your wounds... so you can be happy together for life...
  348. 348. You don’t have to worry about your future anymore... or wonder if the neighbors or relatives are gossiping about how you two are doing...
  349. 349. You don’t have to wonder if you’ll only get to see your child on weekends... (or if you’ll have to raise that child all by yourself...)
  350. 350. It all begins when you click Add to Cart
  351. 351. Imagine what it will be like to know your spouse is once again the love of your life... your best friend... someone you can depend on for life...
  352. 352. When we worry so much about saving our marriage... it’s so easy to forget how wonderfully blissful a thriving marriage can be...
  353. 353. Where every day is a beautiful reminder of how lucky you are to be with this person...
  354. 354. Don’t you want that back...
  355. 355. Don’t let $47 stand in the way of you renewing your love & passion with your partner...
  356. 356. I can’t imagine how this could not be worth it if you care even a little bit about making your marriage work...
  357. 357. Click Add to Cart and within minutes, you’ll be downloading the solution to your problems and be stomping out the threat of divorce once and for all...
  358. 358. And I have a little secret to tell you if you need a little more reason to click Add to Cart and save your marriage...
  359. 359. And that’s several unannounced bonuses that I’ve slipped in here as a special gift for you...
  360. 360. I was just going to let you be surprised when you get to the instant download area... but if you haven’t clicked the button yet...
  361. 361. Then I don’t want to risk you walking away and losing your marriage because I didn’t try everything to help you...
  362. 362. So your first secret bonus is “Re-Establishing Commitment: Practical Steps to Rebuild Love in Your Marriage”
  363. 363. This is a special report which will make it ten times easier to pick up the pieces once you and your spouse have officially “made up” and agreed to work things out...
  364. 364. Sometimes even after a couple has reconciled... there can be that “awkward phase” where it takes time for things to get back to normal...
  365. 365. This guide will give you a stone- solid foundation to build your relationship on so it’s easy to restart your new happy life together...
  366. 366. The next secret bonus is: “How to Cheat-Proof Your Relationship”
  367. 367. This special ebook is beyond valuable for both preventing infidelity and knowing what to do if either you or your spouse has made the mistake of cheating...
  368. 368. The truth is that infidelity is rampant all over the world... even with very happy couples... so you always need to be on guard to make sure you know the warning signs... and how to nip a possible affair in the bud...
  369. 369. And the third secret bonus is: Stress: A Comprehensive Guide to Wellness & Inner Peace
  370. 370. I don’t need to remind you how destructive stress can be to not only your marriage but your health... your career... and every part of your life...
  371. 371. Remember that stress is a vicious cycle that needs to be stopped before it rips everything away from you... and this guide will give you everything you need to drop the stress and relax in peace...
  372. 372. This guide could easily add years to your life with its breakthroughs in letting go of anxiety and stress... And you can use it to help your spouse whenever they’re having a bad day as well...
  373. 373. And what are the three other secret bonuses?
  374. 374. Well I can’t give everything away, can I? You’ll have to see when you click Add to Cart...
  375. 375. You already know that for the shockingly low price of $47 you get the full Save My Marriage Today program...
  376. 376. Including the main Save My Marriage Today guide... the Emergency Guide... and the 12- Part Video Series for Marriages in Extreme Crisis...
  377. 377. As well as the THREE Volumes of Consults...
  378. 378. If that wasn’t enough for $47... You’re also getting literally six more bonuses... which you know three of already... So you’ll be able to “Re-Establish Commitment”... “Cheat-Proof Your Relationship” and “Stop Stress”...
  379. 379. And you know there are Three More Mystery Bonuses inside waiting for you...
  380. 380. That you can only get through this presentation... Just by clicking Add to Cart right now...
  381. 381. So what are you waiting for?
  382. 382. It’s time to reclaim your marriage... get the respect you deserve... and put any worries of divorce to rest...
  383. 383. You don’t have to worry about divorce or separation anymore because you’ve done the right thing today... By clicking Add to Cart and saving your marriage...
  384. 384. You won’t have to go through the humiliation of your friends and family seeing your marriage fail...
  385. 385. And if you have children, you won’t have the shame of letting them know you’re splitting...
  386. 386. Instead, you’ll have the joy of knowing that any kids that are in your life will be growing up around parents that are 100% completely in love...
  387. 387. Showing them the example of what real love looks like and that marriage works...
  388. 388. Imagine being able to have all the joy you did when you were first married...
  389. 389. Even if it’s a little less giddy than it was before, you still feel amazing about each other... and it’s completely effortless to see each other’s beauty...
  390. 390. Imagine getting that buzz pulsating through your body when your spouse gazes at you... feeling radiant and attractive...
  391. 391. And having romantic dinners out together again... being the cuddly couple that other people in the restaurant notice are so in love... feeling steamy about what awaits for you in the bedroom...
  392. 392. It feels so good to be alive when you’re in a loving relationship with someone who cares and respects you... Don’t give that up...
  393. 393. That finishes up our presentation. Click Add to Cart and I’ll see you in the download area...
  394. 394. Click Add to Cart
  395. 395. Now we’ve finished this presentation and you may have a couple questions... <After 20 seconds past the last slide>
  396. 396. One common one is: “How do I get the materials? Do I get something in the mail or is this something I download?”
  397. 397. Everything you get in Save My Marriage Today is available for you to read online, watch online, and download within minutes of you clicking the Add to Cart button...
  398. 398. The only thing you need on your computer to make this work is a PDF reader. Most people have these already built in their computers, and you can always download Adobe Acrobat Reader for free (Instructions on how to do so are inside the course).
  399. 399. The next question that comes up is... “How will this look on my credit card or bank statement? I don’t want my statement to say Save My Marriage Today. This is a private matter!”
  400. 400. I couldn’t agree more, and that’s why there will be nothing on your statement to indicate what you purchased...
  401. 401. Your privacy is extremely important to us... Your bank or card statement will have a $47 charge from “Clickbank,” which is a provider of thousands of digital products... from health, to business, to entertainment...
  402. 402. Another question is: How do I know this will work...?
  403. 403. Well, no one can 100% promise you that your marriage will last forever. It takes action on your part and at least some willingness of your partner at some point... (even if they’re totally unwilling today, that can be fixed...)
  404. 404. What we are sure of is that this will give you the best shot of turning a nearly-dead marriage into a beautiful loving relationship...
  405. 405. And that you’ll know this within the first few days of having the guide...
  406. 406. And that’s why you have a 60-Day Money-Back Guarantee to make sure that you are completely satisfied with Save My Marriage Today...
  407. 407. If you decide to change your mind for any reason or no reason...
  408. 408. Then you’re just an email away from getting every penny back...
  409. 409. We are that sure that this will make an enormous difference in your life and relationship...
  410. 410. So what are you going to do?
  411. 411. Are you going to walk away and hope your relationship works out on its own? That hasn’t worked so far.
  412. 412. Are you going to give up?
  413. 413. Or are you going to get Save My Marriage Today and within minutes begin having a harmonious, loving relationship with your spouse again... stopping any hint of divorce in its tracks...
  414. 414. The time is now, don’t wait a second more...
  415. 415. Click Add to Cart

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