Pre  Deployment  Separation  Brief
Upcoming SlideShare
Loading in...5
×
 

Pre Deployment Separation Brief

on

  • 6,880 views

This brief was created to present to soldiers preparing to go downrange.

This brief was created to present to soldiers preparing to go downrange.

Statistics

Views

Total Views
6,880
Views on SlideShare
6,847
Embed Views
33

Actions

Likes
1
Downloads
164
Comments
0

2 Embeds 33

http://chaplainandrews.com 24
http://www.slideshare.net 9

Accessibility

Categories

Upload Details

Uploaded via as Microsoft PowerPoint

Usage Rights

© All Rights Reserved

Report content

Flagged as inappropriate Flag as inappropriate
Flag as inappropriate

Select your reason for flagging this presentation as inappropriate.

Cancel
  • Full Name Full Name Comment goes here.
    Are you sure you want to
    Your message goes here
    Processing…
Post Comment
Edit your comment

Pre  Deployment  Separation  Brief Pre Deployment Separation Brief Presentation Transcript

  • Pre-Deployment Separation Briefing CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews TF-Ram Chaplain www.chaplainandrews.com
  • Purpose Highlight common problems that occur as a result of separation and address recommendations to resolve these problems before and when they occur.
  • Expectations
  • Single Soldier You experience the same emotions and relationship stresses of deployment. Deployments can be just as demanding for the single military member. You have an additional burden of finding a reliable individual to handle your personal affairs during your absence.
  • Separation Reality Separation is a process Anxiety is normal Change Will Occur
  • Understanding Yourself
    • Focused on the mission
    • Develop lasting friendships
    • Experience varying levels of stress
    • Feel concerned and disconnected from your family
    During the deployment you will be:
  • Understanding Yourself Upon Returning Home, You May:
      • Find your whole family routine is changed
      • Be stand-offish from those you care about
      • Not want to talk about your deployment
      • Anxious about intimacy
      • Feel hurt when your children are afraid of you
  • Understanding Your Spouse During deployment, your spouse may have:
      • Experienced changes
      • Felt stressed or overwhelmed
      • Assumed added responsibilities
      • Experienced a temporary relocation
      • Become involved in different activities and friends
  • The Emotional Cycle of Deployment: A Military Family Perspective Adapted from Article Published in the Apr-Jun 2001 edition of U.S. Army Medical Department Journal. Time Adjusted from Six Month Model to 15 Month Model
  • Pre-Deployment
    • Anticipation of loss
    • Denial
    • Train-up/long hours away
    • Getting affairs in order
    • Mental/physical distance
    • Arguments
    Time frame: months prior
  • Deployment
    • Mixed emotions/relief
    • Disoriented/overwhelmed
    • Numb, sad, alone
    • Sleep difficulty
    • Security issues
    Time frame: first month
  • Sustainment
    • New routines established
    • New sources of support
    • Feel more in control
    • Independence
    • Confidence ("I can do this")
    Time frame: months 2 thru 12
  • Re-Deployment Time frame: months 12 thru 15
    • Anticipation Excitement
    • Apprehension
    • Burst of energy/"nesting"
    • Difficulty making decisions
  • Post-Deployment Time frame: 3 to 6 months after
    • Honeymoon period
    • Loss of independence
    • Need for "own" space
    • Renegotiating routines
    • Reintegrating into family
  • Deployment Cycle Deployment Pre-deployment Sustainment Redeployment Post-Deployment
  • Planning For Success
  • Two Key Statements for Separation Plan Ahead Communicate Expectations
  • Obstacles To Success Alcohol Criticisms Avoid the “Who Had It Worse” Game Unresolved Issues Unrealistic Expectations
    • How both of you feel,
    • What you worry about,
    • How to handle emergencies
    • Repair problems
    • What you think needs to be done around the house
    Discuss with your spouse the deployment Discuss these things BEFORE you depart on a deployment.
  • Develop a Communication Plan
    • Letters
    • Internet
    • E-mail
    • Phone
    • American Red Cross
  • Separating from your Spouse
    • Be honest.
    • Talk about your anxieties.
    • Anticipate Mood swings
    Understand that No amount of planning or talking prepares you for the moment of departure.
  • Children
    • Anticipate the problems and discuss them with the entire family.
    • Focus on successes; limit criticism
    • Take personal time with each child
    • Talk to your children before the deployment begins.
    • Plan for Communicating
    • Help Children to plan for the departure
  • Online Resource with Parent/Child Video Parents Video http://www.sesameworkshop.org/tlc/ Helping Children Cope With Deployment
  • You can get help and support!
    • For the Spouse
    • Other family members
    • Friends
    • FRG
    • Rear Detactment
    • Chaplains
    • Church community
    • Counseling services
    • For the Soldier
    • Battle Buddy
    • Other soldiers
    • Friends
    • Other family members
    • Chaplains
    • Chain of command
    • Counseling Services
    You can get help and support!
    • Military One Source
      • www.militaryonesource.com
    • My Army Life Too
      • http://www.myarmylifetoo.com
    • Army vFRG
      • https://www.armyfrg.org
    Online Resources
  • References
    • The Emotional Cycle of Deployment: A Military Family Perspective: U.S. Army Medical Department Journal. Apr-Jun 2001by LTC Simon H. Pincus, USA, MC, COL Robert House, USAR, MC, LTC (P) Joseph Christenson, USA, MC, and CAPT Lawrence E. Adler, MC, USNR-R
    • One Day Redeployment Marriage Workshop. CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews, 1-101 AVN. 2006.
    • Strengthening Marriages. 501st Special Troops Battalion,101st Airborne Division. CH(MAJ) Matthew Wysocki.
    • Improving Communication. PowerPoint Presentation.
    • Anger Management: A Solution Focused Approach. PowerPoint Presentation.
    • Strong Bonds: For the 101st Airborne Division and their loved ones. Copyright © PREP Educational Products, Inc. 2007.
    • PREP: The Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program. Copyright © PREP Educational Products, Inc. 1997
    • Chaplain’s Mid-Tour Brief. CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews, 1-101 AVN. 2006.
    • Battlemind Training--Preparing for War: What Soldiers Should Know and Do. Walter Reed Army Institute of Research, U.S. Army Medical Research and Materiel Command. 2008.
    • Staying in Touch With Your Military Spouse. By Sheri & Bob Stritof. http://marriage.about.com/od/militarymarriages/qt/milstayintouch.htm
    • USAA Deployment Guide. The USAA Educational Foundation. 2005.
    • Pictures from www.defenselink.mil/photos/, www.mnf-iraq.com,, www.minnesotanationalguard.org/, picasaweb.google.com
  • Pre-Deployment Separation Briefing CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews TF-Ram Chaplain www.chaplainandrews.com