"You failed? Congratulations! Surprised? People are never successful by birth. Whomsoever is a Tycoon in their domain has come across innumerable failures but they never gave up; they overcame those failures! So, did you fail? Congratulations!!! You are on the right track!"
But really, when we FAIL, what happens? Does the sky fall? Do we lose our homes?Our shirts? Or worst of all - our pride? And if all these things happen and were still finding time to view this presentation, was the outcome really so devastating?
You might believe that failureis defeat. But it is not so. More than anything, failure is an opportunity: the opportunity to re-evaluate your goals and your mistakes, to know and improve yourself.
The most successful people have encountered failure more than once in their lives, but… they moved on and turned it to their advantage. So should you!!!
More often than not, FAILURE is nothing more than a shift inexpectations. You thought you wanted one thing to happen, but instead you get something else.
Instead of thinking that you hit rock bottom and that theres nothingyou can do, you should see it as an opportunity to reboot your system of ideas, to change your plan of action, to make a fresh start.
Having failed at something means that your old plan was faulty. So make a new one! Change your perspective! What went wrong? What can be changed and what can be adjusted?You will notice that a lot of your actions were ineffective, a lot of your priorities were inessential.
Failure means that theres nothing left to hold on to, so you can become objective. Take advantage of this opportunity.
Having lost everything means that theres nothing left to lose. This is your chance tobe adventurous, to do the things you feared when you still had a job, a relationship, a plan. Now youre free of responsibilities, so why not dive into the unknown?
One of the ways to start over is to dothe exact opposite of what you usedto do before failing. Whatever it was that got you into this situation was wrong, and you dont want to make the same mistake twice.
But perhaps the best side of failure is that you wont be afraid of it anymore,because youve already been there. Nexttime you wont be hesitant and doubtful, because you now know that the worst that could happen is a new beginning.
"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit." - Napoleon Hill
Happy Accidents are definitely seeds of great might. Theyrethose well-disguised gifts that –if allowed to spawn rather thanspurn - can easily become your own lifes Next Big Thing.
Failure is NOT a thing to be avoided, but rather, THE golden objective topursue, accumulate, tally, gulp, and experience at every opportunity.
Fail, fail, fail, and fail some more at something (or everything!) you LOVE to do, and sooner or later you are destined to succeed - whether or not youre wearing clean underwear.
"Dont be afraid to fail. Dont waste energy trying to cover up failure. Learn from your failures and go on to the next challenge. ITS OK TO FAIL! If youre not failing, youre not growing." - H. Stanley Judd
I like to succeed at everything I do! If there is one thing that I have learned over the years, it is that failure is NOT fatal. I have also learned that practice does not make perfect - there is no such thing as perfection - there is only improvement!!!
Rule # 1 : Try, try, and try again. Rule # 2 : Have fun while you are trying.Rule # 3 : When you make a mistake - fail at something - go back to rule # 1.
Control your self-talk to bepositive and uplifting – focuson what you CAN do – rather than on the fear of what might happen if......".
"In some attempts, it is glorious even to fail." - Longinus
It is important to take risks. Often, when feeling the fear of trying new things, it is more about our comfort zone than it is about intelligence. The good news is thatyou can stretch your comfort zone and become bigger than that which scares you!
The fear of failure is self-imposed.Thats the good news! Its all in theway we think about something. So,change the way you think and then you change your performance.
May you always have the strength and courage to FAIL MISERABLY at every opportunity, and may you live on to become one of the biggest failures the world has ever known!!!!!!
So stand up and face your failure. It is the best part of your experience. No disaster should have to power to stop you. Change your ways, change your goals, change your friends if you need to, but never stop. The only Mistake In life is Inaction!!! Thank You Very Much Sompong Yusoontorn