Here we are, afraid of losing what we have allthe time, holding on to it so tight that not a soulcan touch it. We think by hiding it from the world,its hidden and its ours.
It is healthy when fear of loss helps us take steps toprotect what we have worked hard to attain, but it is unhealthy to continue to fear something we can do nothing about. Nothing is. Nothing ever will be. For, nothing ever was.
Here we are, so insecure thatwe are afraid of re-starting ourlives, so we just carry on trying to sort out the current mess.
The thought that we should give it allup and just start all over - with nothing -might cross our minds some time,sure, but we get scared and we push away anything that scares us.
If you think there is anything that youhave, thats yours, be it money, a house,a job, or a girlfriend... its nothing but an illusion. Itll all disappear... in one blow. One blow, my man.
We need to remember that focusing ourenergy on fear can actually create what scares us, and holding tightly to whatwe have keeps us from participating in the universal flow of abundance and instead creates stagnation.
Since we can only really controlour thoughts and our responses, gaining proper perspective maybe key to conquering such fears.
The letters of the word "fear" can be used to stand for"False Evidence Appearing Real."
Fears of being separated fromsomething or someone we feel weneed for our security or happinesscomes from a delusion-a distorted way of understanding ourselves and the world around us.
When we understand that possessionsare only representations of the energy at work in our lives, we can shift ourattention to the right and proper place.
We can stop fearing loss ofmoney or success becausewhen we understand how itis created, we can always create more.
We can stop fearing loss of possessions when we realize that they are not the source of our joy or well-being but only icing on our cakes.
And when we understand the energy of love, we need not hold anyone tooclose for fear of losing them for we know that love does not diminish when it is given or shared but expands beyond boundaries of time or space.
By focusing our light on our fears, they arerevealed as mere shadows that disappear in the presence of mind and spirit.
We can choose instead to direct our thoughts and creative power toward things of true value-love, abundance,peace, passion, and joy.
These are energies thatare always available to us when we place ourselvesconfidently in the universal flow of abundance.
There is nothing you can ever achieve or gain thatyou cannot lose, in a matterof seconds. You have never gained enough to not be able to lose it all, in just a few minutes.
What you think is yours, was never yours and will never be yours. Whatever you make here, you leave here. You came naked and youre going to go back naked. So what are you afraid of?
Let all be lost. Let themtake away everything. As long as you have your heart beating strong, as long as you have your nostrils working fine, aslong as the blood flows in your veins, you will live, you will breathe and you can get it all back... again and again.
For, if you can do it once, youcan damn well do it again. Its just a game we play - Life. Thank You Very Much Sompong Yusoontorn