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    • ReasonsMiss Out On Life!!!
    • One of the hardest challenges we face in life is to simply live in our own skin – to just be right here,right now, regardless of where we are. Too often we needlessly distract ourselves with anything andeverything: food, booze, shopping, television, tabloid news, online social networks, video games, cellphones, iPods, etc. – basically anything to keep us from being fully present in the current moment.
    • We use compulsive work, compulsive exercise, compulsive love affairs, and the like,to escape from ourselves and the realities of living. In fact, many of us will go to greatlengths to avoid the feeling of being alone in an undistracted environment. So wesuccumb to hanging-out with just about anybody to avoid the feeling of solitude. For being alone means dealing with our true feelings: fear, anxiety, happiness, anger, joy, resentment, disappointment, anticipation, sadness, excitement, despair, and so on and so forth.
    • It doesn’t really matter if our feelings are positive or negative – they are overwhelming andexhausting, and so we prefer to numb ourselves to them. The bottom line is that every oneof us is an addict, and what we are addicted to is avoiding ourselves. Acknowledging thisaddiction is the first step to healing it. So begin today by just noticing with curiosity, and without judgment, all of the ways in which you avoid being in your own skin, right here, right now, in this present moment we call life. Here are eight reasons so many of us miss out on life as it’s happening.
    • # 1 : The fear of missing out.You will always be missing something. So let it go, and realize you have everything right now.The best in life isn’t somewhere else; it’s right where you are, at this moment. Celebrate theperhaps not altogether insignificant fact that you are alive right now. This moment, and whoyou are, is absolutely perfect. Take a deep breath, smile, and notice how lovely it is.
    • # 2 : Avoiding pain and defeat.You just need to learn a lesson or two first. Don’t run from the realities of the present moment. Thepain and defeat contained within is necessary to your long-term growth. Remember, there is adifference between encountering defeats and being defeated. Nothing ever goes away until itteaches you what you need to know, so you can move on to the next step.
    • # 3 : Holding on to what’s no longer there.Don’t waste your time trying to live in another time and place. Let the past, go. You mustaccept the end of something in order to begin to build something new. So close someold doors today. Not because of pride, inability or egotism, but simply because you’veentered each one of them in the past and realize that they lead to nowhere.
    • # 4 : Retelling a self-defeating story.So the question is: Does your story empower you? Don’t place your mistakes on your mind,their weight may crush your current potential. Instead, place them under your feet anduse them as a platform to view the horizon. Remember, all things are difficult before theyare easy. What matters the most is what you start doing now.
    • # 5 : Attempting to fit in by becoming someone else.The hardest battle you’re ever going to fight is the battle to be you, just the way you are in thismoment. We cannot find ourselves if we are always searching for, or morphing into, someoneelse. In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keepbeing your awesome self. Be your own kind of beautiful right now, in the way only you know how.
    • # 6 : The picture in your head of how it’s supposedto be.Although every good thing has an end, in life every ending is just a new beginning. Life goeson – not always the way we had envisioned it would be, but always the way it’s supposed tobe. Remember, we usually can’t choose the music life plays for us, but we can choose howwe dance to it.
    • # 7 : Berating yourself for not being perfect.Don’t be too hard on yourself. There are plenty of people willing to do that for you. Do your bestand surrender the rest. Tell yourself, “I am doing the best I can with what I have in this moment.And that is all I can expect of anyone, including me.” Love yourself and be proud of everythingthat you do, even your mistakes. Because even mistakes mean you’re trying.
    • # 8 : Waiting, and then waiting some more.Stop waiting for tomorrow; you will never get today back. It doesn’t matter what you’vedone in the past. It doesn’t matter how low or unworthy you feel right now. The simplefact that you’re alive makes you worthy. Life is too short for excuses. Stop settling.Stop procrastinating. Start today by taking one courageous step forward. If you are not sure exactly which way to go, it is always wise to follow your heart.
    • The people that make a durable difference in the world are notthe people who have mastered many things, but who have been mastered by one great thing. ― John Piper Thank You Very Much Sompong Yusoontorn