Dear My Son :
Maybe God wants us to meet
a few wrong people before
meeting the right one so that
when we finally meet the right
person, we will know how to
be grateful for that gift.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we
look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one
which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind
you can sit on a porch and swing
with, never say a word, and then
walk away feeling like it was the
best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what
we've got until we lose it, but it's
also true that we don't know what
we've been missing until it arrives.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades
away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to
make a dark day seem bright. Find
the one that makes your heart smile.
May you have enough happiness to make
you sweet, enough trails to make you
strong, enough sorrow to keep you
human, enough hope to bring you joy.
Always put yourself in
another's shoes. If you
feel that it hurts you,
it probably hurts the
other person, too.
The happiest of people don't
necessarily have the best of
everything; they just make
the most of everything that
comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be
based on a forgotten past, you can't
get on well in life until you let go
of past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were
crying and everyone around you
was smiling. Live your life so that
when you die, you're the one who
is smiling and everyone around
you is crying.
Constantly keep yourself
headed in the right
direction for you. It may
not be easy at times, but
in those times of struggle
you will find a stronger
sense of who you are.
The challenges and changes will
only help you to find the goals that
you know are meant to come true
for you. Keep Believing in Yourself
If the going gets tough and you
are at your breaking point, show
resilience. Like the bamboo
tree, bend, but don't break!
Tomorrow tells us it will be here every
new day of our lives; and if we will be
wise, we will turn away from the
problems of the past and give the
future -- and ourselves -- a chance!!!
Your life today is the result of
your attitudes and choices in the
past. Your life tomorrow will be
the result of your attitudes and
the choices you make today.
Life is too short to leave kind words
unsaid. The words you say, or the
letter you write, might just make
all the difference in the world.
First you make your habits, and then
your habits make you. Break those
habits that can break you. Adopt
those practices that will become
the new habits that will help you
achieve the success you desire.
Your habits are a form of exercise.
The harder you work at something,
the harder it is to quit. The easier it
is to do, the harder it is to change.
Your habits are either the best of
servants or the worst of masters.
You are what you repeatedly do.
Changes are sometimes very painful,
but they teach us that we can endure
and that we can become stronger.
Everything that comes into your life
has a purpose, but the outcome is
in your hands by the action you take.
Be wise with your life, be willing to
endure, and always be willing
to face life's challenges
The gold and Diamond inside
someone only could be seen and
value if you could look at the inner
soul. It need heart to see, and it
need a process. We cannot see it
from the words or attitude that
only seen for a while.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions. If you want more love in the
world, create more love in your heart. If you want more competence in your
team, improve your competence. This relationship applies to everything, in
all aspects of life; life will give you back everything you have given to it.
"Life's a cafeteria here. You can get
anything you want as long as you are
willing to pay the price. You can even
get success, but you'll never get it if you
wait for someone to bring it to you. You
have to get up and get it yourself."
"I've thought a lot in my lifetime, and
the secret can be summed up in four
words : The first is think. Think about
the values you wish to live your life
by. The second is believe. Believe in
yourself based on the thinking you've
done about the values you're going to
live your life by. The third is dream.
Dream about the things that can be,
based on your belief in yourself and
the values you're going to live by.
The last is dare. Dare to make your
dreams become reality, based on your
belief in yourself and your values. "
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today maybe the last
chance you get to hold your loved one tight. So, if you're waiting for tomorrow, why
not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, you'll surely regret the day, that you
didn't take extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant
someone, what turned out to be their one last wish.
Hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear, tell them how
much you love them and that you'll always hold them dear. Take time to say
"I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "Thank you'" or "It's okay." And if
tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.
Thank You Very Much
Son, these are the only lessons I tell you.