Family Crisis Intervention
(The Make Love Card)
• Listen carefully with the intent to understand
• Then encourage soldier to Make Love…
Apologize & Forgive • Be humble enough to apologize
• Be gracious enough to forgive
• Not because they earned it, but because
you have decided to love
• To rebuild their emotional bank account
Exercise Loyalty • Do not slander behind their back
• Be loyal to your marriage vows / Family
Reach-out for Help • Chaplain, Military One Source, JMHS,
ACS, Family Life Chaplain, etc.
• Connect to civic / religious communities
Be Determined • Fight for you marriage; don’t give up!