21 convention presentation Dan Rose

6 STRATEGIES FOR BUILDING IRRESISTIBLE SEXUAL CONFIDENCE
HOW TO GET THE SEXUAL CONFIDENCE THAT GIVES WOMEN ORGASMS AND MAGNETICALLY ATTRACTS THEM TO YOU

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS PRESENTATION
Why Sexual Confidence is so important
Radical new model of how Sexual Confidence is built
6 Counter-intuitive strategies for building Sexual confidence
Hard and fast techniques to giving women orgasms

A THEORETICAL QUESTION...

WHY SEXUAL CONFIDENCE IS SO IMPORTANT
Sexual Confident guy can use ANY technique and give women orgasms
Sexually Confident man naturally attracts women
If you have no Sexual Confidence none of your sex or dating techniques matter

WAYS TO BUILD SEXUAL CONFIDENCE
Affirmations
NLP
EFT
Hypnosis
“Fake It Till You Make It”

WHY THEY DON’T WORK
Your confidence is based on SELF-DECEPTION
High failure rate
Attract energy vampire women
Lying to yourself undermines your self-esteem

“ INNER GAME” -- ANOTHER BIG MISTAKE
Remove “Inner Game” from your vocabulary
“Inner game” implies a non-sexual confidence that isn’t valuable
“Inner game” implies self-deception

HOW SEXUAL CONFIDENCE IS REALLY BUILT
REALITY: The ONLY thing that builds sexual confidence is experiencing Sexual Value Signals. These sexual value signals are IRRATIONAL, but nonetheless have a powerful effect on our sexual confidence.
This can happen naturally
But it’s a very slow process

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE IS A CYCLE
You get negative sexual feedback
This reduces your sexual confidence, and leads to more negative feedback
This leads to even worse sexual confidence
You need to learn how to break out of this and get into a positive sexual confidence cycle

Sexual Confidence Accelerants
But CERTAIN PARTS OF THE INTERACTION HAVE A MASSIVELY DISPROPORTIONATE IMPACT ON YOUR SEXUAL CONFIDENCE
Identifying and mastering these parts is the KEY to achieving great sexual confidence

Examples Of This
Example -- mastering oral sex vs. mastering afterplay
Example -- learning sexual jiu-jitsu vs. mastering Emotion
Example -- mastering entertaining girls vs. mastering being sexually direct

SEXUAL VALUE SIGNALS
Sexual confidence is built through “sexual value signals”
You have no choice over how your subconscious interprets these
The key is to get as many sexual value signals as possible, as fast as possible

Sexual Value Signals (Contd.)
Sexual value signals can come from HER, from your SOCIAL GROUP, and from YOURSELF
Social group example: The bootcamp effect
Self example: Getting caught masturbating

Examples Of Advanced Sexual Value Signals
Girl having an orgasm during intercourse
Girl having an orgasm during oral sex
Moaning/bucking hips/obvious pleasure during foreplay
Compliments on sexual performance
Girl initiating sex with you

Examples Of Beginner Sexual Value Signals
Looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing a sexually attractive guy
EXPECTATIONS from your friends that you are good with women
Being honest and open about your sexual intent, regardless of outcome

Important, But Not Strong Sexual Value Signals
Comfort/Rapport (the MIDDLE part of an interaction)
Text messages/online chats/email
Emotional connection after sex
Anything where your subconscious caveman brain perceives it’s the SYSTEM, and not YOU

Irrational, But Powerful Sexual Value Signals
Having great sex with a girl when it’s mostly a reflection of HER sexual skills and confidence
Girl approaching you vs. You approaching her
Girl initiating sex vs. You initiating sex
Girl being LOUD vs. QUIET during sex (partially just a reflection of her tendencies)

Exercise: Sexual Value Signals
Write down the 3 STRONGEST positive and negative sexual value signals you’ve gotten recently
Write down a few ways you can get more of the positive signals, and less of the negative (EVEN IF IT DOESN’T DIRECTLY LEAD TO MORE SEX)

#1: STACK THE DECK
Get every possible advantage you can -- make things as easy as possible
Avoid “war story” type behavior
Ex -- Pickup artist getting phone # from girl surrounded by 10 guys
Ex -- Sex guru giving girl 1st orgasm vs. selecting sexually confident girl

“ STACK THE DECK” Mentality
Ask yourself “what can I do BEFORE I meet her to give myself a huge advantage?”
Realize that the interaction is 50% over before it begins
And sex is 50% over before it begins

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Bodybuilding: The Ultimate Deck-Stacking Technique
Great physique = HUGE confidence boost
Has a direct effect
But also leads to many sexual value signals
Compliments on looks
GUYS expect you to get girls
Visual turn-on is HUGE confidence booster
In the mirror

Bodybuilding (contd.)
Emphasize heavy, compound lifts
Emphasize free weights -- minimize machines
LEGS are an important key to success
To learn more check out SixPackShortcuts.com

Give Her An Orgasm BEFORE Intercourse Begins
Makes you more sexually confident when intercourse does happen
This increases your stamina and makes it better for her
This positive cycle leads to many Sexual Value Signals

Ways To Do This
Oral sex (discuss later)
Sex toys
Finger stimulation

Improve Your Sexual Stamina
The feedback you get when you’re having intercourse is disproportionately important
Ex -- bored looking at ceiling vs. screaming in orgasm

Stamina (contd.)
Take slow, deep breathes
Use Sexual Jiu-Jitsu
Use the “blowjob meditation” technique
Long term solution -- Immersion

Pre-Selection
Your subconscious responds to Sexual Value Signals even when they’re mostly a reflection of HER sexual confidence
Ex -- same guy with girl w/ no confidence, vs. sexually skilled girl

Pre-Selection (Contd.)
Get out of “Madonna-Whore” complex
Screen for sexually confident girls
Only go exclusive once a girls has proven that she’s GREAT in bed
Guys in relationships: Consider ending it if she doesn’t fulfill you sexually

Steal Other Guys’ Sexual Techniques
Your caveman brain can’t differentiate between orgasms from techniques you invented and from techniques you stole
How to do it
Examples

Exercise
Write down 3 ways you can start “stacking the deck” to get more sexual confidence

#2: HOLD THE TRUMP CARD
Confidence in your ability to handle LATER situations will prevent self-sabotage earlier in the interaction
Ex -- sex affecting pickup and dating

PLAN YOUR LOGISTICS HARDCORE
Prevents self-sabotage earlier in the interaction
Always have the date end back at your house
Have a natural progression of 2-3 activities to get there

Learn Relationship Skills
Lack of relationship skills leads to self-sabotage in pickup, dating and sex
If you have little relationship experience, make it your top priority to get some
Actively try and make it great rather than just “cruising.”

Advanced Dominance And Advanced Emotion
EVERYONE needs to know something about this (for trump card purposes)
Dirty talk
Manhandling
Emotional talk
Combining the two

Fantasies
Great trump card (you know that if she takes it deeper, she has great experiences in store)
How to enact a fantasy
How elicit her fantasies
Example: The Virgin Fantasy

Exercise
Write down 3 ways that you can hold a trump card sexually, in dating, or in pickup

#3: NICHE MARKET YOUR DICK
Having a NICHE appeal leads to important sexual value signals
Analogy: niche marketing in business
Advantage: More INTENSE Attraction
Women approach you
Women initiate sex more often
Women fall in love with you more easily
Drawback: Not as good for “cold approaching”

Niche Market Your Dick (Contd.)
Niching strategies
Advanced bodybuilding
Attractive Masculine Identities
Exercise: How do you fit into her romance novel?

Exercise
Write down what your attractive masculine niche identity is -- or brainstorm a few possible ones if you don’t have this yet
Outline a few sentences of “the romance novel in her head” with you as the hero

#4: MAKE IT IMPOSSIBLE TO FAIL
Sexual confidence pitfall: getting gung-ho then quitting
Start SMALL, and get small sexual value signals
Your confidence will snowball faster than you expect and you’ll build up

Make It Impossible To Fail (Contd.)
Start SMALL with sexual techniques, and build up
Ex -- Dirty talk
Ex -- Showing emotional vulnerability
Same principle can be applied to dating and bodybuilding

Exercise
Write down 1 thing that you can do AS SOON AS YOU CAN GET HOME that’s impossible to fail.
Write down 1 slightly larger thing you can do after that, that’s also impossible to fail
COMMIT to doing these two things as soon as you get home

#5: WIPE OUT LIMITING BELIEFS
It’s not HOW to eliminate limiting beliefs, it’s WHO can eliminate them
My friend Pete w/ Asian guys
Student Brian w/ short guys
Old roommate with penis size

Eliminate Limiting Beliefs (Contd.)
Seek out the counter-example to your limiting belief
Expose yourself to signals the belief is false for a long period of time
Pay for this if you have to -- it’s worth it

Exercise
Write down the 3 biggest limiting beliefs that you have
Write down 3 possible COUNTER-EXAMPLES to these beliefs, and commit to exposing yourself to them as much as possible

#6: SEXUAL KAIZEN
Analogy: Japanese using kaizen to destroy American car industry
You can also use kaizen to destroy your competition and build sexual confidence
You must commit to CONSTANT improvement for this to work

Exercise
Write down “I commit to constant and never-ending improvement in my sex life.”
Write down 1 specific way to start doing this

The Sex God Method
Shows you how to give women orgasms and powerful sexual pleasure
Based around Four Mental Orgasm Triggers
Get fantastic sexual stamina, give her orgasms with oral sex, get blowjobs anytime you want and more

Sex God Method: Results
Guys who were sexually inexperienced rapidly built sexual confidence and started giving women orgasms
Guys in sexually dead relationships re-ignited the flame and now have sex constantly
Guys who were single built massive Sexual Confidence from being great in bed, which dramatically helped their dating skills

GUARANTEE
If you don’t have literally the best sex of your life after reading the book, you don’t pay
That’s how confident I am this is what you need to get a great sex life

Your Action Steps
Fill out the discount form NOW (this is your only opportunity)
You’ll receive your ebook and membership within a day
Within a few days, your sex life will be drastically and permanently improved

THANK YOU!!!

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