Session 2: X3pure Men’s Series
Session 2: X3pure Men’s Series
  • Steven Luff
Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map
Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map
  • Previous session recap
Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map
  • Previous session recap
  - Am I addicted?
Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map
  • Previous session recap
  - Am I addicted?

  - Addiction: Turning sex into an idol, whi...
Sexual Sobriety Map
Sexual Sobriety Map
        Unwanted Sexual Behavior
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Sexual Sobriety Map
                   Unwanted Sexual Behavior
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                          ...
Sexual Sobriety Map
Sexual Sobriety Map
  • Recovering from addiction is like keeping your
   balance on an endless tightrope: it takes a
   g...
Sexual Sobriety Map
  • Recovering from addiction is like keeping your
   balance on an endless tightrope: it takes a
   g...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Just because the secular community might
   condone or accept certain sexual practices
   out...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Just because the secular community might
   condone or accept certain sexual practices
   out...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
  3. Pre-Marital Sex
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
  3. Pre-Marital Sex
  4. Extra-Marital Sex
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
  3. Pre-Marital Sex
  4. Extra-Marital Sex
  5.Visiting S...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
  3. Pre-Marital Sex
  4. Extra-Marital Sex
  5.Visiting S...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  1. Masturbation
  2. Pornography use
  3. Pre-Marital Sex
  4. Extra-Marital Sex
  5.Visiting S...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”


  ...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”


  ...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”


  ...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”


  ...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • Change
  - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”


  ...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we
   need to make change in our lives.
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we
   need to make change in our lives.

  • White-Knu...
Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we
   need to make change in our lives.

  • White-Knu...
Assignment
Assignment
 • Think about how these two types of change
  may look like in your life
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X3 pure men's chapt 2a

  1. 1. Session 2: X3pure Men’s Series
  2. 2. Session 2: X3pure Men’s Series • Steven Luff
  3. 3. Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map
  4. 4. Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map • Previous session recap
  5. 5. Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map • Previous session recap - Am I addicted?
  6. 6. Session 2: Sexual Sobriety Map • Previous session recap - Am I addicted? - Addiction: Turning sex into an idol, which means that we have come to rely on sex or sexual activities as a source of unconditional love instead of friends, family, community, or God Himself.
  7. 7. Sexual Sobriety Map
  8. 8. Sexual Sobriety Map Unwanted Sexual Behavior | |
  9. 9. Sexual Sobriety Map Unwanted Sexual Behavior | | White-Knuckle Change Real Change | | | | Abstinence Understanding of Physiology | | | | Rela Abstinence | | Acceptance of Conditional Love | | Pursuit of Unconditional Love
  10. 10. Sexual Sobriety Map
  11. 11. Sexual Sobriety Map • Recovering from addiction is like keeping your balance on an endless tightrope: it takes a great deal of focus, concentration and intentional effort.
  12. 12. Sexual Sobriety Map • Recovering from addiction is like keeping your balance on an endless tightrope: it takes a great deal of focus, concentration and intentional effort. • If you have fallen, or if you are wavering, this map will help you to get back on the tight rope, stand up again, regain your balance and continue on down the line.
  13. 13. Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  14. 14. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Just because the secular community might condone or accept certain sexual practices outside of marriage, we do not.
  15. 15. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Just because the secular community might condone or accept certain sexual practices outside of marriage, we do not. • We do not condone sex and sexual activities outside of marriage, not because we wish to establish puritanical laws, but because we want to aid you in discovering a loving, caring, faithful God who wants to meet your sexual needs in ways that grow and nurture, not diminish or shame you.
  16. 16. Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  17. 17. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation
  18. 18. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use
  19. 19. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use 3. Pre-Marital Sex
  20. 20. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use 3. Pre-Marital Sex 4. Extra-Marital Sex
  21. 21. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use 3. Pre-Marital Sex 4. Extra-Marital Sex 5.Visiting Strip Clubs
  22. 22. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use 3. Pre-Marital Sex 4. Extra-Marital Sex 5.Visiting Strip Clubs 6. Visiting massage parlors where sex or sexual activities are offered
  23. 23. Unwanted Sexual Behavior 1. Masturbation 2. Pornography use 3. Pre-Marital Sex 4. Extra-Marital Sex 5.Visiting Strip Clubs 6. Visiting massage parlors where sex or sexual activities are offered 7. Use of prostitutes 8. Or any combination of these seven
  24. 24. Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  25. 25. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change
  26. 26. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.”
  27. 27. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” • Unwanted sexual behavior present in your life is a sign that some real learning about yourself is needed, whether that learning is about...
  28. 28. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” • Unwanted sexual behavior present in your life is a sign that some real learning about yourself is needed, whether that learning is about... - Your body and brain and how they work
  29. 29. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” • Unwanted sexual behavior present in your life is a sign that some real learning about yourself is needed, whether that learning is about... - Your body and brain and how they work - Your childhood and what it was like
  30. 30. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” • Unwanted sexual behavior present in your life is a sign that some real learning about yourself is needed, whether that learning is about... - Your body and brain and how they work - Your childhood and what it was like - Your present life and how it is structured
  31. 31. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • Change - Proverbs 26:11: “As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly.” • Unwanted sexual behavior present in your life is a sign that some real learning about yourself is needed, whether that learning is about... - Your body and brain and how they work - Your childhood and what it was like - Your present life and how it is structured - Or your idea of who God is and what His love is really about
  32. 32. Unwanted Sexual Behavior
  33. 33. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we need to make change in our lives.
  34. 34. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we need to make change in our lives. • White-Knuckle Change is change in behavior without addressing the system or environment that is causing the behavior.
  35. 35. Unwanted Sexual Behavior • When we have unwanted sexual behavior, we need to make change in our lives. • White-Knuckle Change is change in behavior without addressing the system or environment that is causing the behavior. • Real Change is about a complete examination and alteration of one’s life, how it is structured, who is in it and what meaning it ultimately has for the individual.
  36. 36. Assignment
  37. 37. Assignment • Think about how these two types of change may look like in your life
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