Do you know what happens when a
woman goes through a difficult
situation with a man?
She keeps freaking out...I call it the
freak out syndrome. This is
how the cycle runs...
A woman finds herself in a difficult
situation with a man...
She doesn't understand why he's doing
what he's doing...
She then tries to do what she assumes
is the right thing but it
She then feels stuck & eventually
It's no surprise why so many women
are leading a life of silent
The point I am trying to make here is
that when women drive
themselves completely nuts by
freaking out over and over again, it
messes them up completely over
But it doesn't stop here...
In fact! Under such a situation a
woman unknowingly does things
which push a man further away...
Here are the two most common routes
1- They first try to convince a man.
2- And when the first option doesn't
work, they try to argue
their way into his head.
I don't know why but women have this
inner belief that if they
can just explain their situation to a
man he will somehow get it...
Guess what? It doesn't really work
that way. You can never make
him understand your situation when
you try hard to drill your point
into his head. In fact! The harder you
try, the further he will
And when convincing him doesn't
work, they take the second
route, which is to argue or fight and
finally when things get
really bad, they use blame and guilt
to get their point across.
Let me explain this with a good
Let's say your man is starting to get
distant & you fear
that maybe he is planning to leave
you. You first try to understand
why he is getting distant, but things
aren't making any sense,
as a result you freak out.
Next, you try to talk to him about it,
you say things like -
Honey! I don't know why you are
avoiding me like this, what
have I done? Are you planning to leave
me? Have you found someone
else? I need answers.
And you still don't get the answers you
need and as a result
your anxiety is starting to turn into
anger. You feel that you
deserve answers from him...And in
the process you say things like...
I am sick & tired of not getting
answers from you. You
aren't pulling your share of weight in
the relationship, I feel
like I am doing all the work. You only
care about yourself.
This is a major mistake which can
literally shake the foundation of
a relationship. When you use this
approach a man only feels
attacked and his first reaction is to
get even more distant to
It's important to understand that you
can't hold a gun to
his head & make him get it. You are
following an utterly
hopeless strategy if you think you can.
There is a better way - There are
things you can do & say which
will naturally make a man want to
open up to you, give you all the
love you need and be devoted to you
for the rest of his life. Follow
this link right now to discover it...