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Relationships and Facebook

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    • 1. .
    • 2. Facebook has “ruined” numerous aspectsof relationships and dating.
    • 3. “How we portray our relationships on Facebook is tellingand shouldn’t be dismissed or seen as trivial.”
    • 4. “At each stage of a relationship, even before it really beginsand when it needs to end, Facebook has created a whole newslew of obstacles and awkward conversations that previouslydidn’t exist for people in the dreadful world of dating.”
    • 5. This begins with “Facebook stalk[ing] ‘to reduce some of theuncertainty in relationships.’”
    • 6. “But the uncertainty can sometimes be the most exciting part, and ifsaid person-of-affection manages to pass a thorough stalking, you canprobably forget any of that pre-date giddiness.”“Goodbye butterflies and excitement, I already know everything aboutyou.”
    • 7. “For couples that get passed this weird knowing someone onFacebook before knowing them in real life, Facebook hascreated new hurdles for those just getting started.”
    • 8. These hurdles include that “there’s less structure for peopletoday as relationships develop.”
    • 9. For example, “kinds of social courtship scripts don’t existon Facebook.”
    • 10. Additionally, “Couples [are]struggling with theiridentity on Facebook.”
    • 11. “On Facebook,relationships haveto fit into a pulldown menu of afew options –it’s one of the onlyplaces on Facebookwhere you can’t fillin the blank.”
    • 12. “These check-a-box decisionsweren’t things couples, or anyone forthat matter, had to worry aboutbefore Facebook.”
    • 13. Every aspect of a relationship is public on Facebook…..including breakups!
    • 14. Facebook “made it more difficult to end relationshipsand move on.”
    • 15. “People feel more pressure from friends and family to staytogether when they have their partner in profile picture andrelationship status.”
    • 16. “Seem[s] like the decision to display thosePDFAs in the first place –the ones that demonstrate howcommitted couples are –might not always be the best choice.”
    • 17. “Once you finally manage to sever offline ties, there’s really noway to avoid virtual run-ins with your ex unless you’re off ofFacebook entirely.”“Your online social lives are so entangled.”
    • 18. “Before Facebook, ending a relationship actually meant the endof communication, for the most part.Not Anymore.”
    • 19. “Facebook gives them automatic window into an ex’srelationship” – Rhoades
    • 20. There are many negative effects that transpire subsequent toa breakup,these effects are exaggerated with Facebook.
    • 21. “Sustained contact is detrimental, in terms of ones own functioning.”
    • 22. “Remaining Facebook friends with an ex delayed emotionalrecovery and led to greater distress over the breakup, negativefeelings, sexual desire and longing for the ex-partner.”
    • 23. “People who remainedFacebook friends and thosewho engaged in moreFacebook stalking werestuck on the pastrelationship.”
    • 24. Relationships on Facebook and other digital media in thefuture?Facebook and other digital media are real life now.
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