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Help for leaders nov 2011-ardy roberto - grace christian

  1. 1. H.E.L.P. FORLEADERSBy Ardy Roberto
  2. 2. The 4 Mindsets and Heart Attitudesthat every leader must have toHELP others
  3. 3. Tap the shoulder of the person on your rightand say:“I am excited to learn!”Tap the shoulder of the person on your left andsay… ‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  4. 4. “Leadership is influence”- Dr John MaxwellThe highest level of leadership –level 4 leadership – involvestrust”
  5. 5. Educators are leaders. Youinfluence us. We need to, haveto, follow you. We place ourminds, our future, and thefuture and minds of our lovedones in your hands just like arollercoaster seatbelt…
  6. 6. You have a very special calling. It’snot just a job or profession that youhave entered. You influence ourlife’s paths. You influence ourchoices and you influence the pathbetween success and failure,blessings or curses.
  7. 7. We trust you with our minds.We trust you to HELP form theminds and future of ourchildren.
  8. 8. Tap the shoulder of the person next to youand say:“I trust you ”Seatmate: Reply and say:―Good. May I borrow P1,000?‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  9. 9. Subtitle:4 Leadership Lessons learnedfrom my miracle wife.“How can I HELP?”
  10. 10. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  11. 11. Case Study: My wife. 1995 - 1999 MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  12. 12. Dec „99-May 2000 Crisis situation – Very ill, suspected to have bone cancer or leukemia MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  13. 13. “Missed diagnosis”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  14. 14. June 2000 ―SLE‖ Systemic Lupus: Attacked multiple organs, esp kidneys, nervous system, etc Very bad prognosis.. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  15. 15. OctoberMy ―Miracle‖:Patient•Kidney damagereversed•No chemotherapy•No Dialysis•Minimal medication•Lupus quiet since2000 MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  16. 16. 2001 onwardsMy ―Miracle‖Patient MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  17. 17. Second lease on life MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  18. 18. Dream tripsMy ―Miracle‖Patient @ Sea ofGalilee MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  19. 19. Dream trips – Egypt/ Israel 2005My ―Miracle‖ Patient @ Sea ofGalilee MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  20. 20. 2006 onwardsMy ―Miracle‖ Patient @ Sea ofGalilee Miracle: From bankrupt to giving MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at back OMFlit.com
  21. 21. July 2008 - 2009 Miracle wife to miracle son MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  22. 22. How did “exhibit A” go from....? MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  23. 23. “Whatever it is you‟re doing, keep on doing it!” - Tingting‟s DoctorMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  24. 24. Hope Prayer Lead Encourage ment with LoveMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  25. 25. 1st Heart Attitude...HELP Leadpeople withHOPE
  26. 26. Hope27 Set your mind to being a hopeful, optimistic LEADER and express this with Words Actions Attitude MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  27. 27. Hope28 WORDS MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  28. 28. Hope – Power of Words29 …be careful with your words “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down, but a good word makes it glad.” King Solomon, Proverbs 12:25 (NASB) MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  29. 29. Hope – Power of Words30 At the hospital, near death: “I’m not giving up on you, Swato.” MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  30. 30. Case Study: TS31 ―Words can kill as well as heal, a fact more physicians need to be aware of.‖ Dr Bernie Siegel Author MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  31. 31. Case Study: TSThere was this heart doctor who was making his32hospital rounds with him together with somestudent interns. Visiting the room of a lady patient,the esteemed heart doctor looked at the chart andannounced to his students, ―Here is a classic caseof TS,‖ and then left the room.By ―TS‖ the good doctor meant, ―tricuspidstenosis,‖ which is far from life threatening from amedical point of view.But the woman, who heard the diagnosis,interpreted TS as ―Terminal Situation.‖ As soon asthe heart doctor left she thought, ―Terminal! I‘mdying! Oh no!‖ MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  32. 32. Case Study: TS33 The woman was in great distress, her pulse elevated, her previously clear lungs filling up with fluid.‖ When they tried to reassure her that her problem was a minor one, she would not listen. The ―distinguished doctor‖ had declared her a ―Terminal Situation.‖ By nightfall ―the woman had gone into acute heart failure and died.‖ MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  33. 33. Lead with HOPE That‟s why a very wise king named Solomon once said, ―Reckless words pierce like asword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Proverbs 12:18MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  34. 34. Leader needs to be... Dispenser of HOPEMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  35. 35. Why leader‟s should dispense hope “Hope, faith and a purpose in life, is medicinal. This is not merely a statement of belief but a conclusion proved by meticulously controlled scientific experiment.” -Dr. Harold G. Wolf, MD, HarvardMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  36. 36. Leaders should dispense HOPEDrugs are tested by„DOUBLE BLIND‟ METHOD Pharmaceuticals today are tested by the ‗double blind‘ method, meaning the administering doctors themselves do not know which is the true drug and which is the inert, ‗control‘ drug.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  37. 37. Leaders should dispense HOPEThey must be tested that way for onesimple reason:the power of human hopeMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  38. 38. Lead with HOPE Before double blind testing, virtually all, new drugs showed spectacular results, regardless of their chemical content.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  39. 39. Lead with HOPE Mystified researchers eventually found the doctor‟s demeanor to be the key factor in the new drug‘s success: By his smile, voice, and attitude, the doctor would unknowingly convey confidence and hope, convincing patients of the probability of improvement.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  40. 40. PLACEBO PHENOMENON Positive Positive Expectations = “Side Effects”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  41. 41. Lead with HOPE―When the effects (of the placebo) arenegative, the substance or procedure thattriggers them is not called ‗placebo,‘ whichmeans ‗to please,‘ but ‗nocebo.‘ Nocebo isLatin for ―I will harm.‖ -Bernie S. Siegel, MD, Love, Peace and HealingMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  42. 42. NOCEBO PHENOMENON Negative Negative Expectations = Side EffectsMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  43. 43. Lead with HOPE With both placebos and nocebos, it is the expectations aroused by the substance or procedure that are ultimately responsible for the result.‖ -Dr. Bernie S. SiegelMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  44. 44. A NOCEBO CASE STUDYTHE STORY OFNICK – theworrierMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  45. 45. Nick got accidentally locked…in a refrigerator-boxcar.Nick assumed that thetemperature inside wasa freezing 0°C. Hestarted shivering andthought to himself, “Illfreeze to death if Idon’t get out ofhere.” MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  46. 46. A NOCEBO CASE STUDYBut he couldn‘t get out. So Nick wrote amessage to his wife and family on a cardboardbox: ―So cold,‖ ―bodys getting numb. If I couldjust go to sleep. These may be mylast words.‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  47. 47. A NOCEBO CASE STUDYThe strange thing was the boxcar‘srefrigeration unit was broken and thetemperature inside was just around16°C — far from freezing.But the autopsy on Nick‟s bodyshowed that he had frozen to death!MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  48. 48. A NOCEBO CASE STUDYNick‟s thoughts froze himself to death.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  49. 49. NOCEBO PHENOMENON Negative Negative Expectations = “Side Effects”  MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  50. 50. PLACEBO PHENOMENON Positive Positive Expectations = “Side Effects”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  51. 51. Case StudyPlacebo heart surgeries anyone?MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  52. 52. Lead with HOPEBusinessweek, reporting on the economics ofthe billion-dollar heart surgery industry,reported the same placebo effects onthose who had thought they hadundergone laser heart surgery to improvetheir blood flow.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  53. 53. Lead with HOPEA Harvard Medical School associate professor,Dr. Roger J. Lahan, reported that those whowent through the real laser surgery andthose who went through the “shamoperation” got the same benefits: less pain and improved heart function.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  54. 54. Lead with HOPEWhat do we expect from ourstudents?Hopeful... or are we pessimisticabout ‗slow‘ students?MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  55. 55. The Pygmalion effect Self-fulfilling prophecy Examples: Children – “bobo!” “Friends” – “baka malugi ka!” Country – “Wala nang pagasa”
  56. 56. Pygmalion effect in business “performance will improve if your supervisors communicate positive thoughts about people to people. If the supervisor actually believes that every employee has the ability to make a positivecontribution at work, the telegraphing of that message, either consciously or unconsciously, will positively affect employee performance.
  57. 57. “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” – Proverbs 23:7 King Solomon
  58. 58. “You become what you think about most of the time”– Earl Nightingale, The Strangest Secret
  59. 59. Think on these things… Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true,whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure,whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and ifthere be any praise, think on these things. – Phil 4:8
  60. 60. HELP Attitude #2:Help Lead withENCOURAGEMENT
  61. 61. Leader as healer needs to .. Encourager = One who inspires COURAGEMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  62. 62. Be an encourager by... Creating an encouraging environment of learning and growth.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  63. 63. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENT1. Place pictures or paintings in your room that will either bring up happy memories or encourage a smile..MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  64. 64. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  65. 65. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENT1. What were they thinking? Psychology Today: the blood pressure and anxiety levels of patients shot up when they looked at the paintings of Elizabethan Queeens displayed in the waiting room of a Canadian hospital. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  66. 66. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENT The effect on the patients was so negative, ―thepaintings of Elizabethan Queens with stern expressions and creepy eyes had to be moved elsewhere.‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  67. 67. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENTMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  68. 68. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENT We‘re going to bring you back to this.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  69. 69. Ecotherapy ―subtle interactions with nature provide a range of cognitive benefits, including elevated mood, enhanced memory, and decreased stress.‖
  70. 70. Ecotherapy Hospital architecture
  71. 71. EcotherapyHospital architecture: hallways
  72. 72. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENTHealing Aroma.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  73. 73. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  74. 74. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGFruits that are fiber rich Pineapples are relatively inexpensive and have lots of fiber to help cleanse your colon.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  75. 75. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENTAnti-oxidant rich foods Go for the greener leafy vegetables. Malungay (moringa) is called the ―miracle tree‖ bythe Department of Agriculture inHawaii because of its healing and high nutritional properties.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  76. 76. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGSoups Tingting also loves clear shiitake mushroom soup served with chopped onions and garlic. Shiitake mushroom has also proven to be an immunity booster. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  77. 77. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGTea University of Purdue researchers recently concluded that a compound in green tea inhibits the growth of cancer cells.‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  78. 78. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGFishFish oil is good for theheart, inflammation,preventing cancer of thebreast, colon, prostate andis great for keeping healthyeyes.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  79. 79. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENT0ils Extra virgin olive oil is one of the ―secrets‖ to the Mediterranean diet.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  80. 80. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATING Virgin Coconut Oil (VCO) According to research, the lauric A ConradoFrancisco Dayrit, Dr.noted pharmacologist and has acid in VCO is the ―substance cardiologist-internist, Dr. about written a book, The Truth Dayrit, that the first The Drugstore in a was keeps infants from getting Coconut Oil: to conduct a clinical viral or endorsinged confirmed Bottle, bacterial…infections. study in 1999 ―that the healing anecdotal of virgin coconut oil propertiesreports on coconut oil. exhibiting anti-HIV effects.‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  81. 81. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENT0rganic.Eat foods thatare free fromhormones andpesticides.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  82. 82. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGDrink healthy and detox (no to coke!). Our bodies were not made to drink sugar- Our bodies were not made to drink sugar- loaded juices and colas. Studies show that loaded juices and colas. Studies show that drinking sugary fizzy drinks promotes “fog drinking sugary fizzy drinks promotes “fog brain” or fuzzy, unclear thinking because of brain” or fuzzy, unclear thinking because of sugar rushes where your blood sugar levels sugar rushes where your blood sugar levels swing from high to low. swing from high to low.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  83. 83. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENTDrink healthy and detox. FRESH BUKO (COCONUT) JUICE. Do your kidneys a favor. Buko juice (no sugar please) helps the kidneys filter our blood.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  84. 84. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATINGDark Chocolate Dark choco has substances known as flavonoids It appears that flavonoids have powerful antioxidant effects. And release endorphins. Happy hormones!MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  85. 85. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENTF RUITS A NTI- OXIDANTS S OUP T EA F ISH O ILS (Olive or VCO) O RGANIC FOOD D ETOXIFYING WATER D ARK CHOCOLATEMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  86. 86. ENCOURAGE HEALTHY EATING Should your rely on doctors for dietary advice? FACT: Over the past decade, 8 medical directors of hospitals in Metro Manila have been among the members of the medical profession stricken with cancer.”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  87. 87. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENT…doctors have begun to concede that “dietary habits and environmental influences” are the chief determinants of cancer and “not genetic factors.”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  88. 88. Help Heal With ENCOURAGEMENTSo start taking charge of your health.Use God‟s “pharmacy”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  89. 89. God’s Pharmacy
  90. 90. Its been said that God first separated the salt water from the fresh, made dry land, planted a garden, made animals and fish... All before making a human. He made and provided what wed need before we were born. These are best & more powerful when eaten raw. Were such slow learners... God left us a great clue as to what foods help what part of our body! Gods Pharmacy! Amazing!
  91. 91. A sliced Carrot looks like the human eye. The pupil, iris and radiating lines look just like the human eye... And YES, science now shows carrots greatlyenhance blood flow to and function of the eyes.
  92. 92. A Tomato has four chambers and is red. The heart has four chambers and is red. All of the research shows tomatoes are loaded with lycopineand are indeed pure heart and blood food.
  93. 93. Grapes hang in a cluster that has the shape of the heart.Each grape looks like a blood cell and all of the research today shows grapes are also profound heart andblood vitalizing food.
  94. 94. A Walnut looks like a little brain, a left and right hemisphere, upper cerebrums and lowercerebellums. Even the wrinkles or folds on the nut are just like the neo-cortex. We now knowwalnuts help develop more than three (3) dozen neuron-transmitters for brain function.
  95. 95. Kidney Beans actually heal and help maintainkidney function and yes, they look exactly like the human kidneys.
  96. 96. Celery, Bok Choy, Rhubarb etc look just like bones.These foods specifically target bone strength.Bones are 23% sodium and these foods are 23% sodium.If you dont have enough sodium in your diet,the body pulls it from the bones, thus making them weak. These foodsreplenish the skeletal needs of the body.
  97. 97. Avocadoes, Eggplant and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Todays research shows that when a woman eats one avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight,and prevents cervical cancers. And how profound is this? It takes exactly nine (9) months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit There are over 14,000photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).
  98. 98. Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when theygrow. Figs increase the mobility of male spermand increase the numbers of Sperm as well toovercome male sterility.
  99. 99. Sweet Potatoes look like the pancreas and actually balance the glycemic index of diabetics.
  100. 100. Olives assist the health and function of the ovaries.
  101. 101. Oranges, Grapefruits, and other Citrus fruits look justlike the mammary glands of the female and actuallyassist the health of the breasts and the movement oflymph in and out of the breasts.
  102. 102. Onions look like the bodys cells. Todays researchshows onions help clear waste materials from all ofthe body cells.They even produce tears which wash the epitheliallayers of the eyes. A working companion, Garlic,also helps eliminate waste materials and dangerousfree radicals from the body.
  103. 103. EnvironmentMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  104. 104. How to let go...Anger is unhealthyMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  105. 105. Anger results in...“Frequent anger may speed up the process ofatherosclerosis, in which fatty plaques build upin arteries. The heart pumps harder, bloodvessels constrict, blood pressure surges, andthere are higher levels of glucose in the bloodand more fat globules in the blood vessels. Allthis, scientists believe, can cause damage toartery walls.”- Cleveland Clinic, Jeffrey Kiffer, MAMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  106. 106. Encourage healing by letting go...MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  107. 107. How to let go...MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  108. 108. St Paul‟s advice:11 0 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:31–32 MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  109. 109. How to let go: #1. Write a list Names of people who have What they did... hurt you Bobbit Owes me money Sabel Stole my boyfriend Onyok …Stole my girlfriendMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  110. 110. How to let go: #2.PrayLord, I release all these hurts and thesepeople to you. I forgive them as You haveforgiven me. AmenMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  111. 111. How to let go: #3. Tear and releaseMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  112. 112. 11 4. MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  113. 113. Tap the shoulder of the person to your rightand say:“Let go ”Tap the shoulder of the person on your left andsay:―You fir_ __‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  114. 114. ENCOURAGING ENVIRONMENTMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  115. 115. How to let go...Say thank you and count yourblessings!But hard because...“why me?”“It’s not fair!”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  116. 116. AQ:AdversityQuotient
  117. 117. 11 9 ―How can a man say that the Lord doesn‘t see our troubles and isn‘t being fair? The everlasting God never grows faint and weary. No one can fathom the depths of His understanding. He gives power to the tired and worn out, strength to the weak. And they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.‖ – Isaiah 40:27-29,31 MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  118. 118. Give thanks and celebrate12 0 Tingting MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  119. 119. Ch 26: The “blessings of illness”12 1 Tingting Take the slow road back to recovery... enjoy MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
  120. 120. Have a gratitude journal...Author Chris Lowney, in his book “Heroic Living,”says, “Be grateful because gratitude is whatenergizes and motivates us to pursue great purpose.An “attitude of gratitude” enables us to recognizethe gifts we have been blessed with and, as a result,to show kindness to others, celebrating their goodfortune, admiring their achievements and prayingfor their continued wellbeing.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  121. 121. Immune BoosterGrateful people tend to be more optimistic,a characteristic that researchers say booststhe immune system. "There are some veryinteresting studies linking optimism to betterimmune function," says Lisa Aspinwall, PhD,a psychology professor at the University ofUtah.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  122. 122. Have a gratitude journal...Exercise gratitude“List down every day something that you aregrateful for. Keep a gratitude journal.” –Oprah WinfreyMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  123. 123. Attitude12 8 Words Actions MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMF.com
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  126. 126. Grateful and Fearless : Anthony Robles – Champion NCAA Wrestler
  127. 127. Fearless : Jessica Cox – First Filipina pilot
  128. 128. Pagtiyagaan ang mga trials and hardships because...“Consider it pure joy…whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faithdevelops perseverance.” James 1:2,3
  129. 129. “God has a purpose behind every problem. …He uses circumstances todevelop our character.” - Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven LifeMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  130. 130. Hope Heart Encoura Prayer of gement Healing LoveMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  131. 131. Diagnostic Test
  132. 132. Diagnostic Test: Stare at each of the following patterns for 5 seconds each. If the patterns are moving even slightly raise your hand. If they are perfectly still don‟t raise your hand.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
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  136. 136. Results:None of these images are animated - they areperfectly still. The slower the pictures move, the betteryour ability of handling stress. Senior citizens and kids see them standingstill. Alleged criminals that were tested see themmoving/spinning around fast.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  137. 137. Tap the shoulder of the person on your rightand say:“I am not a criminal!”Tap the shoulder of the person on your left andsay: “I hope so!”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  138. 138. “If you have to drag yourself to work,you are committing a crime of violenceon yourself!”So…Love your work!MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  139. 139. Because: “Work is Love made visible” K.G.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  140. 140. Tap the shoulder of the person on your rightand say:“Love your work!”Tap the shoulder of the person on your left andsay…―Give me an increase first!‖MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  141. 141. HELP LEAD with mindset andheart attitude ofLOVE
  142. 142. Help Heal With LOVE... LOVE NEVER FAILS.” - St. Paul (1 Corinthians 13:8 )MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  143. 143. HELP LEAD with LOVEMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  144. 144. HELP LEAD WITH LOVE Medical mistake on Baby Yok Shan in a hospital in Malaysia that cost the baby’s left arm last Sept 1, 2007. Hospital offered compensation… http://yokshan.blogspot.comMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  145. 145. Key to healing – caring doctorsMy ―Miracle‖ Patient MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  146. 146. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  147. 147. DR ELMO LAGO’S HEART OF HEALING PROGRAMREAPS BENEFITS
  148. 148. Help LEAD With LOVE ―And now these three remain: faith, hopeand love. But the greatest of these is love.‖ St. Paul (1 Corinthians 13:13)MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  149. 149. Help LEAD With LOVE Love your work… Love those you work with… Love those you work for… Love those you lead at work… Love the work that God has given youMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  150. 150. HELP LEAD WITHPRAYER
  151. 151. HELP LEAD With PRAYER Our prayers may be awkward. Our attempts may be feeble. But since the powerof prayer is in the one who hears it and not the one who says it, our prayers do make a difference. -Max LucadoMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  152. 152. Help Heal With PRAYERMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  153. 153. HELP LEAD With PRAYERAccording to an article titled God Power:This just in – religion and spirituality workby John McManamy: There are about studies 1,200 on “the healing power of faith and the health effects of spirituality.”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  154. 154. HELP LEAD With PRAYERSpirituality and Healing inMedicine seminar at HarvardUniversity confirms that “prayer... could have astounding therapeutic effects.”MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  155. 155. HELP LEAD With PRAYERDr Herbert Benson, a Harvard MedicalSchool cardiologist and founder of the Mind-Body Institute at Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital,was, in his own words, ―not a religiousperson.‖ But study after study showedhim that prayer is good for hispatients.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  156. 156. HELP LEAD With PRAYERI used to be skeptical about these storiesand testimonies of healing by prayer — even after Ibecame a Christian. Some of these stories were justtoo, well, ―miraculous.‖And then I became a participant andwitness myself... I saw my wifehealed.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  157. 157. June 2000 ―SLE‖ Systemic Lupus: Attacked multiple organs, esp kidneys, nervous system, etc Very bad prognosis.. MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  158. 158. The results of H.E.L.P... July 2000 8, 2000. October Here‘s mylater after doctors and 3 months wife, skin and bones jutting thought that my sweet wife friendsfrom fromsix month ordeal out her body. Still weak was going tothe hereshe‘sis with systemic lupus, she smiling die, celebrating her birthday! She because she was now hopeful continues to see her doctors for that she would eventually check-ups, and her doctors recover. The picture was taken continue goddaughter, Chava, the with our to express amazement and after being discharged from day joy at her “miraculous” the hospital recovery.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  159. 159. Traveling resumed within 7 mosMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  160. 160. Help Heal With PRAYER You certainly were helped by a few miracles from above. Miraculous.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  161. 161. My miracle patient MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  162. 162. 200617 0My ―Miracle‖ Patient @ Sea ofGalilee Miracle: From bankrupt to giving MyHeartofHealing.com (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at back OMF.com
  163. 163. HELP LEAD With PRAYER Miracles happen when we pray. -TingtingMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  164. 164. Help LEAD With PRAYER Pray for those you work with… Pray for those you work for… Pray for those you lead at work… Pray for courage. Pray for miracles to follow you as you lead othersMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  165. 165. HELPI shall by telling this with a sighSomewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a woodAnd I – I took the one less traveled by;And that has made all the difference.- Robert FrostMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  166. 166. Hope Prayer Lead with Encourage HELP ment LoveMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  167. 167. LEAD WITH HELP...So may you choose to lead yourself and others sothat you…hope more,encourage more,love more, to pray more….These are definitely not popular choices.So may God bless those you with miracle aftermiracle as you choose the road less traveled by.It will make a world of difference for you and yourfollowers.MyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  168. 168. Ardy, Tingting & Joshua... Facebook.com/ardyroberto Author Ardy.roberto@gmail.comMyHeartofHealing.info (c) Ardy Roberto 2008 - buy the Heart of Healing at OMFlit.com
  169. 169. Based on Research, experience and scripture truth Ardy Roberto Author, Pera na Hindi Bitinwww.saltandlight.ph
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  171. 171. Paul to the Philippians (gamot sa worry)“Don’t worry about anything; instead,pray about everything. Tell God whatyou need, and thank him for all he hasdone. If you do this, you willexperience God’s peace, which is farmore wonderful than the human mind canunderstand. His peace will guard yourhearts and minds as you live in ChristJesus.”Philippians 4:6-7 (New Living Translation

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