10 – Rules of Islamic Parenting<br />Live your message<br />Introduce Allah<br />Introduce Rasoolullah<br />Systematic Islamic education in parallel<br />Manners (Akhlaaq), Dealings (Muamilaat)<br />Concern for others, Compassion, Courage, Justice<br />Physical & Mental toughness, Conflict Resolution<br />Scheduling time, Multi-tasking, Networking<br />Accepting responsibility, Communication<br />Drive for Excellence: Being Number One<br />4<br />
Live your message<br /><ul><li>If you live it, you don’t have to say it
Demonstrate what you want others to do</li></ul>لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثِيرًا <br /><ul><li>Al-Ahzab 33:21 Indeed in the Messenger of Allâh you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in (the Meeting with) Allâh and the Last Day and remembers Allâh much.</li></ul>5<br />firstname.lastname@example.org<br />
Introduce Allah<br />أَلَيْسَ اللَّهُ بِكَافٍ عَبْدَهُ وَيُخَوِّفُونَكَ بِالَّذِينَ مِن دُونِهِ وَمَن يُضْلِلِ اللَّهُ فَمَا لَهُ مِنْ هَادٍ<br /><ul><li>Az-Zumar 39:36 Is not Allâh Sufficient for His slave? Yet they try to frighten you with those (whom they worship) besides Him! And whom Allâh sends astray, for him there will be no guide. </li></ul>وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ<br /><ul><li>Al Baqara 2:186 And when My slaves ask you (O Muhammad ) concerning Me, then , I am indeed near. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright.</li></ul>6<br />
Introduce Rasoolullah<br /><ul><li>Position of Rasoolullah , His rights on the Ummah, following Sunnah, His Mission and our responsibility </li></ul>إِنَّ اللَّهَ وَمَلَائِكَتَهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا صَلُّوا عَلَيْهِ وَسَلِّمُوا تَسْلِيمًا<br /><ul><li>Al- Ahzab 33:56 Verily Allâh & His Angels send Salât on the Prophet (Muhammad SAW). O you who believe! Send your Salat on (ask Allâh to bless) him (Muhammad SAW), and greet (salute) him with the Islâmic way of greeting (As Salâmu 'Alaikum).</li></ul>7<br />email@example.com<br />
Islamic education in parallel<br />Aqeeda<br />Arabic language<br />Tajweed, Qirat & Tahfeez-ul-Qur’an<br />Tafseer<br />Hadith<br />Seerah<br />Fiqh<br />Anbiya, Sahaba, Islamic history focus on lessons<br />8<br />Only needs 4 – 5 hours per week<br />
Manners (Akhlaaq), Dealings (Muamilaat)<br />Children listen with their eyes: They do what they see<br />Manners are the best da’awa, influence people<br />Demonstrate honesty, integrity, truth, trust<br />The Sunnah is the best guide: Teach Adab (respect)<br />Rasoolullah said: I was sent to teach people manners<br />9<br />Teach Islamic manners -<br />Not local culture and superstition<br />
Demonstrate concern for:<br />Family members, Environment, Servants, Strangers, Road users, Neighbors <br />Participate in social work, community service, poverty alleviation, adult literacy, disaster relief projects<br />Demonstrate compassion & concern for justice even when you are not personally affected by oppression<br />Teach them to stand up for their convictions and to take up the cause for other’s rights<br />10<br />Concern for others, Compassion Courage, Justice<br />Demonstrate concern through service<br />
Mothers must stop pampering children<br />Regular exercise, Team sports, physical fitness<br />No complaining: Find solutions to problems<br />Horse riding, swimming, martial arts<br />Inculcate physical courage: Teach survival skills, experience physical hardship & hunger<br />Teach how to disagree without being disagreeable<br />11<br />Physical & Mental toughness, Conflict Resolution<br />The difference between falling & failing <br />is the willingness to get up<br />
Wake & Sleep early<br />Regulate TV, Eliminate video games<br />Daily account (Muhasiba) & diary writing<br />Punctuality: Keeping promises<br />Choosing friends: Your friends define you<br />Give them a standard to judge their friends<br />12<br />Managing time, Multi-tasking, Networking<br />Discipline differentiates between winner & loser<br />
Accepting responsibility, Communication<br />Don’t do school projects for them: Let them learn<br />Care for Commons: home, neighborhood, school<br />Respect for the law, duty, nobility<br />Develop intelligent interests: Reading, experimenting, gardening, pets<br />Teamwork: No competition between siblings<br />Teach public speaking, writing, debating, logic<br />Never take sides between children: No favoritism<br />Don’t use children as pawns in your politics<br />13<br />
“Winning is not a sometime thing: It’s an all-the-time-thing. You don’t win once in a while, you don’t do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is a habit. Unfortunately so is losing….I firmly believe that any man’s finest hour – his greatest fulfillment to all he holds dear- is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle – VICTORIOUS.” ~Vince Lombardi<br />14<br />Drive for Excellence: Being # 1<br />To win is to take others with you<br />
This is the most valuable gift that you can give to your child<br />Because true love is to make him/her strong<br />Not weak and vulnerable<br />firstname.lastname@example.org<br />15<br />
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