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Parenting - Creating Standard Bearers of Islam

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    • Parenting
      Creating Standard Bearers of Islam
    • By chance or by choice……
      Your child is your legacy to the world
      Ask: What do I want to be remembered for?
    • To fly, even eagles need a push
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    • 10 – Rules of Islamic Parenting
      Live your message
      Introduce Allah
      Introduce Rasoolullah
      Systematic Islamic education in parallel
      Manners (Akhlaaq), Dealings (Muamilaat)
      Concern for others, Compassion, Courage, Justice
      Physical & Mental toughness, Conflict Resolution
      Scheduling time, Multi-tasking, Networking
      Accepting responsibility, Communication
      Drive for Excellence: Being Number One
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    • Live your message
      • If you live it, you don’t have to say it
      • Demonstrate what you want others to do
      لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثِيرًا
      • Al-Ahzab 33:21 Indeed in the Messenger of Allâh you have a good example to follow for him who hopes in (the Meeting with) Allâh and the Last Day and remembers Allâh much.
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    • Introduce Allah
      أَلَيْسَ اللَّهُ بِكَافٍ عَبْدَهُ وَيُخَوِّفُونَكَ بِالَّذِينَ مِن دُونِهِ وَمَن يُضْلِلِ اللَّهُ فَمَا لَهُ مِنْ هَادٍ
      • Az-Zumar 39:36 Is not Allâh Sufficient for His slave? Yet they try to frighten you with those (whom they worship) besides Him! And whom Allâh sends astray, for him there will be no guide.
      وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
      • Al Baqara 2:186 And when My slaves ask you (O Muhammad ) concerning Me, then , I am indeed near. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright.
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    • Introduce Rasoolullah
      • Position of Rasoolullah , His rights on the Ummah, following Sunnah, His Mission and our responsibility
      إِنَّ اللَّهَ وَمَلَائِكَتَهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا صَلُّوا عَلَيْهِ وَسَلِّمُوا تَسْلِيمًا
      • Al- Ahzab 33:56 Verily Allâh & His Angels send Salât on the Prophet (Muhammad SAW). O you who believe! Send your Salat on (ask Allâh to bless) him (Muhammad SAW), and greet (salute) him with the Islâmic way of greeting (As­ Salâmu 'Alaikum).
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    • Islamic education in parallel
      Aqeeda
      Arabic language
      Tajweed, Qirat & Tahfeez-ul-Qur’an
      Tafseer
      Hadith
      Seerah
      Fiqh
      Anbiya, Sahaba, Islamic history focus on lessons
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      Only needs 4 – 5 hours per week
    • Manners (Akhlaaq), Dealings (Muamilaat)
      Children listen with their eyes: They do what they see
      Manners are the best da’awa, influence people
      Demonstrate honesty, integrity, truth, trust
      The Sunnah is the best guide: Teach Adab (respect)
      Rasoolullah said: I was sent to teach people manners
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      Teach Islamic manners -
      Not local culture and superstition
    • Demonstrate concern for:
      Family members, Environment, Servants, Strangers, Road users, Neighbors
      Participate in social work, community service, poverty alleviation, adult literacy, disaster relief projects
      Demonstrate compassion & concern for justice even when you are not personally affected by oppression
      Teach them to stand up for their convictions and to take up the cause for other’s rights
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      Concern for others, Compassion Courage, Justice
      Demonstrate concern through service
    • Mothers must stop pampering children
      Regular exercise, Team sports, physical fitness
      No complaining: Find solutions to problems
      Horse riding, swimming, martial arts
      Inculcate physical courage: Teach survival skills, experience physical hardship & hunger
      Teach how to disagree without being disagreeable
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      Physical & Mental toughness, Conflict Resolution
      The difference between falling & failing
      is the willingness to get up
    • Wake & Sleep early
      Regulate TV, Eliminate video games
      Daily account (Muhasiba) & diary writing
      Punctuality: Keeping promises
      Choosing friends: Your friends define you
      Give them a standard to judge their friends
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      Managing time, Multi-tasking, Networking
      Discipline differentiates between winner & loser
    • Accepting responsibility, Communication
      Don’t do school projects for them: Let them learn
      Care for Commons: home, neighborhood, school
      Respect for the law, duty, nobility
      Develop intelligent interests: Reading, experimenting, gardening, pets
      Teamwork: No competition between siblings
      Teach public speaking, writing, debating, logic
      Never take sides between children: No favoritism
      Don’t use children as pawns in your politics
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    • “Winning is not a sometime thing: It’s an all-the-time-thing. You don’t win once in a while, you don’t do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is a habit. Unfortunately so is losing….I firmly believe that any man’s finest hour – his greatest fulfillment to all he holds dear- is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle – VICTORIOUS.” ~Vince Lombardi
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      Drive for Excellence: Being # 1
      To win is to take others with you
    • This is the most valuable gift that you can give to your child
      Because true love is to make him/her strong
      Not weak and vulnerable
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