Before reading Cyndi Targosz' book DATING THE YOUNGER MAN, I resisted accepting the advances of younger guys. Now I realize that I was rejecting my true feelings and my desires toward dating younger men, simply because I've been very uncomfortable being seen as a "woman on the prowl". That predatory image of us is being pushed all over TV today and in most of the magazines and other books I've seen on the subject. That's not me. I could never be a predator. So,Dating the Younger Man: Guide to Every Woman's Sweetest Indulgence wanting to avoid the stigma, I just set aside any thoughts of dating younger guys. But reading this book let me know that I don't have to become something I'm not, to get something I know I want, and now know I can have. Dating the Younger Man by Cyndi Targosz, helped me change my outlook to be more open, by being my best self, rather than crafting a different personality. Her collection of real life stories from other women and men and her light hearted fun, sometimes very funny approach to dating, made this a joy to read. She has written a hands-on manual that does more than give psychobabble but provides great tips. I think above all, this author sees and discusses a truthful approach to the feelings we all have as women in today's society, and she shares a path to being ourselves without allowing the negative labeling. I love the playful term "Boy Toy Babe!(BTB)". That is the new confident me - comfortable in my own perfectly imperfect skin. I'm an intelligent divorcee who has maintained my independence and femininity without having to act with a hard edge. I wish more books on the subject were like this one. But until then, this one is Great!
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