CAIN KILL ABEL OUT OF ANGER Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. Gen 4:1 Adam and Eve had a son. Then Eve said, &quot;I'll name him Cain because I got him with the help of the LORD.&quot; Gen 4:2 Later she had another son and named him Abel. Abel became a sheep farmer, but Cain farmed the land. Gen 4:3 One day, Cain gave part of his harvest to the LORD, Gen 4:4 and Abel also gave an offering to the LORD. He killed the first-born lamb from one of his sheep and gave the LORD the best parts of it. The LORD was pleased with Abel and his offering, Gen 4:5 but not with Cain and his offering. This made Cain so angry that he could not hide his feelings. Gen 4:6 The LORD said to Cain: What's wrong with you? Why do you have such an angry look on your face? Gen 4:7 If you had done the right thing, you would be smiling. But you did the wrong thing, and now sin is waiting to attack you like a lion. Sin wants to destroy you, but don't let it! Gen 4:8 Cain said to his brother Abel, &quot;Let's go for a walk.&quot; And when they were out in a field, Cain killed him. Gen 4:9 Afterwards the LORD asked Cain, &quot;Where is Abel?&quot; &quot;How should I know?&quot; he answered. &quot;Am I supposed to look after my brother?&quot;
Moses Anger - SPEAK or STRIKE Num 20:7 and said, &quot;Moses, get your walking stick. Then you and Aaron call the people together and command that rock to give you water. That's how you will provide water for the people of Israel and their livestock.&quot; Num 20:8 (SEE 20:7) Num 20:9 Moses obeyed and took his stick from the sacred tent. Num 20:10 After he and Aaron had gathered the people around the rock, he said, &quot;Look, you rebellious people, and you will see water flow from this rock!&quot; Num 20:11 He raised his stick in the air and struck the rock two times. At once, water gushed from the rock, and the people and their livestock had water to drink. Num 20:12 But the LORD said to Moses and Aaron, &quot;Because you refused to believe in my power, these people did not respect me. And so, you will not be the ones to lead them into the land I have promised.&quot;
SAUL JEALOUY & ANGRY 1Sa 18:7 They sang: Saul has killed a thousand enemies; David has killed ten thousand enemies! 1Sa 18:8 This song made Saul very angry, and he thought, &quot;They are saying that David has killed ten times more enemies than I ever did. Next they will want to make him king.&quot; SAUL TRIED TO KILL DAVID 1Sa 18:10 The next day the LORD let an evil spirit take control of Saul, and he began acting like a crazy man inside his house. David came to play the harp for Saul as usual, but this time Saul had a spear in his hand. 1Sa 18:11 Saul thought, &quot;I'll pin David to the wall.&quot; He threw the spear at David twice, but David dodged and got away both times.
JESUS BECAME ANGRY Mar 10:14 When Jesus saw this, he became angry and said, &quot;Let the children come to me! Don't try to stop them. People who are like these little children belong to the kingdom of God.
A angry boy shot his father in the back. Because his father would not let him use the internet. Can Christian get angry or are we suppose to get angry over things that we are not happy about. What does the Bible teach about anger? Next slide According to some psychologist there 2 major causes of anger.
There are 2 reasons people want to show their anger. Next slide
Anger stored in small quantity day by day can be very dangerous! From YELLOW – ORANGE – RED. AFTER RED color things can turn very ugly. Next slide
Some people think that they can get what they want just by being ANGERY. Compare a Boss and the employee. Housewife and her maid. Officer and his army boy recruit. How about children and their parent? Do you obey your kids or your kids obey you. Let’s see what kind of kids you have? CLICK NEXT SLIDE
As parent do you allow your kids to be like this in public? What will others think of your children and you as parent? Children not parental guidance. Parent no parental education. Let’s have a look at another kid – this time at home? CLICK
What do you do with kids like this – grandma, grandpa, mother & father? Imagine what Singapore would be like with kids around? They are of no use to our society, society will not accept them. Where can they be accepted – PRISONS. CLICK NEXT
Can Anger be controlled and trained? God instructed us as parent to train our kids when they are young. This goes to show that good behavior can be train and taught from young. As parent if you do not set a Christian examples at home: This is how your children will grow up to be like: Baby – Teenage – Adult -
Why do people get angry easily? There are several reasons why people get angry. Next slide
Will you get angry when your girl or boy decided that we should split? Angry, disappointed and cry. What happened when you tell you baby that you don’t love them anymore? Angry, sad and cry. All human being are created by God of love and we need to be loved. Baby Died for lack of love story: At a business seminar on human relationships, the speaker told of a hospital ward filled with orphaned babies. In a long row of beds, the babies became ill and some of them died—except the baby in the last bed. It did well. The doctor was puzzled. All were fed, bathed, kept warm—no difference in their care. Yet only the baby in the last bed thrived. As months passed and new babies were brought in, the story was always the same: Only the baby in the last bed did well. Finally the doctor concealed himself to watch. At midnight the cleaning woman came in and on hands and knees scrubbed the floor, from one end to the other. The floor finished, she stood up, stretched, rubbed her back. Then she went to the last bed, picked up the baby, walked around the room with it, cuddling it, talking to it, rocking it in her arms. She put it back in its bed and left. The doctor watched the next night, and the next. Each night the same thing happened. It was always the baby in the last bed that got picked up, cuddled, talked to, and loved. And in all the new groups of babies brought in, it was always the baby in the last bed that thrived, while the others got sick and some died.
Important: Is this something that’s important to me? Appropriate: Is my response appropriate to the situation? Modifiable: Is there anything I can do about it? Worth It: Is taking action worth it in this situation?
&quot;There are two major reasons for quick open expressions of anger. The first is that the individual has accumulated so much anger that only a little more is needed to set him off. This is seen in the person who overreacts to a situation by becoming more angry than is warranted. Such a person has had many dissatisfactions in his life and is walking around with a high concentration of stored-up anger.
Can you see what ANGER can do to a person?
The goal of anger management is to reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes. You can't get rid of, or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions.
Galatians 5:13-14 For you were called to freedom, brethren; only [do] not [turn] your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the [statement], &quot;YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF. Be careful of words like &quot;never&quot; or &quot;always&quot; when talking about yourself or someone else. &quot;This !&*%@ machine never works,&quot; or &quot;you're always forgetting things&quot; are not just inaccurate, they also serve to make you feel that your anger is justified and that there's no way to solve the problem. They also alienate and humiliate people who might otherwise be willing to work with you on a solution. Remind yourself that getting angry is not going to fix anything, that it won't make you feel better (and may actually make you feel worse).
James 1:19-20 [This] you know, my beloved brethren. But let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak [and] slow to anger for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. Relaxation Simple relaxation tools, such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery, can help calm down angry feelings. Some simple steps you can try: Breathe deeply, from your diaphragm; breathing from your chest won't relax you. Picture your breath coming up from your &quot;gut.&quot; Slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as &quot;relax,&quot; &quot;take it easy.&quot; Repeat it to yourself while breathing deeply. Use imagery; visualize a relaxing experience, from either your memory or your imagination. Non strenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. Practice these techniques daily. Learn to use them automatically when you're in a tense situation.
Galatians 2:20 I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and delivered Himself up for me.
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 &quot;For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh, 4 for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5 We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ...&quot; Unexpressed anger can create other problems. It can lead to pathological expressions of anger, such as passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling them why, rather than confronting them head-on) or a personality that seems perpetually cynical and hostile. People who are constantly putting others down, criticizing everything, and making cynical comments haven't learned how to constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren't likely to have many successful relationships.
Anger can be suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to inhibit or suppress your anger and convert it into more constructive behavior. The danger in this type of response is that if it isn't allowed outward expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression.
Ephesians 4:26 &quot;BE ANGRY, AND yet DO NOT SIN; do not let the sun go down on your anger,&quot; Finally, you can calm down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside.
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Vengeance is mine saith the Lord" 该隐生气 Cain Angry 杀了亚伯 Kill Abel