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Does the magic of making up really work

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    • The magic of making up review ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---T W Jackson’s The Magic Of Making Up System provides you with a plan. This is acomplete and solid manual about getting your girl back and walks you through theentire process from start to finish. Since timing is very important, a time schedule isspecified which outlines when a specific step should be done.What’s really impressive is how practical and extensive this info is. Very fewcontingencies have been left out. For example, getting your ex to agree with meetingyou for the first time has been covered with lots of attention to detail. Questions suchas: how is this handled, what do you say to her, when do you say it, what you shoulddo if she won’t talk with you, are all dealt with.The Magic Of Making Up System gives these “what ifs” a lot of attention. Because ofits thoroughness in covering your bases, it’s something of a long read. But the ideahere is not to skim it but to take action by following it one step at a time.Here is how it is laid out:First, there is a section that gets you through the understanding stage. You willdiscover the core reasons why lovers separate. Without understanding these “loveprinciples” you’ll be completely in the dark.Next, you will work on “getting your head on straight”. You can not attractsomeone back when you’re feeling needy, depressed or angry. This section will dealwith how to heal your emotional wounds. Things that most people do that youabsolutely must avoid will be covered here.Then, you will be shown how to assess your relationship. You need to understandthe particular difficulties between you and your lover. Knowing this decides whetheryour relationship is worth fighting for.
    • ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---Finally you will work the plan. This is the step by step strategy that is filled withproven tactics (3 of which are described below) that deal with all sorts ofcontingencies. There is one weakness here…you must take action on this information.Nothing can happen, unless you act. Otherwise, failure is guaranteed.Tactics for coping with the challenges of winning herback are provided. Four of the most notable ones are:The Fast Forward Technique: This is a 5 step process that’s repeated 2 or3 times a day. It enables you to “shift forward” past the psychological pain of breakingup.The Instant Reconnect Technique: This is a very clever psychologicaltactic that is simple to do. It’s a subtle way of triggering your partners subconsciousinto a kind of deja vu state…her subconscious relives the good times of yourrelationship. One thing that I can personally say about this one is that if someone usedthis on me and I later found out about it, I would definitely feel manipulated. Also,when I first heard about what it could do, it seemed like a ridiculous claim. But when Ilearned about how it was done, my reaction was “yep, I should’ve thought of thatmyself”. It’s so dead simple and obvious, that it’s almost boring. Never-the-less, it canbe a very powerful and sneaky form of manipulation.The Clean Slate Method: As the name implies, it’s a formula for wiping theslate clean so that you can give the relationship a new, fresh start. Unlike, the instantreconnect technique, it’s not a simple tactic. It requires that you develop a certainmind-set that some people will never achieve in their lifetime. Many adults are littlemore than children walking about in adult bodies. It’s surprising how so much of ourdefensive behavior revolves around “keeping the score even” and about “being in theright”. I have to say that this method can also be used in dealing with other aspects ofour lives beyond simply winning your ex back. This one is profound and if one mastersit, one becomes a better person, a true adult.Second Chance Letter: With the abundance of practical advice, it’s very easyto overlook this bonus download of about 20 pages. This bonus explains how to write a“second chance letter” that can change her mind about leaving you. Included is a pre-written letter that you can use as is, or you can rewrite it in your own words if you sochoose. A lot of psychology is woven into this letter, so be sure to check it out. ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---
    • The Magic Of Making Up System is for the long term. There are no quick fixes thateventually backfire. These breakthrough methods are meant to bring lasting results toyour relationship.Wishing you the very best of luck.134 Responses to “A REAL Magic Of Making Up Review From ACustomers Point Of View!”Thomas Trumen, on January 2nd, 2010 at 6:24 pm Said:I would like every that has ever received any of my advice to leave a comment below.I would also like everyonethat has read The Magic Of Making Up by TW Jackson to leave comments. Thanks forall the comments and for showinghow much i have been able to help youJared c, on January 5th, 2010 at 2:01 am Said:Thomas, Thank you very much for all your videos. I am in the no contact period forabout a week. TW Jackson systemreally helped me with my relationship. we got back together a couple of weeks agobut we are still worken on it ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---Shelly, on January 11th, 2010 at 8:37 pm Said:
    • Thomas, thank you so much for all your help. When the breakup happened I was inshock and didnt know what to do.Your emails and video are straight forward, sympathetic and tell me just what I needto hear. Im just starting theno contact and you and the magic of making up keep me focused. However it turnsout, I cant thank you enoughThomas Trumen, on January 12th, 2010 at 11:59 am Said:Your welcome Shelly.I know that if you keep following my advice and the magic of making up advice youwill continue to see greatresults. Make sure to check your email inbox every day because i will continue to sendyou reports, videos, andfree guides. Good Luck!Casey, on January 22nd, 2010 at 11:23 am Said: ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---I was talking to my ex’s best friend today, she said that my ex was wondering aboutme…because of the “SecondChance Letter” It did exactly what it was supposed to do! I couldn’t help but smile,because now I see how things
    • that the magic of making up has shown me are starting to work!Joyce, on February 25th, 2010 at 6:22 pm Said:I have only one thing to say: THANK YOU for all your help and your support, you aregreaaaat!!! Thank you so muchman!! You helped me through one of the most difficult times i ever hadAndreé, on February 28th, 2010 at 7:36 pm Said:Submitted on 2010/05/11 at 8:46pmTanks for your help I will test all your advices. It really works.Linzi, on March 2nd, 2010 at 9:41 am Said:Hi Thomas, ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---Your advice was really helpful. I have found it interesting in developing myself aftermy split with my ex.Although my ex and I are not back together I still appreciate all the help you havegiven me.Thanks for replying to my email the other day answering my question about the magicof making up. love your
    • support thomasPaul Dale, on March 22nd, 2010 at 10:43 pm Said:Thanks Thomas, I liked all your videos. Your advice makes so much sense to me. Beenfollowing the magic of makingup for about 2 months and i am glad i did. im goen on my 2 date with my ex. ThanksthomasDeloris, on April 13th, 2010 at 1:09 am Said:Your advice is Excellent, Thomas!Thank you for everything ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---Rachel, on April 21st, 2010 at 9:12 pm Said:Thank you for the advice. It makes perfect sense. wish i would of found you and themagic of making up right afterthe break up started.I am going to keep everything in mind that you recommended and be stronger abouthow i approach this from now on.It is good to know other people are going through similar things. I will keep you postedon the progress!
    • Casey, on May 28th, 2010 at 3:32 pm Said:After I bought “The Magic Of Making Up” by T.W. Jackson, I also signed up for ThomasTrumen’s news letters. Soeveryday not only do I get help and advice from T.W. Jackson, but Thomas as well.I highly recommend that if your are serious about getting your ex back, then you NEEDthese guys! Seriously! I’mcurrently following the system, I gave my ex the “Second Chance Letter” the otherday, and on that very same day Ibroke the pattern. So, I accomplished two major parts in one day. But this is a systemthat will take time and ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---work, along with positive effort.I’m easily discouraged because my ex is already in another relationship, but for everyvideo and newsletter I getfrom Thomas and T.W. Jackson, I feel refreshed and filled with hope! I thank themboth for what they have done sofar! And I honestly hope that my ex will one day be in my arms again. And all thankswill go to T.W. Jackson andThomas Trumen, for giving us hope, and actual help with our relationships!
    • Thomas Trumen, on May 30th, 2010 at 8:03 pm Said:Good Job Casey!I see that you almost have your ex back Casey!Just keep following The Magic Of Making Up. The next thing you have to do is takeyour ex out on 3 outings for nolonger then 30 minutes to keep their curiosity peeked. If you cut the outing off at thevery climax your ex willwant to continue the outing another day. ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---People love climaxes, lol…So when you cut off your outing at the climax your ex will want to have another one!Who wouldnt want another climax after the first one if the first one made themhappy?Then after you have developed a NEW FOUNDATION for you future relationship withthe outings do the next thing TWJackson says in The Magic Of Making Up. Just make sure when you do theEMOTIONALLY CHARGED DATES after the 3outings you do what i told you about STACKING the DATES with your ex.The Magic Of Making UpStacking all the emotionally charged dates will make the dates with your ex 100x’sbetter!
    • One more thing, make sure that you use THE INSTANT RECONNECT TECHNIQUE that TWJackson talks about in The Magic OfMaking Up. When you are in the middle of STACKING the dates with your ex use thistechnique at the CLIMAX of thedate.Then when your ex gets sexual with you after you apply this technique you know youare only a few dates away to ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---making your ex commit to you again.Look forward to your next update Casey!Keep following The Magic Of Making up and i cant wait for your success story.Sincerely, Thomas TrumenChris, on May 30th, 2010 at 11:40 pm Said:Thomas,Thanks man your advice is helping me stay sane and keeping me focused. would belost with out you.Anonymous, on June 16th, 2010 at 11:48 pm Said:The Magic of Making up is a wonderful book. Just reading it for the first time made mefeel more relaxed.
    • Thomas, thank you so much for all of your emails and tips! They’re really helpful.I agree with the post by Rachel, about wishing that I found you and the book beforethe breakup.sym, on June 19th, 2010 at 11:50 pm Said: just want to say that this guy is the shit! and knows what he’s talking about. suscribe and he’ll help you with ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---out a doubtJoshua, on June 24th, 2010 at 1:08 am Said:These two guys are great! They are wonderful coaches for getting through, andhopefully, getting back an ex aftera break-up. The videos that Thomas sends are perfect! They give all the additionalinfo and coaching that I neededafter reading The Magic of Making Up.Thanks Thomas!!EC, on June 24th, 2010 at 4:46 am Said:Thank you Thomas. Your videos really help. Whenever I’m depressed, I watch yourvideos. The Magic of Making up isalso so awesome. Everyone who really wants their ex back should own that book.Amy, on June 25th, 2010 at 11:53 pm Said:
    • I really neeed a copy of this book… My husband left me with a toddler and 6 monthspregnant… I am now a single mum ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---and can’t afford to purchase this. Can u tell me if I can download for free?Thomas Trumen, on June 28th, 2010 at 10:50 pm Said:Hi AmyI am sorry, you can not download The Magic Of Making Up for free anywhere onlineand it is not available instores. If you find someone giving away this POWERFUL system away for free you needto report them to TW Jacksonbefore he finds out, reports them to the police, gets a lawyer, and sues them for$100,000!As you can see from the comments above The Magic Of Making Up system is AMAZINGand It works!TW Jacksons techniques are very powerful and are only available to thoughs that arewilling to INVEST in theirrelationship skills and a 2nd chance with the one they love. Since TW Jackson decidedto share his “MAGIC FORMULA”that took him20 years to create
    • with the public, The Magic Of Making Up has saved over 60,000 relationships in over 50country’s in only the pastcouple years. Not only that but TW Jackson has had no complaints and has a 100%customer satisfaction rate, eventhe few people that asked for a refund were happy because they were also providedwith a great service.…And since i am about to get married i can now say “with a smile on my face” that iam one of TW Jacksonstestimonials out of the 60,000 + testimonials TW Jackson has because of The Magic OfMaking Up.I completely understand your situation…There is still Hope!Until you are able to afford The Magic Of Making Up system, sign up and read my FREEguide to get started on theright path to get your ex back. After you sign up i will send you a “PRIVATEINVITATION” to work with me and TWJackson one one one if there are any spots available.So…Sign up right now and read my free guide!Sign up now! Read my FREE guide!T., on July 6th, 2010 at 6:43 pm Said:Thomas, Thomas hello there…
    • Huge thanks for such a great support, I mean you just being there when someoneneeds a bit of advice is amazinggreat job…Also huge thanks to TW for writing this book .Every advice was very helpfull, and I thank you, you are great support.Best wishes and lots of loveN, on July 8th, 2010 at 1:18 am Said:Hi Thomas,Just want to say your awsome,,, I am getting alot of advice!1 The book is very helpful,and i get a kick out ofyour videos… Some are sooo funny{ your comments} ;o) Thank You again and hope tohear from ya!!;o) ;o)Jovan, on July 8th, 2010 at 3:06 am Said:This stuff does work but you have to follow the rules and understand that everbodyssituation is different. So bewise how you use the magic of making up. Other than that its a great system and irecommend it to any one. ThanksThomas!Tasha, on July 8th, 2010 at 5:54 am Said:
    • Thomas – Thank you for all your help! You’re keeping me strong! You’re a great helpand a huge support.BK, on July 12th, 2010 at 7:49 pm Said:Great stuff. Love ain’t always easy, or patient and kind! But patience can pay off, andthis info is great if youreally want a shot at getting him/her back. Thanks man.Big Jon, on July 14th, 2010 at 4:17 am Said:Hey Thomas. Is there some way I could contact you through email? I just recentlypurchased “Magic of Making Up” afew days ago. I would just like to talk/message you privately. The book is great so far!but i have some questionsthat I would like to ask YOU though.-ThanksThomas Trumen, on July 14th, 2010 at 11:40 am Said:Yeah, send me a email and i will get back to you as soon as possible.Every time someone orders The Magic Of Making Up i normally email them right awayto see if they need any extrahelp.Sincerely, Thomas Trumen
    • Carol, on July 20th, 2010 at 2:49 pm Said:I have been receiving your e-mails for a couple of weeks, it’s hard to watch the videosas my kids are alwaysaround. Even though I haven’t done anything, I feel better just knowing that otherpeople feel the same way, andI’m following your advise and actually getting over him. Feel so much better already.thanksJames, on July 23rd, 2010 at 8:30 pm Said:Thomas you are amazing!!! I followed all your advice and this is what happened…my exwent from despising me tomissing me!No Contact – resulted in her starting to text, email and call me more and more over aperiod of 7 weeks!! This defmade her miss me and want what was no longer on a plate!Ive changed everything about me, ive lost weight, changed my hair, my look, myattitude – everything!We met for the ’1st Outing’ and she ended up crying in my arms telling me she missesme and is finding it reallyhard….Master Thomas – you did that…and i thank you so so much from the bottom ofmy broken, but on the mend –
    • heart.Im taking things slowly, and this bit it really hard, much harder than i thought it wouldbe because i know i canhave her back, but its too soon, so i had to walk away – god that took every bit ofstrength i had. I will keepwatching your videos and listen to your advice, because i know you will keep mestrong and focussed.Put your trust in Thomas and TDub, you wont regret it! I read comments like this lastmonth and thought – what thehell – ive got nothing to lose and hopefully allot to gain! I am so glad i took the leap offaith – it has so paidoff and i cant believe how it works – its amazing!! You will see and you will be on heretoo leaving positivecomments! Guarenteed!!Thank you so so much Thomas and TDUB – i dont feel like a thank you is enough xxxThomas Trumen, on July 23rd, 2010 at 9:39 pm Said:I appreciate the comment James!I new that eventually you would get your ex back.For everyone that is reading this you can save your relationship if you know exactlywhat to do and when to do it.
    • If you want to get your ex back then you need to sign up to get, my free guides,videos, and reply to yourquestions from me personally.Click Here To Sign Up NowAmanda, on July 25th, 2010 at 5:38 am Said:THOMAS, HAS BEEN MY BLESSING.HERE IS MY STORY, AND HOW IT HELPED SO FAR! IT WAS A HELL OF A SITUATION FORME, AND I NEVER BEEN SO HOPELESS INMY WHOLE LIFE. I hope my story inspires you, and convinces you that he’s stuff works!I was with my Fiancee for two years, and loved him to death!! He was my world, mylove, and my best friend. Wewere about to move in together this Summer, and then get married. Now, I’ll tell youthe issue.We were two cultures, which I accepted! I am Jewish, and he is Hindu. My familyaccepted him like a son, and hisfamily was extremely racist, and not accepting. However, he told me that he loves meand he only wants me. We hadan amazing connection at the beginning of our relationship, and as we went on ourrelationship we encountered alot of issues which I’ll address. I came from a wealthy home, and he didn’t – which DIDNOT matter to me. I loved
    • him with all that he is – I didn’t care about his culture, or where he came from, Icared for who he is as aperson! He became VERY disrespectful towards my Mom. He did put in as much intoour relatioship as I did. I triedSO HARD to fit in with his friends, and they are very vulgar, and racist too. He neverappreciated how hard I didtry to fit it, but I was hard for me. He would like act like the perfect Husband to me,and then with everyoneelse he acted so weird. I did love him with all my heart!!!!! Here is how we broke up,AND I WANT HIM BACK BECAUSEI DO LOVE HIM.He broke up with me two weeks my Birthday. He was suppose to see me, and then hecalled me. He told me that we aredone!!! HUNG UP THE PHONE! Then TURNED OFF HIS PHONE! It was horrible, and I wasdevastated. What ended uphappening that I went to our apartment, his frends were there, and my Mom was therewith me. They left us alone,and I made him paintings for the apartment because we were going to move intogether. He took them down, and told
    • me that I am a great artist – he was crying. He told me that I WAS A BURDEN, AND WEARE DONE. I stood there thewhole night, yes I did that mistake by begging him to change his mind. After that nightwe E-mailed each othereveryday – then, I ended up seeing him on my Birthday. We had an amazing time, wereally reconnected so well. Wemade love, and after that he started to cry. During that week that we split up HEKISSED TWO GIRLS. I wasdevastated, but I forgave him because I thought we were going to repair our bridge.TWO DAYS LATER HE BROKE UPWITH ME AGAIN!!!!! IT was his Birthday, and we were suppose to spend it together –but he wanted to be with hisfriends, so I gave him space. During that whole day HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS SOHAPPY, AND THAT HE LOVES ME – THEN,THE NEXT MINUTE HE DIDN’T!!!!!!!! I was freaking out! His friends never liked me, andI am 100% positive that theymanipulated my love! IT WAS A DISASTER!For a couple of weeks, I agreed with it, then I went back on my word. Yes, I did beg,plead for him to come back.I went on vacation for one week – he gave me all my paintings back during that time,even the promise ring that I
    • gave him… It was so hard, and so horrible..!!! I never felt so destroyed in my wholelife. I finally cut contactwith him, and left him a voicemail. Never called me back. Recently I sent him anemail that I moved on from thebreak up, and apologized for not respecting his wishes. Hope that we can catch upsometime and maybe we can try tobe friends. Nothing so far.No contact period – iT IS THE HARDEST STAGE POSSIBLE, BUT A MUST!!!! I emphasizedthat because if I continuedcontacted him, even after we broke the ice. We won’t be able to break the pattern.As you can see, I had a hell ofa break him with my Fiancee. It killed me every single day, but I knew that after eachday went by – I was onemore day closer to getting him back.After TRULY LISTENING, AND UNDERSTANDING Thomas. I backed off completely – forone week straight of no contact.Here’s the progressed I made so far, and hope to continue more positivity for here onin. I took a chance, and Icalled. My heart nearly stopped when he picked up! I was so nervous, but then Ithought of all of Thomas’s tips,
    • and guidance. His voice was in my head to assure that you are over the break up,moved on, and be calm, andCONFIDENT. Most important part you have to be – POSITIVE, AND CONFIDENT. After allhe put me through, I wasn’tsure if I could keep myself together – took a deep breath, and said yes Amanda DOTHIS, YOU LOVE HIM, AND WANT HIMBACK!!!!!This is how our conversation played out. He picked up, and was SURPRISED, ANDHAPPY to hear for me. It soundedlike he was a bit nervous, and emotional. I was emotional, VERY EMOTIONAL – but, Ikept it inside because I had tostay strong! His battery was very low, and it was too bad that he couldn’t really have asteady convo because hisbattery died, then we had to call each other back. Anyhow, he was at work with hisparents. He asked me questionsabout my life, and he told me that he needed space because if we talk HE IS AFRAIDOF THE ATTACHMENT AGAIN. There!He said it indirectly, that he still has feelings for me. We texted each other after towish each other good luckfor our work stuf that night, and we’ll talk soon again.
    • He wants to be phone buddies for now, but that’s okay because then we can develop agood emotional link, and get afirst impression meeting again! He agreed to put all water under the bridge, but he isstill uncertain. ALL THANKSTO THOMAS, I WENT FROM A TOTAL NIGHTMARE, AND A HELL HOLE TOCOMMUNICATION TO THE ONE I LOVE. I KNOW THAT THISDOES NOT HAPPEN OVER NIGHT, OR WEEKS.BUT IF ITS TRUE LOVE, AND LISTEN TO HIS ADVICE – ANY HOPELESS SITUATION,ESPECIALLY MINE WAS TURNEDAROUND!!!!!!!!!THOMAS, I CAN’T THANK YOU ENOUGH, AND YOU NOT ONLY SAVED THE HOPE WITH MYFIANCEE AND I. BUT, SAVED THE LAST HOPETHAT I HAD IN MY HEART.I only wish you Thomas, the very best – you changed so many people’s lives. Allbecause of you:)!Amanda.ciaran, on July 26th, 2010 at 11:52 pm Said:hey thomas following you plan and it works i cant believe it honest….everything yousay happens happens….itsunbelievable….truly a master….
    • Joey V., on July 30th, 2010 at 8:05 pm Said:Thomas-Your Amazing!!!!!I’ve listened to your Madness, TW Jackson too.The Books are like manuals to Follow & Read over & over again….How bad do you want your Ex-Back???BADSince applying & Studying-I’m Close….I am very CLOSE to getting my EX-BACK!!!!!!!!So close I can taste it…Thanks Thomas….Thanks Thomas!!!!!!!!Thomas Trumen, on July 30th, 2010 at 10:30 pm Said:Amazing Joey V!!!If you do what I and TW Jackson tell you then you will succeed. I am sure you aredoing “EXACTLY” everything ihave told you and i am sure you own The Magic Of Making Up. See what happens whenyou study and follow everythingwe are teaching you step by step!!!I have to warn you Joey!!!This is the hardest part of the process because now that you see everything is fallinginto place and everything
    • is working you will feel the need to rush this process. You must take your time!!! Youonly have one shot to dothis so you better do it right!!!Make sure you take your ex out on at least 3 outings and make sure these outings areonly 30 minutes long. Beforeyou start the outing tell your ex that you have things to do afterwards and you onlyhave 30 minutes to hang out.When you tell your ex this she or he will be more interested and attracted to youduring the outing because nowyour ex wants to know what you will be doing afterwards and they know they onlyhave so much time with you.Joey make sure you also end this outing at the climax, this is very important!!!By ending the outing at the climax your ex will want to hang out with you again.People love climaxes and if youcan cut your ex off at the climax your ex will want to have another one. When you feellike you and your ex arehaving a good time or when you see your ex smile or laugh say…The Magic Of Making Up Review“(name), i have been having a great time but i have to get going in about 5 minutes.”This will make your ex EXTREMELY CURIOUS and they might say…“Please dont go, why do you have to go?” and this is when you know your ex is nowmissing you and wanting you
    • again.Now tell your ex….“(name), i know we are having a great time and we will have to continue this anotherday but i have to go. Me andone of my special/close friends are going to see a movie and then go out to eat”If your ex still asks questions or wants to know if you are dating someone or who youare with say…“(name), me and Eliza (say opposite sex) are going to go see (name of move) and thenwe are going to eat at (nameof place). Its a date but its just a”CASUAL DATE (make sure you say its causal).”(name), dont worry about it.It’s nothing serious (make sure you smile when you say its nothing serious)As you noticed the point of saying this is to NOT make your ex jealous at all!!!You are telling your ex its just CASUAL and ITS NOTHING SERIOUS. Its not going tocreate jealousy. Its going tocreate attraction because your ex knows that other people want you, they know youare STILL AVAILABLE, and your exknows ITS NOTHING SERIOUS.If you do it right your ex should act in a positive way and when you leave your ex willbe thinking all nightabout what you could be possibly doing with this other person. This is what is going tomake your ex extremely
    • attracted to you and make them “WANT TO ASK YOU” on another outing.When the outing is over give your ex a hug or a hand shake and say good by. Joey,make sure you do not ask to goout on the next outing. Let your ex ask you and if they dont ask you then wait 2 weeksfor your ex to call you. Ifyour ex calls you then you know “THEY ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN!”If your ex does not call you after 2 weeks then you just have to call them back and saythe “EXACT SAME THING”that me and TW Jackson told you to say on the first outing. Just like it says in TheMagic Of Making Up.Joey, if you can get the 1st outing then you can get the 2nd and if you can get the 2ndyou can get the 3rd. Youhave to make sure to take this as gradual as you can and make sure you only go on aouting once every week, butpreferably ever other week.What you want to do when you are planning the outing is try to plan it 2 weeks inadvance, then call your ex aweek before you have the outing to confirm that you are still going. What this does isgive you a chance to talkto your ex briefly before you meet up. By doing this it will make your ex want to seeyou even more on the outing.I know Joey, that you may be thinking…“How about i just start taking my ex out on long dates after the 1st outing”
    • You cant do that!!!What you are doing with the outings is building a new friendship/relationship with yourex. This will make your excomfortable around you again and each time they see you they should feel differentabout you and gradually forgetabout the past (anything bad or mistakes) since you are “BREAKING THE PATTERN” likei have told you and how TWJackson describes it in The Magic Of Making Up.Then once you have a strong friendship/relationship with your ex they will be reallycomfortable going on a datewith you. Once you start going on “EMOTIONAL CHARGED DATES” just like i tell youand how TW Jackson tells you inThe Magic Of Making Up it will build a “NEW FOUNDATION FOR A FUTURERELATIONSHIP!”The stronger the new friendship/relationship with your ex and the stronger “THE NEWEMOTIONAL FOUNDATION” you havebuilt from the emotionally charged dates the more of a chance you have for your ex tosay “YES” to you when youask them to get into a serious relationship with you.Your almost there Joey! Just keep doing what i tell you and what TW Jackson tells youin The Magic Of Making Up.
    • Its only a matter of time before you can join the other 60,000 relationships that havebeen saved because of TWJackson and The Magic Of Making Up.If anyone is reading this and you are going through a break up then you need to “SIGNUP RIGHT NOW” to my newsletter to get free guides, videos, and special one on one support from me and TWJackson when you buy The Magic OfMaking Up.Click Here Now To Sign Up AndSave Your Relationship Before Its To Late!Bentley, on August 6th, 2010 at 3:22 am Said:Hi Thomas!Bought the book, working the system, sent the letter…and feeling better alreadyBut, will it still work if I’ve already made all the fatal mistakes and then some?Thomas Trumen, on August 6th, 2010 at 6:29 am Said:Yes, Bentley!If you have made all the mistakes me and TW Jackson talk about you can still saveyour relationship. In some casesmaking mistakes can actually help you because
    • your ex will see the sudden change and this will get their attention. This can createcuriosity and and draw yourex into the plan we tell you to follow. Your are on the right track! Just study TheMagic Of Making Up, the videosi send you, and following everything. You will see results, GUARANTEEDcorrado ruscica, on August 9th, 2010 at 2:42 pm Said:looking forward in giving this a shot, I think i am going to try the magic of making upsince it seems to beworking for everyone else.Anthony, on August 11th, 2010 at 10:08 am Said:Hey Thomas , Wonderful Website .Your Advice Is Just Simply Amazing . Nuff Said . Agreed Everyone ?No Contact is sort of working for meAnd im starting to feel good about myself as im socializing with more and more andgaining a shit load of muscle .loving lifeThankyouArmin, on August 14th, 2010 at 3:31 pm Said:Thank you very much for all your videos,e-mails and the free guide.It was the bestadvice i ever become.And by the
    • way thanks to you i am about to meet her again!Without your and TW Jackson’s help i would be hopeless and depressed now.Thanksagain.Michael, on August 21st, 2010 at 11:50 pm Said:Great advice, totally helped me. Feeling better and ready for whatever the outcome!Ammie, on August 25th, 2010 at 4:18 pm Said:You are doing a wonderful job!!!Thanks a ton!!!seriously!!!Lindi, on September 11th, 2010 at 4:33 pm Said:Hi ThomasThank you so much. Your advice is really helping me deal with the break up. I’m stillin the no contact stage. ButI’m starting to feel a whole lot better about myself. I still miss him a lot, but I feel alot more confident.sanjeev, on September 12th, 2010 at 10:18 am Said:hey..ur genius..i really liked ur advice..thought will never hear from her but yourtactics and plan made to herto talk to me again..thanks..Tash Kennedy, on September 15th, 2010 at 1:18 am Said:
    • Hey…..Your Books have instilled a new confidence in me I didn’t have before! I’ve lostheaps of weight and tonedup…. Got a tan… New hair and in general feel great! I’m still working on winning my exback! But I feel positiveit will happen! Thansk to you!!!Thanks againTashCorinne, on September 15th, 2010 at 8:07 pm Said:Your videos are great!!! I really appreciate you taking the time to help others!! I’vebeen following your planand have seen results, but my situation is rather unique. I need your help Thomas!!!!Keep up the videos!Stefani, on September 22nd, 2010 at 12:47 am Said:Thomas, you trully saved me! I was frustrated- no need to mention- and desperatebecause I losed my boyfriend. Theday we breakup, I searched for article how to get him back and lucky me I foundedyou! I live at southeast asiaand not yet work so I have no dollar to buy the book. I really really need and thank foryour free videos, audios,
    • and articles. I hope you will help me more.. I have no one else to help me!Unfortunately, my feeling goes bettereach day by your tutorial and I understand much things. Thankyou once again, I fullyrespect you.Thomas Trumen, on September 22nd, 2010 at 7:44 am Said:Hi Stefani!Thanks so much for the great comment. It really does motivate me to help you andeveryone else anymore when youare willing to share your progress with me! I know it can be hard because it seems likeno one wants to help youwhile you are going through this horrible time. As you can tell, I am here for you!Take care! And keep making progress!MC, on October 7th, 2010 at 10:37 pm Said:hi thomas!Inspite being depress still God answered my prayers by founding you. I’am also fromsoutheast Asian country likestefani, I’am unemployed so I couldn’t afford to buy the book by T-dub even if i wantto. I’ve never been sodesperate and sad like what i’m feeling now, it was only a week ago and so i did allthe mistakes like begging,
    • etc.. but having to watch your videos and listening to your advice I decided thatyesterday will be my last dayfor mistake and now will be no contact period. I will follow your steps and hope forsuccess. You give me andhundreds of people HOPE, you inspire me and help so many.THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE FREE EMAILS AND VIDEOS. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU,AND TO EVERYONE PLS DON’T HESITATE TOSIGN UP OR ASK FOR THOMAS’ HELP.YOU AND T-DUB ARE GREAT GUYS, GOD WILL ALWAYS BLESS YOU HAPPINESS!Thomas Trumen, on October 8th, 2010 at 10:29 pm Said:Hi MC!Thanks so much for the sincere compliments, Really! I try really hard to make your lifeand everyone else’s lifebetter then it was before. Even if you do not get your ex back, its ok. You have to lookat the break up as anopportunity to learn something new about your self so you do not have to feel thispain EVER AGAIN! Even if you door do not get your ex back you will be able to take this experience and everything youhave learned to help you
    • have a very bright future!One Step At A Time…..Diana D., on October 11th, 2010 at 12:33 pm Said:Thank you so much.I don’t know what else to say right now but i will write you soon.I fell better after discovering youXYX, on October 13th, 2010 at 9:17 pm Said:Hi Thomos,Man I am an engineer could figure out many issues and I just rock at my job but loveshattered my lifeNothing worked nothing came handy nor my problem solving skills , math , myprogramming skills, Nor mytons of certificates I have …..Your tips worked for me. My girl fell for me afterbreakup followed most ofyour advice and I am extremely happy !!!! You good at your work man .I am into this new relationship just 3 months back and broke up!!! Followed your tipsand it worked for meI am sure if it worked for a guy like me who hardly had any history with this girl , I amsure who hadrelationships withpeople from years and brokeup should , If they follow your advice I guess they shouldcome out with flying colours!!!Thanks man God bless…
    • Just your tips helped me man . now i feel we are in love man !!! she makes me feel soghoshXYZ…. I thank you from bottom of my heartRyan, on October 16th, 2010 at 8:29 am Said:Heya Thomas, After reading through your literature I followed the steps, and went ona few dates like yousuggested, And ended up meeting someone new, with my Ex calling me only a fewdays afterwards asking to see me. Imnot sure how, but your a genius mate (:joun ngaii, on November 7th, 2010 at 12:35 pm Said:hi TOMI want to thank you for everything that you have given me so far.you have taught me alot and it not just only toget my ex back but also to be the best of me which i have never thought i could be.idid not have hope that icould get my ex back now i see soon maybe i will be able to get her back and it alldepends on me now if i stillwant her back.but your stuff really works and it only needs a positive mind andeverything will be just fine.am
    • happy that i found you sitetrav, on November 11th, 2010 at 3:39 am Said:Thomas,Thank you for the awesome videos and articles every bit of advice is so on. Its great tohave an path to follow.Without it I would still be on the middle of the ocean with no idea what direction togo. This the signal fire toland and I am on my way.Christopher, on November 12th, 2010 at 12:29 pm Said:Hey Thomas just to say that all of your videos that you have given me are doing me aworld of good. They arereally helping me to get over this and move on from the break up. I am completelyseeing things in a differentlightand the videos have helped me to figure out why my ex left me in the first place. I’mnow reading a lot which Inever used to, I use to see it as a chore but now i really enjoy it. I’m also exercisingand going to the gym moreregularly. I can feel the changes within myself but my personality I feel is still thesame, that is hard to
    • change. I will be sending you an email shortly called Hey Thomas Thank You. I hopeyou can get the time to read itcheers.Thomas Trumen, on November 12th, 2010 at 8:41 pm Said:Hi Christopher!I am surprised at how much you are doing! Your reading, going to the gym, and gettingover the break up. Yourdoing exactly what you need to be doing to improve your current situation, just keepdoing what you are doing andyou will be fine.Look forward to getting your email ChristopherThomas Trumen, on November 12th, 2010 at 8:50 pm Said:THANKS EVERYONE FOR ALL THE COMMENTS!!!If you are reading this now. You will want to sign up to my news letter “Getting LoveAnd Keeping It” once yousign up i will tell you my story and send you a FREE GUIDE!CLICK HERE TO SIGN UPJohn W, on November 14th, 2010 at 2:48 pm Said:
    • Thomas – the videos are excellent. You have a very good way of explaining things, andyou come across in aconvincing way.An inspiration !Donna, on November 17th, 2010 at 10:52 am Said:Hey Thomas,I have been watching your videos and reading your free guides and stuff. I actuallybought the book of TWyesterday and just got done reading it. I will be reading it over and over again until itgets really into mysystem. haha. I have been doing the no contact period for about two weeks now sincewe had our last talk/closuretalk after our breakup. I hope this works for me. Hoping to hear from you. Thanks forthe Help!I’m really looking forward!mimz, on November 27th, 2010 at 6:26 am Said:Hi Thomas thanks for the advice a while ago.You really are a blessing and a savior of those people who got their hearts broken. youknow exactly what to say
    • and can read between the lines. I’am so amaze on how you can understand themeaning of every behavior and how youknow the exact approach on that.For those who have no direction or path, Listen to Thomas because he knows the rightway for us to be happy eitheron getting our ex back or having a good relationship with someone else. sign up for hisfree emails. THANKS THOMASFOR BEING HERE I WISH YOU ALL THE SUCCESS IN LIFE.Katie, on December 6th, 2010 at 8:46 am Said:This is the best advice ever-Ive only been broken up with my ex for 6 weeks and thingsare looking up- I was solost and this advice is the only credible advice to take around. Ive lost 4 kgs, got a newgreat job, getting goodpay etc. Going to keep using the program and hopefully it will lead to getting my exback (i think it will)… TTyour the greatestIrene, on December 6th, 2010 at 9:46 am Said:When i got to this website, i didn’t know it could work.I decided to have fun byreading everyday’s email and
    • slowly i started to put them into practice.After One month of no contact, i contactedhim and kept oncommunicating for one month until two days ago when we met.He was happy to seeme and congratulated me forfighting for our love and told me not to give up on him.Im so happy im back into hisarms again.If it were not foryour help,i wouldn’t have made it also patience pays.Im so happy.Thankyou Thomas.maria, on December 10th, 2010 at 10:19 am Said:thank you so much for helping me in this rough journey.Jo, on December 12th, 2010 at 4:40 pm Said:These tips and helpful hints are really great! I was so skeptical at first, and made a lotof mistakes trying tofigure things out myself. But this guide helped me correct even those! Not only that,but losing my ex was theworst thing and still is the worst thing I have ever been through. However, even when Ifelt like there was nohope and I was miserable and crying every day, this guide truely helped me through it.I am so happy now, and I
    • feel sure that this guide can and will help anyone who needs it…. Even if it is not inthe way you expect torecieve it!Christine, on December 19th, 2010 at 8:41 pm Said:Dear Thomas,I just wanted to say thanks for your help and support. So: Thank you soo much!I’m still in the no contact phase (we’ve been broken up for 4 weeks now, no contactwhatsoever for 2). At times,I’m still really down and sad, but whenever I read your mails and watch your videos,they immediately make me feelbetter and more confident. I’m trying to look after myself now and to get my head onstraight and you’ve been sogreat in helping me to do that (and also in helping me to put T Dub’s advice intopractice).I still want my ex back and miss him, but thanks to you, I really have the feeling that Iwill be alrightwhichever way it will turn out.Hoping to hear from you soon,Christinenickson, on December 22nd, 2010 at 1:45 am Said:
    • hey, thanks for the vidoes. nice to working with youTherealsatan, on December 22nd, 2010 at 3:04 am Said:Dear thomas,you simply are superb. As always want to start my mail with a load of thanks… If therewasn’t you i would havebeen… You know what.I am very happy that my partner is back and totally changed. I am working your stepsfrom past two months and icould get my girl friend back. Not only that the ways you taught me also changed meinto a good human being. Icould make our relation so good that both of us are very very happy. If there wasn’tyou these things wereimpossible for me. So i would like to tell everybody that if you keep faith on our dearthomas, you can get yourex back as i did. Those steps works if you work it. So thanks once again. May god blessyou always and merrychristmas to everybody.Kim, on January 4th, 2011 at 7:45 am Said:Hi Thomas,I really do feel better than before after seeing all your videos and thinking that this isreally going to work! I
    • feel confident and that’s a start =) Going through the “no contact period” right now.But what sucks, he has a newrelationship already… I’ll try my best to apply all your meds to the situation!KimZ, on January 4th, 2011 at 12:22 pm Said:Hi Thomas,The book really helped me find peace after the break up, it really gave the bestadvice, I can sleep again and goto work and have fun with my friends. Now I made the phone call and it did not wentwell but I wasn’t dissapointedsince I’m definitely over the break up!!!Thomas Trumen, on January 4th, 2011 at 12:29 pm Said:Hi ZonaMagic Of Making UpGetting over the break up is the first step to get your ex back. Remember you can usethe fast forward techniquein The Magic Of Making Up if you are having a relapse of emotions. Its ok the phoneconversation did not go aswell as you wanted it to. He may not be over the break up yet. If thats the case thenhes going to need more time.Try back again in about 2 weeks. What matters the most is not that The Magic OfMaking Up has helped you get your
    • ex back but its helped you deal with your break up in a constructive way and help youdeal with it the best wayyou can.Kris, on January 9th, 2011 at 8:18 pm Said:Thomas,Have researched a lot of different resources for making up. Although there aresimilarities amongst most, theadvice from yourself and TW seem to be the most sincere. I am a month into thebreakup and have been in no contactfor over a week. She has already started contacting me about random insignificantthings, which is obviously herfinding reasons to reach out now that she is thinking I am over her. It will beinteresting to see how the rest ofthe strategies unravel over the next few months. Thanks for all the help and advice. Ithas been critical ingetting through this emotional time. Cheers…James, on January 10th, 2011 at 6:36 pm Said:Thomas, I think I made a mistake I sent the second chance letter two weeks after theinitial break-up. But, I cansay I have held strong to the NC. Since we broke up I have not texted, emailed, orcalled. In fact, I have been
    • avoiding places that we might see each other. Which, I must tell you sucks because wego to the same places. See,I really love this women, I also didn’t realise how much until she was gone. I havebeen exercising and working ongoing back out and surrounding myself with friends. I would like to say I am stillcompletely in the dark. But, Iknow that life must go on. Thank you for all of your great advice. It has really helpedme alot…Jamie, on January 11th, 2011 at 11:39 pm Said:Hey ThomasYour books and videos really help. Since at the moment (3 months after the breakup) istill feel like i need herback in my life. I see all the mistakes i made in our relationship and want to fix them.She is in a rebound atthe moment and yes, it is killing me but i need to keep going if i wantthis to work outThanks!Steph, on January 13th, 2011 at 7:06 am Said:Hi there Thomas. Thanks, firstly, for all the effort and videos you put out there. Yourdedication is great.THEN, secondly, what do you do when you had the best ever brake up… just a lovelycoffee, giving a goodbye gift,receiving a goodbye hug and a confession that she still likes you, but that the timingwas just horrible (as you
    • agreed).I laid low for 4 and a half weeks, tried to make contact, but with LIMITED success.Really. It was like “I preferit if we stick to texting and not talking on the phone or meeting.” What do you makeof that?Please, oh wise one! Thanks!Thomas Trumen, on January 13th, 2011 at 7:48 am Said:Hi StephIts nice to see your using The Magic Of Making Up to help you get over the break upbut he is clearly not over thebreak up yet. Sounds like he is still resenting a little. Dont text him no more thentwice a week. A week aftertexting if you notice hes providing you with details to what it is he is doing, replyingback to you in areasonable amount of time, and asking you questions….these are all signs of displayinginterest and if hes doingthis after another week or 2 of texting then give him a call again. Keep in mind to readThe Magic Of Making Upagain to stay fresh on what to do and what not to do to get your ex back.If your worried about him hanging up on you or not wanting to talk to you. Then whenyou call him before you give
    • him a chance to say anything do what i call“THE POSITIVE PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE” (this is a technique i teach to my coachingstudents)When you call say this“Hi (ex name), This is (your name). We have been texting back and forth for awhileand i feel like we are able tohold a good conversations now, so i figured id give you a call and see how well you aredoing, I wanted to talk toyou about (something your ex likes), do you have a few minutes to talk?”By doing this you make your ex think that the conversation is going to be just abouthim and its going to be aboutsomething that he likes and you let him know its only going to be a few minutes so hewill make time to talk toyou. This puts him in a positive perspective about you and the conversation. Thismakes it easy for him to talk toyou and hard to resit talking to you because its going to be about something helikes!!!!Hope this helps everyoneAnyone that is reading this besides Steph, that has not started reading The Magic OfMaking Up or signed up to mynews letter “Getting Love And Keeping It” sign up now so i can send you a FREE GUIDEexplaing how i used The MagicOf Making Up to to get over my break up and save my relationship.
    • Click Here And Sign Up Now To Get Your Free GuideChristina, on January 14th, 2011 at 4:44 am Said:Hey I love the information you provide, keep it up! Believe it or not I sometimes wishyour emails were daily andliterally felt like you were taking me by the hand and saying ok this is what you donow, now that you havecompleted this do this, etc…mo, on January 15th, 2011 at 9:54 pm Said:Dear thomas,Thank you for being my best friend during those difficult past few weeks. It’s amazinghow I realized that nobodyreally gives a shit that I’m up all night crying and I lost 15 pounds in 2 weeks. You andyour videos gave mehope, put a smile on my face, and stopped me from doing all the embarrassingbegging.PKK, on January 17th, 2011 at 9:38 am Said:Thomas,I want to thank you for discussing my breakup over skype. Just when I thought my exwas acting indifference yougave me some sign of HOPE. I will follow through with your plan and hope to date myex back soon. I believe therewill be a second chance to making my relationship work and it is all because of yourgreat advise.
    • Thanks a million…lula, on January 18th, 2011 at 11:24 pm Said:Dear ThomasThanks for everything because without you,i was lost wondering if my i could repairmy love story, but i didn thave that courage…..until I discover you and all that you do for us. Now i learnsomething from you and i amstrong with hope and I decide to bring my ex back.thanks againRenato Carneiro, on January 25th, 2011 at 6:11 pm Said:Thomas,You’re a genious about relationships. God bless you and your work on this project.RenatoBrittany, on January 28th, 2011 at 10:07 pm Said:Hi Thomas thanks for your advice and your funny emails!sk, on January 29th, 2011 at 7:24 pm Said:Thomas, Thank you for the advice I’m trying to follow all of it. My husband left andnow wants a divorce. I’mafraid the only outing I’ll be able to get him on will be on how to divide our stuff. I amgoing to do everythingyou say, I really don’t want a divorce. Thank you for the support!s, on January 29th, 2011 at 11:51 pm Said:Thank you for all the help so far i’ve just started the NC rule hard stuff but taking itday by day also purchased
    • TW Magic of making up, thanks hope it works well for me !!KO, on January 30th, 2011 at 5:55 pm Said:Hey Thomas! I just signed up for your free bonus techniques earlier on and I’m trulylooking forward to youremails.I watched both of your videos, including the ‘thank you’ video and wow!! Magic ofMaking Up sure works like MAGIC.I’m so happy for you.Well I did the second chance letter about a few days back and my ex hasn’t called meor contacted me since….sincewe broke up 3 weeks ago even after I sent that letter.Is there a possibility that my ex would think “Oh that’s great, she’s moved on already.I won’t interfere with hersocial life” or whatsoever?Is there another technique if the second chance letter did not make my ex call or textme?Thomas Trumen, on January 30th, 2011 at 6:05 pm Said:Hi KO!Your ex will only feel like that if you come accross like that in the second chanceletter. If you wrote it how itshould have been done and if you let them know you would be willing to talk to themin the future then they will
    • not get that vibe. If you come across as you want to share it with them then they willnot feel like they areinterfering.Give the letter at least 2 weeks before you do anything else. If you sent the magic ofmaking up second chanceletter right after the break up and they are still upset then it could take longer forthem to respond. If yousent the letter when they are still REALLY UPSET they may not even read it and throwit away. If you sent themagic of making up second chance letter after they have had time to let theiremotions settle and they are not soemotional then you will get a faster reply. If they are not to emotional and they arestarting to get over thebreak up when they read it then they will most likely reply. This is why i do notrecommend to send it right afterthe break up.Is there another technique if your ex does not respond to the letter?Yes! Give them a call and use the technique that i talked about in my previouscomment that i posted on….January 13th, 2011 at 7:48 am“THE POSITIVE PERCEIVED PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE”There is another technique that i teach called
    • “LC/CG CREATING CRISIS COMMUNICATION”This is were i show you how to create an idea A CERTAIN WAY in someones head ormultiple peoples heads and thisperson or peoplewill be forced to pass that idea onto the person you want to approach you. Thecompound effect of you talkingto someone or multiple people and them talking to the person you want to talk to youwill force them to approachyou.Your idea which is about person you want to approach you > idea gets passed on topeople that is liked and trustedby the person you want to approach you > idea is now passed on to the person youwant to approach you by peoplethey like and trust > idea is past back to you through the person you wanted to originalapproach you > Becauseidea is already planted in the head of the person you want to approach you. You donot have to create idea becauseeveryone else that is liked and trusted already did the work for you. Now you just askthis person to take actionwith the idea and they will say yes because the action will match the idea that hasbeen created by people theylike and trust created!!!
    • Its a VERY complex technique but it always works. It takes at least 2-3 hrs to teach it.All of my coachingstudents end up learning how to do this. As of right now just use “THE POSITIVEPERCEIVED PERSPECTIVE TECHNIQUE”as a last resort. While you are on the call remember to keep it short and the hole ideaof the call is to changeyour exes perceived perspective of you and creating a new one that makes them nolonger associate you with PAIN orPRESSURE but with PLEASURE!If They have a perceived perspective of you and it is PLEASURE you can be sure tocount on they will want tocontinue to talk to you and the more you re enforce that perspective the more theywill want to be associated withyou!HOPE THAT HELPS!!!If your someone that is reading this comment and other comments get on my newsletter ” Getting Love And KeepingIt” as soon as possible! Also, if you do not have the magic of making up i highly suggestyou get it before youmake a mistake you cant fix. Keep in mind there is…“Almost 100 People On This Page That Have Purchased The Magic Of Making Up SystemAnd Are Now Recommending It To
    • YOU!!!”Yana, on January 31st, 2011 at 4:26 pm Said:Hi,I was extremely depressed, but after watching your videos I’ve got a desire to liveagain. I am so extremely happyI’ve found your videos!Thanks a lot !!!!Andrew, on January 31st, 2011 at 5:32 pm Said:Hey Thomas -Just wanted to take a minute to say thanks for all of your help. You were there for meduring a really hard timewith my break-up and I don’t think I would have made it through had it not been foryour newletters, emails andlive coaching. Now that I am over my break-up I have been able to start dating againand I am meeting some reallygreat people. Anyone going through a break-up right now can really benefit from allthat you have to offer andteach!Barry, on January 31st, 2011 at 6:45 pm Said:Hey thomas my man!I Got the first outing done!! i went to close for the second but got some hesitationfrom my ex, so i used the
    • line you said about her still resenting me and got her to agree with that, she said shewas busy this weekend so isaid i will call her again in a few weeks or so. But then on sunday night she text mesaying she has some friendsthat needed help wih some things and she said i would know more than her to helpthem. It was the first time shehas text me in 7 months. Now i am going to say this, i am busy planning a trip withfriends i will text you in afew days with my advice(some curiousity for her).All of the advice you have given me is complete gold dust, everything has becomeclear now wheter i get my ex backor not. this is valuable info about understanding what break ups are all about.Priceless!Erin, on January 31st, 2011 at 6:57 pm Said:Listen to Thomas!! This stuff actually works! Believe me, I’m on my third outing withmy ex and I couldn’t havegotten this far without him.If you follow the emails and the videos you’ll get another shot with your ex for sure.He knows his stuff!!THX THOMASKatie, on January 31st, 2011 at 10:33 pm Said:Thomas and TW Jackson,Both of you have helped me tremendously in recovering from this break up and reallyfiguring things out. I am
    • still in the early phase of no contact, but all your videos and the guides have reallyhelped me keep my head onstraight in a very confusing time. This has been a tough one, I am optimistic for areunion with my ex love! Thankyou guys sooo much!Ana, on February 1st, 2011 at 4:11 am Said:I think your dedication to helping people shows through and you should be proud ofyourself. At the bare minimum,you help people get through this by giving them a strategy. Thank you Thomas.Therealsatan, on February 2nd, 2011 at 4:33 am Said:Hi Thomas,Ain’t got any words. I am totally speechless. As always starting my comment with ahuge thanks. Actually I can’tstop myself thanking you. You and T.W. Jackson changed my world. Which i thoughtwas truely impossible. You are agreat and a friend indeed. I am just grateful toward you. I am damn lucky that I hat afriend like you my bro. Iam so happy and excited that i can’t even say what i am feeling brother. May godbless you. Love you.Brittany, on February 2nd, 2011 at 7:01 am Said:Thomas, your videos are wonderful. Well over a year ago I’ve learned of TW Jackson’smethods and used them to
    • successfully getting my ex back, even though he was with another woman.Since then we’ve gotten engaged and couldn’t be happier. I stay subscribed to yourvideos to remind myself howrelationships need constant maintenance to stay healthy and to remind myself that Iwould never want to go throughthe heartbreak ever again.I’ve never been happier. Thank you for helping others that have been in my situation.It truly works and not onlydoes it get us our ex back, it also helps us improve our relationships, and mostimportantly, ourselves.Ali, on February 8th, 2011 at 10:18 pm Said:I appreciate how you take your time and effort to help each and every person in need.It truly means a lot.Hailey, on February 10th, 2011 at 2:08 am Said:I really enjoy watching your videos and hearing your story. It gives me hope that I canget back together with theex. ThanksLeo, on February 10th, 2011 at 9:28 pm Said:Hey ThomasI´m living in Germany and have spend a lot of money in ex-back books like you….butknow i am at my finish!Your words make sense for me and i am have all ready changed a lot in my life.If all going well, i am start to have my first outing in few weeksStay in touch!
    • Sian, on February 13th, 2011 at 10:49 pm Said:Hey thomas! I’ve recently emailed you [nudge nudge.] I’d just like to say you’veinspired me to help others withthis sort of thing. Your advice is gold to a poor man! You’re a true help and I promiseto recommend you to anyonein need. You’ve saved me pretty much from suicide or a complete melt down. You’reamazing man! Cheers xAntonio, on February 14th, 2011 at 6:41 am Said:I have yet to implement anything from the magic of making up book to getting my exback but I have been using thefast forward program to make myself get over the break up and let me tell you itworks wonders!The videos and the emails and the links that I get sent to me just about everydaycontain so much useful adviceits amazing. I haven’t felt this good about myself and my life since she broke up withme. I can’t wait to startapplying the techniques in the book to get the love of my life back. Even if thingsdon’t work out and I can’t gether back I will not ask for a refund.Just the basic advice in the book is worth the money I paid and will help me withfuture relationships and justlife in general.
    • Thank you so much Thomas and Tdub for this help in fixing the part of my life that Iscrewed up.AntonioSonny Atherton, on February 20th, 2011 at 8:48 pm Said:Hey,Well Tom im in the no/limited contact period and its very up and down. Some days iwant to talk to her and somedays i dont. I have not said anything to her in quite some time and am just waiting forher to contact me. I wasin the worst state i had ever been in the past few months, it felt like i was dyingeveryday but right now imdoing alot better. I got the Tdub system and the watch your videos all the time itreally does help. Im on theroad back to happyness and i have my friends family, tdub and you to thank.Leo, on February 26th, 2011 at 9:42 am Said:Hey Thomas,today is my first outing. I´m prepared myself very seriously…know what to say. I´mstart with 2 hours sport beforethe meeting starts…heheI am very confident and look awesome…happy…my attitude is just upbeat…heheThanks for all the stuff u send meLeo, on February 28th, 2011 at 5:05 pm Said:Hey Thomas, the outing was amazing. In the middle of the outing my ex was crying,because she though she will
    • never see me.Should I call her to set this week the 2nd outing?Thomas Truemen, on February 28th, 2011 at 9:52 pm Said:Hi Leo!I am glad to hear the outing you had was amazing. Give her at least a week to ask youon the next outing. Justlike it says in The Magic Of Making Up. Give your ex a chance to show interest. If yourex does not ask for thenext outing within 1-2 weeks then ask them for another outing.Crying on the outing? This is not good!!!Its BAD because you need your ex to associate you with comfort and pleasure, notpressure and pain!Next time your ex wants to cry or talk about anything that could create pressure orpain you need to put upboundaries!BUILD BOUNDARIES!When you do this you keep things comfortable and pleasureful. It is a way of changingthe subject and takingcontrol of the conversation that will actually make the person you are talking to youthank you for it!When you are BB you must make sure you do these things…1. Agree/ “I understand and thats ok”2. Sympathize/ “i know how you feel, the truth is i feel the same way”3. Acceptance/ “i accept that and you/we do not have to change anything”
    • 4. The Benefit/ “if we can talk/do this later at a better time then we will understandeach other more, I feellike if we talk about this (what it is) now it could create tension and make us fight, solets talk about it laterand only talk about good things….. (then continue on with conversation)5. Include A trusted and respected person or people (optional but powerful)/ ” if wedo it like this, not onlywill we benefit but so n so will also feel better about it”If you follow that outline for building boundaries then you will make sure theconversation stays comfortable andpleasureful. Also, if your ex cries use this technique to get her mind off what it is onand change the subject.If you do this right then the person you are talking to will like it and respect you for it.If someone trys to BUST YOUR BOUNDARIES then say basically say the same thing againbut make it more stern!…and if they try to push again say “I told you how i feel, since you do not respect whati am doing here for theboth of us then i am going to endthis conversation. I am willing to talk again to you about anthing else accept this …andif you want to talk aboutanything besides this feel free to contact me.”1.Build The Boundary
    • 2.Re Enforce The Boundary3.Walk Away nicely but leave it openKeep in mind you may have to re inforce it once or walk away. Especially if the personis used to talking to youabout things that you are now saying you do not want to. By putting up a boundaryyour re training the person. Soit might take a few times to get the idea. But in the end it re assures that theconversations avoids pain andpressure and stays comfortable and pleasureful!!!This is a great technique to use in all areas of life. When you want to change thesubject, make someone respectyou, or when you are having an argument. It works really good. I am surprised i amjust giving it away for FREE!…But i really want to help!!! …And i am sure this will!If you have not you need to sign up to my news letter by filling out the form towardsthe top of the page. Onceyou sign up i will send you free ebooks and videos to help you save your relationship!See you inside my newsletter!!!joe, on February 28th, 2011 at 10:18 pm Said:hey thomas thanks so much for all the help and advice it really is brilliant and ishelping far more than I could
    • ever tell you. ur an awesome guy for giving out all this help to everyone so they canget their ex’s back and helpmake them happy again!Thomas Truemen, on March 1st, 2011 at 4:23 am Said:Thanks Joe Alot Joe!I do take this very seriously and try as hard as i can to make everyones life easier. Themost important thing ido is try to help you make your break up the best learning experience that i canpossible make it. The Magic OfMaking Up does help but i try to help way beyond that with videos and my support!It makes me happy that your happy!!John, on March 13th, 2011 at 11:25 am Said:You’re doing a great job Thomas, keep it up!Thanks for everything!!Corondum, on March 14th, 2011 at 11:23 am Said:Great advice and all… I’m just starting the actual things that the book and the videosare saying… hopefully, I’llbe able to report the same level of success as the guys who’ve posted here.Wish me luck!qstar, on March 15th, 2011 at 1:27 am Said:You are doing fantastic Thomas! Thanks for everything. Carry on forth the knowledgeof relationships!Justine, on March 24th, 2011 at 2:05 am Said:All the information im getting is really working well im still in the no contact stage butim getting in shape and
    • making my life good I still am not totaly over my ex yet just 90% of tge way there butit is all thanks to yourinformation that I am. Keep it up !Jonathan, on March 25th, 2011 at 10:41 pm Said:This advice really works. thanks Thomas, keep up the workPierrette, on March 27th, 2011 at 3:51 am Said:You have a very good site and lots of excellent advice.Leo, on March 28th, 2011 at 7:49 pm Said:Hey Thomas,Leo hereI have had yesterday the first date with my ex and it was amazing…she allready getscloser to me, but nothingworst or crazy stuffDo I have talk for commitment after the 2nd date or do I have to wait for the 3rd?I´ll know she want me back, but I don´t give in and just be cool ( She is reallysurprised how I have changed )Thomas…you are amazing….!ByeTeresa, on March 28th, 2011 at 10:10 pm Said:This “system” really does work! You must follow it EXACTLY as it says. Do not go outof bounds! I made a smallmistake but I know what I need to do to fix it. Thanks for everything! Teresakevin martin, on April 9th, 2011 at 10:17 am Said:The advice was superb and without doubt the best way forward.
    • I am still broken up with my ex over 4 months ago but now listening to Thomas i hope ican get back soon.Moreover, if i do not get back then this has still helped me to move on with my life.Amber, on April 16th, 2011 at 11:36 pm Said:Hey Thomas! Thanks for all the emails! It is slowly but surely working for me! I justhope it all works out in theend! Thank you for all the help you have given me!Leo, on April 19th, 2011 at 8:37 am Said:Hey ThomasI have done all the outings and dates…I have asked my Ex for commitment and shedoesn´t say no ( she wassurprised, that I have asked her ) ( She was started to crying, after I asked her forcommitment ). But she iswilling to give me a 2nd chance…she said, that she need time to think about it anddont want to rush something (There is some kind of love, but she worries about that she will break my heart a 2ndtime sometimes ). She is alsodating other people ( online – dating )…myself was very cool and I have had let herknow that I am supportive.Do I have to build more boundaries, If she wants to talk about us or who she is dating?Next day my heart was really damaged, but I know I have to take control of myfeelings and start to focus to bepatient.
    • Pressure is the last thing that I want to apply…maybe after she is done dating, she willrealize that I am the onefor her.I am keep the lines of communication open.Thanks for all your videos and advice.Thomas Truemen, on April 19th, 2011 at 7:28 pm Said:CONGRATULATIONS!!!You have followed everything i have said and look what has happened! It just goes toshow you anything is possibleif you have the right understand, apply the right actions, and keep working on gettingthe out come you want!As of right now relieve all pressure by giving her the space and time she wants.Your on what i call S.E.C/Stacking Emotional Climaxes which will be fully explained inmy product “The AttractionEmotion Solution”What you need to do know is limit verbal communication to 2-3 times a week and nolonger then 5-15 minuteconversations. Then once a week you need to “Stack A Emotional Date” this means youneed to come up with 3 dateswithin one day and spend 5-8hrs with her on that day. By the end of the day she willbe thinking about commitment!…and if she brings it up then you act off it when its already her idea
    • You do not bring up commitment or talk about it but if she does then go with the flow.The only reason why she didnot say yesto you when you asked is because it was not her idea to commit yet, it is but it is nother idea that it willfully work yet.So do 2-3 of these dates that i am talking about to continually forum the idea in hermind that she will no longerhave to worry about hurting you again based off of the time you are spendingtogether.As for as Building Boundaries, yes. You can talk a little bit about who she is dating andthe two of you to showthat you are interested in what she is talking about …but its extremely important thatyou do not let that turninto a conversation, unless its a progressive conversation that has to do aboutcommitmentKeep your head up and remember this saying….In life, you some times you have to travel through the desert to get to the palaceAnd this one…“its the small success that lead to the big success” “If you do not acknowledge thesmall successes you willbecome frustrated and give up. If you do acknowledge the small success you willbecome motivated and step it up!”kelli, on April 20th, 2011 at 5:50 pm Said:
    • I’m sooo glad i found your website info has been a big help and so has your emails.jamie, on April 22nd, 2011 at 8:00 am Said:Hey ThomasI’d like to thank you sooooo much! I was honestly starting to give up. I then I met YOU!You won’t believe howmuch you’ve helped me:)Wow! Keep up the great workJamieLise, on April 26th, 2011 at 9:55 pm Said:Dear Thomas!I can not thank you enough! I got my man back, after following your program. I madesome mistakes during mystruggle, but I managed to make him love me even more, an we communicate betterthan before!Thank you sooooooo much!My very bestLiseElijah, on April 30th, 2011 at 12:04 am Said:Hey Thomas,You have been such an amazing help by letting me get over my ex and showing mehow to get her back. I am still notback with her yet, but I’m in a way better point in this whole situation than I wouldhave been if it weren’t for ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---
    • you.Thank you so much Thomas!William Ward, on May 2nd, 2011 at 7:19 am Said:Thomas is a total beast. Thanks for leading me in the right direction, hope to stay intouchStuart, on May 11th, 2011 at 10:50 pm Said:Great advice Thomas. When Saving a Relationship the advice about the initialacceptance is an absolute gem.Relationship break up, on May 20th, 2011 at 12:54 am Said:Thomas you are a relationship Ninja Master my friend. Awesome advice!John Thompson, on May 24th, 2011 at 11:13 pm Said:Wow Thomas, you’ve clearly helped SO MANY people discover TW Jackson’s amazingguide. I came across it some timeago and am definitely of the opinion that anyone with relationship problems of anykind should read this eBook, itreally can change your life!Brilliant work brother!Andrea, on May 25th, 2011 at 9:19 pm Said:Dear ThomasYour guide has really helped me in so many ways. I was so heartbroken when my exleft, and never thought I couldget thru a day without him. But with your advice and help, I have managed to get into the right ‘head space’ and ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---
    • have the energy and vibe to know firstly how to look after Number 1 (me!) andsecondly how to make forward plansto get him back. And a strange thing started happening – on making the plans I foundthat there was a bigger worldout there just waiting for me.thanks so much thomas, Ive moved on and look and feel all the better for it!Taylor, on May 26th, 2011 at 3:58 am Said:Hey Thomas! Thank you so much for all the wonderful advice. I feel way moreconfident about how i should go aboutgetting over the breakup and getting back with my ex (if i happen to see getting backtogether as the best thingfor both of us, or fair for both of us). Every video has left me feeling stronger andmore sure of myself. I knoweverything will turn out fine either way and its mostly thanks to you:)!Thank you so much!TaylorKerry, on June 1st, 2011 at 6:30 pm Said:Hi Thomas,Just wanted to say i think your videos and advice are brilliant. Along with the book“The Magic of making Up” and ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---following your advice, i can’t go wrong.
    • I am meeting my ex tomorrow for our 1st date…. wish me luck!!And keep up the good work,Without yours and T Dubz help i would have made all the mistakes possible and andruined any chance i had ofreconciling with my ex, now i know i have a good chance of us getting back together.You are a saviourThank you so muchDillen T, on June 11th, 2011 at 3:07 pm Said:Heh Thomas – this is brilliant advice – but where the heck did you learn all this? themagic of making up is agreat book but you also have lots of wonderful adviceMonica Fuentes, on June 21st, 2011 at 8:29 am Said:Hi. I like your videos on youtube, very helpfull ty. The Magic Of Making up is a greatbook.I want to know if your book is a hardcover or only a downlodable book. I want to knowif I can buy it and actuallyget the physical copy in the mail?I hope to hear back form you soon TY. ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---Monica
    • clive barnard, on July 8th, 2011 at 10:52 am Said:Hi Thomas,well its been hard, i am now in the third week of no contact and i hear she is seeingsomeone else. but i amsticking to the plan and the magic of making up, i am doing exercises every morningand even growing a beard, theladies at work say it looks nice but ever since iv`e been taking your advice i mustadmit that i feel much betterthe hurt is not so much any more. my body feels good and my emotions are in tact.sure i will need some help soonto know what to do when my no-contact phase is up!! but your advice has been greatso far and i know that i willreceive even better advice soon….thank-you man you have helped me and i hope that iwill be with the one i lovesoon again…your the bestClive ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---LuisAguilar, on July 8th, 2011 at 6:41 pm Said:
    • Greta advice from this website it really works. The book of the magic of making up isreally interesting and it’sadvice on how to get your ex back is really great. Including the parts on how to moveon I’d it does not happenyou will not feel alone.jameson, on July 17th, 2011 at 5:02 pm Said:before i subscribed to you i was near the edge of complete insanity and almost gaveup n happyness alltogether.thank you for helping me through this hard time, your advice really works!zahra, on July 25th, 2011 at 10:00 am Said:hello.. i dont know u personally but i have to thank u for helping me out.. jst watchingur videos n reading urmails have made me feel abit better.. i havent goten my x back yet n still have lotsquestions up on my head. ithought i wuldnt any1 to help me but i found u n really wana contact u becuase i thinkur the only1 tht can helpme out..Arturo, on July 26th, 2011 at 6:42 am Said: Solid advice all around, not just for dating, but for life. Keep up the great work Thomas, it’s awesome to see ---> click here for YOUR DOWNLOAD <---such wisdom reach so many people. Should be required reading for all adults whenthey mature and come of age