What Do Men Want in a Woman? Guys Mind Decoded
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  • 1. By Praveenben http://www.decodingguysmind.comhttp://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 1
  • 2. ContentsBecoming the Girl Men Adore………………………………………………………...…4Being a Woman………………………………………………………………………….....5Women Offer Advice, Men Offer Solutions……………………………………………6A Woman’s Power to Influence………………………………………………………….8What Do Men Really Want………………………………………………………………...9Women Use Words, Men Tune Out……………………………………………………..10Empowering Your Man………………………………………….....................................12On the Outside……………………………………………………………………………...13OK – Here We Go: In Bed ………………………………………………………………...14Conclusion………………………………………………………………………………….15Recommend………………………………………………………………………………...16http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 2
  • 3. Copyright and Legal NoticePublished by © www.decodingguysmind.com All Rights Reserved. Nopart of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form byany means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, orotherwise, without the prior written permission of the publisher.DisclaimerInformation found in this book, “What Do Men Want in a Woman?Guys Mind Decoded” should not be used for diagnosis or treatment ofmedical conditions, or as a substitute for professional medical care. Ifyou have a health concern or believe you may have a health problem,please consult your healthcare professional. We assert that this is onlyfor informational purposes and is not a substitute for the advice providedby your own physician or other medical professional. You should notuse the information contained herein for diagnosing a health or fitnessproblem or disease. You should always consult your own physician andmedical advisors. Reasonable care has been taken to provide you withcorrect and accurate information, but we take no responsibility, normake any warranties as to its accuracy thereof. We assume no liability orresponsibility for any errors or omissions in the content of our book.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 3
  • 4. Becoming the Girl Men AdoreYou see, while men are visual creatures and that first attraction issparked from looks, you would be surprised to find out how much moremen actually want from women.A team of sociologists conducted a study, trying to understand if therewas a common denominator that men found attractive in women; thatone thing that would get any guy to want to go over and talk to a girl.You would never guess what the result was. No, it wasn’t her body partsand her features, either. It was her smile. The majority of men stated thatthey found nothing as attractive as a woman’ssmile.Women are often afraid to be women, to appearfeminine or vulnerable because they equate it with being weak.However, quite the opposite is true, because a woman who is in tunewith herself and shows her vulnerability wields much more power over aman than if she were to constantly act tough.We will be exploring many of the differences between men and womenin this book and how it is that those differences give us more strengththan any rules society may seek to impose upon us. And once you allowyour inner woman to shine through, then you will become the girl thatall men adore and can’t live without.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 4
  • 5. Being a WomanA lot of the problems we have in our relationships stem from a lack ofunderstanding, in other words we have no idea why guys act the waythey do. In fact, they often don’t know why they act the way they do soit’s no surprise we have trouble deciphering their responses.However, before we begin to explore these fundamental differences, it’sworth taking a step back and looking at ourselves in the mirror becauseif we don’t learn to finally accept who and what we are, we will never beable to make the necessary changes to become the woman men adore.The biggest problem we have right now is our perception of ourselves.The reason for this is quite simple. Men are competitive by nature,women are not. Therefore, to succeed in the workplace, more and morewomen have had to become just as competitive as men. Sadly women are grossly mistaken because our femininity is in no way a weakness, but, in fact, a strength, as it is the one thing that allows us to influence men much more effectively than any argument or competition ever will. Men are disarmed by a woman’s softness simply because men were designed to fight and women were designed to nurture.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 5
  • 6. Women Offer Advice, Men Offer SolutionsWhat many women don’t seem to understand is that men are completelydifferent. They process information differently, they relate to oneanother differently, they express themselves differently. However, awoman who understands these differences will become a priceless gemthat men will adore. John Gray, in Men Are from Mars, Women Are fromVenus explains it wonderfully: “Love is magical, and it can last, if weremember our differences.”In fact, it is these exact differences between men and women that sparkpassion and love because otherwise men wouldn’t need women and viceversa.Understanding MenYes, it is quite possible to understand men and itis probably easier for us to understand them thanthe other way around. First of all, you need tounderstand that men are primarily driven bysuccess and accomplishment. They valuetangible results, efficiency and power andeverything they do is geared towards proving themselves.Men won’t sit around and talk about their feelings, instead they prefer toengage in competitive activities where they can win. It gives them thechance to show off their superiority over other males.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 6
  • 7. He is more interested in things rather than feelings. And he likes thingsthat help him express power, whether a fancy sports car or the latestgadgets and gizmos.Solutions vs Advice Men are goal driven and they feel good about themselves when they manage to achieve their goals because they prove that they are worthy and competent. If they do so on their own then that is an even greater testament to their power and strength.If women can understand this side of men, then they will understandwhy men hate being corrected or advised without asking for it. It makesthem feel incompetent and they feel that you don’t trust them to solvethe problem.Dealing with StressMen also deal with stress differently thanwomen do. A woman will talk about all herproblems with her friends. On the other hand,men tend to withdraw and focus on a differentactivity so that they can tune out their problemsuntil the following day when they have tohandle them.Unfortunately, most women think that he doesn’t care about her or isignoring her because he isn’t talking about his problems with her whenit’s simply a matter of how men deal with stress differently than women.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 7
  • 8. You need to understand that if he withdraws to watch football or read the newspaper, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, it simply means he is very stressed. You need to learn not to take it personally and to give him a little space. Also, if you ask for his attentionin a calm and relaxed manner you will find he will be much moreresponsive than if you start the blame game.A Woman’s Power to InfluenceA woman wants to talk about her problems whereas men tend to becomeintroverted and like to figure out their problems on their own. Whenwomen share their problems they tend to offer solutions.Men simply don’t know how to empathize because it isn’t part of theirmakeup. Women have a powerful “weapon”, if it can be called that, toinfluence men. It lies in our vulnerability. By opening your heart up andexpressing your true feelings you will be surprised at the results.You see, there are few things that make a manhappier than knowing he can make his woman feelgood and when she is upset, he wants to doeverything in his power to make her feel better. Ifyou can learn to genuinely express your feelings tohim rather than rattle off a list of problems thenyou will find that he will become much more receptive.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 8
  • 9. What Do Men Really WantFirst and foremost, you need to understand that men like things simple.They don’t overanalyze every phrase you say looking for a hiddenmeaning nor do they speak in riddles. In fact, you can be certain that inmost cases, when a man says something that’s exactly what he means inthat moment.What does this mean? It means that men adore women who tell themstraight what they feel and don’t feel. Man will respond much better if your delivery is soft and feminine rather than shouting your head off at him. By being soft and feminine you completely disarm him because men want to make their women happy. On the other hand, if you start yelling, all you are doing is basically competing with him andhe will start treating you like one of the guys because guys competeagainst each other.You see, men marry women who make them feel good and because theyhave such trouble accessing their own emotions, they love being with awoman who makes them feel good…. to read more click herenow.http://www.decodingguysmind.com Page 9