Love Tr anslation
Today’s question comes from F.
F, this is your question: My grown son is very comfortable showing love to his brothers
and to us his parents but I haven’t seen any indications that he would be comfortable in
having a romantic loving relationship.
Well F, I absolutely love this question and it is very deep question. You know, can
someone really love in different ways? And what I want to say to you is rest assure that
can – we all have a natural comfort zone in love and that could be in fraternal type of
relationships, that could be in family relationships, it could be in friendships, it could be
in loving our pets, it could be in loving the earth- the trees, the mountains, the birds, the
bumble bees, and it could be just naturally in romantic love.
Now, for your son who has shown just this wonderful way of loving to his brothers, my
advice to you is that I would start to him when you see this that that loving act of
sharing, of giving, of listening is going to be greatly appreciated by the right partner
when he’s in a romantic relationship. And this will help him start connecting the dots.
‘Ah, okay I can care for a partner in this loving way’. And that gives him the confidence,
the foundation for lingering out and looking at finding a partner in a different way and
feeling confident about that.
So, often we don’t express our love in certain types of relationships because we just
don’t feel confident. We haven’t had enough experience and that’s okay. We just need
to know how to connect the dots. Just know that whatever way that we feel natural
loving is a way that we are opening our heart and that is truly an amazing gift and it can
be translated. It can be translated to all types of relationships. In this case, a romantic
And I encourage you to get him the book Intimate Wisdom, the Sacred Art of Love that
is a roadmap for beginning an intimate journey and sharing a really beautiful
relationship with someone special.
Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator, is the founder of SacredLove.com
an online dating, love site and fun couples membership site. She is also an
internationally recognized relationship expert, speaker, author of the bestselling book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art of Love, and the creator/host of
the popular DVD Sacred Love-Making. Visit http://sacredlove.com.