Bored in Love
I love my partner but I
am bored. Bored with
Bored on dates. Bored
in the bedroom. How
do I get through this in
my relationship? ~ P
P, I want to start this
answer with a question
to you. Do you,
yourself feel boring?
I ask that because our
experiences are based
on what we are feeling
inside. So I'm wondering if you've given yourself enough time to develop interests...to
create a hobby...to explore different ideas or fun activities.
Often when we are on a course of success in our career or raising children, we don't have
a lot of time for ourselves. That can give us less and less time to do the things we are
So my recommendation to you is, to get out and explore what you are passionate about.
Have some fun, develop your interests and then pick dates that will support those
interests...support those passions.
Have conversations with your partner about each of your passions. That's going to add
to your relationship dynamic.
I also say this is going to translate for you into the bedroom. For instance, if you take up
a physical activity such as rock climbing, swimming or skiing. That physical endurance
is going to translate into the bedroom for you to explore. Try new positions, be friskier
or be sexier. So the key here is to develop your own passion and that passion is going to
eradicate the boredom.
Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator, is the founder of SacredLove.com an online
dating, love site and fun couples membership site. She is also an internationally recognized
relationship expert, speaker, author of the best-selling book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art
of Love, and the creator/host of the popular DVD Sacred Love-Making. Visit