Signs of being in Love• Love cannot be learnt or taught.• Falling in love with someone is exciting.• May also be bit confusing.
Cont… When you are in love with someone,• You remember him/her all the time.• Everything in daily life reminds you of him/her.• You always care about his/her safety and happiness.
Cont….• You become more cautious about your appearance.• You deny spending much time with your friends.• You are eager to understand every detail of his/her life.• You want to be loyal to him/her and expect the same .
Cont…..• You tend to think about his/her expectations.
Psychology depicts love as• Cognitive• Social phenomenon.
Cont….Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love.IntimacyCommitmentPassion
Intimacy• Two people share confidences and various details of their personal lives.
Commitment• The expectation that the relationship is permanent
Passion• Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love.
Cont…Psychologist Erich Fromm mentioned in his book "The art of loving“• Love is not merely a feeling, but is also actions• love is a commitment.• Love as a conscious choice.
Love Some say, Vivacity. Some say, Fatality. Some say, Worship. Some say, Despise. Some say, Triumph. Some say, Thrash. Some say, Endurance. Some say, Irritation. Some say, Appease.Some say, Aggravation.
All in all,Love is everything.Demands nothing, Claims nothing, Desires nothing, But, Fancies; A Sweet smile, Passionate gaze, Adoring lamas.