ATTITUD ETHE THINGS INSIDE US THAT MAKESUS GO UP/DOWN IS ‘ATTITUDE’ .SUCCESS OF AN INDIVIDUAL,ORGANISATION OR A COUNTRYDEPENDS ON THE QUALITY OF THEPEOPLE. AND THE QUALITY COMESFROM HIS/HER ‘ATTITUDE’ .INDIVIDUAL WITH BETTER‘ATTITUDE’ WOULD BE BETTERPERSON, WHICH WOULD CUT DOWNNEGATIVITY.
ATTITUD E HUMAN BEINGS CAN ALTER THEIR LIVES BY ALTERING THEIR ATTITUDES OF MIND. ATTITUDE IS MOST IMPORTANT WORD. IT APPLIES TO EVERY SPHERE OF LIFE, INCLUDING ONE’S PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL LIFE. CAN AN STUDENT/? THINK, PARENT/TEACHER/SALESMAN/ EXECUTIVE/EMPLOYER/ EMPLOYEE BE GOOD IN THEIR ROLE WITHOUT GOOD ATTITUDE ? EX. 2 THE CALGARY TOWER. [190.8 MTRS, TOTAL WT. 10,884 TONS, BELOW GROUND 6,349 TONS (60%) ]
ATTITUD EJUST LIKE BUILDING STANDS ON ASTRONG FOUNDATION, SO DOESSUCCESS. AND THE FOUNDATION OFSUCCESS IS ‘ATTITUDE’.BE A BETTER PERSON, IT WOULDAUTOMATICALLY GIVE YOU BETTERBRAIN. AND BETTER BRAIN MAKES AMAN SUCCESSFUL.FOUNDATION OF SUCCESSREGARDLESS OF YOUR CHOSEN FIELDIS ‘ATTITUDE’ EX. 3 AFRICAN FARMER [ DIAMOND ]
MORAL OF THE STORY OF AN AFRICAN FARMAR1. When our Attitude is right, we realize that we are all walking on acres and acres of diamonds.2. Opportunity is always under the feet. We don’t have to go anywhere. All we need is to recognize it.3. The grass on the other side always looks greener.4. People don’t know how to recognise opportunity, they complain of noise when it knocks.5. The same opportunity never knocks twice. Ex. 4 Story of David & Goliath.
FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE 1. ENVIRONMENT 2. EXPERIENCE 3. EDUCATION a marginalIn a positive environment,performer’s output goes up. And in anegative environment, a goodperformer’s output goes down.
TYPES OF ATTITUDE1. POSTIVE [MENTAL]ATTITUDE. Ex. Of young twin brothers.2. NEGATIVE [MENTAL]ATTITUDE. Ex. Of Charismatic Dog walks on water.
FEW BENEFITS OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE1. INCREASE PRODUCTIVITY. Example Of Adult2. FOSTER TEAM WORK. Twin brothers3. SOLVES PROBLEMS.4. IMPROVES QUALITY.5. MAKES A CONGENIAL ATMOSPHERE.6. BREEDS LOYALTY.7. INCREASE PROFITS.9. REDUCES STRESS.10. HELPS A PERSON BECOME CONTRIBUTING MEMBER OF A FAMILY & SOCIETY.BECOMES AN ASSET TO THEIRCOUNTRY.11. ABOVE ALL, MAKES A PLEASINGPERSONALITY.
CONSEQUENCES OF NEGATIVE ATTITUDE1. BITTERNESS.2. RESENTMENT.3. A PURPOSELESS LIFE.4. ILL HEALTH.5. HIGH STRESS LEVEL FOR HIMSLEF/HERSELF OROTHERS.6. CREATE NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENTAT HOME AND WORK PLACE AND BECOME A LIABILITY TOSOCIETY.
STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDEIF WE WANT TO BUILD AND MAINTAIN POSITIVEATTITUDE, WE NEED TO CONTINUOUSLYPRACTICE THE FOLLOWING STEPS :1. CHANGE FOCUS. LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE. Ex 1 : Looking for the Gold.2. MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW. Ex.2 : When I become a Big Boy.3. DEVELOP AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE. SELECTIVE LISTENING. Ex.3 : Doctor for Talk on Alcohol.
STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE4. GET INTO CONTINUOUS EDUCATIONPROGRAM. Ex. 4 : Selling Hot-poori - Recession in the world market Persons can be successful if they have 5 Cs : 1. Character 2. Commitment 3. Conviction 4. Courtesy Mental, Emotional, Physical & 5. Courage Spiritual education.
STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE7. LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS THAT NEEDTO BE DONE. [ Ex. 6 : Life of Mother - Do things that may not be of her choice, but responsibility]8. START YOUR DAY WITH A POSITIVE. [ THOUGHT/THING ] [ Make habit of thinking positive. 21 Days.]
BE OPTIMISTBe so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.Talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.Make all your friends feel there is something in them.Look at the sunny side of everything.Think only of the best, work only for the best and expect only the best.Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
BE OPTIMISTForget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievement of the future.Give everyone a smile.Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others.Be too big for worry and too noble for anger. ______
CEASE FROM NEGATIVITY1. As soon as we cease from our negative and destructive thoughts, all the world softens toward us, and is ready to help us.2. As soon as we put away our weak and sick thoughts, opportunities spring up on every hand to aid our strong resolve.3. As soon as we encourage good thoughts, no hard fate shall bind us down to misery and shame. The world is our kaleidoscope, and the varying combinations of colours it presents to us at every succeeding moment are the exquisitely adjusted pictures of our ever-moving thoughts.
HUMAN WILL, MOST POWER FULLThe human Will, that force unseen,The offspring of a deathless Soul,Can hew a way to any goal,Though walls of granite intervene.
WINNERS V/S. LOSERSTHE WINNER IS ALWAYS PART OF THEANSWER.THE LOSER IS ALWAYS PART OF THEPROBLEM.THE WINNER ALWAYS HAS A PROGRAM.THE LOSER ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE.THE WINNER SAYS, “LET ME DO IT FORYOU”.THE LOSER SAYS, “THAT IS NOT MY
WINNERS V/S. LOSERSA WINNER MAKES COMMITMENTS.A LOSER MAKES PROMISES.WINNERS HAVE DREAMS.LOSERS HAVE SCHEMES.WINNERS SAY, “ I MUST DOSOMETHING”.LOSERS SAY, “SOMETHING MUST BEDONE”.
WINNERS V/S. LOSERS Winners see the gain. Losers see the pain. Winners see possibilities. Losers see problems. Winners make it happen. Losers let it happen.WINNERS PLAN & PREPARE TO WIN. THE KEY WORD IS PREPARATION.
WHAT IS DISCIPLINE ? DISCIPLINE IS FREEDOM ! DISCIPLINE IS LOVING FIRMNESS ! IT IS DIRECTION ! IT IS PREVENTION BEFORE A PROBLEMARISES ! IT IS HARNESSING AND CHANNELINGENERGY FOR GREAT PERFORMANCE ! DISCIPLINE IS AN ACT OF LOVE ! DISCIPLINE IS NOT SOMETHING YOU DO TO, BUT YOU DO FOR THOSE YOU CARE ABOUT.
DISCIPLINE IS FREEDOMWHAT WE THINK PULLING US DOWN IS REALLYTAKING US UP. THAT IS WHAT DISCIPLINE IS ALLABOUT. EX. 1 - BOY FLYING A KITE WITH HIS FATHERI WANT TO BE FREE.IS IT FREEDOM ? EX. 2 - TRAIN OFF THE TRACK.BY OBSERVING THE RULE, WE ARE ACTUALLYGAINING FREEDOM. ARE NOT WE ?
DISCIPLINE ISLOVING FIRMNESS EX. 3 - CHILD HAVING FEVER OF 1050F. EX. 4 - GIRAFFE GIVES BIRTH TO A BABY