Barriers to reaching your potential
Barriers to Reaching Your Potential
By Richard Butler of www.richardbutlerthesuccesscoach.com
Do you find that you are striving to move forward, but somehow getting nowhere? You try
what you can and yet you don't make progress? What could be happening is that you have
put up barriers to reaching your potential but you may not be even aware of it.
This is common for many people, yet few realize it. A lot of what you need to do to
overcome these barriers or obstacles is very simple. Much of it comes from changing how
you think and altering your mindset.
The most common barrier to reaching your potential is your mindset - what and how you
think about yourself and what you wish to achieve. Do you realize that we are the only
people that limit ourselves? We limit ourselves by the negative thoughts we think and say to
ourselves. If you think and believe that you cannot accomplish something, then that will
come true and you will fail. However, when you think that you can accomplish a task or
overcome a situation, and you put in the effort, you will succeed. Remember you can't
simply hope something will come true, or simply say to yourself I will succeed, I will succeed
and things will happen - you have to take control and take action.
I often hear people say they have failed in the past or things have not worked out for them
so they are bound to fail if they try again. This is simply an excuse. Because you failed in
the past does not mean you will fail again. You should think of things that happened in the
past in terms of what you can learn from them. See everything as feedback rather than
failure. What will dwelling on past events achieve for you? Will it make you better? Will it
serve to make you feel worse? Think about this. The past is only good so we can learn from
our mistakes - it serves very little other purpose. The past is over and done with we can't
change it, only learn from it.
Negativity can really stop you from reaching your potential. Believe it or not negativity is
more prevalent than positivity. Negative influences are all around - in the newspaper on the
radio and on TV. Not only this sometimes we get negative messages from family, friends,
and co-workers who are stuck in a negative mindset and believe they are helping you by
\"being realistic\" when in fact they are not helping at all. Mixing too much with these people
will only serve to bring you down, rather than lift you up. The best thing you should do when
reaching your potential is to Surround yourself with like minded people who are also striving
for success. Positive successful people like to help other people achieve success too.
Having positive support is very important.
One thing that stops many people from reaching their potential and being successful is that
they lack a plan. I am always amazed at how people can plan their summer holidays for
months, yet when they are asked what plans do they have for life and what goals have they
set they simply look at you with a blank face! Too many people go through life simply taking
what is handed to them. They let others make their decisions for them. Never do they set
out goals and plan for the weeks or months ahead. It is essential that you take the time to
set out goals, figure out how to reach those goals, and make a timeline for success. This
process is vitally important but is often ignored.
(C) Richard Butler www.richardbutlerthesuccesscoach.com 2007 - 2008

Remember, you can overcome your obstacles, if you believe that you can. If you set goals,
create a timeline for success, have positive support, and strive for excellence you can
overcome any barrier and reach your full potential
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Richard Butler is a highly regarded success coach. He has a number of services and
products that can help you achieve your goals.
Visit his website at http://www.richardbutlerthesuccesscoach.com/goals
to find out more
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