Merry Lovemaking: Build a Resilient Coupleship

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Healthy, long term love relationships require commitment, communication, care and periodic shots of inspiring fun. Merry Lovemaking covers the topics of:
1) Women's body image.
2) Sensuality and the arousal of the senses.
3) The importance of touch.
4) The role of affection.
5) Ideas to inject loving surprises.

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Merry Lovemaking: Build a Resilient Coupleship

  1. 1. Build a resilient coupleship
  2. 2. 1. Calm Body Image Scrimmage We’re all given a body different sizes and shapes!
  3. 3. Body Image Challenge Who has the body image challenge? She fusses that she has “no chin!”
  4. 4. Twenty years ago the average fashion model weighed 8% less than the average woman. Today, she weighs 23% less. PLUS Model Magazine
  5. 5. There are 3 billion women who don’t look like supermodels and only 8 who do. Lou Paget
  6. 6. 2003 Dove research 3200 women • 2% women from 10 countries considered themselves beautiful • 1% of Canadian women considered themselves beautiful
  7. 7. One of these women was a model in the Dove Campaign. Which one?
  8. 8. Willendorf Goddess Estimated to have originally been carved in 24,000– 22,000 BC. This carving was done by Les Morgan, Patricia’s hubby.
  9. 9. If she can be called Goddess isn’t time we accepted our lumps, bumps and sags just the way they are? Compliments of Patsy
  10. 10. A woman may develop wrinkles and cellulite, lose her waistline, her bustline, her ability to bear a child, even her sense of humor, but none of that implies a loss of sexuality, her femininity. Barbara Gordon
  11. 11. There is no SEXpiration date! Patricia Morgan
  12. 12. A) Your sexy nick name? Old Fart’s Tart is not allowed!
  13. 13. B) Who is your sexy role model?
  14. 14. Your Mom?
  15. 15. • What about her is sexy or sensual? • What do you imagine her doing in the name of love? • What about you?
  16. 16. FACT: Different men are attracted to different women’s body shapes.
  17. 17. Sexual energy is created by a woman enjoying her body!
  18. 18. 2. Use Sensuality to Arouse Pleasure your and your partner’s senses.
  19. 19. • Sight • Sound • Touch • Smell & • Taste
  20. 20. 3. Plan Pleasuring & Tender Touch
  21. 21. Usually start here Tenderly touch Sensate Focus
  22. 22. Masturbating? Quickies? Fantasy?
  23. 23. Don’t criticize in the sack. Discuss constructively later. Ruth Westheimer Darling, I love the stroking.
  24. 24. I’m suggesting a new name for sex and it should include everything from kissing to sitting closer together. Sher Hite
  25. 25. 4. Be Forever Affectionate He wants you to: • Desire time with him. • Let him take care of you and to pamper you. • Let him protect you from . . . • See him as a contributor to your happiness & success.
  26. 26. 5. Create Sexy Surprises
  27. 27. Avoid The Love Rut
  28. 28. The Love Rut is not a pretty sight!
  29. 29. Surprise!!! Patsy is here.
  30. 30. How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight. For the ends of being and ideal grace. I love thee to the level of every day's Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight. Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1844
  31. 31. Personalize How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the sound of the Toilet seat going down. And receiving your support Though often I frown. I love cuddling in bed as we grow old, With ‘ner a grumble re my feet, ice-cold.
  32. 32. Hand craft a personal card.
  33. 33. PUSSY You’ll have to ask me about this idea. Call 403-2427796
  34. 34. Best floor play there is. Sometimes women are truly just too tired.
  35. 35. Lunch is ready! And I am the appetizer.
  36. 36. Hanky makes a pick up. Meet him at the airport.
  37. 37. Patsy makes a pick up. Meet him again. Temporary Tattoo
  38. 38. Surprise!!! Initiate Just Do It!!!
  39. 39. You SEXY Thing!!!
  40. 40. Remember!!! You, too, are a SEXY THING!!!
  41. 41. Patricia Morgan lightens your load, brightens your outlook and strengthens your resilience. Watch her in action at SolutionsForResilience.com Contact her for your next event at 403-242-7796 Music by Jason Dirks 42

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