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How To Become A Likeable PersonHow To Become A Likeable Person By Welly Mulia Page 1
How To Become A Likeable PersonYou should become a likeable person so that your audience like, know, and trust you – and theend result is that they’d want to buy from you. In this report I want to share 5 ways on how tobe a likeable person.1. Admit Your FEARS And WEAKNESSES2. Admit Your Mistakes3. Empathize With Your Audience4. Stop Boasting About How Great You Are5. Entertain And Educate1. Admit your FEARS and WEAKNESSESToo many people don’t want to admit their fears and weaknesses. I’m NOT talking only aboutgurus and experts. Everybody (even those who are not gurus and experts in their respectiveindustries) does NOT want to admit his or her fears and weaknesses.To admit and actually acknowledge to OURSELVES that we possess fears and weaknesses isalready not easy, let alone admitting to OTHER PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY our audience to whom wemust look “cool” and “be the know-it-all” guy).Most people (and marketers) do NOT want to admit their fears and weaknesses.This is a FACT.Look around you. How many times do you actually have someone confess their fears andweaknesses to you?Especially if you’re a well-known guru in your marketplace - do you want to admit your fearsand weaknesses to your audience?Of course not!Even your family members and close friends sometimes do not really want to admit theirDEEPEST fears to you unless you really drill them down. Page 2
How To Become A Likeable PersonBy admitting your fears and weaknesses, your audience will feel that you are like them; andpeople like those people who are like them.2. Admit your mistakesSimilar to admitting your fears and weaknesses, most people do NOT want to admit theirmistakes to themselves and to others. You don’t want to admit your mistake and so do I.Let’s talk about admitting mistakes to OURSELVES first.When something goes wrong because of a mistake we committed, don’t you think it’s better(even though it’s hard for us to take deep down in our hearts) to admit and acknowledge thatwe’ve made a mistake, learn from it and get better, so that we don’t make the SAME mistakeagain in the future?After all, we humans LEARN from mistakes. It’s not like we’re foolish enough to commit thesame mistakes over and over again. This is especially true if the mistake we made causesSEVERE pain and discomfort. We definitely don’t want to make the same mistake again.Now let’s talk about admitting mistakes to OTHER PEOPLE (including your audience).Most of the time your audience (at least your TARGETED audience anyway) are NORMAL,AVERAGE people who are going to make the SAME mistakes (related to your niche) that you’vemade in the past.If you tell them HONESTLY and DIRECTLY about this – that you’re just another normal personlike them and that you’ve made the same mistakes in the past – and then you provide themwith tips and solutions on how to overcome these mistakes, then they’re going to CONNECTwith you.And when you CONNECT with them, it’s SO MUCH EASIER to sell to them.3. Empathize with your audienceWhen I FAIL to achieve what I wanted to achieve (not just in my online business), I feel downand depressed, like the whole world is going to come down on me.Till this day, I still “fail” from time to time. Page 3
How To Become A Likeable PersonOkay, maybe “fail” is not an appropriate word to use in this case. A more accurate word to useis: till this day, I still do things wrongly from time to time.Let me be honest with you…NO expert or guru knows EVERYTHING about their field! If they claim they do, it’s becausethey’re embarrassed and they want to look cool in front of you.Instead of becoming the “you-know-it-all-guy” like all your competitors, why not do the EXACTOPPOSITE and empathize with your audience and tell them that you also face the sameproblems when you’re starting out. Tell them you understand where they’re coming from.EMPATHIZE with them to CONNECT with them.STOP telling them how cool you are and that you know everything!4. Stop boasting about how great you areYou need to STOP boasting how great you are.Though it’s important that you need to stamp your authority as an expert in your marketplace,the way to do it is NOT to BOAST about how great a person you are.To stamp your authority, you let your audience know what you’re doing – how you failed whenyou first got started, and then move on to how you eventually found solutions to overcome theproblems, and how they can do the same.Stamp your authority in a way that lets them know that you’ve been where they are now, thatyou have the skills and expertise necessary to help them overcome their problems.Boasting about your Ferrari, million dollar yacht, and how you go the playboy mansion is notthe way to do it. People don’t like arrogant creatures.If I get into a conversation with someone who keeps boasting to me ALL THE TIME how cool heis with his Ferrari and big mansion, I FEEL like punching him in the face.Don’t you?5. Entertain and educate Page 4
How To Become A Likeable PersonWhile most marketers talk about the importance of educating your audience with useful tipsand tricks that they can use, there is another important “aspect” that is even of an equal orhigher importance.And that is – Entertaining your audience.No matter who you are, no matter what your background is, and no matter what businessyou’re in, you LIKE and LOVE to be entertained.This is why entertainers get paid a lot of money for what they do. Look at singers, actors,actresses, comedians, and TV reality shows. These people earn insane money.Compare them with educators (teachers and professors).I’m not saying that you want to entertain your audience all the time. After all, we’re in thebusiness of teaching and selling information products.What I’m implying is that you should ENTARTAIN AND EDUCATE instead of just educating all thetime. Mix in your PERSONAL stories (even those that are not related to your industry) so thatpeople can get to know you better.Stories are very POWERFUL elements that you can and should use in your business to attractyour audience’s attention and build a CONNECTION with them.I’ve shared 5 ways on how you can become a LIKEABLE person in the eyes of your audience.Remember to apply them in your business and in your personal life so that you becomelikeable.When you’ve learned how to be a likeable person, you can sell your products and servicesMUCH EASIER.Products By Welly MuliaProtected, multi-level membership site (can drip-feed content), product launch pages, OTOpages, squeeze pages, sales pages – all created in mere minutesClick Here…How To Replace Your Job On The Internet (Free)Click Here… Page 5
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