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  • 1. Family Law Marriage and Divorce (Chapters 25 and 26) 2013 version 1
  • 2. I am not an attorney. 2 of 245 I am a high school teacher in California. I am just trying to teach family law concepts to teenagers.
  • 3. Family Law Agenda • Marriage • Family Relationships • How property is owned in a marriage – If a married couple buys a car, who really owns it? • Four ways to end a marriage • Five legal decisions when ending a marriage 3
  • 4. Marriage in California—4 steps 1. Fall in love with someone 2. Be a responsible, mature person at least 18 years old 3. Get a marriage license 4. Have a ceremony 4
  • 5. Marriage, Step 1 5
  • 6. Marriage, Step 1 Fall in love with someone 6
  • 7. Marriage, Step 1 Fall in love with someone Not in like Not in “good enough” Not in “he picked me” Not in infatuation Not in obsession Not in “why not” Do not fall in love with love 7
  • 8. Some states do not allow same sex marriage. 8 of 245
  • 9. Only a few states allow same sex marriage… 9
  • 10. 13 same-sex marriage states (as of August 2013) • Rhode Island • Connecticut • New York • Maryland • Delaware • Washington • California • Minnesota • Iowa • Maine • New Hampshire • Vermont • Massachusetts 10
  • 11. Marriage, Step 2 Be a responsible, mature person at least 18 years old Under 18 is allowed with: (a) parental permission (b) counseling (c) approval of a superior court judge 11
  • 12. You cannot marry a person directly related to you by blood—that is called “incestuous marriage” and is a crime. 12
  • 13. You cannot marry a person directly related to you by blood—that is called “incestuous marriage” and is a crime. Marriages between – parents and children, ancestors and descendants of every degree – brothers and sisters; half brothers and sisters – uncles and nieces or aunts and nephews are incestuous, and void from the beginning. 13
  • 14. You cannot marry a person who is currently married—that is a crime called “bigamy” or “polygamy” 14
  • 15. You cannot marry a person who is currently married—that is a crime called “bigamy” or “polygamy” Bigamy: – Married to two husbands or two wives at the same time 15
  • 16. You cannot marry a person who is currently married—that is a crime called “bigamy” or “polygamy” Bigamy: – Married to two husbands or two wives at the same time Polygamy: – Married to two or more husbands or two or more wives at the same time 16
  • 17. To get married in California 17
  • 18. To get married in California You do not have to live in California 18
  • 19. To get married in California You do not have to live in California You do not have to be a citizen of the USA 19
  • 20. To get married in California You do not have to live in California You do not have to be a citizen of the USA You do not have to have a “blood test” 20
  • 21. 21
  • 22. What is “incestuous marriage”? 22
  • 23. What is “incestuous marriage”? The crime of marrying someone who is related to you by blood. 23
  • 24. If you are married to two people at the same time, you are guilty of the crime of _____________ 24
  • 25. If you are married to two people at the same time, you are guilty of the crime of _____________Bigamy 25
  • 26. done! 26
  • 27. Marriage, Step 3 Get a marriage license California requires a marriage license and a ceremony—so do 38 other states. 27
  • 28. Marriage, Step 3 Eleven states allow people to be married just by saying they’re married and acting like they’re married. This is called a “Common Law” marriage. 28
  • 29. Marriage, Step 3 “Common Law” marriage. 29
  • 30. Marriage, Step 3 Does California allow “common law” marriage? 30
  • 31. Marriage, Step 3 Does California allow “common law” marriage? 31
  • 32. Marriage, Step 3 What does “common law” marriage mean? 32
  • 33. Marriage, Step 3 What does “common law” marriage mean? You are married just by telling people that you are, and living like you are. 33
  • 34. Marriage, Step 3 Do any nearby states allow common law marriage? 34
  • 35. Marriage, Step 3 Do any nearby states allow common law marriage? COLORADO MONTANA IOWA KANSAS OKLAHOMA UTAH TEXAS 35
  • 36. Marriage, Step 3 Get a marriage license 36
  • 37. Marriage, Step 3 Get a marriage license Three types of marriage licenses in California: 1.Public Marriage License 2.Confidential Marriage License 3.Non-denominational Marriage License 37
  • 38. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days 38
  • 39. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is public record—anyone can buy a copy 39
  • 40. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is public record—anyone can buy a copy c) Can be used to get married anywhere in CA 40
  • 41. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is public record—anyone can buy a copy c) Can be used to get married anywhere in CA d) One witness of ceremony is required 41
  • 42. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is public record—anyone can buy a copy c) Can be used to get married anywhere in CA d) One witness of ceremony is required e) $83.00 in Sacramento County 42
  • 43. Public Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is public record—anyone can buy a copy c) Can be used to get married anywhere in CA d) One witness of ceremony is required e) $83.00 in Sacramento County f) Both parties must be 18+ years old OR have parental consent, counseling and Superior Court approval. 43
  • 44. Confidential Marriage License a) Valid for 90 days—you must be married within 90 days b) This license is NOT open to the public c) Must be married in the county where license issued d) No witness of ceremony is required e) $95.00 in Sacramento County f) Both parties must be 18+ years old g) Couple must be living together as a married couple 44
  • 45. Non-denominational Marriage License A Public Marriage License for religious societies that do not have a person designated to perform marriage ceremonies (no priest, rabbi, or minister). 45
  • 46. Marriage, Step 3 Get a marriage license (a) Fill out online Application for Marriage License https://shadow.saccounty.net/marriage/mrglicense.asp 46
  • 47. Marriage, Step 3 Get a marriage license (b) Both the future bride and groom must go together to the county clerk’s office to get the marriage license. 47
  • 48. Marriage—Step 4 Have a ceremony. Sign the marriage license. Witness signs too. 48
  • 49. Marriage—Step 4 The person performing the ceremony mails the marriage license back to the county clerk’s office. 49
  • 50. Family Relationships 50
  • 51. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 51
  • 52. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 52
  • 53. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan siblings 53
  • 54. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 54
  • 55. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan cousins 55
  • 56. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 56
  • 57. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan second cousins 57
  • 58. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 58
  • 59. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan third cousins 59
  • 60. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 60
  • 61. Handout 61
  • 62. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Joe is my… 62
  • 63. Joe is my… brotherTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 63
  • 64. Alice is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 64
  • 65. Alice is my… motherTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 65
  • 66. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Kim is my… 66
  • 67. Kim is my… daughterTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 67
  • 68. Al is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 68
  • 69. Al is my… nephewTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 69
  • 70. Ann is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 70
  • 71. Ann is my… sister-in-lawTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 71
  • 72. Ron is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 72
  • 73. Ron is my… grandsonTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 73
  • 74. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 74
  • 75. Ann is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 75
  • 76. Ann is my… auntTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 76
  • 77. Dave is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 77
  • 78. Dave is my… uncleTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 78
  • 79. Tim is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 79
  • 80. Tim is my… cousinTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 80
  • 81. Uma is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 81
  • 82. Uma is my… 1st cousin once removed Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 82
  • 83. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 83
  • 84. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 84
  • 85. Uma is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 85
  • 86. Uma is my… second cousinTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 86
  • 87. Mary is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 87
  • 88. Mary is my… grandmotherTom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 88
  • 89. Joe is my… Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 89
  • 90. Joe is my… great uncle (grand uncle) Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 90
  • 91. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Joan is my… 91
  • 92. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Joan is my… second cousin once removed 92
  • 93. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan 93
  • 94. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Joan is my… 94
  • 95. Tom Alice Jim Mary Dave Joe Ann Zoe Paul Bob Kim Al Tim Amy Jill Ron Ruth John Andy Uma Bill Jan Joan Joan is my… third cousin 95
  • 96. Handout 96
  • 97. Family Law--Marriage 97
  • 98. Family Law--Marriage • You cannot marry someone who is related to you by blood. • This is called “related by consanguinity” 98
  • 99. 99
  • 100. What crime is committed if a person marries two wives? 100
  • 101. What crime is committed if a person marries two wives? Bigamy 101
  • 102. What piece of paper allows a man and woman to get married in California? 102
  • 103. What piece of paper allows a man and woman to get married in California? Marriage License 103
  • 104. done! 104
  • 105. Marriage is a contract 105
  • 106. Marriage is a contract • The contract comes in to existence when the couple is engaged. • The contract is executed when the couple is married. 106
  • 107. Married people have duties 107
  • 108. Married people have duties • The duty to provide mutual respect • The duty to be faithful • The duty to provide support • A fiduciary duty to treat financial responsibilities with the highest good faith, confidentiality, and fair dealing (California Family Code 720 and 721) 108
  • 109. Married people have rights 109
  • 110. Married people have rights • The right to be supported when necessary • The right to file a joint tax return • The right to inherit from a deceased spouse • The right to retain property if the marriage ends • The right to money to continue one’s standard of living if the marriage ends 110
  • 111. 111
  • 112. Can people of the same sex get married in California? 112
  • 113. Can people of the same sex get married in California? 113
  • 114. Can you get a marriage license through the mail? 114
  • 115. Can you get a marriage license through the mail? No, the future bride and groom have to pick up the marriage license in person 115
  • 116. Where can you go to pick up your marriage license? 116
  • 117. Where can you go to pick up your marriage license? County Clerk’s office 117
  • 118. done! 118
  • 119. Property owned by married people 119
  • 120. Property owned by married people Equitable Distribution states Community Property states 120
  • 121. Community property state All property is owned 50/50 by both spouses no matter which spouse really “earned” it. If property needs to be divided between spouses, each spouse gets 50/50. Just do the math. 121
  • 122. California Is a “Community Property” state Requires a marriage license and a ceremony Does not allow same sex marriage 122
  • 123. California Is a “Community Property” state Requires a marriage license and a ceremony Does not allow same sex marriage 123
  • 124. California Is a “Community Property” state Requires a marriage license and a ceremony Allows same sex marriage 124
  • 125. Nine states are “Community Property” states All other states are “Equitable Distribution” states 125
  • 126. Community Property states Washington Idaho Nevada California Arizona New Mexico Texas Louisiana Wisconsin 126
  • 127. Property owned by married people Equitable Distribution states Community Property states 127
  • 128. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… 128
  • 129. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… Earning power of the spouses 129
  • 130. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… Age and relative health of the spouses 130
  • 131. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… One spouse having done the work to acquire the property 131
  • 132. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… Economic fault of one spouse in wasting and dissipating marital property 132
  • 133. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… Duration of the marriage 133
  • 134. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… The responsibility for providing for children of the marriage 134
  • 135. Equitable Distribution state If property needs to be divided, it’s not just divided 50/50. It’s not just a math problem. A judge may look at things like… Spousal abuse or marital infidelity (to penalize the offending spouse). 135
  • 136. 136
  • 137. How are a public marriage license and a confidential marriage license the same? 137
  • 138. How are a public marriage license and a confidential marriage license the same? Both are good for 90 days 138
  • 139. What does “related by consanguinity” mean? 139
  • 140. What does “related by consanguinity” mean? Related by blood 140
  • 141. done! 141
  • 142. Property owned by married people in California 142
  • 143. Property owned by married people in California Separate property Community property 143
  • 144. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family • Gifts you receive while married • Money earned while living “separate and apart” 144
  • 145. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married 145 Sarah owned a car before she got married. The car is Sarah’s separate property.
  • 146. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family 146
  • 147. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family 147 Kelly is married but when her dad died, Kelly inherited her dad’s dog. The dog is Kelly’s separate property.
  • 148. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family • Gifts you receive while married 148
  • 149. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family • Gifts you receive while married 149 Janet received a ruby necklace from her husband for Christmas. The necklace is Janet’s separate property.
  • 150. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family • Gifts you receive while married • Money earned while living “separate and apart” 150
  • 151. Separate property • Things that you owned before you were married • Things you inherit from your family • Gifts you receive while married • Money earned while living “separate and apart” 151 Kaitlyn left her husband and moved into her mother’s house while waiting for her divorce to be finalized. The money Kaitlyn earns at Target is now her separate property.
  • 152. Community property 152
  • 153. Community property Except for separate property, all property that married people accumulate. 153
  • 154. Community property Except for separate property, all property that married people accumulate. 154 Tom and Lena, a married couple, bought a house. The house is community property.
  • 155. Community property Except for separate property, all property that married people accumulate. 155 Jim and Ruth ran up $8,000 in credit card debt while married. The debt is community property.
  • 156. Community property Except for separate property, all property that married people accumulate. 156 Lisa and Hunter, a married couple, bought a refrigerator. The refrigerator is community property.
  • 157. Property can be transmuted Separate property Community property 157
  • 158. Property can be transmuted Separate property Community property 158 You can change your separate property into community property if you want to.
  • 159. Property can be transmuted Separate property Community property 159 Nancy, who owned a house before she married Todd, had his name added to the ownership papers.
  • 160. 160
  • 161. My fiancé and I want to get married on a mountaintop near Lake Tahoe. Can we get a marriage license in Sacramento? 161
  • 162. My fiancé and I want to get married on a mountaintop near Lake Tahoe. Can we get a marriage license in Sacramento? You can get a public marriage license for Lake Tahoe, but not a confidential marriage license. 162
  • 163. done! 163
  • 164. Premarital agreement Future bride and groom write up a paper to decide how their property will be divided in case of… well… just in case. 164
  • 165. Premarital agreement • Must be in writing. • Must be signed by both future bride and groom • Becomes effective upon marriage. • Can be changed (in writing). 165
  • 166. Things that might be mentioned in a premarital agreement: • What should happen to personal or real property upon separation, marital dissolution, death, or the occurrence or nonoccurrence of any other event. • If children are brought into a new marriage, a premarital agreement may prevent all property from passing to the spouse upon death to prevent disinheriting the kids. 166
  • 167. Premarital Agreement 167 of 245 If Linda, who has three children, marries Darrin and later dies, all she owns will go to Darrin and her children may be left with nothing. Linda might consider a premarital agreement.
  • 168. 168
  • 169. What do you call a state that allows people to be married without a license or a ceremony? 169
  • 170. What do you call a state that allows people to be married without a license or a ceremony? Common Law State 170
  • 171. Where are most of the states that allow same sex marriage? 171
  • 172. NY Where are most of the states that allow same sex marriage? in New England MAINE 172
  • 173. Give me an example of what “separate property” might be. 173
  • 174. Which do you think is better: a community property state or an equitable distribution state? Why? 174
  • 175. done! 175
  • 176. Ending a marriage 176
  • 177. Ending a marriage You are asking a judge to: 1. Divide your community property 2. Decide who will pay community debts 3. Decide child custody 4. Set a dollar amount for child support 5. Set a dollar amount for spousal support 177
  • 178. Ending a marriage agenda: Here’s what we’ll learn about… 1. Legal separation 2. Death 3. Annulment 4. Dissolution 178
  • 179. You can end a marriage without ending it. 179
  • 180. Ending a marriage without ending it: Legal Separation 180
  • 181. Legal Separation • Ends the community property relationship to your spouse. • Let’s you both go your separate financial ways. • But you are both still married… 181
  • 182. Legal Separation Just like a divorce… You are asking a judge to: 1. Divide your community property 2. Decide who will pay community debts 3. Decide child custody 4. Set a dollar amount for child support 5. Set a dollar amount for spousal support but you remain married. 182
  • 183. Legal Separation If you remain married, why would anyone want a legal separation? 183
  • 184. Reasons for a legal separation 184
  • 185. Reasons for a legal separation Religious reasons It may be against a spouse’s religion to divorce. 185
  • 186. Reasons for a legal separation Financial reasons A sick husband may want to stay married to stay on his wife’s medical insurance plan. 186
  • 187. Reasons for a legal separation Government Benefits reasons Staying married for 10 years allows a spouse to receive Social Security benefits 187
  • 188. Reasons for a legal separation Residency problem reasons Legal separation does not require you to live in California. (Dissolution requires you to live in California for at least six months.) 188
  • 189. Reasons for a legal separation Reconcile reasons A spouse may need time to decide if dissolution is the right thing to do. Meanwhile, a legal separation keeps them safe from financial entanglements. 189
  • 190. People who are legally separated cannot marry anyone else. 190
  • 191. People who are legally separated cannot marry anyone else. (They are still married.) 191
  • 192. 192
  • 193. Does California allow “Legal Separation”? 193
  • 194. Does California allow “Legal Separation”? Yes, of course! 194
  • 195. Is California a community property state or an equitable distribution state? 195
  • 196. Is California a community property state or an equitable distribution state? Community property state 196
  • 197. done! 197
  • 198. Ending a marriage Three ways to end a California marriage: –Death of a spouse –Annulment –Dissolution California Family Code, section 310 198
  • 199. Ending a marriage Three ways to end a California marriage: –Death of a spouse –Annulment –Dissolution California Family Code, section 310 199
  • 200. Death of a spouse ends a marriage (You can’t be married to someone who is not living.) 200
  • 201. Death of a spouse ends a marriage Property of the deceased spouse passes to the living spouse 201
  • 202. 202
  • 203. You are married. Your mother gives you $50 for your birthday. Is this money community property? 203
  • 204. You are married. Your mother gives you $50 for your birthday. Is this money community property? No, gifts are separate property 204
  • 205. done! 205
  • 206. Ending a marriage Three ways to end a California marriage: –Death of a spouse –Annulment –Dissolution California Family Code, section 310 206
  • 207. Annulment Marriage declared not to have ever happened. The process of declaring that a marriage never happened is called an “annulment“. Annulments are very rare. Annulments are very rare. Annulments are very rare. Annulments are very rare. Annulments are very rare. Annulments are very rare. 207
  • 208. Annulment You are asking a judge to: 1. Declare your marriage void. 2. Divide your community property 3. Decide who will pay community debts 4. Decide child custody 5. Set a dollar amount for child support 6. Set a dollar amount for spousal support 208
  • 209. Reasons for an annulment Polygamy I discovered that she was still married to Bill when we got married. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 209
  • 210. Reasons for an annulment Consanguinity We discovered that we are aunt and nephew. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 210
  • 211. Reasons for an annulment Under Age I’m really only 17 years old. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 211
  • 212. Reasons for an annulment Fraud She told me she could have children but after we were married she admitted that she can’t. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 212
  • 213. Reasons for an annulment Fraud He only wanted to marry me to get a green card and live in the United States. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 213
  • 214. Reasons for an annulment Force I was kidnapped or in some other way unreasonably forced to marry him. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 214
  • 215. Reasons for an annulment Unsound mind I was drunk or otherwise unable to understand what I was doing. I want an annulment. Annulments are very rare. 215
  • 216. 216
  • 217. You are legally separated. Your husband still has your joint credit card. He purchases $3000 of junk on E-Bay. Do you have to pay half the bill? 217
  • 218. You are legally separated. Your husband still has your joint credit card. He purchases $3000 of junk on E-Bay. Do you have to pay half the bill? No 218
  • 219. You are married but your husband has moved out of the house. He still has your joint credit card. He purchases $3000 of junk on E-Bay. Do you have to pay half the bill? 219
  • 220. You are married but your husband has moved out of the house. He still has your joint credit card. He purchases $3000 of junk on E-Bay. Do you have to pay half the bill? Yes 220
  • 221. What is a “common law marriage”? 221
  • 222. What is a “common law marriage”? Marriage without a marriage license or a ceremony 222
  • 223. done! 223
  • 224. Ending a marriage Three ways to end a California marriage: –Death of a spouse –Annulment –Dissolution California Family Code, section 310 224
  • 225. Dissolution California does not have “divorce” California has “dissolution” Your marriage “dissolves” 225
  • 226. Dissolution In an argument, though, it just doesn’t have the same effect to yell… 226
  • 227. Dissolution In an argument, though, it just doesn’t have the same effect to yell… “I want a dissolution!” 227
  • 228. Dissolution If your spouse wants a dissolution, you can’t stop them. 228
  • 229. Dissolution If your spouse wants a dissolution, you can’t stop them. California will not force anyone to stay married if they don’t want to. 229
  • 230. Dissolution If you can’t stop a dissolution, why do spouse’s fight about it? 230
  • 231. Dissolution You are asking a judge to: 1. Divide your community property 2. Decide who will pay community debts 3. Decide child custody 4. Set a dollar amount for child support 5. Set a dollar amount for spousal support 231
  • 232. Dissolution California is a “no-fault” divorce state. You do not need a reason to justify asking for a dissolution. 232
  • 233. Reason for Dissolution Everyone must use the same reason for asking for a dissolution in California… 233
  • 234. Reason for Dissolution Everyone must use the same reason for asking for a dissolution in California… “Irreconcilable differences” 234
  • 235. Reason for Dissolution You can just skip the entire “Grounds for Divorce” section of Chapter 26 on pages 380-385. “Grounds for Divorce” means “Reasons for Divorce”—we don’t have any except… 235
  • 236. Reason for Dissolution You can just skip the entire “Grounds for Divorce” section of Chapter 26 on pages 380-385. “Irreconcilable differences” “Grounds for Divorce” means “Reasons for Divorce”—we don’t have any except… 236
  • 237. 237
  • 238. How many months do you have to live in California before you can get married in California? 238
  • 239. How many months do you have to live in California before you can get married in California? Zero months. (California has no marriage residency requirement.) 239
  • 240. done! 240
  • 241. Dissolution Residency Requirements You must have lived in: 1. California for the last 6 months 2. The county in which you plan to file for the last 3 months 241
  • 242. Dissolution Get papers to start the dissolution process and submit them to the county’s Superior court. 242
  • 243. Dissolution Petitioner The spouse asking for a dissolution Respondent The spouse replying to the request 243
  • 244. Dissolution You are asking a judge to: 1. Divide your community property 2. Decide who will pay community debts 3. Decide child custody 4. Set a dollar amount for child support 5. Set a dollar amount for spousal support 244
  • 245. Spousal Support Money that one ex-spouse pays to the other ex-spouse to help “maintain one’s style of living” for a time after a dissolution. 245
  • 246. Spousal Support Money that one ex-spouse pays to the other ex-spouse to help “maintain one’s style of living” for a time after a dissolution. “Alimony” 246
  • 247. Spousal Support Judges are not required to order alimony in a dissolution. 247
  • 248. Spousal Support Money Payer Does NOT count as income for income tax Payee Counts as income for income tax 248
  • 249. Child Support Money Payer Counts as income for income tax Payee Does not count as income for income tax 249
  • 250. Dissolution You are asking a judge to: 1. Divide your community property 2. Decide who will pay community debts 3. Decide child custody 4. Set a dollar amount for child support 5. Set a dollar amount for spousal support 250
  • 251. Please don’t use the “v” word… • Sometimes a child lives with their mother and sometimes they live with their father. 251
  • 252. Please don’t use the “v” word… • Sometimes a child lives with their mother and sometimes they live with their father. • Even if you live with your father for a few hours a week, you’re still living with him. 252
  • 253. Please don’t use the “v” word… • Sometimes a child lives with their mother and sometimes they live with their father. • Even if you live with your father for a few hours a week, you’re still living with him. • You are not “v****ing” him. 253
  • 254. Please don’t use the “v” word… • Sometimes a child lives with their mother and sometimes they live with their father. • Even if you live with your father for a few hours a week, you’re still living with him. • You are not “v****ing” him. • Please don’t use the “v” word. It’s insulting. 254
  • 255. 255
  • 256. What or who is a “petitioner”? 256
  • 257. What or who is a “petitioner”? The person seeking a dissolution 257
  • 258. done! 258
  • 259. Review Legal Separation Annulment Dissolution 259
  • 260. 260