a) Provides vision and
direction, values and
b) Inspire people to
work together with
common vision and
Brain theory research
explains why some people
are excellent producers
but poor managers
or great managers but weak
doing the right
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RELY ON CONTROL
EYETHE BOTTOM LINE
ACCEPT STATUS QUO
FOCUS ON STRUCTURE
CHALLENGE STATUS QUO
FOCUS ON PEOPLE
• Warren Bennis, Managing People is like
Herding Cats, 1997
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This can be by
direct or indirect actions
intended or un-intended actions
1.Your first mistake
is to assume that people are rational
2.Your second mistake
is assuming that people are eager for change
3.The third mistake we make
is assuming that once someone knows
things the way you know them,
they will choose what you chose
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Your partner, children,
which increase or decrease the
people changing themselves
Displaying “Management” Characteristics
will get you promoted to middle management
Displaying “leadership” characteristics
will get you to the top
True leaders break things and take risks to
build long-term value
Founder, Chairman and CEO, SpirianTechnologies
Chicago - IL US
Leadership is about doing the right thing, not
the easy thing
The acts of the leader are the acts of the
If the leader is just, the nation is just;
if he is unjust, the nation too is unjust and is
punished for the sins of the leader
can be solved.
William R. Rhodes
People don't want to be managed
They want to be led
Whoever heard of a world manager?
World leader, yes
Educational leader. Political leader.
Religious leader. Scout leader.
Community leader. Labour leader.
Business leader. Gang Leader
They lead.They don't manage
Ask your horse.
You can lead your
horse to water,
But you can't manage
him to drink
Do that well and you'll be
ready to stop managing
And start leading
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We attract into our lives anything that we
give attention to,
regardless whether it be positive or negative
From a psychological view,
the law of attraction can be best explained by the
information filtering system of the brain
known as the reticular activating system (RAS)
The RAS is an automatic mechanism
inside your brain
serves as a filter between your conscious
and subconscious mind
bringing relevant information to your
it plays a vital role in your ability to
Here are 3 examples of famous
people who have used the
techniques of visualization to
activate the law of attraction in
Successful entrepreneur and author, John Assaraf,
brought the age-old concept of a vision board to the
mainstream public by relating his story of it in the
In May of 2000, John was working in his home office
inside his beautiful new home in Southern California
when his five-year old son came in and asked him
what were in the dusty boxes in the corner of his
John told him that it contained his vision boards.
His son didn’t understand what they were, so John
opened one of the boxes to show him.
When John pulled out the second board from the
box, he began to cry.
On it was a picture of a 7000 square foot house on
top of six acres of spectacular land that he had seen
and cut out from Dream Homes magazine in 1995.
It was the exact house that he had just purchased
several weeks prior
A sure testament to the law of attraction at work
The late martial arts legend and my own personal role-
model, Bruce Lee, understood the power of the law of
As a struggling entrepreneur and actor, Bruce sat down one
day and wrote the following letter to himself:
“By 1980, I will be the best known oriental movie star in
the United States and will have secured $10 million
And in return, I will give the very best acting I could
possibly give every single time I am in front of the
camera and I will live in peace and harmony.”
In 1973, months after Bruce’s untimely death,
the blockbuster movie Enter the Dragon was
released in both the United States and China,
elevating Bruce to the level of an
that very letter that Bruce wrote to himself is
hanging up on one of the walls at Planet
Hollywood in NewYork City.
As a struggling young comedian trying to make it in
the make or break city of Hollywood,
Jim Carrey was just about ready to give up his dream of
becoming a professional actor and comedian.
He had just performed at an open mic session at one
of the nightclubs in Los Angeles and had been
booed off the stage by his audience.
He sat by himself at the top of Mulholand Drive and
looked out at the city below him
the city that held his future success or failure.
He then pulled out his check book and wrote himself
a check for $10 million dollars and made a note on it:
“for acting services rendered.”
He then carried that check with him in his wallet
everywhere he went from that day forward.
By 1995, after the success of his blockbuster movies:
AceVentura: Pet Detective, Dumb and Dumber, andThe
His contract price had risen to the price of $20 million
Figure out what you want in your life
and then commit yourself 100% towards
making that first step of creating your
activating the law of attraction
to pull your dreams into reality
WhyThe Law Of Attraction
FailsTo Work For Many
is very easy to apply in
However, it is also easy to
many individuals still can’t get the
law of attraction to work for them
There are some law of attraction
mistakes people tend to make
without being aware of it.
One of the most common mistakes is
After all, the law of attraction is based on
When you’re not grateful for what you have,
you tend to attract a lot of unwanted
negative energy into your life.
This might require a real shift of attitude for
some people; but unless you find it in your
heart to thank the universe for what you
have, you’ll find the universe a little less
generous in return.
So why don’t you make the first move?
When you wake up each day, be grateful that
you are alive.
When you see the sun setting down,
be grateful that you have sight.
When you hear something beautiful playing,
be grateful that you have the opportunity to hear
Do this everyday and gratitude will soon
come naturally to you.
A lot of people think that the law of
attraction is like a genie in the
that the universe will be able to give
you your dream home in just a matter
While the concept does seem to work like
you can’t exactly put a time frame on the process.
When you feel impatience with the universe,
you’ll start sending off waves of negativity.
That will automatically put your wish on
The law of attraction works on faith.
If you don’t believe it will happen,
it will never happen.
If you think you believe,
but still in your heart there’s some tinge of
it would still be very difficult for you to
manifest your dreams.
"It is not good for all our wishes to be
through sickness we recognize the value
through evil, the value of good;
through hunger, the value of food;
through exertion, the value of rest."
▪ Greek Proverb
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Even before they finish
praying to me, I will
answer their prayers ISAIAH
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Realise that we have an
unlimited account with
the universal bank
Our faith is the deposit
Our prayers make the
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Attempting to obtain blessing by fraud
Refer to drawer
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Because they do not recognize the answer
We ask God for Wisdom
God gives us problems to solve, making us
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We plead for Prosperity
God gives us brain and brawn to Work with
We request courage
God gives us Danger to overcome
We ask for favours
God gives us Opportunities
Yes, all prayers are answered
▪ Rusea’s High School Office
If you have not experienced success during your first
tries, you should not be disappointed. Instead, you
should keep moving forward towards your goal.
The law of attraction does not always work the first
time, especially if you keep making the same
So if you fail this time around,
why don’t you read about the other law of
attraction mistakes in this article and see which
areas you can improve on?
The universe is not something you can
You can’t expect what you want to
happen the exact way you want it.
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Once you start dictating how you expect your
desire to manifest, you are cutting off other
avenues for which that desire can enter your
The way the law of attraction works is that
you ask for it,
and let the universe give it to you in
the way it intends to.
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We all have certain beliefs that we’re not
100% conscious of.
These beliefs might be hidden deep inside of
us, emerging only at the most crucial
These beliefs may not necessarily be harmful,
but they may also be a hindrance to the law
One of the most common limiting beliefs is the
idea of “I don’t deserve this.”
Once this thought enters your mind (or your
heart even), the universe will interpret is as “I
don’t want this.”
Part of the charm of the law of attraction is that
it encourages you to open yourself up to the
Don’t be held back by these negative beliefs.
Instead, assure yourself that you are, indeed,
worthy of having such a gift.
why don’t you try embracing more of
Read about how every one of us truly
deserves a happy ending.
Get rid of all your drama and angst.
It has the capacity to give you
whatever you want
However, there are a lot of law of
attraction mistakes you can make if
you’re not careful
However, these are pretty easy to deal
with as long as you stay aware of your
thoughts, emotions and actions.
And as long as you’re open to change
you too can harness the astonishing powers
of the universe.
Based on DepakChopra
People use it like a wish magnet.
They bait the hook with a dream,
toss it out into the universe and expect
to draw in money,
a soul mate,
whatever big fish they want to land.
Gravity isn't selective.
It pulls on everything,
not just the things you want
it to pull.
it attracts to you many things at once, not
just one thing.
The obstacles you meet are part of the whole
For that reason, this law can't be used as a
wish magnet, even though it would be
wonderful if it could.
I think it's more useful to use another spiritual
the law of reflection.
the whole situation around you is you.
"I am what I see. What I see is me."
Once you see it is only you reflecting yourself
back, what happens?
You become more self-aware.
As self-awareness expands,
you become much clearer and focused on what you
Then and only then
can the law of attraction work for you reliably
Do what it
not to be
Do what it
takes to have
hope and a
sense of power
over your own
Do what it
your own fate
Maybe you will need to take outer action;
surely you will have to take inner action.
At bottom, whenever you see something
negative in your reflection, 3 choices present
Do I put up with it?
Do I fix it?
Do I walk away?
It takes self-
to know how
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The archer sets up for the kill by
pulling back and holding the bow,
but the accuracy of the shot is
knowing just when to let go
Both components are critical
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"Knowledge is learning
something new every day.
Wisdom is letting go of
something every day."
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50% of your focus should be focused on
shaping the future,
30% should be on perfecting the present,
20% should be on reviewing and learning
from the past.
You cannot safely go forward by spending all
your time viewing life through the rear view
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