In calm weather, all ships have goodcaptains.Swedish proverb, often attributed to Adam Smith
The Stages of Change Stage Stage Stage StageActive One Two Three Four Anger Testing Balancing ConfusionPassiv e DEFENSIVE ACKNOW- ACCEPTANCE SHOCK RETREAT LEDGEMENT Tim e
The Stages of Grief AngerActive Stability Acceptance Denial BargainingPassive Depression Immobilized Time
The Four Agreements1.Be impeccable with your word2.Don’t take anything personally3.Don’t make assumptions4.Always do your best
Circles of Control The World Circle of Concern Circle of Inﬂuence
All the world’s problems These are things The World happening that I may or may not Water crisis in China be concerned Kardashians about. anything on Fox News Michael Jackson’s Doctor Worm going extinct
Concerns important to me These are Circle of Concern things that I am concerned gas prices about but have no control how bad the Panthers are playing over. They may library budget impact me but who is going to get laid off I cannot control the interest on my 401K outcome.
Circle of Inﬂuence These are Circle of Inﬂuence things that I ideas I can implement am concerned my job performance about and have controlhelping library patrons over. changing 401K allocations This is where we need to update resume focus our physical and get on Linked In mental energy.
What’s in your circle of inﬂuence? The World Circle of Concern Circle of Inﬂuence