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    • Anger Managementan introduction
      An OARS presentation
      Opiate Addiction Recovery Services
      3009 Burnet Ave,
      Cincinnati Ohio
    • Learning anger management techniques gives you various strategies to help stabilize you’re out-of-control feelings of anger.
      I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore!
    • Feelings of Anger
      Feelings of anger are natural emotions that everyone experiences. It is when those feelings of anger are out of control that it can be damaging to yourself or others. It often takes a strong sense of determination and commitment to change the patterns of anger that can lead to domestic abuse, violence, road rage or addiction. There are many techniques and tips that you can use to help manage your anger.
    • Understanding and Challenging Your Anger
      When you feel yourself becoming excessively angry try challenging your own feelings. Try to determine the true source of the anger and exactly how angry you are. Think about the role that the other person or situation has on your anger and try to reverse the roles. Imagine how you would feel, and want to be treated, if the situation were reversed.
    • What is Anger ?
      Anger is a complex emotion. Some people use anger to cover up complex feelings. Some people cover up there anger with feelings of sadness or laughing it off. Others use anger toward other people to get what they want.
      Furious* Seething* Enraged*Hostile* Vengeful* Incensed*
      Abused*Humiliated* Hateful* Betrayed* Perturbed* Rebellious*
    • Describe the ways you deal with anger? Are you happy with it?
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      Ask two people you are close to describe to you how you show anger Write what you learned. __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
    • Anger blocks can keep you from feeling good about yourself and sharing that goodness with those around you. If you let resentments control your thoughts you are only robbing yourself.
      The Anger Route: begins with self will and ends with resentment.
      The Pattern Follows “I’m not getting what I want” “I deserve It”
      It must be someone else's fault”. Someone else is wrong or bad for standing in my way” Anger repressed or experienced. < EQUALS > RESENTMENTS
      Dealing with your Anger
      Feel it
      “I cannot pretend that my angry feelings do not exist. I accept it as a real and honest feeling.
      Accept Responsibility I am responsible for my own behavior I cannot control the actions of others. I can depend on my own values and act in a manner that which is right for me”
      Be honest with yourself “ What am I really feeling ? Why am I feeling this way ? Am I judging other people? Am I angry because my will is not being met?
      Honor those old resentments, then move on!
    • 10 tips to help get your anger under control
      1. Take a 'timeout.' Although it may seem cliché, counting to 10 before reacting really can defuse your temper.
      1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10
    • I’m at a better place in my mind now. I can deal with this problem rationally now.
      Get some space. Take a break from the person you're angry with until your frustrations subside a bit.
      Once you're calm, express your anger. It's healthy to express your frustration in a non confrontational way. Stewing about it can make the situation worse.
      Get some exercise. Physical activity can provide an outlet for your emotions, especially if you're about to erupt. Go for a brisk walk or a run, swim, lift weights or shoot baskets.
      Think carefully before you say anything. Otherwise, you're likely to say something you'll regret. It can be helpful to write down what you want to say so that you can stick to the issues. When you're angry, it's easy to get sidetracked.
      Identify solutions to the situation. Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work with the person who angered you to resolve the issue at hand.
      Speak no evil.
    • Use 'I' statements when describing the problem. This will help you to avoid criticizing or placing blame, which can make the other person angry or resentful — and increase tension. For instance, say, "I'm upset you didn't help with the housework this evening," instead of, "You should have helped with the housework."
      Don't hold a grudge. If you can forgive the other person, it will help you both. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want.
      Use humor to release tensions. Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Don't use sarcasm, though — it's can hurt feelings and make things worse.
      Practice relaxation skills. Learning skills to relax and de-stress can also help control your temper when it may flare up. Practice deep-breathing exercises, visualize a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase to yourself, such as "Take it easy." Other proven ways to ease anger include listening to music, writing in a journal and doing yoga.
      Use 'I' statements when describing the problem. This will help you to avoid criticizing or placing blame, which can make the other person angry or resentful — and increase tension. For instance, say, "I'm upset you didn't help with the housework this evening," instead of, "You should have helped with the housework."
      Don't hold a grudge. If you can forgive the other person, it will help you both. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want.
      Use humor to release tensions. Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Don't use sarcasm, though — it's can hurt feelings and make things worse.
      Practice relaxation skills. Learning skills to relax and de-stress can also help control your temper when it may flare up. Practice deep-breathing exercises, visualize a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase to yourself, such as "Take it easy." Other proven ways to ease anger include listening to music, writing in a journal and doing yoga.
      "I'm upset you didn't help with the housework this evening,"
    • Getting anger management help
      You can practice many of these anger management strategies on your own. But if your anger seems out of control, is hurting your relationships or makes you feel physically violent or destructive, you may benefit from some help. Here are some ways you can get help to keep your frustrations in check:
      See a psychologist or licensed counselor. Seeing a therapist can help you learn to recognize your anger warning signs before you blow up, and how to cope with your anger. Ask your primary care doctor for a referral to a counselor specializing in anger management. Family and friends also may give you recommendations based on their experiences. Your health insurer, employee assistance program (EAP), clergy, or state or local agencies also may offer recommendations.
    • Take an anger management class. An anger management class can teach you what anger is, how to recognize anger triggers and how to keep your anger under control. These courses can be done individually, with spouses or families, or in groups. In addition to the search methods for a psychologist or counselor, you can find organizations offering anger management courses on the Internet and through your district court.
      Read a book. There are a number of helpful books on anger management. A number of them focus on particular situations, such as anger in teens, anger in men or anger in couples. Many of them are workbooks, with exercises that teach concrete skills.
      Anger and irritability can be signs of an underlying mental health condition, such as depression or bipolar disorder. If your symptoms don't improve, or you have signs or symptoms of anxiety or depression, see a mental health provider for help.