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  1. 1. I often hear fromwomen who cant help but notice thattheir husband or boyfriend is constantlytexting.Many of them find this to beodd.While its commonly seen as absolutely normal for a woman to regularly text her friends, coworkers and family, this can seem suspicious or odd if a man is always doing the same.People often ask me if their man is constantly texting, does this mean hes cheating too?The answer to this question often depends on the context of themessaging and who the texts are going to.I will discuss this in the following article.site here
  2. 2. Men Who Claim Theyre Texting Male Friends:Often, when these women asktheir man who hes texting, hell sometimes tell them hes texting a buddy or amale coworker This can sometimes set off alarm bells because its sometimesconsidered oddor weird for men to text one another Im not sure if this isaccurateor what it says about our society, but the perception is that its notcommon While a man will often message female friends, family members, ofhis girlfriend or wife, (since the women will often initiate this at first) its lesscommon for him to do the same with male friends I suppose its stereotypicalto think that men dont have the patience to sit there and type on small keys tocommunicate with a male friend
  3. 3. But, its my observation that most will just pick up the phone and have a verybrief conversation with another guy since men are more likely to prefer face toface communication with other men Men Who Are Texting Other Women:Does This Always Mean Cheating?:As unlikelyas it may seem that your man istexting a male friend, many women tell me that they would much prefer thisBecause its very tempting to automatically suspect wrongdoing or cheating if aman is texting a woman who isnt his wife or girlfriend Sure, he might be textinghis sister or female cousin
  4. 4. Or,a female coworker may have a quick question But this isnt the situationthat usually comes up More commonly, thewomanasking these questions isnoticing her husband and her boyfriend always texting In other words, hesconstantly typing away on his phones keyboard and hes often laughing orphysically moving away as hes doing this
  5. 5. It just seems suspicious and odd And many women know howanimatedtheirman gets when they are the one messaging him They know how he has atenancyto want to send and receive flirtymessages and photos And its notsuch a big jump to worry that he might be doing this with someone else,especially when you know that youre not the recipient of the messages thatare obviously happening a lot
  6. 6. These are real concerns, but theres not always a clear cutanswer aboutwhether the texting means cheating until you ask him about this or dig a littledeeper if you dont like his answer Men who are always texting are probablynot always cheating (But some of them likely are ) The guy in question couldbe just one of the rare guys who prefers or tolerates text messaging
  7. 7. site here Or, he may be talking to a family member ora male friend Or, hecould be so animated because hes having an inappropriateconversation orexchange with someone female who isnt you People are most often caughtcheating by their cell phones,If you suspect that something is wrong, youroptions are usually to ask him or to try to pay more attention and dig a littledeeper before you make an accusationwhich may ormay not be founded
  8. 8. site here

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