Use of self and self disclosure in coaching

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Workshop slides from the Academy of Executive Coaching (AoEC) Conference 2010 on Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching, with links to working paper in pdf format

Workshop slides from the Academy of Executive Coaching (AoEC) Conference 2010 on Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching, with links to working paper in pdf format

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  • 1. Use of self and self disclosure in coaching Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie AoEC Conference 2010
  • 2. Our Premise
    • Change happens in relationship: “self” is a process
    Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010 How I “show up” is critical All my images / intuitions / thoughts could be relevant
  • 3. Why don’t coaches disclose?
    • Belief that their thoughts / images are not relevant
    • Would take focus away from client
    • Don’t know how to do it with skill
    Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010
  • 4. Using self disclosure…
    • To use self disclosure in coaching, consider
    • WHAT to disclose
    • IF and WHEN to disclose
    • HOW to disclose
    • HOW MUCH to disclose
    Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010
  • 5. So, Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010 What’s going on for me What’s happening between us What I observe in my client Then… What of my reaction might be useful to my client?
  • 6. Guidelines for practice
    • Tune into yourself
    • Selectively disclose
    • Trust the validity of your disclosure
    • Check the impact on the client
    • Be prepared to ‘let go’ of your reaction
    • Use supervision to talk through your own strong reactions.
    Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010
  • 7.
    • These slides were used as part of a workshop on Use of Self and Self-Disclosure in Coaching at the AoEC Conference 2010.
    • A copy of the paper written for the workshop is available at
    • http://www.thegilliepartnership.co.uk/Use-of-self-and-self-disclosure-in-coaching-AoEC-conference-workshop.html
    Use of Self and Self Disclosure in Coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie 2010
  • 8. Use of self and self disclosure in coaching. Marjorie Shackleton & Marion Gillie . AoEC conference, September 2010 Marion Gillie www.TheGilliePartnership.co.uk Marjorie Shackleton [email_address]