1. True Love :
3rd Nov 20112
GPYC. Indonesia

2. Dream Big?
 Vision = Wawasan
 It gives clear goal and mission
 Source of imagination, creativity &
inspiration
 source of Zeal and Drive
 Source of Team work

3. We endeavors to bring our human family together
within every level of society.
When we heal the family….
we heal the world.

4. The traditional family is the cornerstone of society and
the first school where love is learned.
Moral standards exist to protect us and
promote the health of our families.

5.  Family is the very base in providing character
education training and leadership education.

6. A life of true happiness
Logic
of
Building ideal Family Love
Morality, in search of ideal, truth, beauty &
goodness Value
Spiritual
Human behavior 、 eg ： attire 、 food 、 Social &
creation
shelter 、 manners… cultural
Biological law in control ， eg ： Bio
Biological
breathing 、 heart beat 、
sleep 、 sex….. law
Physical law govern every thing: eg: Physical
Jump from high building – injury or die
Human Dimension
Joy & happiness has many level

7. Relationship are Interconnected
individual to Global
Indivi
dual Education
Politi Social
Cultural
c Media & Artistic
Religi Famil Econ
on omic
y
World
Media
Natio Environ
n ment

8. The Challenges: The Feeling About
SEX, sexual organ & sexual things
• Por
n
• Shy
distorted
• Yucky view
•T
• aboo • Bed & B ad
Pleasure

9. Many kinds of unhappiness & problems..
Out of wedlock
AIDS
Orphans
Divorce
Single Parents Wars

10. Family Breakdown
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11. What Is The Most Important To You?
Family
Love Knowledge
Money Special someone
power
House

12. Building Nation of Prosperity,
One Family at a time
 Individual
happiness
 Family stability
 National
strengths

13. The Most Important things
1.Family
2.Love
3.God
4.Money
5.Education
6.Friends

14. Character —
Foundation for Strong Marriage

15. Are They Balanced?
Career Marriage
Preparation Preparation

16. Where to Nurture our Heart?
FAMILY

17. The School
of Love
Ideal Leader & society
Begins from an ideal family

18. Spiritual Moral - Ethical
• Experience God's Love • Character Development
• Learn Principles of Life • Live for Others

19. 4 realm of Heart ( 4 Spheres of Love)
in the Family :
 Parental Heart
 Conjugal Heart
 Sibling’s Heart
 Children’s Heart

21. Natural Order in the Family
Grand
Vertical parents
Individual
Order Order
Parents
Brother Sister Brother Sister Children
Horizontal
Order

22. Natural Order in the Universe

23. Natural Order in the Universe
Center of
Galaxy
Vertical
Order Individual
Order
Sun
Mercury Venus Earth Mars Jupiter
Horizontal Order

24. The Four Realms of Love
 Child’s Love
 Sibling’s Love
 Spouse’s Love
 Parent’s Love

25. Culture & Tradition
Trust • Commitment
• Aspiration
Love
• Principle & value World
Father Mother
Nation
Grow of Heart ・・・
Society
Selfish
Heart
mind
Family

26. Building a High Trust Culture
Trust • Commitment
Integrity • Aspiration
World
• Principle & value
Leader Member
Nation
Transformation begin
s ・・・
Society
Self-interest
Heart
& mind
Family

27. Live for others = Way to maturing
character
Matured Expanded capacity to
give and receive love
Character
Stage Three
Maturing
Stage Two
Character
Stage One

28. Live for others voluntary is a process…
Parental
Expanding the heart
Heart
Parental
Conjugal
Maturing
Sibling
Heart
Children
Unwilling Servant $$$$$
Heart Slave Prisoner

29. PURE love in family
Parents
Younger
Sibling
 4 great love
1. Children‘s
Love husban P.L Wife
d
2. Sibling‘s
Love
Elder
3. Conjugal Sibling Childre
Love n
In the center, There is
Pure Love Based on
4. Parent‘s purity between
husband and wife.
Love

30. Every love & Only Love
100%?
Love for Everyone Love for Only one
Marriage
Love for Everyone “
“ Love for Only one “
he more you share
his love, the happier This love should not be
ou are. Shared.
. Brothers and sisters husband & wife
. Children - Centered on pure love
. Parents

31. True Love & False Love
 Unconditional  conditional
 Live for greater good  Selfish individualism
 Eternal  temporarily, false
 Unchanging &  changeable,
Responsible Irresponsible
 Unique  Give and remember
 Absolute greed
 Give and Forget  Vengeance, enmity
 Bring peace & Happiness  Discriminate
 Bring pain and sorrow
True Love False Love

32. Pure Love & True Love
Unconditional
Giving and forget
Getting bigger
TRUE LOVE For sake of others
Love for everyone
The greatest love
PURE LOVE
Starting point of True love
Love for only one
The most important love

33. Question :
 What is the most precious thing in your
life?
 Why / For what you were born as a
man or women?
 What is the most important / significant
organ in your body?

34. What is the most important organ ?
Love organ
• without love organ, where would true
love blossom and be perfect ?
• where would new life form ?
• How could blood lineage be
passed on ?

35. Love
Life
UM ASIA
Lineage

36. Absolute Sex & True Family
The most
Love
important
organ organ in our
body
 Who is the owner of our sexual organ?
 It’s our spouse !
 Pure love is the Best gift we can offer to our spouse
 Husband & wife give 100% pure love to each other mentally,
spiritually and physically
 From there , we can build an ideal family which accomplish 4 Great
realms of Heart.

37. The Significance of
Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
Conscience
Individual

38. The Significance of
Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
Conscience
Spouse
Individual

39. The Significance of
Sexual Love
With freedom comes responsibility
Conscience
Spouse
Individual
Child

40. Sex is linked to the deepest aspects of our Life
Love
HOLY Sacred
Conscience Sex Life
HOLY LineageSacred

41. Question :
 Why? Why ? Why ?
 Why your love organ is in your spouse hand ?
 If so, then what is the relationship between
you & your love organ ?

42. Freedom & Responsibility:
Individual
• Without restraint
• To be responsible…
to fulfill the greatest

43. Responsible means
 No complains – criticize – contemn
 Find solution
 Take challenges & difficulties as an
opportunity to grow
 That’s the character building

44. Private victory before Public
• Self -Governance
• To be responsible…
to fulfill the greatest

45.  Every entity has its purpose of existence
 If we don’t use it as it was intended….
Sex in Marriage
=>Bring Birth,
Happiness
Mature Conjugal Love,
Right Create Lineage
Use
Love
Organ
Wrong Sadness
Use Prostitute,
Bitterness
Sex affairs
Problems
Premarital Sex

46. Importance of Abstinence &
Keeping Pure Love Before
Marriage
 The most precious gift
offered at time of marriage.
 The gift of pure love has the
highest value
 The most important point in
the education for young
people

47. 貞潔 婚前性行為Sex
Pure Love Premarital
把那一個給最心愛的終身伴
Which one you will choose for your
侶呢？ most loving spouse ？

48. True love power bring true happiness
Physical Spiritual
Body Mind
growth
growth
Mature character

49. Mature man & women
Spiritual Love
Body Mind Body Mind
心與體合一
Happiness
遵守真愛的法則
Instinctual Love

50. Spouse’s Sphere
Draws on Other Spheres

51. Qualities Most Valued by
Married Couples
 Caring
 Honesty
 Trust
 Fidelity
 Commitment
 Willingness to
sacrifice
 Sense of humor

52. Selecting a Marriage Partner
Less Successful
Outer Traits focus
 Attractiveness  Character
 Wealth  Beliefs
 Status  Ability to love

53. A life of true happiness
Logic
of
Building ideal Family Love
Morality, in search of ideal, truth, beauty &
goodness Value
Spiritual
Human behavior 、 eg ： attire 、 food 、 Social &
creation
shelter 、 manners… cultural
Biological law in control ， eg ： Bio
Biological
breathing 、 heart beat 、
sleep 、 sex….. law
Physical law govern every thing: eg: Physical
Jump from high building – injury or die
Human Dimension
Joy & happiness has many level

54. Parental love – Should be True Parents love
Heaven
Father Mother
True love
True life
Children
True lineage

55. Character Development
through Four Spheres of Love
Higher spheres —
 Founded on lower spheres
 More unselfish & responsible
 Require effort

56. Life, Love and Lineage in Family
Son & Daughter Husband & Wife
Birth
Getting
Marriage older...death
Blessing and after
life
Childhood(brother & sister) Mother and Father

57. “4 Great Realms of Heart”
* Parental Love * * Conjugal Love *
* Love
*
* Support
Fundamental
* Sacrificial
* Trust
* living together in harmony
* Love
Unconditional
* Believe
* Respect
* Rely
* Serve
* Help
* Sibling’s Love * * Children's Love
*

58. Nation’s Future: Based on Family
Jonathan Edwards was the first president of
Princeton University and one of the key religious
leaders during the "Great Awakening" in America.
Max Jukes. Jukes was a Dutch immigrant that
arrived in New York in the early 1700's. He was an
atheist, an alcoholic who couldn’t hold a job, and
married a prostitute.

59. Nation’s Future: Based on Family
JONATHAN EDWARDS(1,394 descendants traced)
13 college presidents
65 college professors
30 judges
100 lawyers
60 physicians
75 army and navy officers
100 pastors
60 prominent authors
80 public servants in other capacities including
governors and ministers to foreign countries
3 United Stated senators
1 Vice-President of the United States

60. Nation’s Future: Based on Family
MAX JUKES
?
?
(903 descendants traced)
310 delinquents who never finished
school and died in poverty
145 confirmed drunkards
190 public prostitutes
285 had sexually transmitted diseases
150 spent an average of 13 years in prison

61. Nation’s Future: Based on Family
• Strong Family, marital fidelity
• art, science
• Rise of • culture
Civilization • creativity
Family breakdown, pre-marital,
extra-marital sex
Decline & Death of Civilizations
(within 3 generations)
NO EXCEPTIONS!
Prof. J.D. Unwin’s Study of 88 Civilizations
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62. Conclusion
Owner of my Love Organ is my Spouse
(keeping purity of mind and body)
The value of Love organ:
Palace of Love, Life, Lineage, and conscience
Rule of LOVE that brings us Happiness:
True love for everyone
Pure love for only one
Make it sure, Keep it pure!

63. Conclusion
Therefore, the proper use of conjugal
love, is not only central to the well-
being of the family, it is critical for
social harmony and world peace. One
Family Under God can be established
by creating ideal families centered on
true love.

64. Pure Love Pledge
The pure relationship of love between a
man and a woman is a sacred gift, to be
cherished and honored for the sake of
building a true family, a healthy society,
and world peace.
Once that love is consummated, it
should never be broken.
Therefore, from now on,
I commit myself to:

65.  Respect and honor the purity in myself
and others;
 Practice true love as a child, friend,
sibling, and parent;
 Sharing my pure love only with my future
spouse (Keeping purity);
 Refrain from all sexual relationships
before marriage;
 Dedicate myself to absolute fidelity within
marriage;
 Encourage others to do the same.