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Relationships: Do You Want To Be In A Relationship?

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Are you waiting for a man who does not want to be in a relationship with you? Have you given up on getting his attention? Read this article and get ideas on how to have that relationship.

Are you waiting for a man who does not want to be in a relationship with you? Have you given up on getting his attention? Read this article and get ideas on how to have that relationship.


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  • 1. Copyright © Elsabe Smit 2010 www.TheIntuitionCoach.com Relationships: If He Hasnt Called You By Now, He Wont By Elsabe Smit, Author of It’s Over! Move On And Feel Good About Yourself Claim your FREE e-book Relationships in Perspective worth £6.97 AND A FREE copy of the video Why relationships Never Fail worth £8.87Why is it that some women find it so difficult to let go of a man who is not interested ina relationship with them?I often speak to women who have their eye on a particular man who is not responsive.These women will do anything to get the man to respond to them. They will thinkabout him all the time, and even send him long emails and regular text messages.When they get no response or a non-committal response, they look for ways to makethe man love them.Most of the time these women don’t want to hear that the man is not interested in arelationship with them - and often not even in a friendship.And the poor man cannot run away fast or far enough. Often their only “sin” was afriendly greeting or an innocent compliment.When a man says “you look beautiful today”, it is not a marriage proposal. It is alsonot the beginning of a relationship. It is often not even interest in you as a potentialpartner. It is just a bit of flattery.When a woman regards the most insignificant attention from a man as the beginning ofsomething serious, that woman needs to ask herself why she so desperately needsattention and confirmation from someone else to establish her self-worth.Even in our enlightened age men don’t like to be the prey. A small handful of men areegotistic enough to enjoy the attention, but even these men feel crowded soon enough.In one instance a woman told me that she knew the man was going to marry her,because even though they had not had contact for over ten years, she is convinced oftheir “spiritual connection”.I have no doubt that such a “spiritual connection” exists between these women and theCopyright © Elsabe Smit 2010 www.TheIntuitionCoach.com
  • 2. Copyright © Elsabe Smit 2010 www.TheIntuitionCoach.commen who spend much energy evading them.Sadly the connection is one-sided – the woman fixates on the man and gets all herenergy from him. This must leave the man tired for no obvious reason, because hemay not be consciously aware of the woman using him as a source of energy.I always ensure that any guidance I give to clients is honest and responsible. It isimmensely frustrating to deal with clients who do not hear a word I am saying, andwho want to blame me for not helping them to get any interest from the man.If such clients then leave me because I did not tell them what they wanted to hear, Icount my blessings. To me it means that they will not use me as a source of energy,and I can help other people.If a woman needs to get her energy from another person, she also needs to work onher self-belief. We all are able to generate our own energy and share it with others.Where a woman believes that she is not capable of generating her own energy, sheoften suppresses the energy that she has. This makes her less creative, and suchenergy blockages can result in dis-ease of the female reproductive systems.I have seen countless instances where such women discovered their own strengthoutside of a relationship and then had a lovely relationship with a man who wanted tobe with them. such an equal partnership works far better than a predator=preysituation which eventually results in energy blockages in both partners.If you are waiting for a specific man to show some fleeting interest in you again, myrecommendation is to forget him, and find an interesting hobby to spend your time andenergy on.Before you know it you will be pursued and wooed for the interesting person you are,rather than be avoided for the desperate person you were. Visit http://goo.gl/1nysE for your FREE copy of Relationships in Perspective worth £6.97 AND A FREE copy of the video Why relationships Never Fail worth £8.87If you want to have a happy and fulfilling relationship, then you may want to invest inthe e-book It’s Over! Move On And Feel Good About Yourself.Copyright © Elsabe Smit 2010 www.TheIntuitionCoach.com