The woman's boyfriend of two years has recently started experiencing stress at work that is negatively impacting their relationship, causing him to withdraw from her, gain weight, have a temper, and have a declining sex life. While he says he remains committed to her, she feels they are growing apart. The advice is for her to encourage him to seek professional help for signs of depression, help him realize the downsides of his stressful job, and consider if he may be facing challenges he can't cope with or has outgrown the job and it's time to leave.