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  • 1. Igor Malenkos Emails in 2011From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, August 15, 2011 8:13 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Missing MilaMy position is still the same- Mila needs a healthy mother that will not subject her to any unnecessarymedical examination of her private parts each time she goes back to see her mother (YOU), a motherthat would not have her tested unnecessary for drugs(FOR DRUGS!), a mother that would stopmanufacturing horrendous and disgusting false accusation, a mother that would think how all of thesesick games will affect her future (because it will all be there on the internet, all of the garbage you andyour friends cooked up!), a mother that would STOP telling her to recite FALSE things that neverhappened and that could only be product of your mind, of someone that is willing to do anything to haveme permanently removed from her life, by being accused of being a pedophile, drugging her, rapping herand all of the sick sick things you are so heavily invested in manufacturing! When you can be thatmother, I will certainly love for Mila to have you in her life as much as possible.But until then I will have to ask you to see her supervised-if you missed her that much and cared abouther you would consider doing that. All the money and time you spent on all this garbage so far couldhave covered many many visits with Mila. It is obviously more important to pay Pickering for harassingpeople and manufacturing anything you could use to discredit me and destroy me then to see Mila.We checked yesterday to see if there was email from you for Mila as you indicated - there was none.Today none. No phone calls ever, no responses to her calls ever. She sent you cards-no thank you Milafor the cards. You indicated "care" packages - we have received none so far and the only packages yousent before were few toys at school back in early spring. Child support-none for months now. Not even aquestion whether she has or lacks anything, clothing etc. In case you care-she does not. She would loveto have a normal mother, one that would stop doing to her what you have been doing all this time. Trythat.If you will send an e-mail to her I will read it to Mila and write the response with her together. She will beable to do this alone soon-she is very proficient with the PC. We will send pictures again either today ortomorrow-as soon as we download them.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Missing MilaDate: Sun, 14 Aug 2011 17:43:20 -0400Igor,Thank you for the pictures.I too miss Mila very much; as I have told you many, many times.
  • 2. Mila needs her mother.I would appreciate it very much if I could spend the time with her asordered by Judge Moskowitz.Please let me know if you will permit this to happen.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, August 13, 2011 11:53 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject:I’ll send more later on today..I am having trouble resizing them right now.Mila is doing well, she has grown up a lot. She eats well, lots of new healthy things. She swim alot and she is out in the park, the beach and the playground every day. She has/meets lots of kidsand enjoys playing with them. She is ready for school again. Although she still likes stayinghome with the dogs and having a chance to walk and play with them in the park and the beachmore then school, she needs being among friends at school again. She is very much into dancing,she can catch rhythm very well and has some really cool moves. She loves the Circus Smircusand she would love to attend their summer camp. She still loves all animals and now plays animaginary game where she lives in Australia and takes care various animals. She them comeshere in Maine to visit and get more animals to take with her back in Australia. She strums theguitar regularly and soon she will be ready for real lessons. We are working on the biking skills,and hopefully by the end of the summer she will be able to bike without supporting wheels. Shehas developed good taste for choosing her clothing and likes matching them. Reading andwriting are going very well and she loves science and nature programs a lot. She always busy asyou know and enjoys learning everything.She misses you and I am really hoping you can move in a another direction asap. It is really ashame that you rather do everything to convince people that I am a pedophile and a drug abuser,that I drug Mila and sexually abuse her, then bring her for all kinds of abusive unnecessaryexaminations to prove these not existing crazy things, then stop the nonsense and just be amother to her that she needs. I am truly sad about this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 3. Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, August 13, 2011 11:09 AMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: RE:I read the email to her and she asked me to write back for her –Hi mama,I read the email with papa-thank you! I miss you and I love you and I sent cards to Sorrento.Here are few pictures from me- Hope to see you soon! Love you!MilaAlso, it really is up to you to make this easier once for all for Mila-YOU need to STOP spendingall your time finding more people and resources to back up false accusation and create havoc inour lives, especially in Mila’s. It is due to your horrendous behavior that we are where we arenow. You rather subject Mila to all kinds of terrible unnecessary examinations and ramp up thehalf of the country to achieve exactly what you have tried from the beginning- remove me fromher life. Instead of just being her mom and accepting she needs both parents. I feel sad about thesituation, very sad for Mila, but you have gone way too far with your abusive behavior towardsher and I am not going to allow you to subject her to more of the unnecessary examinations ofher private parts and tell her that I have done inappropriate things to her, while trying very hardto deport me or put me in jail for nothing-for loving my child and being her dad. Do you realizewhat you are doing to her? You create a horrible situation from nonexistent problems, things youdecide to invent and sell to people as truth, things that will devastate her when she grows up andlearns more about them. What are you thinking??Really? And how is all of this you are trying sohard to achieve more important that being with your child??? You like more to play a victim inyour self-designed game of lies then simply be a mom to her. You spend all the money and timeon creating lies and selling them to everyone that is willing to buy them, instead of being Mila’smother? How sad is that and what would it take for you to stop?I will protect Mila from the things you have repeatedly put her trough- only you can stop this,since you created it and are invested heavily in making it real. I want Mila to have a mom that isthere for her all the time, just as I want her to have a father that is there all the time. I havealways wanted this and never done anything to prevent you from being her mother. But, youdon’t want the same and you want me out of her life and you will do anything for it-ANYTHING! It is really up to you to find a way to stop this, to stop emotionally and physicallyabusing Mila, because what you do to her is simply that! I have been asking you to move to abetter direction for a very very long time now. Instead you spend all your time to destroy me andeveryone else that is not buying your stories and put Mila through hell. It blows my mind thatyou rather not see Mila and play a victim than stop what you are doing-your game is moreimportant to you than Mila. This shows over and over again that you will never understand whata child needs more then everything in the world.
  • 4. I have absolutely no hope that you will ever stop doing what you are doing and start simplybeing a mother that Mila needs. I would love to be wrong about this.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, August 12, 2011 5:47 PMTo: igor malenkoSubject:Igor,I would keep asking if I can see Mila, I miss her terribly and I can’t imagine howdifficult it must be for Mila to be without her mother for nearly 5 months, almost ahalf a year, a very long time in a 4 year’s life; however, I understand it is yourposition that you will not let me see Mila unsupervised until a court hearing withJudge Moskowitz.I will start emailing Mila every morning to say hello. I hope you will read theseemails to her. I will also start, again, sending cards and care packages as I wasdoing every day until the protection order, which was dismissed, was in place.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, August 01, 2011 12:39 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My position on the visitation is still the same as before. Everything else will be addressed at the hearingon the 15th of August.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Mon, 1 Aug 2011 11:14:18 -0400 Igor,
  • 5. I take this to indicate you are still refusing to allow Mila to be with me, perthe court order.If you could please answer the questions I have been asking for severalmonths:Are still employed at IDEXX?The full name of your current live-in girlfriend?Who provides child care for Mila?Why Mila was taken out of pre-school?Did you enroll Mila in any summer camps or activities?Thank you.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, July 26, 2011 8:33 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Lori,We need to have a discussion about the elephant in the room -- you disparaging me to Mila, making falseclaims about me, coaching Mila to say false things into a recording device, and you bringing Mila in forunnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. These are the reasons that I have decided to preventyou from having unsupervised contact with Mila. This is physical and emotional abuse.You may feel great about how yesterday went for you, but Judge Moskowitz has not yet seen theevidence of the elephant in the room, which he will see at the next hearing.I dont want Mila separated from her mother. I want Mila and you to have a healthy relationship. Butthat cannot happen if everytime you are with her, you and the people around you are saying bad thingsabout me, tormenting our lives with false abuse claims and dragging Mila in for unnecessary medicalexaminations and drug tests.You have never once discussed this issue with me. It is not going away just because we no longer havea PFH Order against you.If you refuse to have this discussion, then I will continue to offer you only supervised visits with Mila.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.com
  • 6. Subject: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:15:00 -0400Igor,May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation? If so, what time and where.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, July 26, 2011 8:33 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Lori,We need to have a discussion about the elephant in the room -- you disparaging me to Mila, making falseclaims about me, coaching Mila to say false things into a recording device, and you bringing Mila in forunnecessary medical examinations and drug tests. These are the reasons that I have decided to preventyou from having unsupervised contact with Mila. This is physical and emotional abuse.You may feel great about how yesterday went for you, but Judge Moskowitz has not yet seen theevidence of the elephant in the room, which he will see at the next hearing.I dont want Mila separated from her mother. I want Mila and you to have a healthy relationship. Butthat cannot happen if everytime you are with her, you and the people around you are saying bad thingsabout me, tormenting our lives with false abuse claims and dragging Mila in for unnecessary medicalexaminations and drug tests.You have never once discussed this issue with me. It is not going away just because we no longer havea PFH Order against you.If you refuse to have this discussion, then I will continue to offer you only supervised visits with Mila.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation?Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:15:00 -0400
  • 7. Igor,May I pick-up Mila on Friday for visitation? If so, what time and where.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 17, 2011 2:12 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or ScratchBakeryImportance: HighLori,Michael has spoken with Mark Dalton from DHHS (Rebecca Austins boss) and he has learned thatDHHS is unsubstantiating your latest, false claims about me, and that DHHS supports me using mydecision-making authority to deny you any unsupervised visitation. Mr. Dalton called you but you haverefused to speak with him or call him back. At our suggestion, he will be reaching out to you to offervisitation with Mila over the weekend, supervised by DHHS. It is very sad that Mila has not seen you orheard your voice or had any communication with you in over a month. I dont understand why you arentmaking an effort to let her know you love her and are thinking about her. In any case, no one heresupports you and your efforts to drag Mila away from me. No one. If you want to see her, then pleasecall Mark Dalton back and arrange it. I am sure she would love to see you. I am also sure she is veryhappy for not having to go trough more of your abusive practices.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: FW: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or ScratchBakeryDate: Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:35:08 -0400Igor,As you know Mila’s summer vacation time with me starting last Friday on 10June. You have been refusing to abide by the schedule.“Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to staywith me again until Sunday July 24th.” This was a month’s notice, as I am requiredto do by the latest court order.
  • 8. I have 21 make-up days now from the time you have been withholding her whichputs us at 2 August which is when I will return Mila to you. Mila and I plan tospend her summer vacation in Sorrento.I will pick Mila up today, around 4:00pm, at your house or at Scratch Bakery, asyou prefer.Please indicate if you plan to allow this visit to occur.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation scheduleYou are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one monthnotification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That iswhen a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decides whether or not youwould be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future.That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same orderobligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now.You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none of themincludes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school.That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent and it alsopointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on the important andessential issues concerning Mila and her well being.You dont seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made false claims ofabuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about her papa. You havebrought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medical providers, repeatedly, inorder to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You have extracted and frozen Milas urine forfuture drug tests and apparently kept her excrements around for the same purpose.You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict.You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Orders and stateand federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to have any contactthroughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court order that gives you 3 weekendsper month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept her without any approval from my sideor prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned her yesterday (drop her off at her school withoutany notice to me) after I contacted the FBI.You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probably withthe assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick.
  • 9. I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so. I amthe PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Mila is with you,she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is being prodded and probed andtested for conditions that do not exist.If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself to JudgeMoskowitz.If you decide to stop at Mila’s school without any prior notice to me and try to remove Mila from herschool on the days other than you are allowed to have her, I can ASSURE YOU that the police will bewith you in a matter of minutes. Everyone that is aiding you in these attempts to take Mila away fromher home and from me unlawfully, will be held accountable – that includes your ex-husband Patrick andyour private investigator Pickering.I am looking forward in seeing you in court, here in Maine. Also, looking forward in hearing you and yourex-husband Patrick explain the scheme thoroughly. I am glad I kept the records of his involvement in ourlife and this case from the beginning. I am sure you both still believe what you have told me long timeago that “justice is something for poor people”.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:04 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: summer vacation scheduleIgor,Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila duringthe summer. I am doing so now.Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay withme again until Sunday July 24th.If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 Mayuntil Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court orderedone month notification period and will not allow this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 17, 2011 8:11 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; rebecca.austin@maine.gov; mark.r.dalton@maine.gov;
  • 10. alicia.cumming@maine.gov; dean.staffieri@maine.govSubject: RE: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or ScratchBakeryImportance: HighYou are not welcome here and if you show up, the following will occur: -- the police will arrive and you willbe served, finally, with the Motion to Modify and the Motion for Contempt, and you will then be removedfrom my property with a summons for criminal trespass.No unsupervised visits will occur with Mila until the court addresses this issue-I have been very clearabout this. You need to accept service and show up in court.Stop e-mailing me directly and send anything further to my attorney - Michael Waxman.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: FW: summer vacation schedule I will pick Mila up today around 4 at your home or ScratchBakeryDate: Fri, 17 Jun 2011 06:35:08 -0400Igor,As you know Mila’s summer vacation time with me starting last Friday on 10June. You have been refusing to abide by the schedule.“Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting10 June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to staywith me again until Sunday July 24th.” This was a month’s notice, as I am requiredto do by the latest court order.I have 21 make-up days now from the time you have been withholding her whichputs us at 2 August which is when I will return Mila to you. Mila and I plan tospend her summer vacation in Sorrento.I will pick Mila up today, around 4:00pm, at your house or at Scratch Bakery, asyou prefer.Please indicate if you plan to allow this visit to occur.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation schedule
  • 11. You are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one monthnotification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That iswhen a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decides whether or not youwould be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future.That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same orderobligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now.You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none of themincludes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school.That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent and it alsopointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on the important andessential issues concerning Mila and her well being.You dont seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made false claims ofabuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about her papa. You havebrought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medical providers, repeatedly, inorder to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You have extracted and frozen Milas urine forfuture drug tests and apparently kept her excrements around for the same purpose.You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict.You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Orders and stateand federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to have any contactthroughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court order that gives you 3 weekendsper month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept her without any approval from my sideor prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned her yesterday (drop her off at her school withoutany notice to me) after I contacted the FBI.You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probably withthe assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick.I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so. I amthe PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Mila is with you,she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is being prodded and probed andtested for conditions that do not exist.If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself to JudgeMoskowitz.If you decide to stop at Mila’s school without any prior notice to me and try to remove Mila from herschool on the days other than you are allowed to have her, I can ASSURE YOU that the police will bewith you in a matter of minutes. Everyone that is aiding you in these attempts to take Mila away fromher home and from me unlawfully, will be held accountable – that includes your ex-husband Patrick andyour private investigator Pickering.I am looking forward in seeing you in court, here in Maine. Also, looking forward in hearing you and yourex-husband Patrick explain the scheme thoroughly. I am glad I kept the records of his involvement in ourlife and this case from the beginning. I am sure you both still believe what you have told me long timeago that “justice is something for poor people”.
  • 12. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:04 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: summer vacation scheduleIgor,Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila duringthe summer. I am doing so now.Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay withme again until Sunday July 24th.If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 Mayuntil Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court orderedone month notification period and will not allow this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, June 06, 2011 10:10 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Mila is not in school where is Mila?Mila is fine and she is with me. Stop harrassing me and following me around-I will contact thepolice again about both of you and Pickering lingering around my house and following us.I will block your email on both my e-mail addresses as of now and I will block your phone callsas well. If you need anything concerning Mila you have to go through Michael Waxman. He ismy attorney and you can let him know when would you like to call Mila (you never do itanyway) and I will make it available for you to talk to her.I will send you a weekly update on Mila to your Sorrento address and if anything needs to becommunicated in addition to this, Michael will send it to you in an e-mail or a letter.I will again ask you to accept service so we can get in court and move forward.
  • 13. From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Mila is not in school where is Mila?Date: Mon, 6 Jun 2011 09:47:25 -0400Igor,Mila is not in school. Please let me know where Mila is.Thank you.Lori Handrahan, Ph.D.Sorrento Maine+1-207-812-0191No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 4:16 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?She is with me- please stop sending the same message over and over. You can call her if youcare to hear her voice- she is taking a nap now.On Jun 5, 2011, at 3:01 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Please let me know where Mila is.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 1:15 PMTo: Igor MalenkoSubject: RE: Where is Mila?
  • 14. Igor,Please let me know where Mila is.Thank you.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 9:45 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?Your source is wrong and it sounds like you are following me- creepy and unwanted. I willreport it to the police, just as I reported your harassment last Friday.On Jun 5, 2011, at 4:02, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Where is Mila?Looks like you left home with her sometime on Friday night and haven’t returned.Please let me know where Mila is and how she is doing.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 15. From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, June 05, 2011 9:45 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Where is Mila?Your source is wrong and it sounds like you are following me- creepy and unwanted. I willreport it to the police, just as I reported your harassment last Friday.On Jun 5, 2011, at 4:02, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Where is Mila?Looks like you left home with her sometime on Friday night and haven’t returned.Please let me know where Mila is and how she is doing.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:29 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:If you show up, you will deal with the police -
  • 16. From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:25:45 -0400Igor,I’m not sure why you sound so angry. I am simply trying to be with Milafor my weekend visit.I am also trying to co-parent with you in the most positive way. If thereare some medical records that concern you, please share these so we candiscuss them.Thank you.I’ll come by the house later to pick Mila up. I miss her very much.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:17 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I AM REFUSING AND I WILL REFUSE IN THE FUTURE UNTIL WE GET IN COURT!I WILL FILE A PFH IF YOU KEEP HARASSING ME OR SHOW UP AT MY HOUSE!STOP HARASSING ME!YOU WILL SEE THE PICTURES AND THE JUDGE WILL TOO!From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:11:42 -0400Igor,So you are refusing to allow Mila to be with me this weekend?Also, I have no idea what pictures you are talking about, that youmentioned in an earlier email.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:06 AM
  • 17. To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pickMila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!!I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutelynot welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:00:31 -0400Igor,If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up atnoon at your house, and I will see you then.Very much looking forward to seeing Mila.All best,From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court!If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I willcontact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicateabout anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 08:21:20 -0400Igor,So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school?
  • 18. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address theissues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, Iwill file a PFH against both of you.I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over andover again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. Thatis why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. Youhave no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say thishere and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer orhave you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When youare ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400Igor,Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me?Or should I come to your house?We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.Please let me know. Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:17 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I AM REFUSING AND I WILL REFUSE IN THE FUTURE UNTIL WE GET IN COURT!
  • 19. I WILL FILE A PFH IF YOU KEEP HARASSING ME OR SHOW UP AT MY HOUSE!STOP HARASSING ME!YOU WILL SEE THE PICTURES AND THE JUDGE WILL TOO!From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:11:42 -0400Igor,So you are refusing to allow Mila to be with me this weekend?Also, I have no idea what pictures you are talking about, that youmentioned in an earlier email.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:06 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pickMila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!!I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutelynot welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:00:31 -0400Igor,If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up atnoon at your house, and I will see you then.Very much looking forward to seeing Mila.All best,
  • 20. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court!If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I willcontact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicateabout anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 08:21:20 -0400Igor,So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address theissues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, Iwill file a PFH against both of you.I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over andover again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. Thatis why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. Youhave no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say thishere and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer orhave you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When youare ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400Igor,
  • 21. Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me?Or should I come to your house?We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.Please let me know. Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 9:06 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:It is not ok and I will not respond any longer - I made it clear that I am not going to allow you to pickMila up anywhere until we GET IN COURT!!!I will contact the police now and if you show up you will deal with them. You are absolutelynot welcome on the property where we live and I am tired of being harassed by you!From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 09:00:31 -0400Igor,If I don’t hear back from you, I’ll assume it is fine for me to pick Mila up atnoon at your house, and I will see you then.Very much looking forward to seeing Mila.All best,From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 22. You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court!If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I willcontact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicateabout anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 08:21:20 -0400Igor,So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address theissues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, Iwill file a PFH against both of you.I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over andover again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. Thatis why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. Youhave no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say thishere and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer orhave you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When youare ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400Igor,Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me?Or should I come to your house?
  • 23. We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.Please let me know. Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1890 / Virus Database: 2108/4690 - Release Date: 12/19/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 8:27 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You will not pick Mila up anywhere until we get in court!If you come over or send me another e-mail that you are attempting to come over to my place, I willcontact the police and file a PFH right away. Stop harassing me immediately. If you need to communicateabout anything, do it trough Michael, my attorney.Mila will not be at school, she will be with me.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 3 Jun 2011 08:21:20 -0400Igor,So shall I pick Mila up at your house today or will she be at school?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address theissues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, Iwill file a PFH against both of you.I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over andover again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. Thatis why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. Youhave no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say this
  • 24. here and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer orhave you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When youare ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400Igor,Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me?Or should I come to your house?We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.Please let me know. Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, June 03, 2011 7:46 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My answer is the same as last week and the week before. Only after meeting in court to address theissues you have and still are creating we can discuss how and when the visits are going to take place.If you linger around my house. I will file a PFH right away. If your private investigator does the same, Iwill file a PFH against both of you.I have seen the pictures of some of the visits with Mila to the hospitals and her being examined over andover again because of your continuous false claims. You are not going to do that to Mila ever again. Thatis why I am not going to allow the visits to take place until the judge has a chance to hear all of this. Youhave no idea how disturbing that all is for Mila. She is afraid to tell you to stop, but she does say thishere and in front of other people that will confirm it in court. She is not willing to hear it any longer orhave you bring her to yet another examination of her private parts or yet another drug testing. When youare ready to be a normal mother to her, it would be a great gift to her.Are you going to accept service so we can get in court as soon as possible?
  • 25. From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Thu, 2 Jun 2011 17:09:44 -0400Igor,Will I be able to pick Mila up at school tomorrow for her weekend with me? Orshould I come to your house?We can also meet at the Bakery at Willard Square.Please let me know. Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:35 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:She is with me, I am not working today - I will not be able to read e-mails any longer until later today-From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 09:32:35 -0400Igor,I didn’t realize you were in a legal position to block Mila’s time with mewhile we have joint custody.I ask you again—when will I see Mila?Is she is school today or home with you?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:17 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 26. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:She is with me, she is well and happy -Did you file papers and will you accept service, so we can move on and try to resolve the issues? I amnot allowing the visits to take place until the judges order - I have serious concerns about Milas wellbeing and you have been timely and properly informed about this- trough me and trough my attorneyMichael Waxman. Feel free to contact him for anything further concerning Mila and the legal processaround the current situation.If you try to linger around our house or try to follow me or let your private investigator do this, I will filePFH immediately. I have already informed the police about your previous attempts and I will be in touchwith them asap if you are in my or Milas vicinity and linger or follow us. I have also told my landlord tocall the police in case you you or your investigator ignore me and linger on and around the property,whether we are home or not.We need to get in court asap if you want this to get resolved just as I do.Mila is ok, she had two shots on Wednesday, DtaP and IPV. On one spot, the DtaP there was a bit ofredness and swelling yesterday, at the other no reaction. We called the doctor and she reassured us thatit was a common minor reaction that should be gone within few days. I will keep you up to date on herwell being and overall progress. I have scheduled a regular visit with our primary doctor to follow up onthe rest of the schedule. I will inform you timely about everything. I also have pictures from Milasballet performance that you missed but said you were attending. I will send them to you. I will not be onthe internet until later this afternoon or evening.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 08:30:40 -0400Igor,When will I see Mila? Where is she?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 27, 2011 9:17 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:She is with me, she is well and happy -
  • 27. Did you file papers and will you accept service, so we can move on and try to resolve the issues? I amnot allowing the visits to take place until the judges order - I have serious concerns about Milas wellbeing and you have been timely and properly informed about this- trough me and trough my attorneyMichael Waxman. Feel free to contact him for anything further concerning Mila and the legal processaround the current situation.If you try to linger around our house or try to follow me or let your private investigator do this, I will filePFH immediately. I have already informed the police about your previous attempts and I will be in touchwith them asap if you are in my or Milas vicinity and linger or follow us. I have also told my landlord tocall the police in case you you or your investigator ignore me and linger on and around the property,whether we are home or not.We need to get in court asap if you want this to get resolved just as I do.Mila is ok, she had two shots on Wednesday, DtaP and IPV. On one spot, the DtaP there was a bit ofredness and swelling yesterday, at the other no reaction. We called the doctor and she reassured us thatit was a common minor reaction that should be gone within few days. I will keep you up to date on herwell being and overall progress. I have scheduled a regular visit with our primary doctor to follow up onthe rest of the schedule. I will inform you timely about everything. I also have pictures from Milasballet performance that you missed but said you were attending. I will send them to you. I will not be onthe internet until later this afternoon or evening.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject:Date: Fri, 27 May 2011 08:30:40 -0400Igor,When will I see Mila? Where is she?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:10 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:My e-mails have been very clear - nothing ambiguous in there. If you do not read them, I will not replyany longer. It is clear where I stand on everything concerning Mila and you need to respond accordingly.I need to see the medical documents you are referring to asap-we have an appointment for tomorrowafternoon. Do not make it more inconvenient for Mila and her vaccine schedule-if you have a record thatthere was a DTaP administered properly and according the standards for it, show it. Dont play with thisissue.
  • 28. Read the e-mails and read my responses. Reply to the issues I am addressing and we can movefurther, otherwise I will get in court with or without you. It is better if you show your self and explainyour actions.I am not playing around Milas well being any longer. You had a chance to behave like a normal parentand you chose otherwise-now lets get in court and solve it. It is only you that is slowing things down.I will respond to e-mails concerning Milas well being and concerning issues around court. I will not playalong with your games.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE:Date: Tue, 24 May 2011 09:38:28 -0400Igor,Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up this Friday for her weekend withme?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You have not been clear about what she has and has not and have refused to consider any of themunless it was suitable for you to take her abroad !The medical records show no DtaP – send me the records today! No e-mails, but the actual records!From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:22 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up on Friday to spend the weekendwith me?BTW, she has had tenus, dtap, as you are aware. I sent you emails about theseshots when we received them at Ellsworth hospital.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 29. You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anythingchanged.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what theschedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk aboutvacations and other things.You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two monthsnow-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparentlyto resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of thisaside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have beenforcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you butyou need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or makeit acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her firstvaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to anyof the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on anairplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so faryou were successful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her wellbeing too. Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk toher. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead ofprivate investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything forher to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you orlet you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week ofAugust. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment formy weekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?
  • 30. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 2:13 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE: RE:If you or any of your companions show up at the house I will file a PFA against you- stopharassing me. Mila stays here until we meet in court and it is decided that you are fit tocoparent-On May 20, 2011, at 1:36 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,That is fine. What time shall I pick Mila up at your house? Or shall we meet atWhole Foods?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE:Mila is with me and she is where she lives- in her home here. "undisclosed" locations are the oneyou have been keeping her for the 3 weeks.Accept service or file papers so we can see get in court sooner and resolve the latest problemsyou created. Stop playing games with Milas wellbeing.
  • 31. Read the courts decision again!On May 20, 2011, at 8:38, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,So you are keeping Mila in an undisclosed location on the day I am legally allowedto pick her up for my weekend visits?I’m just wondering, did someone make you judge? Or it is you are so sureMoskowitz is in your pocket you can do as you please, the court order be damned?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Kathy Rogers; MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:Mila will skip school today - I have the day off.On May 19, 2011, at 1:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Dear Kathy,What is your position? Will you prevent me from picking her up from school onFriday?
  • 32. I refuse to put Mila, and the other children at the pre-school, in the position ofwitnessing any kind of stressful transfer, raised voices, or even the mildest ofarguments.I fear picking Mila up at school, what should be normal routine activity, but giventhe slander and lies you have been willing to say about me—a woman and motheryou do not even know—I do fear that you would do Mr. Waxman’s and Igor’sbidding and create an altercation at the school in front of my daughter and otherchildren.I need to know your position before I pick Mila up in order to avoid anythingnegative occurring in front of Mila or the other children.Thank you for letting me know your position.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2011 10:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Kathy Rogers; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: RE:I will make sure that you can be served the court papers as soon as you show up there-regardlessof the time or the day. I will alert the police and the DHHS as well.
  • 33. If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stophiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting itanyway.Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week andMichael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husbandPatrick are planning to file.Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that Iam a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail”and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keeptrying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately inany way.I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of youdecides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to takeMila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.You took Mila and kept her for three weeks, without being allowed this. There is no pre-schoolvacation you refer to and there is no “make-up” time. You had Mila more than you were allowedand if you want this to get resolved sooner rather than loosing time on playing games, you needto accept service and/or file your papers in court. I am not going to permit Mila to be exposedagain to your continuous emotional abuse.Also, you have not paid child support for two months now, while you spend the money onprivate investigators and other things that you give priority over Mila’s school. DHHS will be intouch with you about the child support as well.I would wait on any vacation planning until we get in court first. I would save the money youhave for vacation for the child support you are not paying, if I were you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 4:17 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:
  • 34. Igor,Will you oppose my court ordered time with Mila this weekend? I plan to pick herup at school on Friday and return her on Sunday—per my normal visit time.I would like confirmation on the summer vacation and 5 days of make-up timeplease.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: RE:Mila is with me and she is where she lives- in her home here. "undisclosed" locations are the oneyou have been keeping her for the 3 weeks.Accept service or file papers so we can see get in court sooner and resolve the latest problemsyou created. Stop playing games with Milas wellbeing.Read the courts decision again!On May 20, 2011, at 8:38, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,
  • 35. So you are keeping Mila in an undisclosed location on the day I am legally allowedto pick her up for my weekend visits?I’m just wondering, did someone make you judge? Or it is you are so sureMoskowitz is in your pocket you can do as you please, the court order be damned?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Kathy Rogers; MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:Mila will skip school today - I have the day off.On May 19, 2011, at 1:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Dear Kathy,What is your position? Will you prevent me from picking her up from school onFriday?I refuse to put Mila, and the other children at the pre-school, in the position ofwitnessing any kind of stressful transfer, raised voices, or even the mildest ofarguments.I fear picking Mila up at school, what should be normal routine activity, but giventhe slander and lies you have been willing to say about me—a woman and motheryou do not even know—I do fear that you would do Mr. Waxman’s and Igor’sbidding and create an altercation at the school in front of my daughter and otherchildren.
  • 36. I need to know your position before I pick Mila up in order to avoid anythingnegative occurring in front of Mila or the other children.Thank you for letting me know your position.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2011 10:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Kathy Rogers; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: RE:I will make sure that you can be served the court papers as soon as you show up there-regardlessof the time or the day. I will alert the police and the DHHS as well.If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stophiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting itanyway.Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week andMichael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husbandPatrick are planning to file.Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that Iam a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail”and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keeptrying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately inany way.
  • 37. I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of youdecides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to takeMila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.You took Mila and kept her for three weeks, without being allowed this. There is no pre-schoolvacation you refer to and there is no “make-up” time. You had Mila more than you were allowedand if you want this to get resolved sooner rather than loosing time on playing games, you needto accept service and/or file your papers in court. I am not going to permit Mila to be exposedagain to your continuous emotional abuse.Also, you have not paid child support for two months now, while you spend the money onprivate investigators and other things that you give priority over Mila’s school. DHHS will be intouch with you about the child support as well.I would wait on any vacation planning until we get in court first. I would save the money youhave for vacation for the child support you are not paying, if I were you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 4:17 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Will you oppose my court ordered time with Mila this weekend? I plan to pick herup at school on Friday and return her on Sunday—per my normal visit time.I would like confirmation on the summer vacation and 5 days of make-up timeplease.
  • 38. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, May 20, 2011 4:02 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Kathy Rogers; MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:Mila will skip school today - I have the day off.On May 19, 2011, at 1:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Dear Kathy,What is your position? Will you prevent me from picking her up from school onFriday?I refuse to put Mila, and the other children at the pre-school, in the position ofwitnessing any kind of stressful transfer, raised voices, or even the mildest ofarguments.I fear picking Mila up at school, what should be normal routine activity, but giventhe slander and lies you have been willing to say about me—a woman and motheryou do not even know—I do fear that you would do Mr. Waxman’s and Igor’sbidding and create an altercation at the school in front of my daughter and otherchildren.I need to know your position before I pick Mila up in order to avoid anythingnegative occurring in front of Mila or the other children.
  • 39. Thank you for letting me know your position.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2011 10:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Kathy Rogers; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: RE:I will make sure that you can be served the court papers as soon as you show up there-regardlessof the time or the day. I will alert the police and the DHHS as well.If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stophiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting itanyway.Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week andMichael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husbandPatrick are planning to file.Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that Iam a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail”and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keeptrying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately inany way.I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of youdecides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to takeMila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.
  • 40. You took Mila and kept her for three weeks, without being allowed this. There is no pre-schoolvacation you refer to and there is no “make-up” time. You had Mila more than you were allowedand if you want this to get resolved sooner rather than loosing time on playing games, you needto accept service and/or file your papers in court. I am not going to permit Mila to be exposedagain to your continuous emotional abuse.Also, you have not paid child support for two months now, while you spend the money onprivate investigators and other things that you give priority over Mila’s school. DHHS will be intouch with you about the child support as well.I would wait on any vacation planning until we get in court first. I would save the money youhave for vacation for the child support you are not paying, if I were you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 4:17 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Will you oppose my court ordered time with Mila this weekend? I plan to pick herup at school on Friday and return her on Sunday—per my normal visit time.I would like confirmation on the summer vacation and 5 days of make-up timeplease.
  • 41. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:30 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:The ballet school is on the 517 Forest ave. In Portland (www.portlandballet.org).Milas class(pre-ballet) starts at 3.45pm, but she usually is there around 3.30pm in order tochange her attire and have her hair tied neatly in the back. It goes until 4.30pm and it is the lastsession, peek week, where parents and family are invited(usually we wait in the hall) to see thedemonstration. She missed several classes in the last weeks but she will have fun nevertheless.I am not sure what your travel plans are for tomorrow, but if you want to go there with Mila Iwill see her there. We only need to arrange something for her attire to be with her on time. I caneither drop it somewhere earlier or bring it along. Having it earlier is better.Concerning Milas school and your wish to be the more often, I think that it is very good for Milato have both parents around as often as possible- so I welcome it. I also need to remind you thatthe school is not paid already several weeks and it is becoming awkward. You need to contributethe child support so the bill can be paid.I am a bit confused about your certain ability to be here in Maine, after clearly stating that youwere living in DC, which was again after you clearly stated in your Motion to Modify just twomonths ago, where you stated that you lived no longer in DC but was back in Maine. I do notreally care that much what the real situation is except that it is good for Mila that both parentsare going to be close and she can see us both often.On May 9, 2011, at 5:06 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Since tomorrow is Mila’s ballet final I would like to attend.
  • 42. Please let me know the location and name of the place so Mila can have her motherthere too.I have told Mila I will be there.Also I plan to start coming to her school, like you do, daily, to spend time with her.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:19 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:One more thing – if it appears that you are owed time after we are able to properly address thewhole issue, I will have no problem with that. Right now, I believe you are wrong that you areowed any time. Moreover, you have failed to reason and you made your decisions yourself orwith help from others, who I do not believe are giving you appropriate advice. But it yourresponsibility at the end. You can’t keep doing this.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:I do not- your calculations are wrong and I have no intent of discussing this over e-mail underthese circumstances any longer. You seem to think that whatever you decide or enters your mindis the order of the day. There is no “make-up” time and there is no “pre-school vacation”, justbecause you decide to make it appear in the court order. You did what you did and you will haveto take the responsibility for this. I am expecting this to be addressed in court, since there is noother way of dealing with you. You missed two weekends in April, no 24 days, and you missedthem because you filled false abuse accusations again. It was Mila that was reluctant of having tohear more of that and I have obligations to protect her from those things. She has expressedherself clearly about that on several different occasions. You need to stop causing problems and
  • 43. blaming others for them. You can’t decide unilaterally that there is April vacation and that youare owed that time. It does not work that way.You have disturbed Mila’s life and created huge problems as usual. I am use to it, but frankly Ireached my limit about trying to make you understand that this is only going to affect younegatively and most importantly Mila’s life and future. You seem to be not able to realize thatyour actions do have consequences and that this game you are playing with other people personaland professional lives is just no longer acceptable. Mila’s school needs to be paid (you had alsofail to pay the JCA in the past), you are refusing to contribute anything to her school costs foralmost two months now. Mila has missed several ballet lessons and would miss her finalperformance tomorrow. She looked forward to this, but somehow everything she has or doeshere, she is not able to enjoy without having to go through all this terrible things you are puttingus trough over and over again. She loves you, but you are not able to understand what she trulyneeds from you. You got to realize this and spend your time on better things.If you bring Mila back home in Maine tomorrow, it will be a good decision. I will let her schoolknow this, although as I said they need to get paid and we have not received any money fromyou.If you do not bring Mila back I will start a criminal case today and we will have to go throughany possible legal venue to make you understand that Mila needs to be back home here in Maine.I hope you will make the right choice.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 2:39 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I am stunned you would call the FBI over my spending my make-up time withMila in DC.
  • 44. Since you have created such a fuss I have tickets back to Maine and will returnMila tomorrow to her school.You still owe me 4 days of make-up time. When will I be able to use this time? Iwould like to use it next week and pick her up next Tuesday from school. Do youagree?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:52 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE: RE:I will report you for parental kidnaping and taking Mila outside of State lines without my permission orknowledge. I have no idea where my child is for weeks now and you refused to provide me the addresscontinuously. I will report Pickering and others for helping you to achieve this and manipulate the legalsystem.You have no rights to keep Mila for any of the time you did in the past weeks, especially not when youmake that decision unilaterally. You are in no position to make any demands and you have chosen tocontinuously violate the court orders. You filed yet another false accusation with DHHS and you refuseto return Mila and pay child support.The FBI will issue a warrant and arrest you. I was trying to avoid this until now, especially since yesterdaywas mother’s day, but no longer. If you end up losing your rights to Mila it will all be your responsibility.I urge you and your private investigator to stop breaking the law and return Mila asap.
  • 45. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 7:16 AMTo: igor malenko; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE: RE:Igor,I’m not sure why you are meeting a federal agent at 9:00 am. I haven’t kidnappedMila—you have been informed, almost daily, of her activities and whereabouts.But if you are meeting a federal agent please do tell them to call me on my cell207-812-0191 I would certainly welcome a discussion with a federal agent andhave some things to share about your background that I have recently learned.This weekend is the second weekend—you are correct. I was mistaken. In that caseI will return Mila this Friday, at the end of my make-up time, to her schoolsometime during the day.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 6:13 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:You need to return Mila and avoid making this worse. We will discus the rest afterwardsappropriately not under these conditions. If I do not receive a message confirming that Mila willbe back today with exact time and place I will proceed with the FBI and make sure she is backhome. It will not work in your benefit and it will be your responsibility completely. I am planingto meet with the fed.agent at 9 am. If I do not receive the response within one hour I will assumethat that is how you choose to proceed.On May 9, 2011, at 2:25 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will return Mila tomorrow if you and I can make an agreement on the week ofmakeup time you owe me. Will you give this to me next week?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 08, 2011 4:38 PMTo: Lori Handrahan
  • 46. Cc: MjwaxySubject: Re:Next weekend is the second weekend-If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in courtagain- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you aretaking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. Youare violating court orders over and over again.On May 8, 2011, at 3:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I just received the court document you and Mr. Waxman filed this week—the courtsent me a copy of the denied attempt to take Mila away from me, her mother. Howcould do this to your only child? A little girl who loves and needs her mother. Istill have 5 days of make-up time and given this document you tried to getapproved I am very concerned you will not honor the make-up time and even moreconcerned that when I do return Mila you simply will keep her again like you didthe last 24 days.I am willing to return Mila this week if you promise the five days of make-up timeto me next week. Otherwise, I will enjoy my make-up time with Mila while I canand return her this coming Sunday at 7:00 pm at Scratch Bakery in S. Portland. Ihad every intention of returning Mila today but when I saw this court document Ihave a real fear that you will again, ignore the court order, and keep her from mefor another 24 days or longer this time. So feel I must take the time with her whenI can.I have never and will never ignore a court order so once I am finished my last 5days of make-up time this week I will have to return Mila to you this Sunday—even if I am afraid I will never see her again.
  • 47. Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a hugeappetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I willscan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila mademe chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses forme. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toysand had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at theplayground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here.A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 6:13 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE:You need to return Mila and avoid making this worse. We will discus the rest afterwardsappropriately not under these conditions. If I do not receive a message confirming that Mila willbe back today with exact time and place I will proceed with the FBI and make sure she is backhome. It will not work in your benefit and it will be your responsibility completely. I am planingto meet with the fed.agent at 9 am. If I do not receive the response within one hour I will assumethat that is how you choose to proceed.On May 9, 2011, at 2:25 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will return Mila tomorrow if you and I can make an agreement on the week ofmakeup time you owe me. Will you give this to me next week?
  • 48. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 08, 2011 4:38 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re:Next weekend is the second weekend-If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in courtagain- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you aretaking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. Youare violating court orders over and over again.On May 8, 2011, at 3:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I just received the court document you and Mr. Waxman filed this week—the courtsent me a copy of the denied attempt to take Mila away from me, her mother. Howcould do this to your only child? A little girl who loves and needs her mother. Istill have 5 days of make-up time and given this document you tried to getapproved I am very concerned you will not honor the make-up time and even moreconcerned that when I do return Mila you simply will keep her again like you didthe last 24 days.I am willing to return Mila this week if you promise the five days of make-up timeto me next week. Otherwise, I will enjoy my make-up time with Mila while I canand return her this coming Sunday at 7:00 pm at Scratch Bakery in S. Portland. Ihad every intention of returning Mila today but when I saw this court document Ihave a real fear that you will again, ignore the court order, and keep her from mefor another 24 days or longer this time. So feel I must take the time with her whenI can.
  • 49. I have never and will never ignore a court order so once I am finished my last 5days of make-up time this week I will have to return Mila to you this Sunday—even if I am afraid I will never see her again.Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a hugeappetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I willscan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila mademe chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses forme. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toysand had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at theplayground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here.A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 08, 2011 4:38 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re:Next weekend is the second weekend-If you fail to bring Mila back tomorrow I will contact the FBI on top of filing papers in courtagain- you are making it worse for your self, but also for Mila, with each new decision you aretaking. You need to bring Mila back here by tomorrow. You also have to pay child support. Youare violating court orders over and over again.On May 8, 2011, at 3:27 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,
  • 50. I just received the court document you and Mr. Waxman filed this week—the courtsent me a copy of the denied attempt to take Mila away from me, her mother. Howcould do this to your only child? A little girl who loves and needs her mother. Istill have 5 days of make-up time and given this document you tried to getapproved I am very concerned you will not honor the make-up time and even moreconcerned that when I do return Mila you simply will keep her again like you didthe last 24 days.I am willing to return Mila this week if you promise the five days of make-up timeto me next week. Otherwise, I will enjoy my make-up time with Mila while I canand return her this coming Sunday at 7:00 pm at Scratch Bakery in S. Portland. Ihad every intention of returning Mila today but when I saw this court document Ihave a real fear that you will again, ignore the court order, and keep her from mefor another 24 days or longer this time. So feel I must take the time with her whenI can.I have never and will never ignore a court order so once I am finished my last 5days of make-up time this week I will have to return Mila to you this Sunday—even if I am afraid I will never see her again.Otherwise, Mila is having a great time. She is eating up a storm—has a hugeappetite and eating all the time. Last night we saw Rio in 3D. Mila loved it. I willscan and send the tickets to you in case you are scrap-booking for Mila. Mila mademe chocolate raspberries and strawberries for mother’s day and picked roses forme. We went to a flower garden fair yesterday and she played in the bounce toysand had balloons made and had a great time. Today we have been at theplayground most of the afternoon and she is making many wonderful friends here.A mother and little girl already invited us for a play-date tonight after dinner.
  • 51. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 9:53 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: FW: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emailsFrom: Mjwaxy [mailto:mjwaxy@aol.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 8:29 PMTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: Re: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emailsIgor:Please inform Dr. Handrahan that until she engages an attorney, I have no choice but to contact herdirectly.Michael-----Original Message-----From: Igor Malenko <igormalenko@hotmail.com>To: MJWAXY@aol.comSent: Wed, May 4, 2011 8:14 pmSubject: FW: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emailsFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2011 7:59 PMTo: Igor-Malenko@idexx.com; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: please inform your lawyer I have blocked his emailsIgor,As of yesterday, I have blocked all emails from Mr. Waxman and will no longer beable to receive any. They go straight to junk mail and are deleted without myknowledge that they have ever arrived.Please inform your lawyer.
  • 52. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 6:48 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE: Mila at the zooNo one lives here full time. My friend postponed her visit due to your recent behavior – no onelikes to have to deal with your disgusting games. Unfortunately for me (and Mila) for the next14-15 years we are stuck with it. Unless you get some help.I would like to know how Mila is doing (she was sick the last time you mentioned her name andI never heard back about that) and what time you are bringing her to school tomorrow-I need tosend Kathy an e-mail and prepare Mila’s food and clothes for the day. Instead of spending timeon other not important things try responding to these issues.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 4:11 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Mila at the zooIgor,How about you telling me the full name of your girlfriend, you claim a childhoodfriend from Macedonia, who is now living full time with Mila at your home?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:48 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE: Mila at the zooI have none of those addresses and those places mean nothing to me, neither your ambiguousdescription of “friends”. I simply asked a very normal question and you are omitting the answerby sending me this e-mail.The appropriate answer is an address and tel. number where I can reach my child, since you arenot answering any of my calls. What am I supposed to do with Glover Park, Lutherville andManhattan? Or perhaps you assume that anyone in those places would know who you are? Well,
  • 53. I’ll just call anyone in those places and ask to talk to Mila. I ‘ll say that she is with you-they allknow who you are, I am sure.Great, thanks for the info.Please bring Mila at school tomorrow and try to guess what time you will be there with her-andlet me know what that guess is going to be! Or simply tell me when you are bringing Mila toschool, so we can go on organizing our lives.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:10 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: RE: Mila at the zooForgot to answer your question—in DC we are in Glover Park, in Maryland we arein Lutherville, in NYC if we go we would be in Manhattan. All the addresses ofmy friends that I am sure you already have on file.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 1:45 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: Mila at the zooIgor,I tried to send you pictures from Mila at the zoo but they don’t seem to be goingthrough. I’ll give these to you with the ER report when I see you tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:48 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE: Mila at the zooI have none of those addresses and those places mean nothing to me, neither your ambiguousdescription of “friends”. I simply asked a very normal question and you are omitting the answerby sending me this e-mail.The appropriate answer is an address and tel. number where I can reach my child, since you arenot answering any of my calls. What am I supposed to do with Glover Park, Lutherville and
  • 54. Manhattan? Or perhaps you assume that anyone in those places would know who you are? Well,I’ll just call anyone in those places and ask to talk to Mila. I ‘ll say that she is with you-they allknow who you are, I am sure.Great, thanks for the info.Please bring Mila at school tomorrow and try to guess what time you will be there with her-andlet me know what that guess is going to be! Or simply tell me when you are bringing Mila toschool, so we can go on organizing our lives.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:10 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: RE: Mila at the zooForgot to answer your question—in DC we are in Glover Park, in Maryland we arein Lutherville, in NYC if we go we would be in Manhattan. All the addresses ofmy friends that I am sure you already have on file.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 1:45 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: Mila at the zooIgor,I tried to send you pictures from Mila at the zoo but they don’t seem to be goingthrough. I’ll give these to you with the ER report when I see you tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 3:01 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:Please bring Mila to her school tomorrow and leave the medical records behind. I will pick Milaup at school.
  • 55. I need to know when is Mila going to be there in order to inform Kathy and the teachers and alsoto bring appropriate amount of clothes and food for Mila in the morning.Also, since you are 5 weeks behind on CHILD SUPPORT (entering the 6th), feel free to writeKathy at the school a check for 3 weeks(incl. the coming one, $645) and subtract that from theamount owed, which is still expected to be paid.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2011 11:46 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Please let me know what would be better for your schedule. I can drop her atschool Monday afternoon or we can meet at 7:00 pm on Monday at ScratchBakery.Once you let me know what you prefer I will book my ticket. We are visitingfriends in Maryland and maybe take the train to New York city and fly from there.Call anytime time. Sorry we haven’t been taking many calls because first Mila wassick and then I got the stomach bug and have been vomiting all night.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, April 29, 2011 10:47 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:I called yesterday and again no response. I left a message and I will like to talk to Mila asap. Iwould like to know how she feels and I would like to know when exactly you are returning her inMaine (as in day and time of flight arival).You have not given any address in DC where my child is supposedly staying since you took herthere, nor have you informed me when you actually flew with Mila over there. I am still waitingfor this information as well.Also, all the records generated from the ER visit or any other visit to any medical provider thatyou have taken Mila to for any kind of testing since you picked her up last Friday should beforwarded to me asap. The bill from this ER visit will obviously be yours. Anything in excess of250$ annually is yours.
  • 56. When can I expect to talk to Mila and when can we expect you to pay child support for the past 5weeks?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 24, 2011 10:00 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.com; alicia.cumming@maine.govSubject: RE: Returning Mila next Monday at preschoolI do not agree to any of that – I would like Mila to be back today.I am going to take legal steps to prevent you from doing this.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: Returning Mila next Monday at preschoolIgor,Since I haven’t seen Mila for 24 days, due to your refusal to maintain the visitschedule, I am taking some of my make-up time with Mila now.My calculations you owe me three weekends, Friday-Sunday or 9 days.When I returned her next Monday that will count for 8 of the 9 make-up days.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 57. From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 7:16 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: FridayAlso, you are 5 weeks behind on the child support- how do you think Milas school is beingpayed? You need to do your part.Begin forwarded message:From: Igor Malenko <igormalenko@hotmail.com>Date: April 22, 2011 5:54:45 AM CDTTo: Lori Handrahan <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>Cc: Mjwaxy <mjwaxy@aol.com>Subject: Re: FridayThe "undisclosed" location sounds as creepy as everything else you produced so far.Milas reply to being picked up this week is no different from last week or the week before that -"mama needs to make a promise that she will not talk bad" and " did she make the promisepapa?". .Unless you do, I will not say to her that you did. I want Mila to have her mother in her life,butyou got to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and frighten her with "getting rid of me".I am planing to bring Mila at school today and even if you pick her up without making thepromise she needs to hear, I expect her to stay in Maine and return on Sunday.The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for yourselfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got tounderstand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parentsin her life but only in a healthy way.I need to hear back from you about returning Mila this Sunday before attempting to pick her uptoday. If you choose to behave as so far I will choose to protect my child from your behavior.On Apr 21, 2011, at 6:33 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,
  • 58. I plan to pick up Mila at her pre-school tomorrow, Friday, 21 April.I have been told you are keeping her out of school on Fridays and keeping her in anundisclosed location so I cannot pick her up. I hope you will not do this tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 6:55 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: FridayThe "undisclosed" location sounds as creepy as everything else you produced so far.Milas reply to being picked up this week is no different from last week or the week before that -"mama needs to make a promise that she will not talk bad" and " did she make the promisepapa?". .Unless you do, I will not say to her that you did. I want Mila to have her mother in her life,butyou got to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and frighten her with "getting rid of me".I am planing to bring Mila at school today and even if you pick her up without making thepromise she needs to hear, I expect her to stay in Maine and return on Sunday.The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for yourselfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got tounderstand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parentsin her life but only in a healthy way.I need to hear back from you about returning Mila this Sunday before attempting to pick her uptoday. If you choose to behave as so far I will choose to protect my child from your behavior.On Apr 21, 2011, at 6:33 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:
  • 59. Igor,I plan to pick up Mila at her pre-school tomorrow, Friday, 21 April.I have been told you are keeping her out of school on Fridays and keeping her in anundisclosed location so I cannot pick her up. I hope you will not do this tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:26 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againI absolutely do not agree for any make-up time at this point. I have sent a clear e-mail and have no planson engaging further in discussion. You will be served papers either today or tomorrow. I gave them bothaddresses- S.P. and Sorrento. I am also eagerly waiting for the DHHS to finish this investigation. If youattempt to take Mila unauthorized there will be police involvement and certainly any possible legal step toprevent you from doing to Mila all the disgusting abusive things. I am done waiting for you to stopabusing her and using her for your ludicrous goals.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againDate: Mon, 11 Apr 2011 09:20:42 -0400Igor,Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again. Do you agreefor my make-up time to start this Tuesday.
  • 60. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 1:31 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againYou hit Mila in the head with a pan and there is a child protectioninvestigation and you are telling me you are “not going to permit me” tosee Mila except on supervised visits?When is my make-up time for the past 2 missed weekends scheduled? Iwould like that to take place this week. Shall I pick her up Tuesday at 7:00am and return her on Sunday at 7:00pm? This would make up the lostweekend.Please let me know. Please also let me know where Mila is and who isliving with Mila now.Thank you.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againMila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear all the false anddisgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is with you. She is fed up and refuses tostay with you unless you promise to stop and abandon this emotional abuse immediately - I told you I willnot accept you doing this to our child and I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror,especially now that she is asking me her self. I am very sad that you cant realize what you are causingher and I am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Mila for thisterribly selfish goal.As soon as you are able and willing to put Milas interests ahead of your own selfish desires, I will happilyagree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying to brainwash Mila and destroy me, I will notpermit you to see Mila unsupervised. You are harming her tremendously and I am glad she decided herself that it is enough of that. She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says thatyou have to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anything badto her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts. Enough is enough.Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, which is directly causedby these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me" and that " you will put me in jail". Sheis also more emotional in the last few weeks and she ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised tostop saying to her that she " touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " badthings about papa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place any longer- noteven one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptable and wrong. How can you sayyou love Mila and go on using her and abusing her for your pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? Thisonly shows that you are really unfit to be a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoy normal lifeand childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!
  • 61. On Apr 9, 2011, at 10:08 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:I’d like to know where Mila is and when I will see her again.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againMila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear allthe false and disgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is withyou. She is fed up and refuses to stay with you unless you promise to stop and abandonthis emotional abuse immediately - I told you I will not accept you doing this to our childand I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror, especially now that sheis asking me her self. I am very sad that you cant realize what you are causing her andI am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Milafor this terribly selfish goal.As soon as you are able and willing to put Milas interests ahead of your own selfishdesires, I will happily agree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying tobrainwash Mila and destroy me, I will not permit you to see Mila unsupervised. You areharming her tremendously and I am glad she decided her self that it is enough of that.She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says that you have tostop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anythingbad to her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts.Enough is enough.Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, whichis directly caused by these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me"and that " you will put me in jail". She is also more emotional in the last few weeks andshe ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised to stop saying to her that she "touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " bad things aboutpapa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place anylonger- not even one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptableand wrong. How can you say you love Mila and go on using her and abusing her foryour pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? This only shows that you are really unfit tobe a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoynormal life and childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!
  • 62. On Apr 9, 2011, at 10:08 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:I’d like to know where Mila is and when I will see her again.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, April 08, 2011 6:11 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject:Unfortunately your latest false accusations and the fact that you continue emotionally abusingMila every time she is with you are enough reasons for me to step up and take legal measures toprotect Mila from this occurring all over again. She does not want to hear it anymore and askedme not to bring her to you until you stop forcing her to say things she doesn’t like to say and hearthings you and your friends have been constantly harassing her with. I have an obligation asMila’s parent to protect her from this and I am. We will not meet you this weekend .No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 03, 2011 10:06 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Mila tonightNext weekend is yours - starting Friday and returning Mila on SundayBegin forwarded message:
  • 63. From: igormalenko@hotmail.comDate: April 3, 2011 10:02:46 PM EDTTo: Lori Handrahan <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>Subject: Re: Mila tonightFollowing us here in the street, after couple of messages on the phone and then living a note onmy front door is inappropriate and honestly a bit creepy - dont do this again please. Interruptingand trespassing, following are not normal things. Your obsession with my friend is also a bitunhealthy. You do not need to have her biography and harass her or anyone around me and Mila.When you realize that it is you that need to be transparent about issues directly connected toMila, then you might demand information like that the way you are doing.On Apr 3, 201hat 3:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan"<lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Then I have Mila this coming weekend? Which is the weekend, per the schedule,she is with you? I’d like to pick Mila at 4:00 on Thursday from school and returnher Sunday at 3:00 pm.Please let me know the full name of your childhood friend who will now be livingwith Mila and when she is scheduled to move in with Mila.Thank you.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, April 02, 2011 8:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonightWe already rearranged everything like ballet tickets etc. Mila is looking forward to this and wealready switched weekends, made new plans and closed the discussion yesterday- no more lastmin. changes again, thank you-
  • 64. On Apr 2, 2011, at 7:24 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will be in S. Portland tonight and would like to have Mila with me.I can pick her up at 4:00 at the bakery and return her at 2:00 on Sunday at thebakery.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 17, 2011 7:14 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject:At Mila’s school there is a multicultural “party” starting at 4pm and all the parents are invited.Since you are picking her up you could be the attending parent, if that works for you.Also, Mila asked me to ask you if you would like to bring her to ballet sometimes. It is onTuesdays 3.45-4.30 at Portland Ballet on Congress Ave 571 in Portland.Please remember on Sunday to bring the shoes that she will wear tomorrow-they are her dailyschool shoes.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 9:39 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 65. OkFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 9:29 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,It would be easier for me to pick Mila up at 4:00 at Whole Foods today.Are you ok with that?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 8:31 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok – I will bring her medicine and the schedule so far is 9am-3pm-9pm-3am for the antibiotics. Her doseis 2.5ml on the syringe (1/2 tsp) and the bottle is turned upside down when filling the syringe. Shedoesn’t like the taste and needs water afterwards. Also, she is still allowed to have either Tylenol (sheonly likes raspberry flavor liquid one 2-11 years) or children’s Ibuprofen (same taste if possible).According the doctor it is better to switch of those two if she needs it for the fever every 4-6 hours.I will probably try to give her the antibiotic dose this afternoon f she is awake around 3pm. If not, youwill have to do it. It goes on for 10 days, so please make sure we have it back on Saturday.She is doing well now, I gave her the last Ibuprofen around 4.30 am and as of now she has notdeveloped fever. I use the ear thermometer(from Hannaford) which is very good, accurate and quick.She will need lots of probiotics, too.Where do we meet? I am willing to drive to Brunswick or Augusta. I might be able to go as far as Bangorif necessary.I will let the school know that she will stay home with you. Unfortunately, I will still have to pay for thewhole week. They have two week cancelation/change of schedule policy and we will have to pay.Please make sure Mila takes the medicine without skipping.I also have to ask you to not allow Bob(or Liza and Terry) to say things to Mila that are inappropriate andwrong. Mila really does not like it-she says she is reluctant to come over because of them talking “bad”about “her papa”. That is not good!I know it doesn’t bother you when they and you too, say bad things about me, but to a child that is notok-I do not do it and no one here disparages you, so just make sure it does not happen over there. Itreally bothers Mila and it will complicate everything if you continue to allow or participate in that.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 7:47 AM
  • 66. To: Igor MalenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Mila is always in Sorrento. Saturday return is fine.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:41 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: FW:Also, I would like to know where Mila would be in case you will take her tomorrow for the week-here inMaine, DC or elsewhere?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.com (MJWAXY@aol.com)Subject: RE:I would like to see her back earlier than Sunday this coming weekend – you will have already 5 days untilthen instead of this weekend, which is not unfair. How about returning her on Saturday? That way wecan also have one day to take it easy in the morning and swim on Sunday.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 7:52 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I’d be happy to take Mila for the week and this coming weekend.I can pick her up around 4:00 tomorrow, Sunday, and would return her around 4:00pm Sunday March 13.Please confirm.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 67. We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to takethis for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could goto school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first doseof penicillin.You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday.Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sickkids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillinschedule until the end.You could call her anytime-2074001666From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so Ican make plans.Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over
  • 68. > CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.
  • 69. > >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> >> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or
  • 70. > > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:> >> >> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> >> >No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 8:31 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok – I will bring her medicine and the schedule so far is 9am-3pm-9pm-3am for the antibiotics. Her doseis 2.5ml on the syringe (1/2 tsp) and the bottle is turned upside down when filling the syringe. Shedoesn’t like the taste and needs water afterwards. Also, she is still allowed to have either Tylenol (sheonly likes raspberry flavor liquid one 2-11 years) or children’s Ibuprofen (same taste if possible).According the doctor it is better to switch of those two if she needs it for the fever every 4-6 hours.I will probably try to give her the antibiotic dose this afternoon f she is awake around 3pm. If not, youwill have to do it. It goes on for 10 days, so please make sure we have it back on Saturday.
  • 71. She is doing well now, I gave her the last Ibuprofen around 4.30 am and as of now she has notdeveloped fever. I use the ear thermometer(from Hannaford) which is very good, accurate and quick.She will need lots of probiotics, too.Where do we meet? I am willing to drive to Brunswick or Augusta. I might be able to go as far as Bangorif necessary.I will let the school know that she will stay home with you. Unfortunately, I will still have to pay for thewhole week. They have two week cancelation/change of schedule policy and we will have to pay.Please make sure Mila takes the medicine without skipping.I also have to ask you to not allow Bob(or Liza and Terry) to say things to Mila that are inappropriate andwrong. Mila really does not like it-she says she is reluctant to come over because of them talking “bad”about “her papa”. That is not good!I know it doesn’t bother you when they and you too, say bad things about me, but to a child that is notok-I do not do it and no one here disparages you, so just make sure it does not happen over there. Itreally bothers Mila and it will complicate everything if you continue to allow or participate in that.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, March 06, 2011 7:47 AMTo: Igor MalenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Mila is always in Sorrento. Saturday return is fine.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:41 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: FW:Also, I would like to know where Mila would be in case you will take her tomorrow for the week-here inMaine, DC or elsewhere?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.com (MJWAXY@aol.com)Subject: RE:I would like to see her back earlier than Sunday this coming weekend – you will have already 5 days untilthen instead of this weekend, which is not unfair. How about returning her on Saturday? That way wecan also have one day to take it easy in the morning and swim on Sunday.
  • 72. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 7:52 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I’d be happy to take Mila for the week and this coming weekend.I can pick her up around 4:00 tomorrow, Sunday, and would return her around 4:00pm Sunday March 13.Please confirm.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to takethis for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could goto school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first doseof penicillin.You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday.Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sickkids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillinschedule until the end.You could call her anytime-2074001666From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so Ican make plans.Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 73. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >
  • 74. > >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There
  • 75. > > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> >> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:> >> >> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> >
  • 76. >>No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:41 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: FW:Also, I would like to know where Mila would be in case you will take her tomorrow for the week-here inMaine, DC or elsewhere?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:23 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.com (MJWAXY@aol.com)Subject: RE:I would like to see her back earlier than Sunday this coming weekend – you will have already 5 days untilthen instead of this weekend, which is not unfair. How about returning her on Saturday? That way wecan also have one day to take it easy in the morning and swim on Sunday.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 7:52 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I’d be happy to take Mila for the week and this coming weekend.I can pick her up around 4:00 tomorrow, Sunday, and would return her around 4:00pm Sunday March 13.Please confirm.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to takethis for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could go
  • 77. to school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first doseof penicillin.You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday.Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sickkids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillinschedule until the end.You could call her anytime-2074001666From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so Ican make plans.Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com
  • 78. > From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I
  • 79. > > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> >> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.
  • 80. > >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:> >> >> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> >> >No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 10:24 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:I would like to see her back earlier than Sunday this coming weekend – you will have already 5 days untilthen instead of this weekend, which is not unfair. How about returning her on Saturday? That way wecan also have one day to take it easy in the morning and swim on Sunday.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 7:52 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,
  • 81. I’d be happy to take Mila for the week and this coming weekend.I can pick her up around 4:00 tomorrow, Sunday, and would return her around 4:00pm Sunday March 13.Please confirm.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to takethis for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could goto school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first doseof penicillin.You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday.Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sickkids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillinschedule until the end.You could call her anytime-2074001666From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so Ican make plans.Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 82. CC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:
  • 83. > >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >
  • 84. > >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> >> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:> >> >> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> >> >No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 85. From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 5:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:We saw the doctor this afternoon-Mila has a strep throat infection. She has penicillin and has to takethis for 10 days (4x day). She is ok and she should be getting better in the next day or two. She could goto school on Monday according the doctor, she is not contagious 24 h after administering the first doseof penicillin.You can have next weekend. Or if you are in Maine this week you could also have Mila until next Friday.Otherwise, I will stay home with her a couple of days. Just to give her a break from school-lots of sickkids around. And then she can stay with you next weekend. You will need to keep the penicillinschedule until the end.You could call her anytime-2074001666From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 3:16 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Will this weekend be make up time for this past weekend? Please let me know so Ican make plans.Hope Mila is doing fine. Would love to talk with her.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.
  • 86. From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going
  • 87. > > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything
  • 88. > > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.> >> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.> >> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:> >> >> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=> >> >No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 12:13 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Are you in Maine and do you plan to communicate about Mila?
  • 89. From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Sat, 5 Mar 2011 08:37:45 -0500Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan
  • 90. > > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4
  • 91. > > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.>>>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:>>> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.>>> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.>>> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.>>>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:>>> > Igor,>>> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:>>>>> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=>>>>No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 92. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, March 05, 2011 8:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Mila has still fever-I want to see the doctor today-she is stuffed and clearly has the fly, but I still want tohave the doctor check her. Her fever goes down from the Tylenol, but comes back after few hoursto around 101.8.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 13:42:47 -0500Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM
  • 93. > > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss> > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than
  • 94. > > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.>>>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:>>> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.>>> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.>>> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.>>>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:>>> > Igor,>>> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:>>>>> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=>>>>No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 95. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 1:43 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Mila has high fever and will stay here- I called her doctor already. Even with Tylenol the fever is still high.No driving today-if she is better tomorrow I will bring her over> CC: mjwaxy@aol.com> From: igormalenko@hotmail.com> Subject: Re: RE:> Date: Fri, 4 Mar 2011 12:24:28 -0500> To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>> I picked Mila up-she has fever and she will stay home with me.>> Sent from my iPhone>> On Mar 4, 2011, at 10:33 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:>> > Igor,> >> > Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide by> > the court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?> >> > I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had a> > fever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her to> > school. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers said> > there is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simply> > trying to come with a reason to block the visit.> >> > Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my> > "off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila will> > not have spent time with her mother.> >> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:> >> > I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange> > everything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no> > contact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.> >> > If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to> > know whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss
  • 96. > > further with you the details of my decision making since you are obviously> > only busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are going> > to use for your delusional conspiracy theories.> >> > Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will> > pick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to> > Sorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to> > rest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are> > avoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here> > until you provide that information.> >> > If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I> > am not interested in discussing with you please call others that like to> > listen to you and your nonsense.> >> > Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila> > might get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and> > did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she> > needs this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not> > interested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It is> > all nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesnt> > seem to be anywhere near.> >> > If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stays> > here. You can have next weekend.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AM> > To: Malenko, Igor; igor malenko> > Subject: RE:> >> > Igor,> >> > Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get there> > to find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.> >> > It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. There> > is a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their> > fever has stopped.> >> > I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less than> > two months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4> > years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.> >> >> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AM> > To: Lori Handrahan> > Cc: mjwaxy@aol.com> > Subject: RE:
  • 97. >>> > This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything> > else you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she> > will be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still> > avoiding communicating clearly and timely.>>> > I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.> > She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.>>> > I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. or> > Sorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay> > home with me.>>>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AM> > To: igor malenko; Malenko, Igor> > Subject: RE:>>> > Igor,>>> > Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me know> > where.>>> > -----Original Message-----> > From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]> > Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AM> > To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> > Cc: Mjwaxy> > Subject:>>>>> > Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She> > drinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if> > you pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What time> > can you meet?> > Sent from my iPhone=>>>>No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:
  • 98. Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. She drinks alot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better if you pick herup before school. She should not go there with fever. What time can you meet?Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 03, 2011 7:29 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila has fever-101.8She is happy and active despite. I gave her Tylenol. Lots of kids at school aresick. She ate well today and took her nap too. She says that her throat does nothurt any longer. Also, no constipation this week.Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 3:18 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: RE: Re: RE:But you still need to tell me when-and where you are taking her to. And when you are returningher on Sunday as well. It is simple essential information that I insist you share-just as I do. Andjust as you are asking all the time. Read the judgment again-Sent from my iPhoneOn Feb 28, 2011, at 2:17 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will pick her up on Friday, per the court order.
  • 99. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 2:15 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Re: RE:I need an answer to my question about pick up time from school on Th.I still await a normal response about where Mila is going to be in the weekend. If you avoid toanswer do not expect any responses back any longer. I will not accept it any longer and insteadof perhaps more you will end up spending less time with Mila. Do you really want that?Sent from my iPhoneBegin forwarded message:From: igormalenko@hotmail.comDate: February 28, 2011 12:26:50 PM ESTTo: Lori Handrahan <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>Cc: Mjwaxy <mjwaxy@aol.com>Subject: Re: RE:MeSent from my iPhoneOn Feb 28, 2011, at 10:49 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Who is staying home with Mila?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 10:33 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 100. What time would you pick Mila up this Thursday (let’s take it one step at the time and see how it goesbefore we lock into permanent agreements different than the judgment)?I do not agree for anyone else to pick Mila up at school- if you can’t do it, I will pick her up and meetyou.Mila is home today because of her throat infection-she had a rough night and is doing better thismorning. I am planning to bring he at school tomorrow.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 3:33 PMTo: igor malenkoSubject: RE:I agree. It would be much better for us both if we can agree on a regular time. I’dlike to pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons directly from school and return her at2:30 on Sundays.Would that work for you?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 8:12 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE:Thats ok - but I would appreciate if you would let me know this earlier from now on. I like to be able toplan my day as well and not wait in front on the pc for your message. What if I could not be there at2.30?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.com
  • 101. Subject:Date: Sun, 27 Feb 2011 07:21:01 -0500Igor,We’ll meet you at 2:30 in front of Whole Foods today.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 2:15 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Fwd: Re: RE:I need an answer to my question about pick up time from school on Th.I still await a normal response about where Mila is going to be in the weekend. If you avoid toanswer do not expect any responses back any longer. I will not accept it any longer and insteadof perhaps more you will end up spending less time with Mila. Do you really want that?Sent from my iPhoneBegin forwarded message:From: igormalenko@hotmail.comDate: February 28, 2011 12:26:50 PM ESTTo: Lori Handrahan <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com>Cc: Mjwaxy <mjwaxy@aol.com>Subject: Re: RE:MeSent from my iPhoneOn Feb 28, 2011, at 10:49 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:
  • 102. Igor,Who is staying home with Mila?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Monday, February 28, 2011 10:33 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MJWAXY@aol.comSubject: RE:What time would you pick Mila up this Thursday (let’s take it one step at the time and see how it goesbefore we lock into permanent agreements different than the judgment)?I do not agree for anyone else to pick Mila up at school- if you can’t do it, I will pick her up and meetyou.Mila is home today because of her throat infection-she had a rough night and is doing better thismorning. I am planning to bring he at school tomorrow.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 3:33 PMTo: igor malenkoSubject: RE:I agree. It would be much better for us both if we can agree on a regular time. I’dlike to pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons directly from school and return her at2:30 on Sundays.Would that work for you?
  • 103. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 8:12 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE:Thats ok - but I would appreciate if you would let me know this earlier from now on. I like to be able toplan my day as well and not wait in front on the pc for your message. What if I could not be there at2.30?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject:Date: Sun, 27 Feb 2011 07:21:01 -0500Igor,We’ll meet you at 2:30 in front of Whole Foods today.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1890 / Virus Database: 2108/4686 - Release Date: 12/17/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2011 6:26 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:It sounds like the food she gets here. I am sorry to hear about her constipation. She drinks lots of probiotic yogurt here as well.Also, her throat is very red and she says it hurts when she swallows. If it gets worse she will stay hometomorrow.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.com
  • 104. Subject:Date: Sun, 27 Feb 2011 15:35:27 -0500Igor,Mila was extremely constipated last week and this weekend. This weekend she hadblood in her stool from the serious constipation.She normally gets a child probiotic, fish oils and vitamins every morning. At nightwhen we read books in bed she drinks 8-12 ounces of half and half in her bottle.During the day she gets lots of water and fruit/veggies juices with no sugar—oftenin frozen pops which she loves. Every week she eats apricots along with lots ofother fruits and veggies.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 24, 2011 9:11 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok, I tried and I will not do this any longer. I will solve the situation without your help. I talked to Kathyand she and the teachers are going to make sure to pay more attention.Mila told me on Monday and it happened last week. If you think that you are smart and this is anotherconspiracy, you just showed how pathetic you are again. You have no idea what it means to co-parentand you are absolutely unable to understand that concept. I am glad the judge understood this.I actually like the school very much. Mila likes it there a lot and loves going there and playing with herfriends. She actually is asking to go to school and see them. Also, I like Kathy and the teachers verymuch. Mostly because Kathy knows exactly what has been going on in the past years andhas always shown to me that I can feel very comfortable regardless of your desperate attempts andfalse allegations. In short, it is not a school you can manipulate as you have attempted and done withprevious places. So your theory is flawed as is your ability to co-parent. I tried and I will not do this anymore. the judge clearly stated that if there is no agreement, I make the decision.Pick up - it is too late and you will have to do it on Friday. If Bob drives or Terry do not expect me tobring Mila next week. I will file a complaint immediately. Mila mentioned that even Lisa was saying thisthings about "getting rid of me" and she has been very unhappy about this. I am done with asking you todo anything about this and I will take a legal action to stop this.
  • 105. If you do not let me know where you are taking Mila and when you are returning her, you will not pickher up this Friday. If you expose her again to Bobs, Terrys and Lisas as well as your abusive behavior,you will have supervised visitations. This is my last attempt to reason on this issue.We have never received any check from you. I will make sure you are served asap. You need to takeresponsibility if you are planning to be a parent.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE:Date: Thu, 24 Feb 2011 08:52:18 -0500Igor,I arrive at 10:30 and can pick Mila up in front of Scratch bakery about10:45/11:00.Re: School. First I was told by you and by the teachers that Mila was notin school this week. Now you are telling me this happened on this Monday?What is the truth? Second, what you are telling me doesn’t seemplausible. Children do these things at school and teachers and parentsusually work it out. I find it difficult to believe this is the real reason youare planning to remove Mila from this Montessori.In any case, Mila retains two places at top Montessori in the country, withteachers who have masters in early childhood education and the schoolfacilities are amazing. She would have Chinese and Spanish as part of theprogram and would be able to gain an amazing education setting her upfor the best possible future. The caliber of schools and teaches in Mainecannot equal these.If you really cared about Mila getting the best education possible youwould want her in one of these two incredible places here in DC. Why notlet her stay with me during the week and be a part of all that these schoolshere, where she already won a place, and she can be with you on theweekends?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 5:38 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 106. I checked the weather for this weekend and it looks like Friday is going to be messy with snow. If youcan pick Mila up on Thursday as you wanted, it will be better.Please try to drive not too late and avoidusing Bob or Terry as a driver. They totally blew it and I am putting my foot down on this. I still wantMila to be back on Sunday, since Monday is snowing again.I remember asking you to do similar things when I was seeing Mila in the weekends and you alwaysrefused. I do not want to act like that and will try to accommodate similar requests more often in thefuture. I want Mila to have her mom and her dad as much as possible in her life. But you will have to putan end to the things that you and your "friends" have been saying to her. She does not deserve that andI will absolutely do everything to stop that from happening to Mila. If you love her, you will do this.Lastly, I talked to Kathy at Milas school about a concern I had which I want to share with you - there aretwo boys Darren and Jack that attend school as well, and both have behavioral issues. They have on fewoccasions been rough with other kids at school and specifically Darren had thrown scissors at Mila andJack had pushed her in a plant. Mila was ok and she told me this on Monday, after Donna, one of theteachers told me this. She was not scared or complained, but when I asked her she confirmed. She doeslike her friends there and like being there.I contacted Kathy today and yesterday and asked her to do something about it and prevent it fromhappening again. According Donna, the boys, especially Darren, need one on one supervision. Kathy saidthat they were both evaluated and that Darren has one on one, one day in the week as directed and feltthat Donnas concerns were inappropriate. I have been going there for lunch breaks and I havewitnessed both boys being very difficult and I had my concerns. I do not want Mila to have to deal withany similar situations and I am sure you feel the same way as well.Hopefully everything would be fine, but I will start looking around for a better place, just in case. I wantyou to join me in dealing with this properly as parents should. I do not believe that anything else is goingto be better for Mila. When it comes to Milas well being we need to work together.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Wed, 23 Feb 2011 08:57:56 -0500Igor,I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday,the 28th, drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,
  • 107. I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makesthe drive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full daytogether on Friday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Mondaymorning, the 28th.Do you agree?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 5:38 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I checked the weather for this weekend and it looks like Friday is going to be messy with snow. If youcan pick Mila up on Thursday as you wanted, it will be better.Please try to drive not too late and avoidusing Bob or Terry as a driver. They totally blew it and I am putting my foot down on this. I still wantMila to be back on Sunday, since Monday is snowing again.I remember asking you to do similar things when I was seeing Mila in the weekends and you alwaysrefused. I do not want to act like that and will try to accommodate similar requests more often in thefuture. I want Mila to have her mom and her dad as much as possible in her life. But you will have to putan end to the things that you and your "friends" have been saying to her. She does not deserve that andI will absolutely do everything to stop that from happening to Mila. If you love her, you will do this.Lastly, I talked to Kathy at Milas school about a concern I had which I want to share with you - there aretwo boys Darren and Jack that attend school as well, and both have behavioral issues. They have on fewoccasions been rough with other kids at school and specifically Darren had thrown scissors at Mila andJack had pushed her in a plant. Mila was ok and she told me this on Monday, after Donna, one of theteachers told me this. She was not scared or complained, but when I asked her she confirmed. She doeslike her friends there and like being there.I contacted Kathy today and yesterday and asked her to do something about it and prevent it fromhappening again. According Donna, the boys, especially Darren, need one on one supervision. Kathy saidthat they were both evaluated and that Darren has one on one, one day in the week as directed and feltthat Donnas concerns were inappropriate. I have been going there for lunch breaks and I havewitnessed both boys being very difficult and I had my concerns. I do not want Mila to have to deal withany similar situations and I am sure you feel the same way as well.Hopefully everything would be fine, but I will start looking around for a better place, just in case. I wantyou to join me in dealing with this properly as parents should. I do not believe that anything else is goingto be better for Mila. When it comes to Milas well being we need to work together.
  • 108. From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: RE:Date: Wed, 23 Feb 2011 08:57:56 -0500Igor,I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday, the 28th,drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makes thedrive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full day together onFriday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Monday morning, the 28th.Do you agree?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, February 22, 2011 3:12 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: Mila not in schoolI have few days off-she is with me. She will be back at school on Thursday. You can call her at home aswell.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Mila not in schoolDate: Tue, 22 Feb 2011 15:02:09 -0500Igor,
  • 109. Kathy and I have agreed that I will call at 3:00 every day to chat with Mila whenshe wakes from her nap. I just called and was told Mila is not at school today.Please let me know where Mila is and why she is not at school.Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, February 19, 2011 6:26 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: RE:Monday return would be also good-if you are able. I am sure she would love an extra day.Sent from my iPhoneOn Feb 19, 2011, at 3:35 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will be at Whole Foods in Portland at 8:00 pm Sunday with Mila to return her. Iwas able to get a later flight than the normal 4:00 pm flight which gave Mila and Imore of a weekend together.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 11:33 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Fawcett, BethSubject:Mila’s school called me and told me that you went there and picked Mila up. This was not discussed withme and I do not approve your actions. I do want Mila to be with her mom, but you are simply disregardingthe judgment and all my efforts to co-parent and communicate. You refused to reply to any of my e-mailsand did not return any of Mila’s calls. I told you that I am not agreeing to you behaving like this and simplyshowing up at school and taking her away with no prior communication. I have no idea where Mila is,when you will return her or where you are bringing her. This is not acceptable and I will not agree to anyof this any longer. You choose to behave like this and you choose to be destructive. This is your choice.
  • 110. I need to know asap where Mila is and what you are intending to do about her return here. Where are youbringing her and when are you returning her back? If I do not hear anything I will take legal steps asap.I will hold you responsible for anything you do to Mila, any harassment, any emotional abuse any attemptto make her confuse and manufacture false accusations again and any of your and your friend’sstatements that are made to her and are inappropriate.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, February 11, 2011 9:03 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:She had a rough night tonight, fever too. I gave her Tylenol few times and it looks like she is better now.We will start with water and toast today. Call her.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE:Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2011 19:06:38 -0500It is the second weekend, thus she stays with me. In addition in this condition she will not travelanywhere. I will keep you posted on her situation. You can try calling her tomorrow.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE:Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2011 18:42:55 -0500Igor,I have an early flight and will arrive in Portland at 10:30 am. I’ll pick Milaup at Whole Foods and will call you when I land.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 111. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has astomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see thedoctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two.She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3436 - Release Date: 02/11/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 7:07 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE:It is the second weekend, thus she stays with me. In addition in this condition she will not travelanywhere. I will keep you posted on her situation. You can try calling her tomorrow.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE:Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2011 18:42:55 -0500Igor,I have an early flight and will arrive in Portland at 10:30 am. I’ll pick Milaup at Whole Foods and will call you when I land.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has astomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see thedoctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two.She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 112. No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 10, 2011 6:35 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:We called last night and Mila left a message. We will not call tonight-Mila is sick and sleeps. She has astomach virus and I had to pick her up from school early. She vomited a lot and we went to see thedoctors at the ER at Mercy. Supposedly it is going around and it should not be longer than a day or two.She is resting and she will be home with me tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:40 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsI am not taking a chance to lose my child and let you take her out of the country. You are very capableof this and you have told this to Mila just before the hearing.Instead of loosing time playing power games, get on the phone, arrange this, and comply with thedecision. You can ask the same people that helped you sneak Mila to DC all of the time. I will make surethat the passport is current and there is only one before we move further. I am very serious about notloosing my child.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:16:58 -0500Street address is One Monument Way, 2nd Floor; Portland, Maine 04101.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods
  • 113. Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:15:59 -0500There is overnight from Elsworth and you can do this if you want. I am serious about being a dealbreaker.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:12:37 -0500There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. SoI will provide it on Sunday.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsPlease tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michaels office- it will bethere before 5pm.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:02:15 -0500Igor,Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior totomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk - please bring Milas passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. Itwill be a deal breaker if you refuse this.Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either everyweek or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.
  • 114. I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Milas weeklyschedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that caseplease let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will onlyauthorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bagwith clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:59:39 -05005:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at thislate date.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:17 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 115. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsStreet address is One Monument Way, 2nd Floor; Portland, Maine 04101.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:15:59 -0500There is overnight from Elsworth and you can do this if you want. I am serious about being a dealbreaker.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:12:37 -0500There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. SoI will provide it on Sunday.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsPlease tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michaels office- it will bethere before 5pm.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:02:15 -0500Igor,Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior totomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole Foods
  • 116. Ok - please bring Milas passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. Itwill be a deal breaker if you refuse this.Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either everyweek or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Milas weeklyschedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that caseplease let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will onlyauthorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bagwith clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:59:39 -05005:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at thislate date.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 117. No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:16 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsThere is overnight from Elsworth and you can do this if you want. I am serious about being a dealbreaker.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:12:37 -0500There is no overnight from Sorrento. It will not get to you until Monday. SoI will provide it on Sunday.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsPlease tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michaels office- it will bethere before 5pm.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:02:15 -0500Igor,Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior totomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.com
  • 118. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk - please bring Milas passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. Itwill be a deal breaker if you refuse this.Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either everyweek or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Milas weeklyschedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that caseplease let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will onlyauthorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bagwith clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:59:39 -05005:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at thislate date.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 119. No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 2:11 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsPlease tell your friend Bob(or any of them in Sorrento) to mail it overnight to Michaels office- it will bethere before 5pm.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 14:02:15 -0500Igor,Mila’s passport is in Sorrento and I will not be able to access it prior totomorrow. I will give it you on Sunday when I return Mila.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk - please bring Milas passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. Itwill be a deal breaker if you refuse this.Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either everyweek or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Milas weeklyschedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that caseplease let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will onlyauthorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bagwith clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com
  • 120. Subject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:59:39 -05005:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at thislate date.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 1:54 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk - please bring Milas passport this Friday and hand it over to me before I transfer Mila over to you. Itwill be a deal breaker if you refuse this.Also, until the DHHS starts taking the child support from your pay check, you can do this either everyweek or every two weeks your self. You should start this Friday.I also would like to know timely which weekend will you be taking Mila to DC.
  • 121. I will provide you with all the information concerning school, doctors, health insurance, Milas weeklyschedule and activities asap. Feel free to communicate with her school as much as you want and need.I am ok with you picking Mila up earlier on Fridays from her school if you can be here earlier. In that caseplease let me know this timely (before Friday) so I can communicate this to the school. I will onlyauthorize you to pick her up at school. In that case I would appreciate if you make sure that her bagwith clothes and personal things comes back with her on Sundays.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:59:39 -05005:00 at Whole Foods is fine. I’m not able to book an earlier flight at thislate date.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6Feb, I will return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 12:55 PM
  • 122. To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsOk-you could if you are here earlier pick her up at her school. In that case I will let them know this, butlet me know before Friday.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Friday Feb 4th 5:00 pick up at Whole FoodsDate: Thu, 3 Feb 2011 12:39:57 -0500Igor,I will pick Mila up at Whole Foods at 5:00 pm Friday 4 Feb. On Sunday, 6 Feb, Iwill return her at 4:00 pm at Whole Foods.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, February 01, 2011 5:56 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: MilaMila is with me - we are moving in our new place. Instead of calling her school you can call here. Youhave not done this even once. We called several times and we could not leave a message since yourmailbox is full. Again, call so Mila can speak to you.On the visitation issue - Michael was clear about the weekends, but you need to start communicatingclearly. I asked you to do this instead of harassing me with your perceptions of the case. I wish not todiscuss that with you until you move in a better direction. Mila needs a healthy mother in her life and notsomeone who manipulates her and emotionally abuses her each time. I am very serious about this andwill take every legal action possible to prevent yo from doing this to her.Also, just recall what you did to us two years ago with Ken Altshuler when I asked for 3 more hours andyou enforced the schedule that made it impossible for Mila and I to see each other more than 3 hours.Now you are in a similar situation, but I will not do what you did. You should be ashame for that and forall the harm you have been causing Mila. I dont feel sorry for my self, but I do know how Mila felt eachtime you pulled another disgusting thing to prevent her from having a father.On the child support - I am very tempted to say to you " if you want to wait for that to be sort out by thecourt than wait for the schedule to be sort out as well" - but I will not. I want Mila to have her mom in
  • 123. her life. But you should be ashame taking that money, especially now that you have a good paying job. Ihope it will make you feel great that you are receiving it while you are not supposed to. We will make itwithout it. It sure is embarrassing but enjoy while you can playing those games.Our new address : 541 Preble Street, SP Maine 04106. Phone still the same. Try to call at least once.Also, stop bothering me about your job and how you have to do stuff to keep it. I am not impressed andI dont care at all. You tried to destroy me, Michael and many other people. I truly could not care lessabout your job. You choose what you do. Take the responsibility for it. I choose to care for Mila even if Ihave to clean the toilets again at Idexx or elsewhere. And I want her to have a mom and a dad. If youhave anything to discuss about that - put it in writing.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: MilaDate: Tue, 1 Feb 2011 13:00:19 -0500Igor,As you know, my current job now requires me to be in Washington during thework week. My presence there is simply critical if I am to continue to earn anincome, which, as we both know, is important for Milas welfare.Since theres also a court order, that you requested, now in place (pending thejudges decision) preventing Mila from leaving Maine, the visitation arrangementprovided for in existing orders obviously wont work for now. Mila must be withyou during the work week, while I can only be in Maine on weekends.Your attorney has suggested that you are open to a temporary modification, agreedto between us, while were in this situation. Since you are now with Milathroughout the week, can we arrange that I will have my visitation time with herover weekends? This will still amount to less than the time provided for in theexisting order. If you agree to this idea, we can confirm exact times and pickuparrangements. Please let me know.Regarding, child support since these issues are still being addressed by the court, Isuggest we work this out once we know the current custody/visitation arrangement.Any child support issues can be balanced out then, if needed.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00
  • 124. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, January 28, 2011 8:57 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Id like to know where Mila isYou need to start realizing that this is not the way to achieve anything positive for Mila. I amnot interested in your conspiracy theories. Save them for the people around you.It is up to you whether you are going to communicate clearly about Mila. I will do my part regardless ofthat. But keep in mind that it will only affect your schedule if you decide not to inform me what yourplans are. I am not planning to jump at the last minute decisions you might make and cancel school,work and other appointments to meet your needs, while you could communicate things timely andclearly.In addition to the money you keep receiving while Mila is no longer in school in Elsworth, I do take careof all the cost here. It would be responsible to stop taking that money so we can use it for the actualcosts of school and the rest here where Mila is.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: Id like to know where Mila isDate: Thu, 27 Jan 2011 18:13:01 -0500Igor,You know full well when you arranged to have the judge issue a banpreventing Mila from leaving Maine that you were ensuring Mila would betaken from me as you know I have to keep this new job, which is in Mila’sbest interest.Let’s not pretend you are being nice and normal when you have just takenher from her mother and prevented her from relocating to DC with hermother, costing her the place she earned in one of the top private schoolsin the country.I don’t know when I’ll see Mila next—as I assume the judge will give youwhat he must have already promised you and Waxman, your demand forsole custody and to place me on supervised visits.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, January 27, 2011 6:02 PM
  • 125. To: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Id like to know where Mila isMila is with me. I have few days off. It would be nice if you let me know what your plans are, so I cantell her when she will see you or when you will call her. The school told me that you called.Mila is ok, but again, it would be nice if you communicate better and timely.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Id like to know where Mila isDate: Thu, 27 Jan 2011 10:05:55 -0500Igor,School tells me you called and said Mila won’t be in today or tomorrow. I’dlike to know where Mila is.Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Thursday, January 27, 2011 6:02 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Id like to know where Mila isMila is with me. I have few days off. It would be nice if you let me know what your plans are, so I cantell her when she will see you or when you will call her. The school told me that you called.Mila is ok, but again, it would be nice if you communicate better and timely.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: Id like to know where Mila isDate: Thu, 27 Jan 2011 10:05:55 -0500Igor,
  • 126. School tells me you called and said Mila won’t be in today or tomorrow. I’d like toknow where Mila is.Thank you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 12:37 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?When are you going to be able to pick Mila up this week?From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:05:53 -0500Also, since you took Mila out of school in Elsworth you are suppose to receive less child support in firstplace. That money is for Milas school and we need that here.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:00:22 -0500Only to you- it does matter who it is for sure.If you are not able to meet tomorrow because you are traveling, you need to let me know this. Mila willstay here.If you plan to let Mila stay behind with others like in the past, I will not allow this. She will stay here.I gave you a chance to communicate honestly, now I am copying Michael.
  • 127. If you travel, Mila will go to school here. You need to pay the half of the money for that. Also, no onethat is not authorize would be able to pick Mila from school.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:52:18 -0500It shouldn’t matter who. Are you willing to turn Mila over or not?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Who?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:48:25 -0500Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot inBrunswick.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?SureFrom: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:29:43 -0500In Brunswick?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?8am?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:26:26 -0500
  • 128. What time?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:20 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Could you pick her up early Monday morning?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:02:08 -0500Igor,Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm onFriday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 forthe make-up time.Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then onMonday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portlandat 3:00?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:06 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Also, since you took Mila out of school in Elsworth you are suppose to receive less child support in firstplace. That money is for Milas school and we need that here.From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.com
  • 129. Subject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 11:00:22 -0500Only to you- it does matter who it is for sure.If you are not able to meet tomorrow because you are traveling, you need to let me know this. Mila willstay here.If you plan to let Mila stay behind with others like in the past, I will not allow this. She will stay here.I gave you a chance to communicate honestly, now I am copying Michael.If you travel, Mila will go to school here. You need to pay the half of the money for that. Also, no onethat is not authorize would be able to pick Mila from school.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:52:18 -0500It shouldn’t matter who. Are you willing to turn Mila over or not?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Who?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:48:25 -0500Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot inBrunswick.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?SureFrom: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:29:43 -0500In Brunswick?
  • 130. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?8am?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:26:26 -0500What time?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:20 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Could you pick her up early Monday morning?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:02:08 -0500Igor,Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm onFriday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 forthe make-up time.Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then onMonday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portlandat 3:00?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00
  • 131. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 11:00 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Only to you- it does matter who it is for sure.If you are not able to meet tomorrow because you are traveling, you need to let me know this. Mila willstay here.If you plan to let Mila stay behind with others like in the past, I will not allow this. She will stay here.I gave you a chance to communicate honestly, now I am copying Michael.If you travel, Mila will go to school here. You need to pay the half of the money for that. Also, no onethat is not authorize would be able to pick Mila from school.From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:52:18 -0500It shouldn’t matter who. Are you willing to turn Mila over or not?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Who?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:48:25 -0500Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot inBrunswick.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?SureFrom: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com
  • 132. Subject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:29:43 -0500In Brunswick?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?8am?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:26:26 -0500What time?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:20 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Could you pick her up early Monday morning?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:02:08 -0500Igor,Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm onFriday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 forthe make-up time.Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then onMonday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portlandat 3:00?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 133. No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:49 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Who?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:48:25 -0500Ok. A friend will be picking Mila up at 8:00 am in our normal spot inBrunswick.From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:34 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?SureFrom: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:29:43 -0500In Brunswick?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:29 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?8am?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:26:26 -0500What time?
  • 134. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 23, 2011 10:20 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comSubject: RE: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Could you pick her up early Monday morning?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject: what time for pick up of Mila on Monday?Date: Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:02:08 -0500Igor,Since I brought Mila to you on Sat at 3:00, due to the snowstorm onFriday, you indicated you would like to keep her until Monday at 3:00 forthe make-up time.Will you drop her off in the normal spot in Brunswick at 3:00 then onMonday? Or should I pick her up from her Montessori school in S. Portlandat 3:00?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, January 21, 2011 5:39 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:I received a text from you about meeting tomorrow in Portland in the Childrens museum (with anadditional story that I never bring Mila there). You are asking me what time - I would like to see Mila asearly as possible, since I have not been able to pick her up today. What is the earliest you can bring her?Also, I am waiting for your response about Monday morning-From: igormalenko@hotmail.comTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCC: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 135. Date: Fri, 21 Jan 2011 13:17:59 -0500What time tomorrow morning? Also, can you pick her up on Monday morning?From: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comTo: igormalenko@hotmail.com; Igor-Malenko@idexx.comSubject:Date: Fri, 21 Jan 2011 11:57:47 -0500Igor,There is a huge winter storm in effect, as you know. I cannot drive Mila today andwill need to drive her tomorrow when the storm is over.http://www.weather.com/weather/today/Sorrento+ME+USME0382No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, January 16, 2011 12:29 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:Mila woke up stuffed, sneezing and was getting wormer this morning. I gave her one dose of Tylenol andshe is doing well, happy, up and running, but still stuffed and occasionally sneezing. The sore lip she hadwhen she came is gone.She is eating and drinking well.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, August 19, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori Handrahan
  • 136. Cc: MjwaxySubject: Emailing: 207.jpg, 209.jpg, 214.jpg, 215.jpg, 218.jpg, 219.jpg, 222.jpg,223.jpg, 226.jpg, 227.jpg, IMG_0249.jpg, IMG_4919.jpg, IMG_5143.jpg,IMG_5149.jpg, IMG_5150.jpg, IMG_5172.jpg, IMG_5201.jpg, IMG_5231.jpg,IMG_5263.jpg, IMG_5265.jpg, IMG_5267.jpg, IMila got the presents you sent and the cards as well-she was very happy andplayed with them.She wanted to call and say thank you or you can call her as well. She is makingan artwork for you and she will send it when it is done along with a card. We arechecking the email every morning to see if you wrote anything to her- nothing sofar, but if you do write as you said earlier in your e-mails that you would do, Iwill read it to her and she will write back herself. Also, you can set up videocall and talk to her on either Skype or similar programs. We have the webcamready for that.She is doing great, gained lots of weight and strength, still takes afternoonnaps almost every day and has lots of exercise every day. She loves the solarsystem and she learns about the planets. And she dances a lot-she is quite goodactually. She would like to have acting lessons and dancing lessons starting nextmonth. We also looked into the gymnastics lessons. In addition, she swims a bitof freestyle and does the dolphin kicks very well. She can snorkel too.She is too young for the public kindergarten and we will have to look into otheroptions. I will have to do this without your help as you have completely stoppedpaying any child support. At least not to us- your other child-Steve Pickering-gets Milas child support part, as well as all the other crazy adventures yourather undertake than get yourself on a proper track.It would be great when you stop all the crazy stuff you have been doing and tryto concentrate on being a part of her life as she deserves. As I said before, andfrom everything I am learning every day about all your activities to do just theopposite, and cause as much as possible damage as you can to our lives, I doubtyou will ever really want to give Mila what she needs.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, June 02, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:I will take care of Mila and all her needs regardless of whether you will or not fulfill yourobligations.You are obligated to pay child support and if you want to modify that, you need to serve Michaelwith the court papers-he will accept service. You need to file this Motion otherwise you need topay the amount specified in the order.
  • 137. You seem to have enough money for private investigators, for all kinds of unnecessary medicaltesting and examinations of Mila and for airfares and vacations. I do not buy your story for amoment – you live with your ex, he is supporting you, you have two houses here in Maine andyou chose to live in DC. You can fool other people with your story-you were claiming you didnot work last year well, and then on the tax returns you had plenty of earned income. You canrent your houses as in the past and find any kind of job to earn money and take responsibility forMila. You choose not to and you rather spend your time convincing people that I drug her andabuse her.In the mean time life goes further, Mila is growing up and is capable to fully understand whatyour role is in her life. Good luck selling your stories and good luck with your adventures. I amglad that the DHHS knows where you are, since they will be handling the child support situationfrom now on. As I said earlier, we can proceed without serving you at your ex-husband address.You can play seek and hide with others.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 4:56 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I can assure you DHHS knows exactly where I am. If they need to reach me, Iassume they will.The $1,400 per month child support, as you know, was based on a $105,000 salarythat hasn’t since February and the court has not yet altered that child support. Iam living by the grace of friends. I had to make a choice to pay child support ormy mortgage. I choose child support, at $500 per month for April and May. ForJune and forward, until I am employed again, I will probably not be able to sendmore than $100 or so but I will keep sending what I can, for Mila’s sake.Re: the medical bills. You wanted Mila to be on your insurance. I assume she iscovered and you will submit these bills to your insurance.The only medical exam Mila received in DC was the ER visit for vomiting.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:
  • 138. I received the $1000 check you sent and will cash it, even though this is only covering 3 weeksof the 10 you are behind on the child support. At least I can pay some of the school bills forMila.I also received the two bills from the ER and GWU Hospital in DC where you have taken Milawhile you kept her there at your ex-husband’s place for 3 weeks. The first $250 is mine thisyear, the rest is yours. This check of $1000 will cover the medical bills and that means that youstill have to pay the 10 weeks you are behind and obviously the coming months in addition. Justbecause you wrote that the checks is covering April and May child support doesn’t mean that thisis the reality. It will cover the medical bills and perhaps a week of the 10 that you are behind.You have made sure that the address on those bills is not recognizable, in order to prevent mefrom knowing that you actually live at your ex-husband’s place and prevent being served withlegal papers as well as making it more difficult for the DHHS to track you and ask you to paychild support. Very consistent with all your previous actions.Mila tried to call you on Monday and left a message for your birthday and the request to call herback. You never did, just as you have never done this before. The number is still the same.Mila is ok, her vaccine irritation on one leg is almost gone. We are spending lots of time on thebeach, she is learning surfing. She can swim around without floating devices already for fewmonths and she is enjoying the waves. It doesn’t mean that she can be left alone in the water oranything like that. She is water safe and knows how to manage herself in a pool with me next toher. She is confident and has lots of fun, but in water she needs constant supervision.Mila is healthy and happy. She mentioned that she was again examined in her private parts whilein DC – I will make sure to get the documents and include to the rest of the documents aboutsimilar things you have forced her to undergo here in Maine many many times. She truly hatesthat she has to go through any of those obsessive and abusive schemes of yours. Needless to saythat I am disgusted and will make sure that this never happens again to her.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, June 01, 2011 8:18 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:
  • 139. I received the $1000 check you sent and will cash it, even though this is only covering 3 weeksof the 10 you are behind on the child support. At least I can pay some of the school bills forMila.I also received the two bills from the ER and GWU Hospital in DC where you have taken Milawhile you kept her there at your ex-husband’s place for 3 weeks. The first $250 is mine thisyear, the rest is yours. This check of $1000 will cover the medical bills and that means that youstill have to pay the 10 weeks you are behind and obviously the coming months in addition. Justbecause you wrote that the checks is covering April and May child support doesn’t mean that thisis the reality. It will cover the medical bills and perhaps a week of the 10 that you are behind.You have made sure that the address on those bills is not recognizable, in order to prevent mefrom knowing that you actually live at your ex-husband’s place and prevent being served withlegal papers as well as making it more difficult for the DHHS to track you and ask you to paychild support. Very consistent with all your previous actions.Mila tried to call you on Monday and left a message for your birthday and the request to call herback. You never did, just as you have never done this before. The number is still the same.Mila is ok, her vaccine irritation on one leg is almost gone. We are spending lots of time on thebeach, she is learning surfing. She can swim around without floating devices already for fewmonths and she is enjoying the waves. It doesn’t mean that she can be left alone in the water oranything like that. She is water safe and knows how to manage herself in a pool with me next toher. She is confident and has lots of fun, but in water she needs constant supervision.Mila is healthy and happy. She mentioned that she was again examined in her private parts whilein DC – I will make sure to get the documents and include to the rest of the documents aboutsimilar things you have forced her to undergo here in Maine many many times. She truly hatesthat she has to go through any of those obsessive and abusive schemes of yours. Needless to saythat I am disgusted and will make sure that this never happens again to her.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 25, 2011 11:14 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:When the judge orders it – Are you going to file the papers? I am urging you to do it and/or toaccept service so we get this resolved asap.
  • 140. Under this conditions ( the constant emotional abuse from your side and the repeated falseaccusations, among the other problems created by you recently again) and after the last timehaving to go through the FBI to get Mila back home after 3 weeks with you in a in an disclosedlocation(which happen to be your ex-husband home), I am exercising my right as the PR parentto protect my child from more harassment and emotional abuse. I am willing to do it after ajudge orders it based on what we both have to share with him, but I am not taking any risks whenit comes to Mila’s well being any longer.File your papers or accept service (and stop blocking the legal process) so we can get this doneasap. It is you that is obstructing the process, not me.Mila is doing well, she will have her vaccine today. I have her medical records and will sharethis with her doctor before proceeding. I am not sure if it the DtaP or the IPV that was scheduled.I will let you know what the schedule would be and everything else that is relevant. She eatswell, she is happy and healthy. You can call her any time, but it is you that chooses not to.I have mentioned that she has shared many times that you ( and your ex husband Patrick andfriends in Sorrento) are continuously harassing her with all the negative things about me and shereally wants you to stop. I made a mistake last time I allowed you to have her and hoped you willbe able to stop yourself from all of that emotional abuse and harassment she has to constantly gothrough, but you obviously have a different goal. You took her outside of Maine and kept her for3 weeks until the FBI was contacted in addition to all of that and to filing again false abuseclaims.I am aware about you and dr. Ricci’s communication and will follow up with him on that as well.I will hold all of the ER visits and unnecessary tests and examinations you put Mila troughobsessively in the last several years. This is not how my child is going to grow up, I am assuringyou about this.You need professional help if you want to be a good parent to Mila. I am no longer accepting anyof your destructive and negative behavior towards Mila.File the papers or accept service. If you block my attorney and obstruct the legal process, do notwrite to me at all. Get an attorney and let them correspond with Michael. He is my attorney.I will keep you up to date about Mila.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 25, 2011 10:49 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,When will I see Mila?
  • 141. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:25 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Court OrdersI can’t verify that this is Mila’s record-it could belong to anyone.If you continue blocking my attorney and obstruct the legal process and also continue refusing to acceptservice, you will make it impossible for us to move forward and resolve anything-however, we will moveforward without your cooperation. I urge you to rethink what you are doing.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:21 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE: Court OrdersIgor,As I have said, if you continue to forward Mr. Waxman’s emails to me I will beforced to block your emails too. This is the last time I will state this. If Mr.Waxman feels he needs to reach me he can send a letter to my PO Box 100Sorrento Maine 04667.
  • 142. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Court OrdersFrom: Mjwaxy [mailto:mjwaxy@aol.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 1:42 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: Malenko, Igor; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: Court OrdersDr. Handrahan:I am in receipt of your email below. You seem to have difficulty understanding Igors position, so I thoughtI would step in and add my two cents.Igor is the Primary Residential parent AND has ultimate decision-making authority with regard to issuesinvolving Milas well-being if the two of you cannot reach agreement. He is exercising that authority todeny you any unsupervised visitation at all. He is taking this step because you have doggedlydemonstrated that you have no capacity to understand or implement decisions which are in Milas bestinterest. Your repeated false claims of abuse, your repeated attempts to poison Mila to believe that Igoris abusing her, and your continuously bringing Mila in to the hospital and to medical providers forexaminations and drug testing (including taking and freezing urine samples for later testing), illustrateclearly that in the guise of loving and protecting your child, you are actually abusing her emotionally andotherwise. Mila is not safe in your care at this point.Accordingly, Igor will refuse you ANY unsupervised time with Mila. If you would like to have supervisedtime with Mila, then Igor will be happy to arrange it, at your expense, at Connections for Kids. If you
  • 143. desire unsupervised time with your child, then either accept service of process of our Motions, or file oneof your own, and I shall be happy to accept service of process. You can then explain yourself to JudgeMoskowitz.You only seem to cite and respect the Courts Orders when you are demanding something. You recentlytook your daughter to Washington and kept her there, in direct violation of the Court Orders.Please obtain an attorney.Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.usFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 12:04 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,There is currently a court-ordered schedule in place. Mila is to be with her motherevery weekend but one. She has upcoming summer vacation with me.Are you telling me you have made a decision to ignore this court orderedschedule?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anythingchanged.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what theschedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk aboutvacations and other things.You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two monthsnow-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparentlyto resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of thisaside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have beenforcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but you
  • 144. need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make itacceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her firstvaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any ofthe infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplaneand with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you weresuccessful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too.Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk toher. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead ofprivate investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything forher to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you orlet you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week ofAugust. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?=No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Milas yellow book
  • 145. Which part of the message bellow you do not understand? – it is on your side that the file is notattached properly – I am not sure what the “other people” you are referring to have been opening,but they sure did not open this file you are “sending” to me.And if you are sending it at all, it would be the first time ever I have seen this file about Mila.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:50 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Milas yellow bookFrom: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:47 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookIt is not opening- I am familiar with the rest. The file is not recognizable or is corrupted. Pleasere-send.
  • 146. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:46 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookIgor,When will I see Mila?It is a pdf. Easy to open.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:36 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookI can’t open this file -From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:25 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: Milas yellow bookIgor,I’ve given this to you before but here it is again.When will I see Mila?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 3:04 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Milas yellow book
  • 147. Just send the file that is not corrupt – I do not care about other people. You are sending it to me. Ihave sent you the proof that I can’t open. I have no time to deal with your games. Either send itor ask someone else to send it if you can’t attach the file appropriately.I have never seen Mila’s yellow book! You have never shared that with me-and if anything likethat happen to Mila it will be your responsibility-completely. As it is not being vaccinated at all.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:59 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookIgor,Other people can open. It is just a simple PDF file.Why don’t you ask computer support at IDEXX if you are having a problem?Maybe your system is blocked?Mila has had 3 vaccines of tentus. Very important for you to open the file so youcan be sure we keep track. The last thing Mila needs is an overdose.When will I see Mila?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:47 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookIt is not opening- I am familiar with the rest. The file is not recognizable or is corrupted. Pleasere-send.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:46 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookIgor,When will I see Mila?It is a pdf. Easy to open.
  • 148. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:36 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Milas yellow bookI can’t open this file -From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:25 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: Milas yellow bookIgor,I’ve given this to you before but here it is again.When will I see Mila?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 2:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Court OrdersFrom: Mjwaxy [mailto:mjwaxy@aol.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 1:42 PMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: Malenko, Igor; igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: Court OrdersDr. Handrahan:I am in receipt of your email below. You seem to have difficulty understanding Igors position, so I thoughtI would step in and add my two cents.Igor is the Primary Residential parent AND has ultimate decision-making authority with regard to issuesinvolving Milas well-being if the two of you cannot reach agreement. He is exercising that authority todeny you any unsupervised visitation at all. He is taking this step because you have doggedly
  • 149. demonstrated that you have no capacity to understand or implement decisions which are in Milas bestinterest. Your repeated false claims of abuse, your repeated attempts to poison Mila to believe that Igoris abusing her, and your continuously bringing Mila in to the hospital and to medical providers forexaminations and drug testing (including taking and freezing urine samples for later testing), illustrateclearly that in the guise of loving and protecting your child, you are actually abusing her emotionally andotherwise. Mila is not safe in your care at this point.Accordingly, Igor will refuse you ANY unsupervised time with Mila. If you would like to have supervisedtime with Mila, then Igor will be happy to arrange it, at your expense, at Connections for Kids. If youdesire unsupervised time with your child, then either accept service of process of our Motions, or file oneof your own, and I shall be happy to accept service of process. You can then explain yourself to JudgeMoskowitz.You only seem to cite and respect the Courts Orders when you are demanding something. You recentlytook your daughter to Washington and kept her there, in direct violation of the Court Orders.Please obtain an attorney.Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.usFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 12:04 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,There is currently a court-ordered schedule in place. Mila is to be with her motherevery weekend but one. She has upcoming summer vacation with me.Are you telling me you have made a decision to ignore this court orderedschedule?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared or anythingchanged.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see what theschedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we can talk aboutvacations and other things.
  • 150. You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for over two monthsnow-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceed transparentlyto resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that I will put all of thisaside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things you have beenforcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends. She loves you but youneed to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to make all of that disappear or make itacceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receive her firstvaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and no protection to any ofthe infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with you frequently taking her on an airplaneand with her being at school. I am not taking any risks when it comes to her health and so far you weresuccessful in pushing this very important issue away. Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too.Either get on board and be the parent she needs or play your games elsewhere.If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home to talk toher. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay child support instead ofprivate investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretending everything is ok.You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will do anything forher to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t mean we will follow you orlet you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week ofAugust. What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?=No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 151. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: FW:From: Kathy Rogers [mailto:krogers@northatlanticmontessorischool.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 10:08 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: Re: FW:Hi Igor: This is not correct. We are open all summer, no weeks closed. This must be on our webpage that I have not been able to update. Thanks, KathyOn Tue, May 24, 2011 at 8:39 AM, Malenko, Igor <Igor-Malenko@idexx.com> wrote:Hi Kathy,I hope all is well with you and everyone at school – is it correct what Lori is stating bellow thatthe school will be closed this summer?Thank you,IgorFrom: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,
  • 152. I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August.What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?--//// Kathy Rogers// North Atlantic Montessori School//No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You have not been clear about what she has and has not and have refused to consider any ofthem unless it was suitable for you to take her abroad !The medical records show no DtaP – send me the records today! No e-mails, but the actualrecords!From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:22 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,
  • 153. Are you refusing to allow Mila to be picked up on Friday to spend the weekendwith me?BTW, she has had tenus, dtap, as you are aware. I sent you emails about theseshots when we received them at Ellsworth hospital.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared oranything changed.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see whatthe schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we cantalk about vacations and other things.You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for overtwo months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceedtransparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that Iwill put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things youhave been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends.She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to makeall of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receiveher first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and noprotection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with youfrequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks whenit comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away.Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needsor play your games elsewhere.If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home totalk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay childsupport instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretendingeverything is ok.
  • 154. You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will doanything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t meanwe will follow you or let you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August.What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 9:12 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:You need to accept service and show up in court so we can resolve the issues pending!Just because we are a week further doesn’t mean that all the important things disappeared oranything changed.Stop hiding and accept service so we can move further and depending on that we can see whatthe schedule will be, whether or not you can see Mila unsupervised, how often, etc. Then we cantalk about vacations and other things.You need to pay child support so we can pay Mila’s school bills. You are not paying for overtwo months now-it is almost 10 weeks that you are behind.
  • 155. You need to make your official address and employment status known in order to proceedtransparently to resolve the issues that have arisen due to your latest actions. Do not expect that Iwill put all of this aside and expose Mila to more of your emotional harassment and games. Enough of that!Mila is doing well, she is happy and healthy. She has no wish to hear more of the things youhave been forcing her to hear and say, together with your ex Patrick and the Sorrento friends.She loves you but you need to stop. A vacation in DC and bunch of toys are not going to makeall of that disappear or make it acceptable for her. As I said - enough is enough!We have a doctor’s visit scheduled for tomorrow for her vaccination schedule. She might receiveher first vaccine tomorrow if everything is ok – it will be the DtaP. Mila has no vaccines and noprotection to any of the infectious diseases she might get exposed to, certainly with youfrequently taking her on an airplane and with her being at school. I am not taking any risks whenit comes to her health and so far you were successful in pushing this very important issue away.Mila’s health is nr.1 priority. Her well being too. Either get on board and be the parent she needsor play your games elsewhere.If you have interest in more information either write about that in an e-mail or call at our home totalk to her. Again, accept service and show up in court so we can move forward. Pay childsupport instead of private investigators. Show some responsibility and stop pretendingeverything is ok.You are not making her life easier this way, but we will make it anyway and do well-I will doanything for her to have a normal life. Just because you choose to be destructive doesn’t meanwe will follow you or let you pull us with you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, May 24, 2011 8:29 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I see Mila’s school will be closed the 4th Week of June until 3rd Week of August.What are your plans for Mila during this summer holiday?I plan to pick Mila up this Friday at school, as per the court judgment for myweekend visit with Mila. Will you attempt to block this again?
  • 156. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, May 19, 2011 10:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Kathy Rogers; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: RE:I will make sure that you can be served the court papers as soon as you show up there-regardlessof the time or the day. I will alert the police and the DHHS as well.If you want to proceed resolving what you have created, you need to accept service and stophiding around avoiding to get served. Eventually we can proceed without you accepting itanyway.Or you can file papers in court yourself. I have explained my position in my e-mail last week andMichael has done this as well. Michael will accept service of anything you and your ex-husbandPatrick are planning to file.Mila has again mentioned several times about your continuing to disparage me, telling her that Iam a “bad father” and a “bad person” and scaring her by telling her that “you will put me in jail”and also she mentioned that your ex-husband Patrick was saying this as well. You also keeptrying to force her to say that I have abused her sexually or otherwise or acted inappropriately inany way.I look forward in seeing you both in court and hearing you explain your scams. If any of youdecides to show up at Mila’s school today or tomorrow, you will get served. If you decide to takeMila away again without my permission, I will place an Amber alert and have you arrested.You took Mila and kept her for three weeks, without being allowed this. There is no pre-schoolvacation you refer to and there is no “make-up” time. You had Mila more than you were allowedand if you want this to get resolved sooner rather than loosing time on playing games, you needto accept service and/or file your papers in court. I am not going to permit Mila to be exposedagain to your continuous emotional abuse.Also, you have not paid child support for two months now, while you spend the money onprivate investigators and other things that you give priority over Mila’s school. DHHS will be intouch with you about the child support as well.I would wait on any vacation planning until we get in court first. I would save the money youhave for vacation for the child support you are not paying, if I were you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 4:17 PM
  • 157. To: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Will you oppose my court ordered time with Mila this weekend? I plan to pick herup at school on Friday and return her on Sunday—per my normal visit time.I would like confirmation on the summer vacation and 5 days of make-up timeplease.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: summer vacation scheduleYou are absolutely correct about your assumption that I would need you to follow the one monthnotification period concerning any vacations with Mila according the court order you are citing. That is when a vacation would be a possibility, meaning after the court here in Maine decideswhether or not you would be allowed to spend any time with Mila unsupervised in the future.That same court order is the one you violated several times in the past weeks and that same orderobligates you to pay child support you are refusing to pay for almost two months now.You seem to have your priorities wrong and seem to have funds to do many things and none ofthem includes paying child support that pays for Mila’s school.That same court order gave me the PR status based on your refusal and inability to co-parent andit also pointed out that I have the ultimate decision authority when we cannot agree on theimportant and essential issues concerning Mila and her well being.You dont seem to understand the consequences of your recent decisions. You have made falseclaims of abuse to DHHS. You have coached our daughter to say false, bad things about herpapa. You have brought our child into the Maine Coast Memorial Hospital and other medicalproviders, repeatedly, in order to obtain unnecessary examinations and drug tests. You haveextracted and frozen Milas urine for future drug tests and apparently kept her excrements aroundfor the same purpose.
  • 158. You have publicly accused me of being a methamphetamine user and drug addict.You have take Mila across state lines and refused to return her, in violation of the Court Ordersand state and federal law. You kept her on an undisclosed location, without allowing us to haveany contact throughout all the time you kept Mila with you and violated the court order thatgives you 3 weekends per month (one in two months in DC if you live there!). You kept herwithout any approval from my side or prior knowledge since April the 22nd and returned heryesterday (drop her off at her school without any notice to me) after I contacted the FBI.You have refused to accept service of process and you have played a foolish game, probablywith the assistance of Pickering and your ex-husband Patrick.I am not ever relinquishing our daughter to you again without a Court Order telling me to do so.I am the PR parent and I have ultimate decision making authority. I believe that every day Milais with you, she is suffering emotional abuse as well as physical abuse, in that she is beingprodded and probed and tested for conditions that do not exist.If you want to see Mila again, you will have to come to the Maine courts and explain yourself toJudge Moskowitz.If you decide to stop at Mila’s school without any prior notice to me and try to remove Mila fromher school on the days other than you are allowed to have her, I can ASSURE YOU that thepolice will be with you in a matter of minutes. Everyone that is aiding you in these attempts totake Mila away from her home and from me unlawfully, will be held accountable – that includesyour ex-husband Patrick and your private investigator Pickering.I am looking forward in seeing you in court, here in Maine. Also, looking forward in hearingyou and your ex-husband Patrick explain the scheme thoroughly. I am glad I kept the records ofhis involvement in our life and this case from the beginning. I am sure you both still believe whatyou have told me long time ago that “justice is something for poor people”.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:04 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: summer vacation scheduleIgor,Per the order, I need to notify you of my two, two week periods with Mila duringthe summer. I am doing so now.Friday 10 June I would like Mila to stay with me for a two week period starting 10June Friday until 26 June Sunday. Then on July 8 Friday I would Mila to stay withme again until Sunday July 24th.
  • 159. If you agree, I would prefer to do the first two week period from Friday 20 Mayuntil Sunday 5 June but I assume that you will make me provide the court orderedone month notification period and will not allow this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:19 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:One more thing – if it appears that you are owed time after we are able to properly address thewhole issue, I will have no problem with that. Right now, I believe you are wrong that you areowed any time. Moreover, you have failed to reason and you made your decisions yourself orwith help from others, who I do not believe are giving you appropriate advice. But it yourresponsibility at the end. You can’t keep doing this.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Monday, May 09, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:I do not- your calculations are wrong and I have no intent of discussing this over e-mail underthese circumstances any longer. You seem to think that whatever you decide or enters your mindis the order of the day. There is no “make-up” time and there is no “pre-school vacation”, justbecause you decide to make it appear in the court order. You did what you did and you will haveto take the responsibility for this. I am expecting this to be addressed in court, since there is noother way of dealing with you. You missed two weekends in April, no 24 days, and you missedthem because you filled false abuse accusations again. It was Mila that was reluctant of having tohear more of that and I have obligations to protect her from those things. She has expressedherself clearly about that on several different occasions. You need to stop causing problems andblaming others for them. You can’t decide unilaterally that there is April vacation and that youare owed that time. It does not work that way.You have disturbed Mila’s life and created huge problems as usual. I am use to it, but frankly Ireached my limit about trying to make you understand that this is only going to affect younegatively and most importantly Mila’s life and future. You seem to be not able to realize thatyour actions do have consequences and that this game you are playing with other people personal
  • 160. and professional lives is just no longer acceptable. Mila’s school needs to be paid (you had alsofail to pay the JCA in the past), you are refusing to contribute anything to her school costs foralmost two months now. Mila has missed several ballet lessons and would miss her finalperformance tomorrow. She looked forward to this, but somehow everything she has or doeshere, she is not able to enjoy without having to go through all this terrible things you are puttingus trough over and over again. She loves you, but you are not able to understand what she trulyneeds from you. You got to realize this and spend your time on better things.If you bring Mila back home in Maine tomorrow, it will be a good decision. I will let her schoolknow this, although as I said they need to get paid and we have not received any money fromyou.If you do not bring Mila back I will start a criminal case today and we will have to go throughany possible legal venue to make you understand that Mila needs to be back home here in Maine.I hope you will make the right choice.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 2:39 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I am stunned you would call the FBI over my spending my make-up time withMila in DC.Since you have created such a fuss I have tickets back to Maine and will returnMila tomorrow to her school.You still owe me 4 days of make-up time. When will I be able to use this time? Iwould like to use it next week and pick her up next Tuesday from school. Do youagree?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:56 AM
  • 161. To: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I am glad she is better-I will try calling her later today.Please keep me posted on how she is doing.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:34 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Mila got either a stomach bug or ate bad watermelon. She is fine now but sleeping.We were up all night and went to ER at 5:00 am to get the anti-vomitingmedication which stopped her dry heaves. She is still a bit warm—but seems to befine.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, April 28, 2011 11:25 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:I waited to talk to Mila yesterday, but there was no call. I will try again in a while.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2011 3:25 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: RE:Mila is fine and napping. She is thrilled to be in DC and enjoy all that DC has tooffer like the zoo and many playgrounds. We will try to call you later.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2011 12:34 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:I called to talk to Mila after 11am this morning and no response. I left message and will try thisafternoon again.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 162. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 8:53 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: Mjwaxy; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: FW: FridayIt sounds to me like you are not planning to return Mila on Sunday – I am hoping that is not the case,just as I am hoping that you will not continue emotionally abusing her.I am willing to give you a chance to show that you are willing to understand what Mila needs and whatshe absolutely does not need in her life. It is up to you which way you are going to take this.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 7:45 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: FridayIgor,Please tell me the DHHS person and police officer you are working with so I canassure them myself that I have only Mila’s best intentions and always have.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, April 22, 2011 6:55 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: FridayThe "undisclosed" location sounds as creepy as everything else you produced so far.Milas reply to being picked up this week is no different from last week or the week before that -"mama needs to make a promise that she will not talk bad" and " did she make the promisepapa?". .Unless you do, I will not say to her that you did. I want Mila to have her mother in her life,butyou got to stop forcing her to say things that are not true and frighten her with "getting rid of me".I am planing to bring Mila at school today and even if you pick her up without making thepromise she needs to hear, I expect her to stay in Maine and return on Sunday.The DHHS is aware of the situation and so is the police. You have to stop using Mila for yourselfish goals - she truly is unhappy about this and it is absolutely unacceptable. You got tounderstand this or you will alienate her and hurt her again and again. She needs both her parentsin her life but only in a healthy way.I need to hear back from you about returning Mila this Sunday before attempting to pick her uptoday. If you choose to behave as so far I will choose to protect my child from your behavior.
  • 163. On Apr 21, 2011, at 6:33 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I plan to pick up Mila at her pre-school tomorrow, Friday, 21 April.I have been told you are keeping her out of school on Fridays and keeping her in anundisclosed location so I cannot pick her up. I hope you will not do this tomorrow.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, April 14, 2011 2:48 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Alicia.Cumming@maine.govSubject: RE: picking up Mila on Friday for her weekend visitLori,The problem is that Mila is refusing to go to you until and unless you stop harassing her witheverything you have been asking her to say about me and everything you have been telling herabout me that is not true and it is disgustingly inappropriate. She is very frustrated about this andit is child abuse. I would like her to see her mom and I have always been very accommodatingbut I cannot accept this any longer-especially when our child is asking me to step up.I am not willing to play experiments with Mila’s feelings and I will do what she is asking me andthat is to stay here. I have been warning you and asking you to stop for months now-you refuseto even consider this. Avoiding to respond all that time and now again falsely accusing me ofhitting Mila is a sign that you have no intentions to stop using Mila for your sick, selfish goals. Iwill not permit you to use Mila for this and I will protect her from yours and your friends’ abuseanyway I can do this legally.
  • 164. Are you willing to promise not to say anything bad about me to Mila and ask her to say thingsthat never happened to please you? Are you willing to stop forcing her to say things that are falseand wrong? It is hurting her and disturbing her to a point she refuses to stay with you if you dothis – this is what you have accomplished so far. If you are able to promise this in writing, I willask her this afternoon and let you know what she says. This is not a game to me-you crossed theline about what is acceptable long long time ago. But, for Mila’s sake I have tried-now she is fedup herself and I will do everything I need to, to protect her.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, April 14, 2011 8:14 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: picking up Mila on Friday for her weekend visitIgor,I can plan to pick Mila up sometime during the morning, before noon, fromschool. I’ll return her Sunday at the bakery at 7:00 pm.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:27 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againI absolutely do not agree for any make-up time at this point. I have sent a clear e-mailand have no plans on engaging further in discussion. You will be served papers eithertoday or tomorrow. I gave them both addresses- S.P. and Sorrento. I am also eagerlywaiting for the DHHS to finish this investigation. If you attempt to take Milaunauthorized there will be police involvement and certainly any possible legal step toprevent you from doing to Mila all the disgusting abusive things. I am done waiting foryou to stop abusing her and using her for your ludicrous goals.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, April 11, 2011 9:21 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again
  • 165. Igor,Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her again. Do you agree for mymake-up time to start this Tuesday.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 1:31 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againYou hit Mila in the head with a pan and there is a child protection investigationand you are telling me you are “not going to permit me” to see Mila except onsupervised visits?When is my make-up time for the past 2 missed weekends scheduled? I would likethat to take place this week. Shall I pick her up Tuesday at 7:00 am and return heron Sunday at 7:00pm? This would make up the lost weekend.Please let me know. Please also let me know where Mila is and who is living withMila now.Thank you.From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 10, 2011 8:26 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: Re: Please tell me where Mila is and when I will see her againMila is well and she is with me - she is actually glad that she does not need to hear allthe false and disgusting things you ask her and force her to say each time she is withyou. She is fed up and refuses to stay with you unless you promise to stop and abandonthis emotional abuse immediately - I told you I will not accept you doing this to our childand I have an obligation to protect her from this ongoing horror, especially now that sheis asking me her self. I am very sad that you cant realize what you are causing her andI am very upset that you do not want to abandon your quest to destroy me and use Milafor this terribly selfish goal.As soon as you are able and willing to put Milas interests ahead of your own selfishdesires, I will happily agree to permit you to enjoy visitation. Until you stop trying tobrainwash Mila and destroy me, I will not permit you to see Mila unsupervised. You areharming her tremendously and I am glad she decided her self that it is enough of that.She loves you and would like to have her mom in her life but she says that you have tostop forcing her to say things that are not true and bad about me like me doing anythingbad to her, talking bad about her grandparents and about her touching my private parts.Enough is enough.
  • 166. Mila seems anxious and fearful to be away from me even when I leave the room, whichis directly caused by these claims by you and your friends that you will "get rid of me"and that " you will put me in jail". She is also more emotional in the last few weeks andshe ask me to talk to you and ask you to promised to stop saying to her that she "touches my private parts" , "that I am hitting her..." , and the other " bad things aboutpapa constantly" . This is child abuse and I am not allowing this to take place anylonger- not even one more time. The glass is full and this is absolutely unacceptableand wrong. How can you say you love Mila and go on using her and abusing her foryour pathetic and selfish goal to harm me? This only shows that you are really unfit tobe a parent.Do you rather lose your child than make honest attempt to go forward and have Mila enjoynormal life and childhood? You have to stop emotionally abusing her immediately!On Apr 9, 2011, at 10:08 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:I’d like to know where Mila is and when I will see her again.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, April 04, 2011 9:44 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be living full-timewith Mila?Please find something else to keep you busy - if my friend comes to visit and ends up staying with us, Iwill let you know anything that is necessary for you to know. This unlike your attempts to provide anytransparency about Milas whereabouts every single weekend.For now there is nothing more you need to know. I would spend my time on other things if I were you - westill have not received the child support check for last week.If you keep engaging in hiring private investigators and making things more acrimonious over and overagain, I will probably have to refuse more things in the future. I am not going to allow you to harass myfriends.
  • 167. Stay away from our house and stop following us and interrupt on our time. No notes on the doors either. Ifyou ignore this I will go to the police.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, April 04, 2011 8:18 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be living full-time withMila?Igor,Are you refusing to provide the full name of the person who will now be livingfull-time with Mila?From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Sunday, April 03, 2011 10:03 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonightFollowing us here in the street, after couple of messages on the phone and then living a note onmy front door is inappropriate and honestly a bit creepy - dont do this again please. Interruptingand trespassing, following are not normal things. Your obsession with my friend is also a bitunhealthy. You do not need to have her biography and harass her or anyone around me and Mila.When you realize that it is you that need to be transparent about issues directly connected toMila, then you might demand information like that the way you are doing.On Apr 3, 201hat 3:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan"<lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Then I have Mila this coming weekend? Which is the weekend, per the schedule,she is with you? I’d like to pick Mila at 4:00 on Thursday from school and returnher Sunday at 3:00 pm.Please let me know the full name of your childhood friend who will now be livingwith Mila and when she is scheduled to move in with Mila.Thank you.
  • 168. From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Saturday, April 02, 2011 8:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: Re: Mila tonightWe already rearranged everything like ballet tickets etc. Mila is looking forward to this and wealready switched weekends, made new plans and closed the discussion yesterday- no more lastmin. changes again, thank you-On Apr 2, 2011, at 7:24 AM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,I will be in S. Portland tonight and would like to have Mila with me.I can pick her up at 4:00 at the bakery and return her at 2:00 on Sunday at thebakery.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 10:20 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:The answer is - no. I offered you my weekend instead.I assume you are now accepting the official weather report and not the one you provided earlier (that suitsyour reality)-
  • 169. If you are incapable of understanding why it is very important to communicate timely and clearly abouteverything concerning Mila, especially the "pick an drop off times" you will keep doing this over and overagain. But, I will not. It is up to you.It is Mila that benefits from knowing when her mother is going to pick her up. She likes to know this and Ilike to be able to provide her correct answer. She will expect to be picked up at a certain time. The schooltoo-otherwise they will call me and I will count on picking her up because you might not show up (and asusual not communicate this). I dont care that it is easier for you not to communicate clearly and beconsistent with the agreements. I care about Mila. If she stays beyond lunch or nap time, we need toknow this and plan. The school prefers to know this too. Anyone but you. But, this is not about you.Occasionally, people can change schedules and are late, etc. But if you cant commit to make steadyarrangements, accept the consequenties. We will not leave the way you do. Mila needs stability andconsistency. I prefer it too.If you were living in Maine as you stated falsely in your letter to the court, you would not need to create aproblem every Friday. I never changed my pick up times, I was there every time when I was supposed topick my child up. Couple of times even waited for nothing.You can have my weekend - this one is going to very messy and we will avoid dragging Mila troughunsafe situations. Please communicate timely and clearly from now on, so we can avoid unnecessaryconflicts.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 10:04 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Right—as I said—how about I pick her up today?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 9:57 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:It is very important to know when exactly you are picking Mila and also dropping her off. I have explainedseveral times why (go back and re-read the e-mails) - and I insist you make sure you communicate thisproperly and timely-If you dont I will not wait for your last minute arrangements. We have a life to organize and if you feel thatpaying games is what we like to do, you are wrong. If you have a difficult travel schedule then I suggestyou put that in the letter to the court in addition to thee misstatements (lies) about you living here inMaine.For tomorrow - the weather is going to be bad, very bad as of now. As of now, Mila will not travelanywhere and stay here with me. I already arranged this at work and the next time you will make a priorityto respond to my e-mail about Mila and her well being or I will have to make a decisions without you. Justlike for this weekend.I offered you my weekend instead.
  • 170. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 9:17 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I will be picking Mila up at 9:00 am tomorrow at school.You have forced me to drive through hundreds of snow-storms, demanded I drivein a full-blown gale and now you are suddenly concerned?The snow tomorrow won’t start until late afternoon. It will be light. I have beenforced, by you refusing to change the schedule, to drive in far, far worse.In general, I would like to end all this conflict around Friday pick-ups. You are atwork all day and Mila is in school all day. I am juggling a difficult travel schedule.It should not a bit of difference to anyone when I pick Mila from school on Friday.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 8:59 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:It looks like tomorrow will be very messy after all- I do not want you to drive Mila anywhere in the middleof the storm. I will take a day off and stay home this weekend with Mila. You can have the next weekendinstead. It is better and safer. I have waited for your response, but I have to make decisions and arrangethings at work. I cant do this at the last moment all the time.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, March 29, 2011 9:46 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wetsnow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in badconditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switchweekends and Mila can be safe.In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additionalday on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila.Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if you
  • 171. locate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not trueobviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you needto be transparent about this. If you dont, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila,paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job andasking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila youneed to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there.Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks thatcover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weeklyinstead of one time whenever you wish.Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "puttingme in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I willconsider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain itthere himself.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 9:57 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:It is very important to know when exactly you are picking Mila and also dropping her off. I have explainedseveral times why (go back and re-read the e-mails) - and I insist you make sure you communicate thisproperly and timely-If you dont I will not wait for your last minute arrangements. We have a life to organize and if you feel thatpaying games is what we like to do, you are wrong. If you have a difficult travel schedule then I suggestyou put that in the letter to the court in addition to thee misstatements (lies) about you living here inMaine.For tomorrow - the weather is going to be bad, very bad as of now. As of now, Mila will not travelanywhere and stay here with me. I already arranged this at work and the next time you will make a priorityto respond to my e-mail about Mila and her well being or I will have to make a decisions without you. Justlike for this weekend.I offered you my weekend instead.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 9:17 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,
  • 172. I will be picking Mila up at 9:00 am tomorrow at school.You have forced me to drive through hundreds of snow-storms, demanded I drivein a full-blown gale and now you are suddenly concerned?The snow tomorrow won’t start until late afternoon. It will be light. I have beenforced, by you refusing to change the schedule, to drive in far, far worse.In general, I would like to end all this conflict around Friday pick-ups. You are atwork all day and Mila is in school all day. I am juggling a difficult travel schedule.It should not a bit of difference to anyone when I pick Mila from school on Friday.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 8:59 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:It looks like tomorrow will be very messy after all- I do not want you to drive Mila anywhere in the middleof the storm. I will take a day off and stay home this weekend with Mila. You can have the next weekendinstead. It is better and safer. I have waited for your response, but I have to make decisions and arrangethings at work. I cant do this at the last moment all the time.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, March 29, 2011 9:46 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wetsnow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in badconditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switchweekends and Mila can be safe.In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additionalday on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila.Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if youlocate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not trueobviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you needto be transparent about this. If you dont, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila,paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job andasking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila youneed to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there.
  • 173. Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks thatcover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weeklyinstead of one time whenever you wish.Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "puttingme in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I willconsider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain itthere himself.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 31, 2011 8:59 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:It looks like tomorrow will be very messy after all- I do not want you to drive Mila anywhere in the middleof the storm. I will take a day off and stay home this weekend with Mila. You can have the next weekendinstead. It is better and safer. I have waited for your response, but I have to make decisions and arrangethings at work. I cant do this at the last moment all the time.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, March 29, 2011 9:46 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:This Friday could be very messy on the road in Maine-there is a big snow storm predicted, heavy wetsnow mostly. If you plan to pick Mila up, do this early in the morning in order to avoid driving in badconditions. I will not be ok with you driving in the middle of the storm and in that case we can switchweekends and Mila can be safe.In general, you should strive to pick Mila up early on Fridays rather than late and then ask for additionalday on Sundays. You can organize your flights from DC to do this early and enjoy the time with Mila.Otherwise, she is driving late to Sorrento and you are loosing your whole day. It would be easier if youlocate closer (just as you are stating in your Motion to modify that you already have, which is not trueobviously) and make it easier for Mila (and your self) to enjoy your time. If you have a job in DC you needto be transparent about this. If you dont, I am not sure why you are staying there, far away from Mila,paying for plane tickets, renting cars, etc. every week, while you state that you do not have a job andasking the court to lower child support. If you want things to move forward and make it easier on Mila youneed to seriously start making improvements. False statements would not get you there.Also, you have not responded about the week of child support you are behind. You send checks thatcover 8 weeks. This period(Feb.1st-March 31st) has 9 weeks. I am asking you to send the checks weeklyinstead of one time whenever you wish.Lastly-Mila mentioned again the same about your friend Bob making the same comments about "puttingme in jail" and "getting rid of me". I urge you to stop doing this immediately as I have done before. I will
  • 174. consider refusing you visitations if this keeps going on and take your friend to court. He can explain itthere himself.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, March 30, 2011 2:14 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:It was Milas special day at school today. She brought Byka so that everyone can meet him on theplayground. She also brought fruit for everyone and her favorite toy to share at circle time with a story sheliked to tell everyone. She was very happy and the kids were very excited to meet her dog.We went swimming on Monday and she had her ballet lessons yesterday. She is doing great in both andhas lots of fun.I still need answer about Friday - last minute replies are not the best way to communicate and arrangethings properly.Also, since you have money for the private investigator you are hiring, make sure you pay the childsupport on time. That should be your priority. You are still avoiding to reply about that issue.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 2:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Friday pick upSchool called to tell me that you have not yet picked up Mila. Again, you are saying here bellow that it willbe between 9-11. I hope everything is ok.But, the importance of accurate or approximately accurate times is necessary for Milas well being.An example is that if she is not staying there for nap (or lunch) we will maybe not bring her sleeping stuff(blankets, pillow, animals, etc.). Also, she will expect you early and probably look forward to being picked
  • 175. up early. Also, if I know that you are picking her up after lunch or nap, I will make sure that I drive overand encourage her to eat her veggies and even read her her books and make sure she has a good nap.And most important, she will know what is happening and not feel abandoned.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 6:11 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: Friday pick upIgor,Looks like I will now be getting Mila sometime before noon.I’m not exactly sure what time—anywhere from 9-11 I think.I’m juggling some professional obligations and that is why the timing keepschanging.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 9:21 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE: Friday pick upShe is not - we will be here.But this is not an answer to my question - you need to stop playing this games and provide the essentialinformation voluntarily. I am not willing to spend more time on the same every week-From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 7:17 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE: Friday pick upIs Mila traveling with you and your childhood friend Lilly?From: Igor Malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 25, 2011 5:26 AMTo: Lori Handrahan
  • 176. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: Re: Friday pick upIs Mila traveling outside of Maine while with you this weekend?On Mar 24, 2011, at 5:10 PM, "Lori Handrahan" <lorihandrahan5@gmail.com> wrote:Igor,Looks like I will now be getting Mila sometime before noon.I’m not exactly sure what time—anywhere from 9-11 I think.I’m juggling some professional obligations and that is why the timing keepschanging.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:12 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Friday pick up I will again repeat the same question as every week - is Mila going to be in Maine or do you have plansto travel with her outside of Maine? If you do, please inform me where Mila is going to be and with whom-
  • 177. From: Malenko, IgorSent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW: Friday pick upFrom: Malenko, IgorSent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:09 PMTo: Lori HandrahanSubject: RE: Friday pick upI will inform the school about the pick up times-From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:00 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: Friday pick upIgor,I will pick Mila up at school tomorrow, Friday, sometime between noon and 4:00.I will return her to you at Whole Foods in Portland Sunday at 2:00 pm.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 3:08 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:I would like to ask you to stop harassing Milas school and to stop threatening them with legal actions byyou or your attorney. I was informed by Kathy today about your phone calls and requests as well as yourthreats.You can not request Kathy to refuse your mother, Milas grandmother to pick Mila up at school, when Ihave approved this. I have informed you that I insist that Mila has quality time with her grandmother andthe rest of her family and that on a occasion Mila will be picked up by your mother, her grandmother, andbrought to either our home or ballet lessons. I also pointed out in my e-mail that I am aware that youobject this and that I nevertheless will allow Mila to see her grandmother and her family, and make sure
  • 178. that she has normal relationship with them. If you have any objections about this, you should direct andshare those with me, not with the school.In the last judgment it was specified that if there is a dispute between us on a matter that concerns Milaand we can not agree on how to proceed, I would make the decision. I also pointed out this in my e-mailand since Kathy has this document and this is already discussed it with her, is aware of this situation.I also pointed out then and will repeat it now, that I do not allow anyone besides you to pick Mila up atschool and I also discussed this with Kathy. The judgment is clear about this and if you have an issue withthis lets meet in court and discuss this further in front of a judge.My motives with not being ok with anyone but you have been clear from the beginning - you have neverbeen transparent about Milas whereabouts and have consistently used third party to hide and transportMila even out of the State (frequently) without any prior sharing or approval from my side, since I filed fordivorce (actually even before that). The people you have used are not friendly towards me and haveoccasionally caused incidents that were beyond acceptable. They are not promoting my relationship withMila, have never done this and have also tried to help you by falsely testifying in court. The others, thathave not stood in front of the judge, like your friends Bob, Lisa and Terry from Sorrento, have even gonefurther and still are, by constantly saying to Mila that they "will get rid of me". This is still going onaccording Mila and she is very upset about this. These are not the people I will allow to be around mychild or in any case to pick or transport Mila anywhere. Also, I am strongly objecting to you leaving Milaalone with any of them. If you ignore my request, I will go to court and ask for sole custody and alsoconsider other immediate legal measures.Do not confuse these people with your mother, Milas grandmother and stop harassing the schoolimmediately. This is Milas school, a place where she has friends and good relationships with the teachersand likes spending time there. She doesnt need you to destroy this.If you ignore my request I will take legal action immediately.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011 10:39 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:Milas is doing well, she had her ballet lessons on Tuesday and she loved it. We went swimming onMonday and Tuesday evening and she is making lots of progress. She dives with goggles on and wepractice swimming above and under water without floating device for short times when she likes it, but stillkeep it on when she wants it. She also practiced snorkeling and using fins-she is very good with both.She saw her grandmother yesterday and had a nice day-went to the library and the beach.Starting the second or third week in April she will take a two week break from school-I have some time offand we have a friend of mine coming to visit and stay with us. She is my childhood friend and Mila alreadyknows her and feels very comfortable with her. I am not sure if we can omit paying for those two weeks atschool but I will certainly ask and let you know. If we do not need to pay the school for those two weeks,the child support for those two weeks will be adjusted.
  • 179. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 22, 2011 11:17 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: March child supportJust want to let you know that starting February 1st and ending march 31st there are 9 weeks. The childsupport checks you are writing should reflect that.It is better if you send this weekly and we will avoid this kind of confusion in the future. Right now I have toe-mail,ask and even notify you that you need to do comply with the d.judgment and you avoid respondinguntil I suddenly get an e-mail like the one bellow. I rather arrange this properly.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, March 21, 2011 1:52 PMTo: Malenko, Igor; Igor MalenkoSubject: March child supportIgor,The March child support entire check will be mailed to you today-I sent you andSMS this morning. When I have the delivery confirmation I will scan and send.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 18, 2011 12:29 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:I just came back from Milas school and guess what- she was not there! I re-read the e-mail bellow and Iam sure it says that you will be picking her up at 4.30pm.I checked my e-mails and my text messages, as well as my phone calls and nothing there from youmentioning that you will be at Milas school at 9am today.
  • 180. I would like to know if you are changing the pick up times and I would like to know this timely. Unlike you,I and lots of other people like stability and order. I have to arrange things at work to get out longer andsee Mila for lunch. I have to prepare 3 meals for her and extra clothes as well as everything she needs fornap time in order to have everything be properly arranged for her and if you know (which you obviouslydid!) that you will be picking her up half hour after I drop her off at school, then I would like to know this!You had plenty of time to inform me.If you think that this is acceptable-next time you might drive over there for nothing your self. I am doingmy best to be fair and transparent with you-you need to do the same.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:36 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:NoFrom: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok- is she traveling outside of Maine?From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:09 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I’ll be picking Mila up at 4:30 this coming Friday from school and returning herSunday evening at 6:00 pmNo virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, March 16, 2011 11:09 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:
  • 181. Milas first day at the ballet school went well. She loves being with all the girls and she is very excitedabout dancing with them.You can call her at home after school and she will tell you more about it. You could also Skype with her. Iwill make an account on her name.Also, are you planning to send any child support for this month? If not, at least let me know this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok- is she traveling outside of Maine?From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 15, 2011 11:09 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I’ll be picking Mila up at 4:30 this coming Friday from school and returning herSunday evening at 6:00 pmNo virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, March 14, 2011 11:28 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:
  • 182. Mila is doing well, there was almost no trace of blood in the mucus yesterday and today. She is at schooltoday.She is starting pre-ballet tomorrow afternoon 3.45-4.30 at Portland Ballet School. She was there on thewaiting list since November/December. They called last week and she can start. We got all the things sheneeds. It is for 8 weeks initially. You could also bring her sometimes too if you are in Maine. You will haveto communicate timely when you can do this, so I can make arrangements at school and at work.We will go to seethis http://www.mainestateballet.org/msb_performances/sleepingbeauty-2011.asp on the 9th ofApril. maybe you can also take her earlier. She will love it.Also, tomorrow she will stay with Cooper and your mom for the afternoon and skip school. She loves toplay with Cooper and we have stayed there once before on Tuesday(Cooper is there on Tuesday all thetime). They really are having a great time together. I know you are objecting that she stays with yourmom, but it is good for Mila to see her grandmother and also her cousins occasionally. As I said, theyreally like playing together a lot. You mom will bring her to Portland in the afternoon and I will meet themat the ballet school.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 2:45 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:According the judgment, the last bill from the ER would probably be my responsibility ( the first 250$ ismine ). After that we have to split accordingly.Also, the bill from the last ER trip here (when Mila was vomiting because of the virus) was sent to ouraddress with your name on it (Mila was under your coverage then). I opened it accidentally not noticingyour name. It did not get covered a lot by your insurance and you will need to see why. I will give this oneto you. It falls under the old arrangements and we will have to worked that out properly. I will look intowhat the old arrangements were about similar things.
  • 183. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:55 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Mila has been blowing blood mixed with her mucus off and on all week. I took awatch and see approach. Thursday am she blew a small blood clot so I took her tothe ER. They said it was probably related to her cold/strep throat. Please keep aneye on this and let me know if she continues to have blood. You might take her tothe doctor next week.I also took her to the hair salon and she had a cut and condition. Her hair was sotangled and knotted it took special condition and lots of getting brushing to clean itup. If you can use some spray condition every morning and encourage her to brushthe back of her own hair, even just once, with a gentle bristle brush that will helpeliminate the dreadlocks she was starting to get.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:59 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Ok-thanks for letting me know. We will see the doctor next week. We are also working on the hairbrushing and using conditioner all the time, which helps a lot. Also, tangles free spray sometimes. Not herfavorite thing though-brushing hair. I will keep encouraging her.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 12:55 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,
  • 184. Mila has been blowing blood mixed with her mucus off and on all week. I took awatch and see approach. Thursday am she blew a small blood clot so I took her tothe ER. They said it was probably related to her cold/strep throat. Please keep aneye on this and let me know if she continues to have blood. You might take her tothe doctor next week.I also took her to the hair salon and she had a cut and condition. Her hair was sotangled and knotted it took special condition and lots of getting brushing to clean itup. If you can use some spray condition every morning and encourage her to brushthe back of her own hair, even just once, with a gentle bristle brush that will helpeliminate the dreadlocks she was starting to get.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 11:07 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Yes - thank you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 11, 2011 10:58 AMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Are you willing to meet in Brunswick tomorrow at 4? Same place as before—theparking lot between the coffee shop and police station on Main street.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 185. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 3:29 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:Glad to hear that she is ok- we’ll keep brushing and eat healthy foods as always-She gets Trader Joe’s apple jus with very low quantity of sugar and brushes at least twice a day. Sheloves green beans and carrots and on and of other veggies. She doesn’t really eat any sweet things,except pancakes and waffles with honey and maple syrup. She also likes the children’s pro-biotic yogurtfrom Trader Joe’s. She gets their vitamins and omegas in gummy bear form every day. Also, turkeybacon and grilled chicken and turkey sausages are her favorite things.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 08, 2011 3:20 PMTo: Igor Malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,Mila went to the dentist today for her regular cleaning and check up. She is goinggreat.One of her front teeth is a tiny bit loose and may be the first baby tooth to comeout.She needs to continue brushing morning and night for about 2 minutes and limitsugars and keep up fresh fruits, veggies, protein etc.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 1:15 PMTo: Lori Handrahan
  • 186. Cc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:Glad to hear-thanks-From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 1:13 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,No fever at all. Medication is on schedule. She is very happy.From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 12:56 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:I would like to know how Mila is doing today – is she still having the fever and is she taking themedications as prescribed?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, March 07, 2011 12:56 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:I would like to know how Mila is doing today – is she still having the fever and is she taking themedications as prescribed?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 11:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 187. I am-I was offering you next weekend in case we decide it is not good for her totravel this afternoon after or while having fever.I am just trying to communicate with you clearly and do what is best for Mila.There is no other reason for it-no sickness manufacturing like you did in thepast.If she is miserable and still feverish it is better for her not to travel backand forth. If you feel that way too, you can use next weekend instead.Otherwise, we will meet today. I will see her for lunch and if she is doingbetter hopefully no fever, I will let her stay at school. If you are here before5pm please pick her up at school.If she is spiking fever again, I will take her with me at home. Then we will meetelsewhere when you are here.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 11:00 AMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Mila will be in Sorrento. Are you planning to allow this visit or not?-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 10:49 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:She is fine, since I spent the whole night taking care of her. She is finesince I gave her Tylenol this morning and I am hoping she will not spike thefever again as she did since yesterday afternoon after I picked her up atschool. I told you that lots of kids there are sick and passing the germs toeach other unfortunately. I do not walk around passing germs-but you doafter plane travel.I know about the State law - I could have stayed home-but you said you arepicking her up and I assumed that it would be early like the last time andsince the fever was away because of the Tylenol, I brought her there hopingyou will pick her up right away.But you do not communicate at all and you decide to let me now things at the
  • 188. last moment and this is unacceptable. You NEED to communicate clearly andtimely.Before you get on a plane and travel for nothing YOU NEED to let me knowwhere is Mila going to be if she is with you. If you fail to abide by thejudgment and co-parent, I will not bring Mila today or any other time in thefuture. There is only one way forward and that is to co-parent andcommunicate. Anything else is not acceptable any longer.If Mila spikes fever in the mean time again I will go and pick her up fromschool and stay at home with her as I always do. In that case it is betterfor her not to travel to wherever you were planning to take her- withoutproperly informing me about her whereabouts you will not take her anyway.I stay up at night, I stay up during the day, I take off when needed andwill always be there for my child. If you keep making things up and aretrying to blame me for Mila having the flu and also accuse me ofmanufacturing her illness if she is sick, you will not move an inch forward.Let me know where you are planning to take her this weekend and anyfollowing weekend starting now. Then we can discuss it properly and see whatis the best for her.It is really up to you which way this goes.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 10:34 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide bythe court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had afever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her toschool. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers saidthere is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simplytrying to come with a reason to block the visit.Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my"off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila willnot have spent time with her mother.-----Original Message-----
  • 189. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strangeeverything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have nocontact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able toknow whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discussfurther with you the details of my decision making since you are obviouslyonly busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are goingto use for your delusional conspiracy theories.Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I willpick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive toSorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her torest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you areavoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays hereuntil you provide that information.If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that Iam not interested in discussing with you please call others that like tolisten to you and your nonsense.Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Milamight get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems anddid not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when sheneeds this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am notinterested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It isall nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesntseem to be anywhere near.If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get thereto find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. Thereis a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their
  • 190. fever has stopped.I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less thantwo months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everythingelse you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where shewill be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by stillavoiding communicating clearly and timely.I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=
  • 191. -----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 10:49 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:She is fine, since I spent the whole night taking care of her. She is fine sinceI gave her Tylenol this morning and I am hoping she will not spike the feveragain as she did since yesterday afternoon after I picked her up at school. Itold you that lots of kids there are sick and passing the germs to each otherunfortunately. I do not walk around passing germs-but you do after plane travel.I know about the State law - I could have stayed home-but you said you arepicking her up and I assumed that it would be early like the last time and sincethe fever was away because of the Tylenol, I brought her there hoping you willpick her up right away.But you do not communicate at all and you decide to let me now things at the lastmoment and this is unacceptable. You NEED to communicate clearly and timely.Before you get on a plane and travel for nothing YOU NEED to let me know where isMila going to be if she is with you. If you fail to abide by the judgment and co-parent, I will not bring Mila today or any other time in the future. There isonly one way forward and that is to co-parent and communicate. Anything else isnot acceptable any longer.If Mila spikes fever in the mean time again I will go and pick her up from schooland stay at home with her as I always do. In that case it is better for her notto travel to wherever you were planning to take her- without properly informingme about her whereabouts you will not take her anyway.I stay up at night, I stay up during the day, I take off when needed and willalways be there for my child. If you keep making things up and are trying toblame me for Mila having the flu and also accuse me of manufacturing her illnessif she is sick, you will not move an inch forward.Let me know where you are planning to take her this weekend and any followingweekend starting now. Then we can discuss it properly and see what is the bestfor her.It is really up to you which way this goes.-----Original Message-----
  • 192. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 10:34 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Before I travel for 8 hours, I need to know if you are planning to abide bythe court order and allow Mila her time with me or not. Yes or no?I just called school and they said she is fine. I doubt she ever had afever. And if she did, you were not allowed, by state law to take her toschool. Since she is at school now with no fever and the teachers saidthere is no indication that she is sick whatsoever, I assume you are simplytrying to come with a reason to block the visit.Will you allow Mila to be with me this weekend or not? Next weekend is my"off" weekend so if you block this visit it will be a month that Mila willnot have spent time with her mother.-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strangeeverything but your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have nocontact with you at all. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able toknow whether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discussfurther with you the details of my decision making since you are obviouslyonly busy with one thing-how to turn everything into something you are goingto use for your delusional conspiracy theories.Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I willpick her up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive toSorrento or wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her torest than travel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you areavoiding answering my question again you can consider that Mila stays hereuntil you provide that information.If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that Iam not interested in discussing with you please call others that like tolisten to you and your nonsense.Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Milamight get a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and
  • 193. did not even mention this. I take care of my child day and night when sheneeds this and do not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am notinterested in what you find concerning and what your statistics show. It isall nonsense from the beginning till the end. Only the end of that doesntseem to be anywhere near.If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get thereto find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. Thereis a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after theirfever has stopped.I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less thantwo months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everythingelse you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where shewill be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by stillavoiding communicating clearly and timely.I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]
  • 194. Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:56 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: FW:Also, do not take any longer Milas extra clothes from her plastic box at school.The teachers wanted those there just in case.Not sure why you feel the need to take them and not mention this-probably toconduct some kind of a "test" in a "national lab" together with your companions.Very healthy behavior------Original Message-----From: Malenko, IgorSent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:
  • 195. I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange everythingbut your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no contact with you atall. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to knowwhether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss furtherwith you the details of my decision making since you are obviously only busy withone thing-how to turn everything into something you are going to use for yourdelusional conspiracy theories.Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will pickher up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to Sorrentoor wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to rest thantravel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are avoidinganswering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here until youprovide that information.If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I am notinterested in discussing with you please call others that like to listen to youand your nonsense.Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila mightget a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and did noteven mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she needs this anddo not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not interested in what you findconcerning and what your statistics show. It is all nonsense from the beginningtill the end. Only the end of that doesnt seem to be anywhere near.If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get thereto find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. Thereis a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after theirfever has stopped.I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less thantwo months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.
  • 196. -----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everythingelse you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where shewill be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by stillavoiding communicating clearly and timely.I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=-----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11
  • 197. -----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:36 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I am not interested at all in what you find strange - you find strange everythingbut your self. I find you beyond strange and rather have no contact with you atall. But you are Milas mother and I am doing my best.If you had communicated earlier about the times I would have been able to knowwhether you are picking her up early or not. I am not going to discuss furtherwith you the details of my decision making since you are obviously only busy withone thing-how to turn everything into something you are going to use for yourdelusional conspiracy theories.Here is my answer- if Mila is not better, the school will call me and I will pickher up. In that case she will stay here with me. She will not drive to Sorrentoor wherever you are taking her, since it will be better for her to rest thantravel back and forth if she is not better. Also, since you are avoidinganswering my question again you can consider that Mila stays here until youprovide that information.If you have anything to share about the State rules and other stuff that I am notinterested in discussing with you please call others that like to listen to youand your nonsense.Maybe if you stop bringing all the germs from the airplanes every week Mila mightget a break. You brought her last week back with a throat problems and did noteven mention this. I take care of my child day and night when she needs this anddo not go around spilling nonsense like you. I am not interested in what you findconcerning and what your statistics show. It is all nonsense from the beginningtill the end. Only the end of that doesnt seem to be anywhere near.If Mila is better I will let you know where to pick her up. If not she stayshere. You can have next weekend.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:24 AMTo: Malenko, Igor; igor malenkoSubject: RE:Igor,Ok. Ill be in Portland around 4:00 and will check with you when I get thereto find out if I should pick Mila at home or school.It is strange school would have taken Mila if she really had a fever. Thereis a State rule that children cannot go to school for 24 hours after their
  • 198. fever has stopped.I also find it concerning since Mila has moved to live with you, less thantwo months now, you are reporting her sick nearly every week. Her entire 4years before this I can count only 3 or 4 times she was ever sick.-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everythingelse you are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where shewill be during the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by stillavoiding communicating clearly and timely.I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels.She is at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stayhome with me.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=
  • 199. -----No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11-----Original Message-----From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 9:10 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:This is why it is good to communicate about pick up times - and everything elseyou are avoiding to communicate about concerning Mila - like where she will beduring the weekend. Not sure what you are achieving by still avoidingcommunicating clearly and timely.I am not sure where the pick up will be today. It depends on how Mila feels. Sheis at school now, but if she spikes fever again I will pick her up asap.I need to know where Mila will be during the time with you - here in S.P. orSorrento or elsewhere. If you do not clearly communicate this, she will stay homewith me.-----Original Message-----From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 7:50 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,Ill be picking Mila up at 2:30. If not at school, please let me knowwhere.-----Original Message-----From: igor malenko [mailto:igormalenko@hotmail.com]Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:38 AMTo: lorihandrahan5@gmail.comCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila still has fever 102. I gave her Tylenol last night two times. Shedrinks a lot- make sure you have enough in the car. Also probably better ifyou pick her up before school. She should not go there with fever. What timecan you meet?Sent from my iPhone=-----
  • 200. No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, March 01, 2011 3:26 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: insurance cardHere is Milas new health insurance card -She is doing better today and is back at school.What time are you planning to pick her up this Friday? What time are planning to bring her back onSunday? Are you staying in Maine or going to DC with her?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 9:16 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject: RE:I do not want Mila to be driven by you at night all the way to Sorrento. You have very bad night vision andthis is not safe.You can pick her up at school on Friday ( and give them another copy of the Spurwink report!). This waythey will have one more thing to read in addition to the court papers they already have.Also, I woul like Mila to be back home on Sunday. I need to know when on Sunday and I need to knowthis timely, not at the last minute. I also need to know where Mila will be ( Sorrento, DC, etc.) and withwhom.You either are going to accept the reality and cooperate or I will keep going to court.I am willing to consider longer weekends (Th-M) as you are suggesting, but not before you startcooperating, communicating, stop the nonsense with Bob and Terry immediatelly, stop the false garbageabout sexual abuse asap and start paying child support.
  • 201. From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:58 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I need to book my tickets today so please do let me know about a Monday, the 28th,drop off at school as soon as possible. Thank you.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 8:52 AMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:Igor,I would like to pick Mila up this Thursday night, if you allow. This makes thedrive easier for her as she sleeps in the car and gives us a full day together onFriday. I would also like to drop her off at school on Monday morning, the 28th.Do you agree?No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 23, 2011 9:08 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Fawcett, BethSubject:Lori-Mila again mentioned that Bob Gelman and this time Terry Noyes as well, were saying again to her thatthey will "get rid of me". I will report them both and I am for the LAST time asking you to stop thisimmediatelly. Mila is very upset by this.If Mila is around those people and it happens again I will not allow the visits to go trough until you are ableto prevent that from happening. I do not allow any of them to take care of Mila or transport her anywhere.
  • 202. Also, you should stop harrasing her about me doing anything wrong to her. She is upset and bothered bythis and I will not accept it any longer - I am very serious and I will act legaly to prevent this from going on!It is an emotional abuse and I will not allow you to have Mila unsupervised if you continue this.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 5:18 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.comSubject:Here are the medical records from the last visit to ER when Mila was vomiting last Thursday.Also, school information concerning monthly schedule, daily activities and other important things. Thisway you are up to date with Mila’s school activities and can plan to call her in between.I would appreciate if you return Mila’s clothes that you took the last time as well as what she wore today.We can’t keep buying things and those are her everyday school clothes that she needs here. This hasbeen an ongoing issue and you need to stop this. You wanted to separate everything and you need torespect that those are Mila’s personal items and she needs them here.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 5:12 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Fawcett, BethSubject: RE:Yes, I contacted the DHHS because I was very concern and these are the reasons: • you had refused to communicate with me or take Milas phone calls • you show up well before 4:00 today to pick Mila up w/no notification and refuse to communicate about your intentions with her this weekend, possible travel and returning information • you leave strange, concerning messages for the day care providers and Mila • your friend Bob says harmful things to her in front of you and you are ok with that • you leave the Spurwink Report, which has been discredited with the day care????And you find it necessary to remind them that they are a mandated reporter? Obviously you are plottingagain and that is VERY bad for Mila.
  • 203. But, keep in mind that this might cause you to lose your parental rights eventually. You are on the wrongpath and Mila is not benefiting from your actions.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 3:16 PMTo: Malenko, IgorSubject: RE:Igor,I sent you and SMS and told you I had picked Mila up for my court orderedweekend visit time and will return her, as court ordered, on Sunday.I have no idea why you are copying DHHS but I find that interesting. What isDHHS going to work with you to have me placed on supervised visits next? Is thatthe story?From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 11:33 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Fawcett, BethSubject:Mila’s school called me and told me that you went there and picked Mila up. This was not discussed withme and I do not approve your actions. I do want Mila to be with her mom, but you are simply disregardingthe judgment and all my efforts to co-parent and communicate. You refused to reply to any of my e-mailsand did not return any of Mila’s calls. I told you that I am not agreeing to you behaving like this and simplyshowing up at school and taking her away with no prior communication. I have no idea where Mila is,when you will return her or where you are bringing her. This is not acceptable and I will not agree to anyof this any longer. You choose to behave like this and you choose to be destructive. This is your choice.I need to know asap where Mila is and what you are intending to do about her return here. Where are youbringing her and when are you returning her back? If I do not hear anything I will take legal steps asap.I will hold you responsible for anything you do to Mila, any harassment, any emotional abuse any attemptto make her confuse and manufacture false accusations again and any of your and your friend’sstatements that are made to her and are inappropriate.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Friday, February 18, 2011 11:33 AM
  • 204. To: Lori HandrahanCc: mjwaxy@aol.com; Fawcett, BethSubject:Mila’s school called me and told me that you went there and picked Mila up. This was not discussed withme and I do not approve your actions. I do want Mila to be with her mom, but you are simply disregardingthe judgment and all my efforts to co-parent and communicate. You refused to reply to any of my e-mailsand did not return any of Mila’s calls. I told you that I am not agreeing to you behaving like this and simplyshowing up at school and taking her away with no prior communication. I have no idea where Mila is,when you will return her or where you are bringing her. This is not acceptable and I will not agree to anyof this any longer. You choose to behave like this and you choose to be destructive. This is your choice.I need to know asap where Mila is and what you are intending to do about her return here. Where are youbringing her and when are you returning her back? If I do not hear anything I will take legal steps asap.I will hold you responsible for anything you do to Mila, any harassment, any emotional abuse any attemptto make her confuse and manufacture false accusations again and any of your and your friend’sstatements that are made to her and are inappropriate.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 3:47 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: FW:One last thing-The messages you are left at school for Mila are inappropriate and confusing for a child. She does notneed to deal with your visions of what is going on. It is enough for her that she has to go constantly troughall kinds of changes you are causing by repeatedly focusing on the wrong things and trying to find newways to ruin her life and her relationship with me and her her family.Mila knows that you have a busy job and that you doing your best to be there as much as you can andthat you love her dearly . She does not feel she is separated from you due to your versions. It is notappropriate to confused her the way you do and make her feel sad. Even the teachers were not happywith this. They will not play a message like that to Mila. Just tell her that you love her and you miss herand anything like that. It is more than enough. But burdening her with your stories of how "you areseparated because of...but not for long..." and "that she should be telling the truth" are sad and confusing.If you are back here in Maine let me know this and I can tell her that you might be around more often. Oreven better - try to do this and be around more often. You have a possibility to be close to Mila and if youchoose not to do it, do not burden Mila with confusing stories. I am not telling her that you left her oranything like that. There is no need for making things worse. Try to answer her calls when she calls, try tocall her, move closer to her and start co-parenting.Anything else is wasting of time and will not bring you closer to Mila. I want her to have both parents and Iwant her to have a mom in her life. But not if you are unhealthy and behave in a destructive way for Mila.Stop wasting time on conspiracy theories, stop plotting with Margo and Bob, Campbell and Devoe and
  • 205. start being a mother Mila will be proud of. Get a job close to her so she can have both parents in her life.It is the only thing she wants. She says "maybe mama can move back in the white house and I can walkover with Bijka when I want to see her". She is not excited about DC life style, or about having only amother. She needs a mother and a father.She needs you to start behaving differently. Think about this.From: Malenko, IgorSent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 2:53 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila called you again last night for Valentines day and left a message. Again you are not picking up orreturning her phone call.I need you to respond within a day about whether or not you are able to see Mila this weekend. If youdont, I will not ask again. Mila has called and called, I have requested basic information about yourwhereabouts and ability to see her and up to date no answer. Very irresponsible and absolutely not goodfor Mila.Also, nothing on the ordered child support you need to pay. This is not acceptable.I would like to know if you are planning to see Mila and how we are going to arrange this for this Friday. Iwould like to let you know that you are the only person that I authorize to pick Mila up and to drive Milaanywhere. No one else, especially not Bob. I want to be clear about Mila not being allowed to be drivenby him or left in his care ever. If you ignore this I will refuse to hand Mila over. If you decide to ignore myrequest and try to pick Mila up from school without communicating this to me, I will take you to court asap.I will not allow the visit to go trough if you do not follow court orders and communicate timely andappropriately with me about transitions and visits. If you plan to take Mila to DC- I need to know thisbefore the end of the day tomorrow. I will not accommodate last minute replies because you decide toignore me and behave irresponsibly. If you are residing in Maine again you need to inform me ( I amaware you are here since yesterday). If you are residing in DC or elsewhere I need to know where Milawould be and the address and phone number. I am not flexible on this at all.I do not authorize Bob or anyone else to care for Mila and I will take legal action if you disregard myrequest.If you plan to co-parent you need to start doing this immediately. Pay your part of the child support andcommunicate about Mila timely and clearly. Anything other that this is unacceptable. If I have to figureout everything my self and be responsible for everything while you are hiding, I might as well have solecustody.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3444 - Release Date: 02/15/11 02:34:00
  • 206. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, February 15, 2011 2:53 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:Mila called you again last night for Valentines day and left a message. Again you are not picking up orreturning her phone call.I need you to respond within a day about whether or not you are able to see Mila this weekend. If youdont, I will not ask again. Mila has called and called, I have requested basic information about yourwhereabouts and ability to see her and up to date no answer. Very irresponsible and absolutely not goodfor Mila.Also, nothing on the ordered child support you need to pay. This is not acceptable.I would like to know if you are planning to see Mila and how we are going to arrange this for this Friday. Iwould like to let you know that you are the only person that I authorize to pick Mila up and to drive Milaanywhere. No one else, especially not Bob. I want to be clear about Mila not being allowed to be drivenby him or left in his care ever. If you ignore this I will refuse to hand Mila over. If you decide to ignore myrequest and try to pick Mila up from school without communicating this to me, I will take you to court asap.I will not allow the visit to go trough if you do not follow court orders and communicate timely andappropriately with me about transitions and visits. If you plan to take Mila to DC- I need to know thisbefore the end of the day tomorrow. I will not accommodate last minute replies because you decide toignore me and behave irresponsibly. If you are residing in Maine again you need to inform me ( I amaware you are here since yesterday). If you are residing in DC or elsewhere I need to know where Milawould be and the address and phone number. I am not flexible on this at all.I do not authorize Bob or anyone else to care for Mila and I will take legal action if you disregard myrequest.If you plan to co-parent you need to start doing this immediately. Pay your part of the child support andcommunicate about Mila timely and clearly. Anything other that this is unacceptable. If I have to figureout everything my self and be responsible for everything while you are hiding, I might as well have solecustody.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3444 - Release Date: 02/15/11 02:34:00From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, February 14, 2011 9:19 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:
  • 207. We called you twice in the last few days - no answer. Mila left messages. She is doing better and is inschool today.Sorry to hear about your job. I need to know what you are planning to do about contributing to Milasschool bills. It is now the second month that I pay for everything alone. First you collected the supportwhile Mila was living here and going here to school, now you are supposed to pay but you dont. And youdont communicate at all. This is not good, especially not for Mila. We are waiting to hear back from you.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3441 - Release Date: 02/14/11 02:34:00From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Wednesday, February 09, 2011 9:48 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: infoDentist:Horutz Kathryn L DDSPlace page173 Ocean AvenuePortland, ME 04103-5728(207) 772-1205Doctor:Dr. Cydney Mahoney, MDBowdoin Medical Group51 Ocean StreetSouth Portland, ME, 04106Phone Number:(207) 799-8596These are the healthcare professionals we will use here. I need to know who to contact directly to forwardMila’s file to them (old doctors and dentist).We need your address ( Mila likes to send you art work she is making for you at home and school) and aphone number we can reach you and call frequently. I need you to provide this info and not to refer me toold e-mails. I can’t look for them and I want to have everything arranged properly so that Mila can call youand send you mail.You can call us on my phone : 207-4094538. Our address is 541 Preble Street in SP (04106).I will be adding Mila to my insurance this week. I already started the process and will send you her cardinfo as soon as I get it. You can then cancel the one you have right now. It is Aetna. If you like to comparethe plans, send me the info about the one she has now and I will also send you the one I have.
  • 208. Mila is at school this whole week. She is there from 8.30 till 17.00. You can call her. I go there for lunchfrequently (around 11.45) and try to read to her before her nap, which is after lunch. She is doing verywell, but it would be nice to have a chance to talk to you more often. Let’s arrange that asap. You canalso Skype with her if you want. You will need to let me know this and I will set it up for her with pleasure.We are trying to start the dancing lessons at Maine State Ballet (she was on a waiting list last year) andlooking into gymnastic classes. Some of these activities are on Saturday as well, so you could also gotogether. I will give you more info when I have this. Further, we swim after school several days in theweek and this is also possible in the weekends here at the Y (she has a membership and you could usethis, schedule on their website –the I-pool) .She eats well, at home and at school too. We work on subtractions and additions under 10 and she likesthe Disney stories before bed time (101 Dalmatians, Petar Pan, Lady and the Tramp, etc.)Teacher’s names: Dona, Carla, Nillu and Kathy (the owner).No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 11:28 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject:I am sure you received the e-mail from Michael about your friend Bob. I will make sure he doesn’t harassMila any longer with the things he has been saying such as “he will get rid of me”. That is unacceptableand it will have to stop immediately. It sounds like you were there too and you confirmed this. Shame onyou. You should get the message from the court and start being a good parent to Mila. This is not what agood parent would do. I want to make it clear that I will not accept this from anyone. You need to get youract together asap. As for Bob, I will take him to court and let him explain what he is up to.From now on, I will not accept him around Mila at all. This means if you show up with him in the car, Milastays here. He will not drive our child anywhere or will Mila drive in the same car with him; he will not playany kind of a roll in her life, period. I am very serious about this. I will take you and him and any one elsethat harms Mila straight to court. Never will I allow Mila to have to hear that kind of stuff any more. Youought to prevent that, not encourage it. What kind of a parent would do this to a small child, or any kind ofchild?Obviously, I have no control over what you will do in Sorrento. But, if you think that even though I made itclear that Bob should not be around Mila any longer, especially since he has been saying this things, thatyou can ignore this and do what you please and by that expose Mila to unhealthy situations, I will actlegally to prevent this. I am very upset and I will make sure that that guy explains in court what he is up to.
  • 209. You need to move in another direction. This will not help at all.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2011 7:51 AMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Thursday pick up at Childrens MuseumIt is ok – you don’t need to give us a whole hour back for the 20 minutes. I will be there at 4.00 to pickMila up.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Wednesday, January 12, 2011 5:55 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: Thursday pick up at Childrens MuseumIgor,We will be in Portland tomorrow at the Children’s Museum.If you would like to pick Mila up there at 3:30 to make up for the time that I havebeen 20 minutes late on the last drop-off. That is fine with me. Just let me know.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00
  • 210. From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:17 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE: Relocation HearingI have asked several specific questions about your move, your new job and the specific dates of yourintended relocation. You have never responded.Why did you not inform me that you have already taken Mila out of her school, if you are still here? Theschool confirmed this yesterday. On top of everything, you keep collecting child support based on schoolcontribution. It is not the first time.You have already moved your car and lots of Mila’s things to DC last week and obviously unilaterallydecided how everything should proceed concerning Mila’s future.We will have to wait and see if that is what the court will decide. I obviously oppose your intention to takeMila to DC and therefore I asked Michael to file the Motion for an immediate hearing on this issue. Thiswas the answer to your sudden (but well expected) notice to relocate to DC with Mila. I have no objectionto you moving anywhere-it is Mila that I oppose you will take along with you on your adventures. Youhave put us trough many of them since the day we’ve met. I strongly believe that it is not in Mila’s bestinterest to be again relocated, especially since it will have a huge impact on her life.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 2:15 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject: FW: Relocation HearingIgor,So this is how you show cooperative, friendly co-parenting? By havingyour lawyer falsely accuse me of kidnapping Mila? My God. Whenwill you stop. As I told you in my official relocation notice to you of 30days—that is I am relocating 30 days from that notice to you or 18January. I have work obligations, as always, that I need to travel for, butI am adhering the visitation schedule and still residing in Maine until the18 of Jan.That you would try to take Mila away from her mother because I wantto, need to be employed is beyond parent alienation and all the otherthings you falsely accuse me of. Why would take a child from hermother? You do realize, don’t you that if you are successful in takingMila from her mother you will have destroyed your own child? Yourealize by trying to force me to choose between employment and
  • 211. primary residence of Mila—you are committing Mila to a life ofpoverty.You never replied to my questions about co-parenting during thistransition. I guess because you never planned to do so—you planned totry to block my move, my new employment? I will have to proceedwithout your input, then, placing Mila in a Montessori school in DC andsigning her up for activities. She would like to take Ballet and we will beliving just near the famous Washington Ballet School.It would nice if instead of filing motion after motion in court—trying toget me accused of kidnapping Mila, etc. you accepted Mila’s move withme to Washington DC and the fact you will have the exact same timewith her you have now, at my full expense. Opposing it, is totallyunjustified and only serves to destroy your own daughter and hermother.From: Mjwaxy [mailto:mjwaxy@aol.com]Sent: Monday, January 03, 2011 12:28 PMTo: ehoffman@hanleylaw.net; jmeier@law.gwu.eduCc: igormalenko@hotmail.comSubject: Relocation HearingAttorneys Hoffman and Meier:I spoke with Judge Moskowitzs clerk this morning and learned that the Court has scheduled a hearingregarding Ms. Handrahans intended relocation on Friday, January 14,2011. As you are aware, this is 26days after Ms. Handrahan gave informal 30 day notice of relocation to Igor, through an email. So, thehearing will be on the 26th day after notice was received.Mr. Malenko is fearful that Ms. Handrahan has already relocated, in fact, with the child to Washington,D.C. I hope that this is not so, and that your client will deliver Mila to Mr. Malenko for his scheduledvisitation this Friday, and that she will attend the hearing next Friday.If I discover that your client has in fact relocated with Mila, I shall familiarize myself with the Uniform ChildCustody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, 19-A M.R.S.A. sec 1731 et seq. ("UCCJEA") and the ParentalKidnapping Protection Act, 28 U.S.C.A. sec 1738A et seq. ("PKPA") and I shall do whatever is necessary,legal and appropriate to have your client stopped, if need be by using law enforcement authorities toarrest her. Obviously, if that is necessary, it would likely impair her ability to enjoy parental rights andresponsiblilities in the future, not to mention persuade a Maine judge to require that visitation with thechild, if any, be supervised. Honestly, it would be shame if Mila were not able to enjoy frequent visitationwith both her mother and father. I do not relish the likely outcome which your clients actions may bringabout.
  • 212. I suggest that you make efforts to get in touch with Ms. Handrahan and share with her my concerns andmy intentions, should she decide to ignore the Maine Courts.Michael J. Waxman, Esq.One Monument Way, 2nd FloorP.O. Box 375Portland, Maine 04112-0375(207) 772-9558 phone(207) 772-9567 faxwww.waxmanlaw.usP.S. I am copying attorney Meier on this email because if I am correct about Ms. Handrahan havingalready relocated to Washington, D.C. with the child, she will need counsel down there, and I am makingan assumption that attorney Meier is the most likely candidate. Even if I am incorrect, perhaps attorneyMeier could nonethless have a discussion with Ms. Handrahan about the propriety of leaving Maine inorder to forum-shop or evade the Maine Courts.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00From: Malenko, Igor [mailto:Igor-Malenko@idexx.com]Sent: Monday, December 20, 2010 2:58 PMTo: Lori HandrahanCc: MjwaxySubject: RE:I would like to know when you are intending to move to DC exactly.I also would like to see all the relevant information concerning your new employment asap.From: Lori Handrahan [mailto:lorihandrahan5@gmail.com]Sent: Sunday, December 19, 2010 9:53 PMTo: igor malenko; Malenko, IgorSubject:December 19, 2010Igor,As you know I have been unemployed since 2009, when I chose to retain primaryresidence for Mila rather than relocate to Washington, DC as required by my
  • 213. employer. I am happy to say I have been offered, and accepted, new employment.I am sure you will agree it is in Mila’s best interests for her to have employed,financially secure parents, so I hope you will be glad for Mila. The position is backin Washington, DC, which should come as no surprise because in my specializedfield there are very few positions outside of DC or NYC.This email serves as my official 30-day notice of relocation with Mila toWashington, DC as required by the judgment.I know you support Mila’s Montessori education and I have explored options forher continued educational development. I am delighted to let you know she hasbeen accepted in a Montessori school in DC that offers French and Spanish. Iwould like to discuss the specifics with you at your earliest convenience. She isable to enroll immediately upon our arrival in DC I will, as I have done, continueto send you all reports and newsletters that I receive from her school.I hope that you understand that this move is absolutely necessary for me to make aliving. I have tried since 2009 to do my best working from Maine, but it is just notrealistic given my profession. Nevertheless, I am committed to maintainingsignificant contact between you and Mila.Given this move, I believe our current visitation schedule is unworkable. I proposethat we work out a schedule that provides you with the same amount of time youcurrently enjoy with Mila, but allows me to be employed. I am willing to fly withMila, at my expense, back to Maine every other weekend Thursday-Sunday duringthe school year. I can start this visitation schedule on Thursday, February 3, 2011and alternate so the visits would continue on the weekend of February 17 and soon. I would need to work around the flight schedules but it looks like I would comein Thursdays at 4:30 pm and would need to depart Sundays at 5:17 pm. I alsopropose that during the summer Mila reside with you from Sunday-Thursday. Iwould fly back to Maine and pick Mila up on Thursday afternoons (we wouldspend a long weekend in Sorrento) and return her Sunday. I am also willing forMila to have school vacations with you. If you can suggest an alternate schedulethat will provide similar contact with the same or less travel, I will be happy towork with you.Being in DC allows Mila a world of opportunity. We will be living near a famousmusic school and I hope you agree that I will expose Mila to all this school has tooffer and enroll her in music lessons of her choice. If you agree, I will alsocontinue her gymnastic classes and every other weekend I assume we will enroll
  • 214. her in dance and soccer as she has long wanted to do. As always, I will continue topay 100% for her schooling and extracurricular activities.I hope you will be able to negotiate this in good faith without filing more courtmotions. Working this out together, without an ongoing court battle, is in Mila’sbest interest and is the best example of good co-parenting.No virus found in this message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 2012.0.1901 / Virus Database: 2109/4704 - Release Date: 12/26/11No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.comVersion: 9.0.872 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3439 - Release Date: 02/12/11 02:34:00