FL.Flawless Persuasion

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FL.Flawless Persuasion

  1. 2. Facilitating Meaningful Change/Learning Rejection & Judgment Self-Acceptance Self-Awareness & Presence Avoidance of Reality Defensiveness & Blame Self-Accountability Vulnerability, Openness Fear & Self-Protection
  2. 8. <ul><li>PRINCIPLES: </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Deep Connections </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Clear, Direct, Timely Communication </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Authenticity and Integrity </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Dark Side Navigation </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Balanced Flexibility and Resilience </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Presence </li></ul></ul>
  3. 9. <ul><li>MODEL: </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Articulate the Overriding Purpose </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Uncover Wants and Offers </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Work with Motivations and Resistances </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Co-create a Balanced Contract </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>Exceed Expectations </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>  </li></ul></ul>
  4. 10. <ul><li>The Progression to Connection: </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul><ul><li>Interest – that which engages, arouses, and persuades </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul><ul><li>2. Attention – a condition of readiness involving a selective narrowing or focusing of consciousness and receptivity </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul><ul><li>3. Focus – concentrated and directed attention </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul><ul><li>4. Connection – synchronous mutual attachment at multiple layers and levels </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul>
  5. 11. Partnering to release trapped value in leaders, teams, and organizations SM
  6. 13. Partnering to release trapped value in leaders, teams, and organizations SM
  7. 15. Partnering to release trapped value in leaders, teams, and organizations SM
  8. 16. Partnering to release trapped value in leaders, teams, and organizations SM D x V x F > R D issatisfaction with the current state, current reality V ision of the future F irst steps toward the new future R esistance to the change
  9. 17. Change-Facilitative Leadership… Collaborative Leadership <ul><li>All change is a self-inflicted wound </li></ul><ul><li>All significant change involves choice, discomfort, vision, & movement </li></ul><ul><li>All team/organization change is preceded by personal change </li></ul><ul><li>Pause Challenge Choose </li></ul>Partnering to Release Trapped Value in Leaders, Teams, and Organizations SM ~ expose the illusive payoff for sticking to the current state In what ways is my thinking limited to the past & present time periods? In what ways can I bring a sense of future & possibility into all conversations? In what ways do I convey to others, in my words and deeds, that change will be over or should be avoided? In what ways can I live and act from the belief that change is normal and exciting? In what ways do I support the view that leadership is for senior management only? In what ways can I share the power and rewards of leadership with others?
  10. 19. “ From what do the mighty hide?”

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