To Begin Volume 4..........some poetry.
First a Haiku
So Brilliant Yet So Wise
Nothing Was The Same
And Now A Classic
Roses are Red, Violets are Blue
Brillzdom is the whole rainbow, every hue
The wisdom is brilliant like the sun in the sky
Like the flash of your life that moment you die
So take this time out to explore Vol. 4
To witness such greatness never ever seen before
Shall We Start?
There is no other logical reason except your old
frenemy “fear”. The burning question is, now that
you KNOW you’re capable of doing it, how will
you overcome the fear? Whether it’s talking to a
special person, quitting a job or even jumping on a
skateboard, the fact that you’re afraid of (X)
consequence paralyzes you like an actual handicap
would. So to answer that burning question, some
understanding needs to be understood. You’re
capable. Whatever consequence out there is
NEVER worth this paralyzing feeling a highly able
person like you shouldn’t be feeling. On top of
that, you don’t want to be a scaredy cat but
instead a valiant tiger!
Doing crazy shit often has two consequences.
Laughter followed by “That was awesome” or
laughter followed by “What the fuck???”.
Usually both are far more favorable than the
usual “Hmmmmm” or “I wonder” that happens
when one doesn’t do crazy shit which really does
nothing but fabricate fascinations in our minds
that are never fulfilled and left to be a “What if”.
“What if” is no fun and the consequence of “what
if” just leaves you conditioned to proceed with
caution as you have been before and will be
forever. That’s no fun! Nobody has ever regretted
doing crazy shit. True Story.
As humans we tend to masquerade our true
selves because of what society deems right.
That doesn’t mean we truly aren’t who we are.
What I’m saying is this. Presume everyone is a
freak. I mean, it’s 2014. Sexual tension/
excitement/emotions run rampant all
throughout this very same society and even
though a girl is wearing poindexter glasses or
dresses like a 1950’s housewife NEVER means
she doesn’t like to get freaky. And I’m not
talking getting it in, I’m talking about the
crazy shit. Try it out. She may have already......
Some people “work” so hard and ask “WHY?
Why the plateau? Why no progress?” Well you
may be putting in the hours but how much
work is being put in these hours? And how
good is this “work”? You’ve heard the thing
about working smarter instead of harder
when working smart IS working hard. And
that is how you get results. Is working smart
working a lot? NO! To define working hard/
smart it’s the tactics, strategies, approach
and persistence given to achieve success. Not
succeeding? You aren’t succeeding in working
hard/smart enough. Quality > Hours
You ever have someone say “Oh I couldn’t live
without my phone” yet people years ago lived
just fine without them? Kinda same deal with
pills. Nowadays, someone seems a bit
overwhelmed continuously and instead of
changing their habits they claim they have a
“disorder”. But there are pills for that. Pills
that you take. And continue taking. Crutches in
tablet form. Now, if you’re dying, suffering
physically or need a recovery, by all means, take
some pills. But if your own mind is tricking you
(into taking pills) then it’s something you don’t
need and time to change how you do things.
Some cultures differ but one general theme is that
when a woman is comfortable enough to show the
skin she’s in that she loves, she will show it. Thus, she
will wear less clothes. It’s part of the feminine
mystique. The counterpart about this is a woman who
is afraid to show skin which tells you it’s a cultural
thing and/or she simply doesn’t have confidence in
her body. And confidence is like praise. You ALWAYS
have to appreciate it. Loving the skin you’re in is the
first part about loving yourself and if a woman can
show that through her minimal clothing, she has the
ability to love. The confidence to love.
In relation to the Brillzdom you’ve read
before, this one has a spin. Taking shit. What
does that even mean? Taking shit is defined as
“letting outside influences bring you down”
which is the #1 culprit of plateaus/lack of
progress. In fact, taking shit could simply set
you back. If you let it, of course. But the two
work hand in hand. If you’re focused enough
on working hard then you’ll automatically
not take shit because any outside influence
that could potentially bring you down are
automatically ignored. Try them out, then
come back to me with your success story.
This isn’t to be generalizing but thanks to the
invention of the “Smart” phone these once fascinating
girls all seem to be interested in using their phone to
take pictures of food (you know, in case you’ve never
seen food before) and applying make up to the face.
Like I said, there ain’t no more to it.
People haven’t been property for over 100 years
so when somebody “steals” someones lover and
nobody was kidnapped, then they are just coming
off as a whiner. Thanks to liberty, freedom and
personal choice we can choose our lovers and if
your lover conveniently chooses someone over
you in a sequence of events that makes it look
like because of that someone, your lover chose
that person, then, well, the “thief” wasn’t
anymore of a thief than you were someone who
leaves their wallet sitting on the ground. Leaving
your front door unlocked for burglars. We are
people who make choices and don’t steal people.
You would think with all of these seminars,
workshops, websites, books, technology and
more that people would be masters at
communicating by now, but in fact they are
at their worst! But why is that? Simple. They
leave out the golden rule. In fact they flat out
ignore it and ramble on about dumb, useless,
irrelevant shit which makes their message in
a hazy fog of fluff. And this fog just makes
the “message” absolutely lost. What kind of
communication is that? Rambling won’t
make your message anymore convincing and
I’m pretty sure nobody wants to hear it. Only
what needs to be said shall be spoken.
People change. People never change. Which one is
it? Doesn’t matter. YOU can change. You are a
product of your (awesome/shitty) habits and if it
turns out your habits are making your
personality a little less than pleasant then
something needs to change. That something is the
habits. If you’re anxious/pessimistic/complainy/
(insert whatever negative trait) it can totally be
changed. It’s a long slow climb up to change a
deep habit but a personality is not impossible to
change. The challenge is being determined
enough to change who you are. Question time.
What fun is a personality that sucks?
Glorious morning sex. You wake up, have sex.
It’s fantastic. But if she isn’t down for the
renowned morning sex, then it only gets worse
my friend. Pretty soon she won’t be down for
afternoon sex. Then it only comes around every
few days. Then sex becomes weekly. Then
monthly. You see the pattern? But hey this is
normal, isn’t it? Yes, but not until years into
the relationship (usually marriage). So if
you’re willing to accept this destiny, by all
means choose your fate. But don’t be surprised
when you’re having less sex than single people.
Some people have a hard time resisting delicious
food when it’s in front of them. That’s difficult.
But it’s much easier to resist BUYING the actual
food than it is EATING the food. But of course you
can’t eat it until you buy it first. This is where the
1st commandment of dieting comes in. Changing
eating habits is hard, but changing spending
habits is not only easier but also important to
change your eating habits. If you don’t buy it,
then you can’t eat it. So simple! Exercise discipline
with purchasing and you won’t need to face the
daunting task of resisting delicious food in front
of you. It was never purchased!
Spoiler Alert (even though this episode came
out like 50 years ago): In the future/future
Korea people can choose a face when they are of
a certain age (18). There are many different
faces but number 12 is a popular choice. I won’t
say anymore but this may sound familiar. This
sounds super familiar if you are from South
Korea because, well, this already exists over
there. Yes. Choosing your face. Yes. Looking like
everybody else. Yes. Choosing to be altered to be
“beautiful”. If the Twilight Zone can predict
the future of Korea in this episode, then what
other predictions of theirs will come true?
You’ve all heard the story of the girl/guy who
used to be so nice and sweet and then turned
bitch/bastard, but have you heard of the
bitch/bastard who turned nice and sweet?
No? Yeah, cause it doesn’t exist! Not even
screenwriters in Hollywood could create
anything to make that concept believable. It’s
a shame but people either get “slightly”
better, stay as they are, or go downhill. And if
a girl/guy is kindasorta leaning to that
bastard/bitch side, then that’s your sign from
the heavens to split cause it won’t get better.
It never does. Not even in romantic comedies.
So many people wish to speak their mind
without any hesitation but are afraid. Keep in
mind this is the same species who fought off
animals for food to merely survive. Now it’s
considered fearful to say what you think
(sober, of course). Well, someone who speaks
their mind is something to admire. After all,
they are not only expressing themselves how
others wish they could but they are overcoming
the fear. I mean, what’s really there to fear?
People being offended? People considering you a
fool? People in general? HA! Much admiration
goes to the one who fears not of man.
Genuine fun is when the day turns to night so fast
your head spins. Genuine fun is when you can’t recall
a time so good and don’t even want to recall the past
because the present is so great. Genuine fun is feeling
life, instead of living it. Genuine fun is that feeling
you have when you are drunk, but the only
difference is you drank nothing. Genuine fun is
stumbling upon something great and having no idea
how you got there, but you don’t want to leave. And
if ANYBODY is genuine fun, then that’s the secret to
happiness. People don’t want a good time. They want
good times. Continuously. Genuine fun is a keeper.
Stupid shit is for youngsters. It’s for drama
queens/kings (maybe). It’s for people who can’t
prioritize. It’s for people who haven’t yet
developed the realization that something is
simply not worth their evaporating time. Well,
one day they will learn, but until that time they
haven’t reached maturity. Mature is putting aside
this stupid shit (whatever it may be, believe me it
increases exponentially year after year) and
placing your concern on the things that really
matter. Now this is all subjective and depends on
the person but when it’s stupid shit, you’ll KNOW
it. Mature = knowing it and not caring about it.
You know the phrase “Get your mind of the
gutter” but what exactly is “The Gutter”? Well,
for men, the gutter is that cloudy mindset that
has your mind thinking about girls/women/sex
but your mind isn’t exactly focused and controlled
so you end up in situations feeling bad and worse.
And you know the Pussy Chases. The ones that
feel like chases for a “desirable” outcome but
really don’t fulfill you as you expected once
attained. How fun/productive are those? For the
optimum results it’s best to escape the Gutter. If
you see your mind venturing into the gutter,
remember this. The Gutter is for trash, not minds.
Getting tastes in your mouth is like seeing
new colors. New hues, new swirls, new
shades, new spectrums. These tastes can come
from anywhere. Food, drink, experiences, the
list goes on. And the magic about taste is that
unlike sight and sound, it’s hard to forget.
How often do you forget a taste? Not nearly as
often as you forget a face. Granted some
tastes won’t be very tasty, that’s the joy of it.
Tastes=experiences=learning. Never tasted it
before? Try it out. And I’m talking about a lot
more than food if you nahhmean girrrrl.
If you’re a guy then you must be aware of the
number one benefit of being male and that’s being
far less emotional than females. Of course this
mustn’t be ignored and instead be carefully focused
in order to avoid the bear trap called “over
emotional woman”. This bear trap is usually set by
breaking the sensitivity barrier which may be
strong for you (cause you’re a guy) but this barrier
is 20x weaker for women. Even if you think they
can withhold whatever you tell them, you gotta
divide their barrier weakness/multiply their
sensitivity by 20. Because getting caught in that
bear trap is no fun. About as much fun as they have
setting that trap. It’s not their fault. It’s science!
The emotional scale of women is broken! That’s
obvious, but here is the magic ratio. 20-1. This states
that you can shower her with compliments, praise
and other nice things but if you say just ONE bad
thing, critique, insult or whatever then you’ve just
pushed yourself back. It’s like money. Very easy to
lose, hard to gain. Same deal. For men (and maybe
children too) the ratio is a pretty simple 1-1. You say
something nice and it’s as impactful as saying
something unpleasant. But no, not with women.
Remember the sensitivity issue? 20-1 is that issue. So
if you feel something bad coming off the tip of your
tongue, try to remember 20-1. Cause it’s a set back.
The first hard slam, whether it’s off a
skateboard or in a relationship can go two
(completely opposite) ways after. Make you
totally afraid of ever having to endure that again
or make you totally fearless because you’ve seen
the Devil and know that you’ve just walked off
from the worst that could happen. It all depends
on how you view crises and how to move
forward. Physical damage heals naturally.
Emotional damage takes a different route.
Regardless, the damage of ANY “slam” is
recoverable and able to be handled so after your
first hard slam/encounter with Satan, you know
you can handle it. Resulting in fearlessness.
Having girls stare at you usually means either
you’re famous, the man of her DREAMS or she’s
crazy (and has had a bad year). But guys dream
to have girls stare at them and think that it’s the
green light for sexual advancement. But alas, it’s
not. Especially since girls try (really) hard not to
stare (for obvious reasons). Fortunately, you
don’t need her stares to know she’s feeling you
but instead “the look” (See Picture). When you
get better at recognizing “the look” then it’ll
become more apparent in the future. It’s almost
uncontrollable and instinctual for a woman to
make “the look” so you know it’s legit. A look
that says a lot but not so much at the same time.
People tend to be upset at what other people
think/believe despite the fact that it’s totally out
of their control. On top of that, when matters like
that get worse, they get incredibly discouraged.
But one cannot change the thinking of anyone.
Just influence and try to convince, but change
involves mind control which is kinda/sorta tricky.
Therefore, there is no purpose in becoming
discouraged over something beyond your control.
T h e s o o n e r t h i s i s r e a l i z e d , t h e l e s s
discouragement you’ll come across because let’s be
real. What makes most people upset is what other
people think and frankly that’s absurd. It’s setting
yourself up for being discouraged. No bueno.